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Offline markymarkfb

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Hope you did her for free  :vomit: :vomit: :vomit:

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Just wondering if this member is still visible to others?
Was having a good conversation but I'm not sure if she has deactivated her profile or actually blocked me.

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Thanks both of you.
Appreciated.

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I came across this one, figuratively and literally, a few days ago. If you're into some Polish MILFy action then she's a very decent shag where pretty much anything goes (she's an anal superstar) plus she admitted to being a swinger. She originally wanted 350 for a few hours but we settled at 200 when I said no. She's clearly done some escorting work before, she rocked up and came straight to the room, no messing.

She won’t budge from 350.

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She won’t budge from 350.

Last review 2017?
Could you explain please?

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Reason being I’ve usually see girls on seeking, however I have a booking with Tanya of Paddington today so will post a review after my booking.

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Thanks for the reply, as you can appreciate it’s a punting forum and reviews are part of the membership conditions matey  :drinks:

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Wondered if anyone on here had met this girl in Brighton, she's 6 foot 2! I've exchanged a few messages with her through the site but replies are slow and I'm not sure whether to persist or move on ..

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Anyone had any dealings with Evie, location listed as Reading?
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Stacey, 32, Reading
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S/he has had multiple previous profiles and is an upfront money scammer.



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"Pooks" in Brighton, long curly black hair, about 6ft tall, 30ish
Scammer.
Can't link to profile as I cancelled my account.

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Is also.....

POPPY_XOXOXOX External Link/Members Only (Romsey / Winchester)

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Poppy_xo, 28 (Bournemouth) External Link/Members Only

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POPPY_XOXOXOX External Link/Members Only (Romsey / Winchester)

she has had both profiles for some time now. I asked about her back in January on the SW board and someone told me about her AW profile - so i looked. She had Cam ticked then as well. when i asked her about it (we had been chatting) she said she only cammed - and all her feedback is cam or phone chat.

we never met then and stopped chatting until about 4 weeks ago and we were going to meet for a coffee and chat but she was keen to either come to my place or go to hers (in Salisbury) for a paid intimate meet. i wanted to do a M&G type meeting first and insisted on that - she just blocked me.

So you are unlikely to get a M&G from her but it seems that you could just go straight to an intimate meet with her. From memory, i think she asked for £250 for an intimate meet. so she is much more of an Escort than a SB.

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Arranged advances and bailed on the date

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Just wondering if this member is still visible to others?
Was having a good conversation but I'm not sure if she has deactivated her profile or actually blocked me.

Sorry, same question as before, is the member in this post active?
It would be appreciated, thanks.

Offline Caulkhead

Sorry, same question as before, is the member in this post active?
It would be appreciated, thanks.

Profile not found for me so seems she's deactivated or suspended.

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Profile not found for me so seems she's deactivated or suspended.

Thanks, I appreciate it

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Thanks, I appreciate it

You know that you can tell in your chat - try to reply /send a message - if it says “the user’s account has been deactivated “ then it’s that- if it says “unable to send a message as user is no longer active “ - then you have been blocked!

Offline Undergrowth

Stacey, 32, Reading
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S/he has had multiple previous profiles and is an upfront money scammer.

Can confirm; I was feeling full of the joys of the world and thought I'd risk a small deposit, and sure enough the excuses came through.  She did reveal 'her' full name and email address though.  Searching for the name only comes up with a Welsh male, so I suspect it's just a total scam.

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Can confirm; I was feeling full of the joys of the world and thought I'd risk a small deposit, and sure enough the excuses came through.  She did reveal 'her' full name and email address though.  Searching for the name only comes up with a Welsh male, so I suspect it's just a total scam.
Looks like that profile is now gone
Sorry to hear you were scammed
Did you gift via PayPal friends and family ?


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Stacey, 32, Reading
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S/he has had multiple previous profiles and is an upfront money scammer.

Can confirm; I was feeling full of the joys of the world and thought I'd risk a small deposit, and sure enough the excuses came through.  She did reveal 'her' full name and email address though.  Searching for the name only comes up with a Welsh male, so I suspect it's just a total scam.

is she back as Belle ?
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Correct, the scammer uses the same photos of the same girl and the same names, either Belle or Stacey. I'm uploading one photo to warn punters when the profile gets regurgitated, which hopefully the Mods will allow due to criminal activity that is defrauding punters.


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Offline sugardaddy0511

Agata 25 . Winchester. Asking for 1000 ppm !! Any one had the pleasure?

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Agata 25 . Winchester. Asking for 1000 ppm !! Any one had the pleasure?
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External Link/Members Only  Agata 25 London asks for 1000 ppm , anyone had the pleasure?

my reply on the London board:

i chatted to her some time ago, maybe 4-6 months ago. She was Southampton based then. We seemed to get on well and had a M&G arranged - which she cancelled with a couple of days notice as she had a last minute modelling job come in - can't remember all the deatils but somewhere in Europe at a motor trade event or some other high profile event. immediately after that, her attitude and financial ecpectations changed significantly. we kept chatting for another month or so (but never met) then she got another high profile modeling / marketing typ job and her attitude /financial expectations went up again. at one stage she was having a rant and said something like "men like you just want to fuck me for the least amount of money you can - well i now know my worth so pay up or shut up". I gave some short but polite reply and blocked her.

I remember she mentioned getting something like £1000 (or e1000) per night on these modeling / marketing jobs  - she probably met some wealthy guys and all or a sudden that became her expectation. As i said, i never met her in person but from the pics she sent me, she is a very good looking lady!

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my reply on the London board:
she claims to be an experienced SB and had long term arrangement with allowances of 3k to 5k . Looks like she is making that up

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she claims to be an experienced SB and had long term arrangement with allowances of 3k to 5k . Looks like she is making that up

i think she told me that she had been offered that! not sure if she took the offer up!

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i think she told me that she had been offered that! not sure if she took the offer up!

The key question with any of these girls is, did they actually RECEIVE the amounts of money they talk about.
  • Many girls claim they've been offered x, which is usually exaggerated.
  • And even if the number is correct, sometimes it has been discussed not offered.
  • And even if it has been offered, it is just that an offer that the guy has not followed through. In virtually all cases, the guy is bullshitting.
  • And in rare instances when he actually has the means, he has chosen someone else.
Whichever way, it's absolutely meaningless.

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The key question with any of these girls is, did they actually RECEIVE the amounts of money they talk about.
  • Many girls claim they've been offered x, which is usually exaggerated.
  • And even if the number is correct, sometimes it has been discussed not offered.
  • And even if it has been offered, it is just that an offer that the guy has not followed through. In virtually all cases, the guy is bullshitting.
  • And in rare instances when he actually has the means, he has chosen someone else.
Whichever way, it's absolutely meaningless.
If they come out with a figure that is way above what you would be willing to pay you just don’t look to negotiate.
Over the years have had some very interesting allowance / gift ideas way above what i would ever be willing to consider.
Obviously it’s a risk that they will quote high but I’ve always tried to get them to say what they are looking for first having explained the type of arrangement I’m happy with .
I think when the site was good you could pretty much tell from a few back and forth messages and their profile text what they would be looking for.

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The key question with any of these girls is, did they actually RECEIVE the amounts of money they talk about.
    that is very true of course - and a lot of girls will hear of a high allowance and think they deserve the same and present the story as if it happened to them.

    But don't think it never happens because it does. The girl in question (Agata) certainly had a couple of "high end" modelling jobs that would have her mingling with some seriously wealthy guys.

    Additionally i have had 2 of my SB's getting amounts that many of us would probably say "oh yea?" to
    - my current SB that i have had for over a year still gets £1500 per month from her previous SD who went abroad 18 months ago and hasn't seen her in all that time.
    - a previous SB who left me to go long term traveling re-activated her Seeking profile and "parked it" in London for 2 days whilst actually traveling. she got over 60 messages in those 2 days, she told me there were 12 that she might have been interested in and replied to those 12 saying she was now abroad and in xx city. 3 replied saying they are often there on business - and (long story short) she saw one who took her out to dinner, stayed the night (no money discussed) and then he just said "is US$1000 ok?" That then became the normal for her and she said no one haggled"

    We have to remember we are close to London, one of the major cities of the world and that there are some rich guys out there. So not every story is made up bull shit! Luckily its still the minority of girls who experience this otherwise many of us including myself, wouldn't get a look in!
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    If they come out with a figure that is way above what you would be willing to pay you just don’t look to negotiate.

    Well yes, most of us just don't even bother trying to haggle. If her quoted figure is too high, then I just say something like I can't match their expectations so best we leave it there.

    It's not just the money, it's the approach. If a girl wants a large amount of money then her priorities are clearly financial, not so much on fun/connection, and it's almost certainly not going to be a good experience, certainly compared to a girl who wants fun and is independent, just wants a bit of extra help. Trouble is, the latter group has rapidly dwindled since Covid.

    there are some rich guys out there. So not every story is made up bull shit!

    We all realise that there are several rich guys but 9/10 times the high figures quoted are bullshit and it is important to make the point because many guys believe what is stated and could get drawn into paying over the odds (not good for them or other SDs), or alternatively lose heart and give up on Seeking altogether.
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    We all realise that there are several rich guys but 9/10 times the high figures quoted are bullshit

    i don't think it will be useful to anyone to debate how many rich guys are "out there" but it is more than "several".

    From my 6 SB's (5 previous and one current) 2 (ie one third of them) have received payments (as mentioned in reply 1134) that some on here will say "oh yea?, sure!!" and doubt, when its real!
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    i don't think it will be useful to anyone to debate how many rich guys are "out there" but it is more than "several".

    From my 6 SB's (5 previous and one current) 2 (ie one third of them) have received payments (as mentioned in reply 1134) that some on here will say "oh yea?, sure!!" and doubt, when its real!

    That's not really comparing like for like. We were talking about figures quoted by a range of members including in text chat, many of whom won't end up having an arrangement with anybody. What you're referring to is the actual experiences of serious SBs you have had arrangements with.

    But in any case, none of us were inviting a debate on numbers, making a general point.
    « Last Edit: June 04, 2025, 06:18:31 pm by Cunning Punt »

    Offline Justlooking1

    Hi all,
    Newbie here, both to this site, seeking and WG’s.

    After lots of reading here (thank you all) the sb route sounds like something I’m more interested in, something fun but with hopefully more of a connection. So I’ve dipped my toe and joined seeking.
    I realise there are loads of topics her about scammers and fake profiles, but how do you get passed them all to find those genuinely looking for something in person?
    The pic sellers seem endless!!

    Offline massagepuntingfan

    Hi all,
    Newbie here, both to this site, seeking and WG’s.

    After lots of reading here (thank you all) the sb route sounds like something I’m more interested in, something fun but with hopefully more of a connection. So I’ve dipped my toe and joined seeking.
    I realise there are loads of topics her about scammers and fake profiles, but how do you get passed them all to find those genuinely looking for something in person?
    The pic sellers seem endless!!

    Make it clear in your profile you're only looking for real meetings - not interested in anything online. You'll get used to the way things work, move to WhatsApp or telegram as quickly as possible. Never ever mention payment/ppm on the site or openly talk about sex until you are off site as you can get banned. Scammers will pretty quickly try to get you to by pics/content or give sob stories.
    Make it very clear that you never give any money before meeting. That is a clear red line that won't be crossed. Have an amount that you would be willing to gift and stick to it. SBs will more often than not come in with a higher amount and that is when the negotiation starts. Be very clear with what you are looking for. I personally never pay for a meet and greet and always insist on doing a video call before meeting. Personally I've had many good experiences with pro SBs who may or may not be escorts as they know how to fuck and I'm looking to meet for 2-3 hours initially. For instance I've met a lady this year who has an AW profile as well as seeking. I met her for 5 hours at the rate she charges for 1 hour. Attraction levels from both sides were very high and this is why seeking works excellently for me. Good luck and take your time.

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    I've had a profile on SA for years (subscribed on and off).  I changed the wording on my profile today and mentioned the words "mutually beneficial" and got the suspended as it inferred paid companionship (or something along those lines).  Isnt that what the site is about? Looks like they have tightened the wording for guys (I haven't changed the wording for many years until today so if they've done that a while ago apologies for repeating).  I had to watch that video, tick a couple of boxes and then it released my suspension.

    By comparison, women put what they like and they get away with it.

    Sorry if it comes across as a rant, but wanted to share to be careful what you put.

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    I've had a profile on SA for years (subscribed on and off).  I changed the wording on my profile today and mentioned the words "mutually beneficial" and got the suspended as it inferred paid companionship (or something along those lines).  Isnt that what the site is about? Looks like they have tightened the wording for guys (I haven't changed the wording for many years until today so if they've done that a while ago apologies for repeating).  I had to watch that video, tick a couple of boxes and then it released my suspension.

    By comparison, women put what they like and they get away with it.

    Sorry if it comes across as a rant, but wanted to share to be careful what you put.

    surprised you haven't noticed before that Seeking have got tougher as they changed or try to change "directions" away from Seeking Arrangement to an up-market dating site. Certain words and phrases are no longer acceptable.
    Yesterday i tried to send a message and when i pressed "send" a pop up window popped up and said i might be using a term which could imply paid company (or something similar) - it didn't say exactly which word or phrase was the issue but gave me the option to continue sending or to reword it. I re- looked and took out the word "arrangement" and it went through ok. so it would seem be can't even used that word now.

    and yes it appears that women can say whatever they like!
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    There was an e-mail that went out from 'Brandon' a couple of weeks ago that alluded to them being even more strict on certain topics being discussed. I guess it's good that they're not being trigger-happy and suspending people outright, giving us a chance to re-word things.

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    I've never reworded my profile from the initial set up years ago.  I now dabble on the site (a couple times a year for a month).  I definitely pay more attention i  the future

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    surprised you haven't noticed before that Seeking have got tougher as they changed or try to change "directions" away from Seeking Arrangement to an up-market dating site. Certain words and phrases are no longer acceptable.
    Yesterday i tried to send a message and when i pressed "send" a pop up window popped up and said i might be using a term which could imply paid company (or something similar) - it didn't say exactly which word or phrase was the issue but gave me the option to continue sending or to reword it. I re- looked and took out the word "arrangement" and it went through ok. so it would seem be can't even used that word now.

    and yes it appears that women can say whatever they like!

    Wow that is useful info. I've been off the site for 6 weeks - had no idea mutually beneficial and arrangement is now bannable. Will be interesting to see how this pivot towards dating goes. Perhaps it will encourage members on both sides to meet because they find someone attractive rather than because they want to be paid a PPM.

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    Curlybabeeeee, 28, Reading.

    After having some small dialogue with this dreamer, we eventually got down to the nuts and bolts of what she’s looking for. Ideally a monthly allowance, which I’m okay with. Suggested £650. For PPM.. ideally 4 x a month. When I pointed out to her this was equivalent to £45,000 a year salary she was completely oblivious. I promptly told her she is living in a dreamworld and needs to water down the weed she’s currently puffing on. I advised her that I wasn’t a millionaire based in Monaco and she definitely isn’t a supermodel with a IGM Models contract.
    I have been a member on and off seeking for about four years, and that has to be up there, for financial demands!

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    Curlybabeeeee, 28, Reading.

    After having some small dialogue with this dreamer, we eventually got down to the nuts and bolts of what she’s looking for. Ideally a monthly allowance, which I’m okay with. Suggested £650. For PPM.. ideally 4 x a month. When I pointed out to her this was equivalent to £45,000 a year salary she was completely oblivious. I promptly told her she is living in a dreamworld and needs to water down the weed she’s currently puffing on. I advised her that I wasn’t a millionaire based in Monaco and she definitely isn’t a supermodel with a IGM Models contract.
    I have been a member on and off seeking for about four years, and that has to be up there, for financial demands!

    I am sure she was showing as London based some time back and was a fraction of that price PPM  :crazy:

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    I did speak to her a few weeks ago, sounded genuine but just couldn’t seem to pin her down to a day which began to get on my nerves so I gave up due to the lack of interest… you know how these things go?

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    any info anyone?

    seems happy to chat and then asks for money up front - variety of reasons / excuses! Potential scammer