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[scutty brown]

here's something to try Anth


Hello young girly, Uncle Anth here.
I'm a political raconteur, epicure and practicing lothario looking to take an interest in the education of a willing young lady. For the right nubile teen, who is looking for fun, exercise, and fitness sessions I offer a financial investment and on-the-job training in body culture.
Interested ladies must be open minded, willing to lean new skills, but equally be prepared to educate me in their latest techniques.
The successful lady can expect close personal interest in her physical and intellectual development and welfare, including weekly one-on-one refresher sessions. Mutual enjoyment is implicit in the agreement: it is important that we both leave the training sessions happy and relieved.
If you want to enjoy regular contact with a grandfather figure financial benefactor e-mail a photo to........

[tynetunnel]

here's something to try Anth


Hello young girly, Uncle Anth here.
I'm a political raconteur, epicure and practicing lothario looking to take an interest in the education of a willing young lady. For the right nubile teen, who is looking for fun, exercise, and fitness sessions I offer a financial investment and on-the-job training in body culture.
Interested ladies must be open minded, willing to lean new skills, but equally be prepared to educate me in their latest techniques.
The successful lady can expect close personal interest in her physical and intellectual development and welfare, including weekly one-on-one refresher sessions. Mutual enjoyment is implicit in the agreement: it is important that we both leave the training sessions happy and relieved.
If you want to enjoy regular contact with a grandfather figure financial benefactor e-mail a photo to........

Perfect Scutty! 

[billybobsmith]

here's something to try Anth


Hello young girly, Uncle Anth here.
I'm a political raconteur, epicure and practicing lothario looking to take an interest in the education of a willing young lady. For the right nubile teen, who is looking for fun, exercise, and fitness sessions I offer a financial investment and on-the-job training in body culture.
Interested ladies must be open minded, willing to lean new skills, but equally be prepared to educate me in their latest techniques.
The successful lady can expect close personal interest in her physical and intellectual development and welfare, including weekly one-on-one refresher sessions. Mutual enjoyment is implicit in the agreement: it is important that we both leave the training sessions happy and relieved.
If you want to enjoy regular contact with a grandfather figure financial benefactor e-mail a photo to........

....and after all that, she responds with "Hey"

[martini2429]

....and after all that, she responds with "Hey"

or "do you have kik?"

 

[AnthG]

or "strike while the iron's hot" (grabbing hot kettles can cause a nasty scalding).
But yes... if you are planning more than 2 days ahead the chances increase that things will not happen for one reason or another.

Beem chatting all night with the fit girl on Whatsapp and she suddenly said how about you come around mine right now. (at 10.30pm) I have been drinking so I couldn't.

So I have arranged to go around her flat on Monday or Tuesday for the full never mind the getting to know each other stuff, full-on intimate meetup. I have totally scored the winning goal for the world cup here tonight. George Best type stuff this man. I am stealing Liverpool's thunder this week from this achievement.

I honestly feel like the man right now. You do not get this feeling from punting.

[martini2429]

Beem chatting all night with the fit girl on Whatsapp and she suddenly said how about you come around mine right now. (at 10.30pm) I have been drinking so I couldn't.

So I have arranged to go around her flat on Monday or Tuesday for the full never mind the getting to know each other stuff, full-on intimate meetup. I have totally scored the winning goal for the world cup here tonight. George Best type stuff this man. I am stealing Liverpool's thunder this week from this achievement.

I honestly feel like the man right now. You do not get this feeling from punting.

But how much ££££ is she asking

 

[AnthG]

But how much ££££ is she asking

 

£150, I suggested it to take the piss as a low offer and claimed I got it from a SB/SD guide and if it's too low we can negotiate. And she said fine. I was like, okay.

[Spencer Fobby]

I'm taking bets on this if anyone's interested... 

But seriously, Anth, good luck.  This is part of the enjoyment of seeking arrangement.  It's hard work to get this far and it's nice to feel the buzz of success.  But you're not halfway there yet. 
I'm sure you have many followers on this thread now... it's like a reality TV show in itself.

[martini2429]

I'm taking bets on this if anyone's interested... 

But seriously, Anth, good luck.  This is part of the enjoyment of seeking arrangement.  It's hard work to get this far and it's nice to feel the buzz of success.  But you're not halfway there yet. 
I'm sure you have many followers on this thread now... it's like a reality TV show in itself.

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[AnthG]

I'm taking bets on this if anyone's interested... 

Do you mean that I will blow it in advance, or it will be a disaster when I get there?

[Cactus]

Do you mean that I will blow it in advance, or it will be a disaster when I get there?

What do you want to happen when you get there? What’s the ideal for you?

How does that tally with her expectations?

How old is she out of interest?

Well played for making progress.

[AnthG]

What do you want to happen when you get there? What’s the ideal for you?

How does that tally with her expectations?

How old is she out of interest?

22, and she knows we are having sex. She opened the idea of me coming to hers. And she has been up for the sex thing.

She literally said on inviting me to hers (I hope offtopic stays non-members cannot see this),

Although i have neighbours upstairs so don't even think about murdering me hahaha. Rape is fine, no murder though hahaha

I mean like  but that I guess just shows my skills in this chat....(don't worry I will be a nervous wreck when I see her), Knowing my luck watch her have been high tonight or something and I show up at her door and she doesn't even know who I am....

But she has asked me to send her some more photos tomorrow. I don't know why as they definitely will not turn her on

[Cactus]

22, and she knows we are having sex. She opened the idea of me coming to hers. And she has been up for the sex thing.

She literally said on inviting me to hers (I hope offtopic stays non-members cannot see this),

I mean like  but that I guess just shows my skills in this chat....(don't worry I will be a nervous wreck when I see her), Knowing my luck watch her have been high tonight or something and I show up at her door and she doesn't even know who I am....

But she has asked me to send her some more photos tomorrow. I don't know why as they definitely will not turn her on

I must be getting old if women are now trivialising and joking about rape. That comment would personally get my nut job radar going off the charts. I’m obviously not privy to the whole conversation but that gave me chills.

Do you just want a shag, or are you taking the princess bride too?

[AnthG]

I must be getting old if women are now trivialising and joking about rape. That comment would personally get my nut job radar going off the charts. I’m obviously not privy to the whole conversation but that gave me chills.

I don't know. She says she works in a very respected profession (i am not saying what) so I think I am ok. If I suddenly vanish on Monday tell the police to look at my SA account. (see I guess I do it too)

[AnthG]

I am not taking the princess bride. That's the sort of stuff you ease girls into. I am taking vodka (at her request).

To be honest I am not 100% sure what we will do. Or how long I will be there, but even if it's just an hr, £150 is ok for an outcall thinking of punting. But she said she will cook for me.

I do not know. I will just play things by ear. Likely I would be taking the mick asking how long I will be there as that sounds like an escorting thing to do. It is my first time I can only play things by ear.

[Cactus]

I am not taking the princess bride. That's the sort of stuff you ease girls into. I am taking vodka (at her request).

To be honest I am not 100% sure what we will do. Or how long I will be there, but even if it's just an hr, £150 is ok for an outcall thinking of punting. But she said she will cook for me.

I do not know. I will just play things by ear. Likely I would be taking the mick asking how long I will be there as that sounds like an escorting thing to do. It is my first time I can only play things by ear.

Good luck when it comes, look forward to hearing how it goes.

As someone who’s never been on SA, your approach seems reasonable and very much like something I’d do on a date. If it was a punt, I’d want some idea of what would be happening, although it would be expected. The SA experts will be able to advise more on whether to go in so blind.

Has the chat been flirty? Has there been any chat about what you both like/dislike? Is there anything that you expect sexually (I wouldn’t hold my breath for anal for example)?

[AnthG]

Has the chat been flirty? Has there been any chat about what you both like/dislike? Is there anything that you expect sexually (I wouldn’t hold my breath for anal for example)?

We haven't really even discussed sex at all. To be honest, we were chatting all about weatherspoons on the pretence of the first sexless meet thing, and meeting up in 10 days time at the bar. And then I was saying I now cannot wait for this and 10 days cannot come soon enough. 

And she just suddenly out the blue totally out of the right field at 10.30pm said come to my flat now then.

And I was flabbergasted at this. So we then mentioned Monday and I was talking about the money, and then what drinks we will have on Monday, so she said she likes Vodka so I started going on about me having potato chase vodka, or my sister gave me polish vodka when she went there for my birthday last month. And me then saying the chase vodka is open so I will drink some first so you don't think I have done funny stuff to it. And she then joked, its ok, even Rohypnol flavour will still be fine.

I don't know maybe she is bonkers, maybe that's only the type of girl I can pull. I will tell you on Monday.

[Spencer Fobby]

Do you mean that I will blow it in advance, or it will be a disaster when I get there?

I'm not suggesting you will blow it.
However, there is many a slip twixt cup and lip - the lip in this case being you emptying your balls with the assistance of this nice young lady who jokes about rohypnol laced drinks and being raped. 
We all of us who've experience with the site will have many eye-rolling encounters along the way to finding a decent sugar baby.  I'm inclined to bet this will be an eye-rolling experience that probably won't end in her assisting your orgasm. 
However, I may well be wrong.  God speed.

[AnthG]

So last question, how do you subtly ask for sex during a SA meeting at a girls own flat?

Should I ask in a Whatsapp the night before is there any particular condoms to bring, or would that be crass for example?

[Cactus]

So last question, how do you subtly ask for sex during a SA meeting at a girls own flat?

Should I ask in a Whatsapp the night before is there any particular condoms to bring, or would that be crass for example?

If it’s been agreed that’s what’s happening then if you are to be blown out, you’re better to be blown out before you get there with £150 in your wallet than blown out on the night, £150 lighter.

Ask if she wants you to bring condoms. Ask her if there’s anything she doesn’t like sexually or anything that she does particularly like?

If you’re both drinking, are you planning to stay over, or is there a plan to get home?

[sparkus]

If it’s been agreed that’s what’s happening then if you are to be blown out, you’re better to be blown out before you get there with £150 in your wallet than blown out on the night, £150 lighter.

Ask if she wants you to bring condoms. Ask her if there’s anything she doesn’t like sexually or anything that she does particularly like?

If you’re both drinking, are you planning to stay over, or is there a plan to get home?

I trust you plan not to get too lashed to be able to perform? She may be banking on brewer's droop for an evening of free booze, modest chit chat and light intimacy.

[AnthG]

Sorry, just literally was messaged by someone else on SA been chatting with her there.

But I will be sensible with the drink. I used to do this when I seen Vicky for overnighters, she'd drink a bottle of vodka and I would take 4 cans of beer and some cola and just largely drink soft drinks just saying I am worried about getting drunk and saying the wrong thing and blowing things. I will likely say the same here.

As I know getting drunk means, easy money for the girl.

[AnthG]

However, there is many a slip twixt cup and lip - the lip in this case being you emptying your balls with the assistance of this nice young lady who jokes about rohypnol laced drinks and being raped. 

To be honest, I have been thinking about this none stop now,  and I am getting some real second thoughts about this entire meetup. Reading the chat back she made repeated disturbing comments that are making me go 

For example, another one I said we could go to the quayside weatherspoons and she said, "Yeah quayside works for me, can always drown me in the river if you don't like me"

The whole point of a first public meetup is to make sure neither one of you is crazy. And we are avoiding that and I am a bit worried I could be meeting a loon.

If someone was going to cancel a SA arrangement, would you text her, or just ghost her? I know the latter is cruel. But they would do it to you at the drop of a hat.

[cotton]

I woudnt overthink it Anth , to me it all seems to hang together , she sounds like a cool chik with a good sense of humour and it sounds like youve managed to adopt the persona of a respectful sweet guy , and shes obviously happy with you and the £150. 
The only problem id have is that the £150 is too much but so long as your ok with paying £150 and you like her physically go for it , better she has a down to earth sense of humour than is up herself.  And as its your first go on SA paying £150 to start to start you off on a winner might not be a bad thing , dont get cold feet now , she might very well be the best experience you get on there.

[cotton]

Are you all set for your big date tonight Anth ? Itl be interesting to see what happens. Good luck 

[ik8133]

Are you all set for your big date tonight Anth ? Itl be interesting to see what happens. Good luck 

Yeah, good luck Agth.......I'm enjoying the build up with this.

[tynetunnel]

I don't know maybe she is bonkers, maybe that's only the type of girl I can pull. I will tell you on Monday.

Have fun Anth, and we’re all here waiting for the update 

[Cactus]

Have fun Anth, and we’re all here waiting for the update 

Indeed! Have fun and keep your audience updated...

He’s logged out, so probably getting his hole. Or involved in the sequel to kettlegate.

[Rochelle]

Anth, it will help your success if you say you're a fan of Donald Trump and Tommy Robinson

[Rochelle]

Anth, have you thought of trying Grindr? Probably more chance of a fuck there.

Fucking hell, you're cracking me up!

[cunningman]

I can't believe you are following this thread!

PS please do come to Bedford, Stevenage or (aargh!) Cambridge.

[Rochelle]

To be honest, I have been thinking about this none stop now,  and I am getting some real second thoughts about this entire meetup. Reading the chat back she made repeated disturbing comments that are making me go 

For example, another one I said we could go to the quayside weatherspoons and she said, "Yeah quayside works for me, can always drown me in the river if you don't like me"

The whole point of a first public meetup is to make sure neither one of you is crazy. And we are avoiding that and I am a bit worried I could be meeting a loon.

If someone was going to cancel a SA arrangement, would you text her, or just ghost her? I know the latter is cruel. But they would do it to you at the drop of a hat.

I think you're reading too much into what was meant to be a joke.

[Natwest]

To be honest, I have been thinking about this none stop now,  and I am getting some real second thoughts about this entire meetup. Reading the chat back she made repeated disturbing comments that are making me go 

Lots of people spent time giving a lot of good advice. I am wondering if there is going to be an update on how this worked out?

[sparkus]

Lots of people spent time giving a lot of good advice. I am wondering if there is going to be an update on how this worked out?

Given how pissed off he seems on other 'political' threads, I'm not detecting anyone with a spring in his step today.  And that does genuinely sadden me as if anyone deserves a break around here it's him.

[AnthG]

The meet didn't go ahead, as last-minute, she sent me photos of her on WhatsApp and they were of someone totally different than what she has on her profile. 

She said she does that as she is a primary school teacher and doesn't want to get sacked from her job using real photos of her on SA (even though she is supposed to be 22). But the photos she sent were of someone looking way older than her SA profile ones. Reading back her profile text after the fact she even subtly said the photo on there was fake.

But the fact she is using someone else's photo on her account, the jokes about murder and rape just rang so many alarm bells for me I politely said I didn't feel comfortable going around her house late a night and that was it. If she was a regular joe escort I would have declined the meeting so the same compounded for SA girl.

[Cactus]

The meet didn't go ahead, as last-minute, she sent me photos of her on WhatsApp and they were of someone totally different than what she has on her profile. 

She said she does that as she is a primary school teacher and doesn't want to get sacked from her job using real photos of her on SA (even though she is supposed to be 22). But the photos she sent were of someone looking way older than her SA profile ones. Reading back her profile text after the fact she even subtly said the photo on there was fake.

But the fact she is using someone else's photo on her account, the jokes about murder and rape just rang so many alarm bells for me I politely said I didn't feel comfortable going around her house late a night and that was it. If she was a regular joe escort I would have declined the meeting so the same compounded for SA girl.

Sorry to hear that! Better it went tits up now than when face to face.

Was it not worth meeting up for a coffee and then see how things progressed? Was she truthful about her age?

My two penny worth, given that SA is somewhere between AW & dating, is going for very young hotties half your age the best plan? With an escort, you fuck them then get out of there. With dating you want more. Your desires are quite specific with social escorting. I have nothing in common with a 22 year old and I’m younger than you. If I were looking for someone for that type of arrangement, I’d be looking for someone who was a bit more mature.

[Natwest]

The meet didn't go ahead, as last-minute, she sent me photos of her on WhatsApp and they were of someone totally different than what she has on her profile. 

But the fact she is using someone else's photo on her account, the jokes about murder and rape just rang so many alarm bells for me I politely said I didn't feel comfortable going around her house late a night and that was it. If she was a regular joe escort I would have declined the meeting so the same compounded for SA girl.

I believe you completely mis-interpreted the "rape and murder" comments. I have had similar banter with SB's where obviously someone in their teens/twenties meeting a stranger off the internet will have concerns. I replied at one time by saying that since my cleaner has been furloughed and I have to do it myself, I have given up axe murdering as I can't be bothered with the extra housework. She took it in the tone it was meant and felt re-assured. Those kind of comments by an SB are extremely common and their way of dealing with what is a reasonable worry about meeting strangers. Arranging meeting for a coffee would have been a good idea. You are now back to square one and have to start all over again. I think you have made a mistake.

[cotton]

Ah thats a shame Anth but still £150 saved and experience gained.  For me itd totally depends on what she looked like in her real pics , like if she was still some little blonde sex bunny then full steam ahead but if she was old an not so fit then best to abort the mission.  Like Natwest says i woudnt fret too much about the mad sense of humour , whats important is that shes young looks as fit as fuck and will let you do what you want to her. On to the next one 

[ik8133]

The meet didn't go ahead, as last-minute, she sent me photos of her on WhatsApp and they were of someone totally different than what she has on her profile. 

She said she does that as she is a primary school teacher and doesn't want to get sacked from her job using real photos of her on SA (even though she is supposed to be 22). But the photos she sent were of someone looking way older than her SA profile ones. Reading back her profile text after the fact she even subtly said the photo on there was fake.

But the fact she is using someone else's photo on her account, the jokes about murder and rape just rang so many alarm bells for me I politely said I didn't feel comfortable going around her house late a night and that was it. If she was a regular joe escort I would have declined the meeting so the same compounded for SA girl.

Maybe next time a social meet first would be the way to go.  Even though the the photos on SA are of her they could be a few years old and girls can also look a lot different in real life with more recent photos.  Also on a social meet you get an idea of her personality, which does matter as well.