I don't settle for a tug or BJ. The long game pays off !
I don’t want a long game, it’s too time consuming and costly. And you shouldn’t have to play it either.
I used to be able to book in with a SP for some sex, get to it from the word go and leave with a smile on my face, having spent money well with a sexy woman who didn’t take the p***.
There’s much less chance of that happening today for the reasons I, and Madone, have already said.
There also seems to be a trend in the West Mids in particular to accept much less for more, one to which I do not wish to contribute.