Author Topic: Where can I have sex in front of people? (Read 5308 times)

spacecadet95 · « **on:** February 14, 2020, 01:55:52 pm »

Maybe an odd question but chatting with the Mrs and we would like to spice things up a bit. I suggested we fuck in front other people and she was up for it! Doesn't want anyone to join though in which is fair enough.

I've looked at swingers clubs but don't really know the etiquette. Can you watch/ carry on about your own business or if someone wants to join is it just the done thing being, well, a swingers club. Anyone done this or know anywhere? Yes I'm naive and most possibly thick but this is entirely new territory for me.

bozzyman · « **Reply #1 on:** February 14, 2020, 03:27:57 pm »

I'll come and watch you if I can wank?

badsin · « **Reply #2 on:** February 14, 2020, 03:31:11 pm »

Send me a picture of your Mrs, and I'll let you know

chandlerhandler · « **Reply #3 on:** February 14, 2020, 03:36:46 pm »

luciebee has a cuckold day, maybe you could pay her for him & Lucie to watch you both?

External Link/Members Only

Jcarr87 · « **Reply #4 on:** February 14, 2020, 04:34:47 pm »

Different clubs have different rules regarding viewing etc.. normally posted on their site or explained when arriving. E.g. rope across door means view but dont enter etc...

Fabswingers might be a good start as the voyeurs on there tend to be popular.

thekingreturns · « **Reply #5 on:** February 14, 2020, 04:43:05 pm »

I'd suggest fabswingers too... they also have good advice regarding clubs etc too

spacecadet95 · « **Reply #6 on:** February 14, 2020, 06:08:53 pm »

Thanks for the fabswingers tip. I'll go have a look there.

Just to clarify, we're not swingers and at the moment it's more of a lets put a show on while a crowd watches rather than someone popping round and sitting in the corner of the room. I have no problem with that but I guess at the moment it's a safety in numbers deal for her. Plus she likes attention so the more the merrier.

I'm setting up a twitter account and will post stuff there. Could become a nice little hobby.

redveee · « **Reply #7 on:** February 14, 2020, 11:08:39 pm »

Webcam

Various cam websites for amateurs that you can join and test the water and possibility of getting a little income from tips etc.

Hotdogboy88 · « **Reply #8 on:** February 14, 2020, 11:27:09 pm »

Quote from: redveee on February 14, 2020, 11:08:39 pm

Webcam Various cam websites for amateurs that you can join and test the water and possibility of getting a little income from tips etc.

This.

Hotdogboy88 · « **Reply #9 on:** February 14, 2020, 11:27:46 pm »

I’d come round and watch as well if it helps.

HailWood · « **Reply #10 on:** February 15, 2020, 12:57:12 am »

Consider Xtasia in Brum

External Link/Members Only

webpunter · « **Reply #11 on:** February 15, 2020, 01:14:33 am »

There are a lot of contagious things going around at the mo

I wouldn't want to catch a brummie accent

Quote from: MikeTheBike on February 15, 2020, 12:57:12 am

Consider Xtasia in Brum

External Link/Members Only

O30303 · « **Reply #12 on:** February 15, 2020, 07:41:30 am »

Quote from: spacecadet95 on February 14, 2020, 01:55:52 pm

Maybe an odd question but chatting with the Mrs and we would like to spice things up a bit. I suggested we fuck in front other people and she was up for it! Doesn't want anyone to join though in which is fair enough.

I've looked at swingers clubs but don't really know the etiquette. Can you watch/ carry on about your own business or if someone wants to join is it just the done thing being, well, a swingers club. Anyone done this or know anywhere? Yes I'm naive and most possibly thick but this is entirely new territory for me.

swingers clubs are generally a pretty safe place, depending on the type of night, la chambre in sheffield is safe and you would be fine to do your own thing without anyone just jumping in, there are rules and most folk stick to them, having said that, pick your night as from experience fridays allow single guys in, so you end up being followed round by gangs of stray dogs, saturdays are better as its couples and females only, fab is good to get chatting but the easiest way to fuck in comfort with an audience is to go to a club

John the Sextist · « **Reply #13 on:** February 15, 2020, 08:37:39 am »

Quote from: O30303 on February 15, 2020, 07:41:30 am

swingers clubs are generally a pretty safe place, depending on the type of night, la chambre in sheffield is safe and you would be fine to do your own thing without anyone just jumping in, there are rules and most folk stick to them, having said that, pick your night as from experience fridays allow single guys in, so you end up being followed round by gangs of stray dogs, saturdays are better as its couples and females only, fab is good to get chatting but the easiest way to fuck in comfort with an audience is to go to a club

You seem well educated on the scene and some good advice offered

Looking forward to reading a long overdue review from your sexual exploits

MajorPayne · « **Reply #14 on:** February 15, 2020, 08:48:38 am »

Quote from: O30303 on February 15, 2020, 07:41:30 am

swingers clubs are generally a pretty safe place, depending on the type of night, la chambre in sheffield is safe and you would be fine to do your own thing without anyone just jumping in, there are rules and most folk stick to them, having said that, pick your night as from experience fridays allow single guys in, so you end up being followed round by gangs of stray dogs, saturdays are better as its couples and females only, fab is good to get chatting but the easiest way to fuck in comfort with an audience is to go to a club

I'd be interested in a swingers club near Northampton . . .

Moby Dick · « **Reply #15 on:** February 15, 2020, 10:20:29 am »

Asda fruit n veg isle.
Wouldn’t recommend the frozen section.
Would be good to just walk into Benson Beds and go at it hammer and nails in front of everyone.

One of my first girlfriends was into Public, car and outdoor sex.
Blowjobs on trains, sex in parks. The thrill of being caught.
Before I’d even heard of dogging.
If I tried that now I’d probably end up with a circle of blokes wanking or a bunch of teenagers filming on their phones.
Not to mention being picked up by the fuzz

jaylad · « **Reply #16 on:** February 15, 2020, 11:03:34 am »

Dependant on your location i can suggest various clubs. Me and mrs have been on the scene for a few years. And being watched is quite the norm atm. That said it goes as far as you want it too.

Any questions feel free to message

Picti · « **Reply #17 on:** February 15, 2020, 11:46:29 am »

Quote from: spacecadet95 on February 14, 2020, 01:55:52 pm

Maybe an odd question but chatting with the Mrs and we would like to spice things up a bit. I suggested we fuck in front other people and she was up for it! Doesn't want anyone to join though in which is fair enough.

I've looked at swingers clubs but don't really know the etiquette. Can you watch/ carry on about your own business or if someone wants to join is it just the done thing being, well, a swingers club. Anyone done this or know anywhere? Yes I'm naive and most possibly thick but this is entirely new territory for me.

Have a look at various swingers clubs websites as most are explicit about etiquette and rules, and you can get an idea of the general conditions. Then ensure that you familiarise yourself with any specific rules for a particular club you plan to visit. You'll find that most have strict observance of the rules, boundaries, etc, and hosts / hostesses available to intervene if there's a problem.

You'll also find that clubs run different kinds of events catering to different tastes and needs. Even within a general issue like being watched, a viewing audience of other couples will feel different to a group of single guys watching and wanking. Think about what you'd both find most exciting.

Xtro · « **Reply #18 on:** February 15, 2020, 12:52:07 pm »

Quote from: webpunter on February 15, 2020, 01:14:33 am

There are a lot of contagious things going around at the mo

I wouldn't want to catch a brummie accent

FFS

Quote from: bozzyman on February 14, 2020, 03:27:57 pm

I'll come and watch you if I can wank?

My wife left me because I had a wank over a sex scene in a movie!! Can you believe that?

Mind you, we were watching Deliverance!

webpunter · « **Reply #19 on:** February 15, 2020, 01:30:52 pm »

Seems to me like a lucky escape
Are you sure it wasn't coz you like ladyboys ?

I really must scratch the TS itch
Trying to find a really fit one
Gotta be brazilian or thai - coz british / european ones tend to look like blokes on stag trips
A big rack - preferably enhanced
& undercarriage gorne
One where you ain't entirely sure - an element of doubt

Quote from: Xtro on February 15, 2020, 12:52:07 pm

My wife left me because I had a wank over a sex scene in a movie!! Can you believe that?

Steely Dan · « **Reply #20 on:** February 15, 2020, 02:00:58 pm »

I did this at External Link/Members Only near heathrow. Very good fun. No one bothered us, didn't have sex with anyone else. A group of 8 or 10 watched us and encourged us in a nice way. (was not my wife ... but was an older escort so we were a very credible couple)

rbtgrr · « **Reply #21 on:** February 15, 2020, 03:32:50 pm »

Quote from: bozzyman on February 14, 2020, 03:27:57 pm

I'll come and watch you if I can wank?

Good one.

scutty brown · « **Reply #22 on:** February 15, 2020, 05:22:24 pm »

Just host a dinner party for your wife's workmates then once the dishes are cleared bang her over the dining table.
Or do it as a special course between the fish and cheese dishes

jsnsummer · « **Reply #23 on:** February 21, 2020, 01:52:08 pm »

Quote from: scutty brown on February 15, 2020, 05:22:24 pm

.....between the fish and cheese dishes

Is that a new euphemism?

rhub9 · « **Reply #24 on:** February 22, 2020, 07:19:11 pm »

Quote from: spacecadet95 on February 14, 2020, 01:55:52 pm

Maybe an odd question but chatting with the Mrs and we would like to spice things up a bit. I suggested we fuck in front other people and she was up for it! Doesn't want anyone to join though in which is fair enough.

I've looked at swingers clubs but don't really know the etiquette. Can you watch/ carry on about your own business or if someone wants to join is it just the done thing being, well, a swingers club. Anyone done this or know anywhere? Yes I'm naive and most possibly thick but this is entirely new territory for me.

You can easily achieve this at a swingers club. Most places have rooms for people who like to "show off", with a slight partition to seperate them from those who, er, "like to watch". People will only join in if invited. You may get a polite enquiry, but an equally polite refusal will set them straight. Anyone being pushy in these clubs will typically get ejected permanantly by the staff.

There are several swinging venue in the East Mids. Some Googling will send you in the right direction.

If you want to start off at home, check out Fabswingers and sites like Chaturbate. Just don't get too distracted by Project Melody.

Enjoy!

bozzyman · « **Reply #25 on:** February 23, 2020, 04:26:07 am »

My offer still stands.

workinallweek · « **Reply #26 on:** February 23, 2020, 08:19:29 am »

advert on AW

Neromatrix · « **Reply #27 on:** February 23, 2020, 01:47:06 pm »

I will watch, as long as you provide the popcorn

Hotdogboy88 · « **Reply #28 on:** February 23, 2020, 06:35:20 pm »

And baby oil

tradsweet · « **Reply #29 on:** March 02, 2020, 12:14:53 pm »

In Leicester there's Club 29 External Link/Members Only or Amigos External Link/Members Only where you should get folk to watch you. In Derby the Attic External Link/Members Only although a few years ago some of the audience wanted to touch and join in. The Attic also has a cinema where you could be watched.
There are also Adult Cinemas in Huddersfield External Link/Members Only and Foxy Lady Adult Cinema in Wednesfield where sometimes couples put on a show.

rhub9 · « **Reply #30 on:** March 02, 2020, 09:01:35 pm »

Quote from: tradsweet on March 02, 2020, 12:14:53 pm

In Leicester there's Club 29 External Link/Members Only or Amigos External Link/Members Only where you should get folk to watch you. In Derby the Attic External Link/Members Only although a few years ago some of the audience wanted to touch and join in. The Attic also has a cinema where you could be watched.
There are also Adult Cinemas in Huddersfield External Link/Members Only and Foxy Lady Adult Cinema in Wednesfield where sometimes couples put on a show.

Quality post! Thank you.

Jamesbattersea · « **Reply #31 on:** March 03, 2020, 06:35:07 am »

Dogging.

Introvert · « **Reply #32 on:** March 07, 2020, 02:31:36 pm »

Porn hub

spacecadet95 · « **Reply #33 on:** March 09, 2020, 08:12:06 am »

Loads of really useful stuff. Thanks all. Now to just find the time!

Author Topic: Where can I have sex in front of people? (Read 5308 times)

Member Benefits