Stalkers are really starting to piss me off!!!!

[Jamesbattersea]

I have 2 regular girld i've been seeing for a couple of years now and they have become friends and well as service providers we keep it professional but also we exchange messages about other stuff and have a laugh during other times, but just lately both have had trouble with weirdo stalkers, blokes that won't take no for an answer!! and don't know the unwritten rules that most of us abide by.
Violet has taken time out because of her stalker that doesn't understand the difference between GFE and GF but he he has stopped coming round now. However he fucked it up for the rest of us.
Helena has a guy that is weird and won't take no for an answer when she's told him she won't massage him anymore cos she doesn't feel safe being alone with him. But he still carries on ringing and turning up in the middle of the night.
She is getting upset by this and even though she doesn'y want to will be having to go to the Police! Then she'll have to move away from Lincoln!!! This will fuck things up for me and everybody else that's normal.
I'm not her pimp (she doesn't have one) but i can find out where this guy lives, she knows his real name and he's got a wife and five kids.
SO IF YOU ARE ON THIS FORUM I WANT TO SAY DON'T FUCK THINGS UP FOR ME I LIKE MY LIFE AND OTHERS ON HERE LIKE THEIRS. FOEGET HER THERE ARE LOADS OF GIRLS OUT THERE. PLEASE

[Picti]

It's not me, but I'll caution that you're sailing a bit too close to a threat there James! In my opinion you're also overinvolved, albeit in a different way.

Basically it sounds like they've extended the same kind of non-punting contact to these guys as they do with you, and the other punters have read more into it than you do. That questions their (the WGs) judgement and behaviour too.

If they feel harassed or threatened they have the option of reporting it to the Police. It's your choice but I recommend that you don't get involved.

Edit - However angry they are, it's incredibly indiscreet for a prostitute to convey one punter's personal details to another. I'm referring to location, family, etc rather than the concerning behaviour.

[Jamesbattersea]

It's not me, but I'll caution that you're sailing a bit too close to a threat there James! In my opinion you're also overinvolved, albeit in a different way.

Basically it sounds like they've extended the same kind of non-punting contact to these guys as they do with you, and the other punters have read more into it than you do. That questions their (the WGs) judgement and behaviour too.

If they feel harassed or threatened they have the option of reporting it to the Police. It's your choice but I recommend that you don't get involved.

Edit - However angry they are, it's incredibly indiscreet for a prostitute to convey one punter's personal details to another. I'm referring to location, family, etc rather than the concerning behaviour.

Thanks for the advise mate but i'm not really involved other than asking the geezer to back off for my own reasons as well as hers.

Just to set it straight, neither girl has told me details about another punter, only told me about what has happened Helena had told me that she herself knows the guys real name not where he lives but i don't know that info.
These blokes got like this after 1 or 2 punts i don't think they have the same sort of exchange with everybody as they do with me.
And i don't think they are doing anything wrong by being friendly during a session after all that's their job. They are like that to all there customers as far as i know! If you read the reviews that is the reason people return.

[Moby Dick]

And you know all this because a WG told you? 

[Picti]

Thanks for the advise mate but i'm not really involved other than asking the geezer to back off for my own reasons as well as hers.

Just to set it straight, neither girl has told me details about another punter, only told me about what has happened Helena had told me that she herself knows the guys real name not where he lives but i don't know that info.
These blokes got like this after 1 or 2 punts i don't think they have the same sort of exchange with everybody as they do with me.
And i don't think they are doing anything wrong by being friendly during a session after all that's their job. They are like that to all there customers as far as i know! If you read the reviews that is the reason people return.

You're making many assumptions on the basis of your interactions with these women.

I'm going by what you wrote. There may be other opinions but I'll stick with my original assessment.

My advice is still for you to take a step back and re-evaluate.

[daviemac]

Thanks for the advise mate but i'm not really involved other than asking the geezer to back off for my own reasons as well as hers.

Just to set it straight, neither girl has told me details about another punter, only told me about what has happened Helena had told me that she herself knows the guys real name not where he lives but i don't know that info.
These blokes got like this after 1 or 2 punts i don't think they have the same sort of exchange with everybody as they do with me.
And i don't think they are doing anything wrong by being friendly during a session after all that's their job. They are like that to all there customers as far as i know! If you read the reviews that is the reason people return.

The trouble is you are involved, far too involved. This bit shows how involved you are. -

but i can find out where this guy lives,

that has nothing to do with you. Give advice by all means and by that I mean tell her to go to the police, they will sort it out and she won't have to move.

There's laws against stalking and there's the malicious communications act as well.

[Jamesbattersea]

The trouble is you are involved, far too involved. This bit shows how involved you are. -  that has nothing to do with you. Give advice by all means and by that I mean tell her to go to the police, they will sort it out and she won't have to move.

There's laws against stalking and there's the malicious communications act as well.

Yeah your right dude, and that's the point of my original post she will go to the Police soon if he doesn't back off.
That's not good for him, for her, for me or any of her other regular punters. That's a lose lose lose lose situation which is why i said please leave it.

What i wrote about i can find where he lives was a bad thing to put in hind sight. cos i won't do anything.

[Knny]

It's not me, but I'll caution that you're sailing a bit too close to a threat there James! In my opinion you're also overinvolved, albeit in a different way.

Basically it sounds like they've extended the same kind of non-punting contact to these guys as they do with you, and the other punters have read more into it than you do. That questions their (the WGs) judgement and behaviour too.

If they feel harassed or threatened they have the option of reporting it to the Police. It's your choice but I recommend that you don't get involved.

Edit - However angry they are, it's incredibly indiscreet for a prostitute to convey one punter's personal details to another. I'm referring to location, family, etc rather than the concerning behaviour.

Perfect response/advice.  James (OP) - take note.

[Corky]

Bloody hell.

[Hotdogboy88]

So two unconnected girls you been seeing and eas for both have suddenly got two different stalkers at exactly the same time and both have confided in you. 

So what’s the common denominator here then? You are.

This is either bull shit or a severe cash of white knighting.

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[hillingdonpete]

So two unconnected girls you been seeing and eas for both have suddenly got two different stalkers at exactly the same time and both have confided in you. 

So what’s the common denominator here then? You are.

This is either bull shit or a severe cash of white knighting.

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[HailWood]

Actually I do get James’s frustration. When obsessive clients damage an regular’s business it is aggravating and one can get fond of a girl and wish to help her. However, James, as it has been pointed out it’s not a good idea to post about it on here. Firstly you can make it worse for the girls you are trying to help should the obsessive perceive she might have a better relationship with you than him. The last think you want is an obsessive then turning his attention to you. Just listen if they ask for your advice  and tell them to take the correct legal action.

[RogerBoner]

It's not me, but I'll caution that you're sailing a bit too close to a threat there James! In my opinion you're also overinvolved, albeit in a different way.

Well said Picti.
I think James has a touch of EAS. Luckily it's not contagious 

[Hotdogboy88]

Actually I do get James’s frustration. When obsessive clients damage an regular’s business it is aggravating and one can get fond of a girl and wish to help her. However, James, as it has been pointed out it’s not a good idea to post about it on here. Firstly you can make it worse for the girls you are trying to help should the obsessive perceive she might have a better relationship with you than him. The last think you want is an obsessive then turning his attention to you. Just listen if they ask for your advice  and tell them to take the correct legal action.

Don’t you think it’s add two at-the same time mike?
I’ve never had one thing even close to this happen to me let alone two at the same time.

[Picti]

Well said Picti.
I think James has a touch of EAS. Luckily it's not contagious 

I don't want to give him a hard time, but sometimes you rely on the punting brethren to provide perspective.

We know that punting interactions and "relationships" exist along a continuum, but there has to be a threshold otherwise madness lies beyond.

[John the Sextist]

I have 2 regular girld i've been seeing for a couple of years now and they have become friends and well as service providers we keep it professional but also we exchange messages about other stuff and have a laugh during other times, but just lately both have had trouble with weirdo stalkers, blokes that won't take no for an answer!! and don't know the unwritten rules that most of us abide by.
Violet has taken time out because of her stalker that doesn't understand the difference between GFE and GF but he he has stopped coming round now. However he fucked it up for the rest of us.
Helena has a guy that is weird and won't take no for an answer when she's told him she won't massage him anymore cos she doesn't feel safe being alone with him. But he still carries on ringing and turning up in the middle of the night.
She is getting upset by this and even though she doesn'y want to will be having to go to the Police! Then she'll have to move away from Lincoln!!! This will fuck things up for me and everybody else that's normal.
I'm not her pimp (she doesn't have one) but i can find out where this guy lives, she knows his real name and he's got a wife and five kids.
SO IF YOU ARE ON THIS FORUM I WANT TO SAY DON'T FUCK THINGS UP FOR ME I LIKE MY LIFE AND OTHERS ON HERE LIKE THEIRS. FOEGET HER THERE ARE LOADS OF GIRLS OUT THERE. PLEASE

You need a good slap around the face to wake up out of your lover's dream and get back to reality 

You keep it simple, it's a transaction, you pay money they provide a service depending on your likes and needs, no attachments and if you like someone you go back and have another transaction, just like eating in your favourite restaurant, but you don't have tea and biscuits with the owner or meet his wife and kids!! 

Sounds like your in love with two whores, get real and smell the fuckin coffee brother, move on, plenty more to fuck 

 

[millbush]

A worrying opening post,leave it be.

[RedKettle]

I have 2 regular girld i've been seeing for a couple of years now and they have become friends and well as service providers we keep it professional but also we exchange messages about other stuff and have a laugh during other times, but just lately both have had trouble with weirdo stalkers, blokes that won't take no for an answer!! and don't know the unwritten rules that most of us abide by.
Violet has taken time out because of her stalker that doesn't understand the difference between GFE and GF but he he has stopped coming round now. However he fucked it up for the rest of us.
Helena has a guy that is weird and won't take no for an answer when she's told him she won't massage him anymore cos she doesn't feel safe being alone with him. But he still carries on ringing and turning up in the middle of the night.
She is getting upset by this and even though she doesn'y want to will be having to go to the Police! Then she'll have to move away from Lincoln!!! This will fuck things up for me and everybody else that's normal.
I'm not her pimp (she doesn't have one) but i can find out where this guy lives, she knows his real name and he's got a wife and five kids.
SO IF YOU ARE ON THIS FORUM I WANT TO SAY DON'T FUCK THINGS UP FOR ME I LIKE MY LIFE AND OTHERS ON HERE LIKE THEIRS. FOEGET HER THERE ARE LOADS OF GIRLS OUT THERE. PLEASE

Not going to give you a hard time, you have had some tough words above and I hope you are listening.

I would just say that many of us that have been in this game a while have "lost" fantastic regulars.  Recently my regular from Nottingham pissed off to Birmingham and now appears to have given up punting.  I was moderately upset because she was a great girl, we knew each other well (from a punting perspective) and she knew how to give me a great time.  Nothing I could do about it so I am looking for more girls to test for the position! The reasons were personal to her and nothing to do with stalkers, but my point is that life moves on and you just have to get on with it.  Shit happens.

[Picti]

Not going to give you a hard time, you have had some tough words above and I hope you are listening.

I would just say that many of us that have been in this game a while have "lost" fantastic regulars.  Recently my regular from Nottingham pissed off to Birmingham and now appears to have given up punting.  I was moderately upset because she was a great girl, we knew each other well (from a punting perspective) and she knew how to give me a great time.  Nothing I could do about it so I am looking for more girls to test for the position! The reasons were personal to her and nothing to do with stalkers, but my point is that life moves on and you just have to get on with it.  Shit happens.

I echo that Red. Some do become valued regulars and when they go, other than the occasional bit of punting nostalgia you simply hope that she / they are doing ok in their new lives, and then start to audition other prospects.

[Cocknose]

One of my mates lived with a wg for 8 years, she was well reviewed he also saw a genuine masseuse reviewed on here, he split up with her, bought her kid up. She wants him back he says no. Genuine relationships can come from wg's but not for me. They do come with baggage, be careful mate they can end up being far worse stalkers than the men.

[Jamesbattersea]

Well said Picti.
I think James has a touch of EAS. Luckily it's not contagious 



Not sure what EAS is but don't think it's like Corona virus.

[CoolTiger]

Well said Picti.
I think James has a touch of EAS. Luckily it's not contagious 



Not sure what EAS is but don't think it's like Corona virus.

It's worse than Corona Virus 

[Jamesbattersea]

You need a good slap around the face to wake up out of your lover's dream and get back to reality 

You keep it simple, it's a transaction, you pay money they provide a service depending on your likes and needs, no attachments and if you like someone you go back and have another transaction, just like eating in your favourite restaurant, but you don't have tea and biscuits with the owner or meet his wife and kids!! 

Sounds like your in love with two whores, get real and smell the fuckin coffee brother, move on, plenty more to fuck 

 

The thing is dude i do know the owner and his wife and all the staff at my favorite restaurant and have often had a beer with them at the end of their shift!!?? i don't do it in every restaurant i go in just that one, as i don't talk to every escort i meet in the same way as i do those two because i've seen them for the best part of 3 years now as i've been eating at my favorite restaurant for 2 and half years now. I get the best service at all 3 cos of the way i am. It's my personality trate or disorder which ever the way you look at it.?

[Jamesbattersea]

So two unconnected girls you been seeing and eas for both have suddenly got two different stalkers at exactly the same time and both have confided in you. 

So what’s the common denominator here then? You are.

This is either bull shit or a severe cash of white knighting.

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Well it's not bullshit cos i've better things to do than make up stories.
As for the common denominator yes it might be me i my find myself drawn to these girls because of their personality types (they are both very similar) and therefore the type of bloke that is of a mind to be a stalker could well be drawn to them because they are too friendly and kind. That's a very good explanation dude thanks
And if by white knighting you mean i'm trying to help someone that i'm friendly with when their in the shit then yeah call me a white knight! What ever!? But it's no different to if i found you in the street having lost your wallet i'd try to help you find it!!??
I want to carry on getting my nuts emptied!!!

[Jamesbattersea]

I echo that Red. Some do become valued regulars and when they go, other than the occasional bit of punting nostalgia you simply hope that she / they are doing ok in their new lives, and then start to audition other prospects.

Thanks to you and Red,  but i'm really not going to be upset if either of these girls decides to move to Cornwall gives up escorting and open a tea room. In fact i'll be pleased they've found what they really want to do in life, in fact i'll give them Paul Hollywoods scone recipe cos it's the best but what pisses me off is that some bloke is ruining my fun and loads of other punters fun because of their selfish behaviour, it's like a small minority of football fans have spolt the match day experience for everybody you can't get a drink whilst watching a match, you don't want to take your kids because of the fighting that sometimes brakes out and the way the away fans and home fans are herded like cattle into different pens.
The actions of one or two ruin things for the rest of us and that pisses me off!

[Jamesbattersea]

One of my mates lived with a wg for 8 years, she was well reviewed he also saw a genuine masseuse reviewed on here, he split up with her, bought her kid up. She wants him back he says no. Genuine relationships can come from wg's but not for me. They do come with baggage, be careful mate they can end up being far worse stalkers than the men.

I'm not planning on leaving my wife for either of these girls. One of them has a boyfriend already .

[Lilywhite]

There are specialist police who deal with this. Most sex work sexual health clinics have great links to people who can help us.

If these are British girls there is very little reason why this needs to crossover to the punter. If anything, we are asked to keep warnings to ourselves (ho community) so that those who CAN HELP, can get on with their job and hopefully an eventual prosecution.

[Hotdogboy88]

Thanks to you and Red,  but i'm really not going to be upset if either of these girls decides to move to Cornwall gives up escorting and open a tea room. In fact i'll be pleased they've found what they really want to do in life, in fact i'll give them Paul Hollywoods scone recipe cos it's the best but what pisses me off is that some bloke is ruining my fun and loads of other punters fun because of their selfish behaviour, it's like a small minority of football fans have spolt the match day experience for everybody you can't get a drink whilst watching a match, you don't want to take your kids because of the fighting that sometimes brakes out and the way the away fans and home fans are herded like cattle into different pens.
The actions of one or two ruin things for the rest of us and that pisses me off!

So it’s one bloke then? Thought it was two.
If you such good friends and your not the stalker how has this effected you they’ll need your cash more than normal now so why they stopped seeing you then? You sure you not this bloke?

[Newtothisstuff]

If you punt, you leave your civvy life at the door when you enter and your punting life at the door when you leave. Do not ever get too friendly and never take anything an SP says at face value. You're only hearing one side of the story.
SPs get stalkers. It's sad but that's the way it is. The more blokes they fuck, the more they increase the chance of meeting someone who can't handle the relationship being business only. So, you have to accept that an SP you like will move or leave the business entirely. Move on.
Don't get involved. It's not your problem. If you do get yourself involved and the police get dragged into it - you can bet your arse the girl will drop you in it to save her own skin in the blink of an eye.
This isn't a 'making friends' business. If you can't keep the relationship with these SPs professional, you're getting too attached and need to move on for your own good.

[Cocknose]

I'm not planning on leaving my wife for either of these girls. One of them has a boyfriend already .

Ok just be careful just saying

[Fra66le]

If you punt, you leave your civvy life at the door when you enter and your punting life at the door when you leave. Do not ever get too friendly and never take anything an SP says at face value. You're only hearing one side of the story.
SPs get stalkers. It's sad but that's the way it is. The more blokes they fuck, the more they increase the chance of meeting someone who can't handle the relationship being business only. So, you have to accept that an SP you like will move or leave the business entirely. Move on.
Don't get involved. It's not your problem. If you do get yourself involved and the police get dragged into it - you can bet your arse the girl will drop you in it to save her own skin in the blink of an eye.
This isn't a 'making friends' business. If you can't keep the relationship with these SPs professional, you're getting too attached and need to move on for your own good.

This +1. I can sympathise with the OP to a certain degree but then blink and realise that it’s a transaction as someone said before. I’m paying money for a service. They aren’t paying me for counselling so do not get involved. If they disappear tomorrow, you’ll find a replacement next week. Dry your eyes..move on.