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BootyAddict

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Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.

For myself im early 30s, still dont do too bad. Punted while had girlfriends for variety and a bit of excitement. My girlfriends have been normally better looking than the average 80 quid punt, and decent in the sack, buy i just get bored.

Offline smiths

Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.

For myself im early 30s, still dont do too bad. Punted while had girlfriends for variety and a bit of excitement. My girlfriends have been normally better looking than the average 80 quid punt, and decent in the sack, buy i just get bored.

Yes i require variety which of course a partner cant offer so for me punting is easier than pulling and of course a guaranteed outcome assuming the WG is good. And all i need is the agreed money, suits me sir.

I do go to the Woodford Grab-A-Granny night on ocassion though, jeez some of those women are right goers. :scare: ;)

Offline wristjob

Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.


I love that phrase, it's such a macho thing isn't it. Some people can't pull.

I have a problem going somewhere I don't want to go for several hours, doing something I don't want to do so I can shag a bird who most of the time I don't find attractive. Sure I could stick to trying to chat up super hot girls but then I would pull less frequently so more time invested in getting a hot chick. Not like many of them are that interested in ageing guys who have a bit of a guy though.

On the other hand I could be shagging some super fit girl an hour from now, she's nailed on and will do what I want and look like she's enjoying it.

As has been said on these forums many times shagging/relationships are 2 different things.

Offline Madone1

Never had trouble pulling but punting just makes life easier and cleaner you pump and go with any girl you fancy they get what they want I get what I want a life with out the complications that women bring as pulling leads to dating and so on before you know it trapped in a dead end marriage.

rogerc23

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If your married punting is much easier and there is less of a risk of getting caught,i had an affair a couple of years back and the fall out was awful,now i only go out on the pull when I am away with work but in london i just dont have many opportunities, the best route for me for now is lunch time punts

616

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Punting every time - the idea of trying to pull a divorcee who has several teenage children at home for example, just does not appeal.

Not everyone is extroverted enough to go out pull and I'm past the stage of going to pubs and clubs myself so punting with a different WG once in a while till you're no longer capable is probably the only option for a lot of socially maladroit males these days. Society has changed so much over the last forty years or so that the old ways of settling down with a nice girl, having 2.4 children and leading a life of quiet desperation are long gone - more and more people are living on their now.

Luckily, there's the abundance of porn available on the Internet, as well.

Wiltsboy01

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Pulling is a pointless numbers game, IMO.

Right then, so whats the chances blonde Leah or Chelsey or whoever you just met in that bar is:

a) 21
b) pretty
c) into older guys
d) into you, with yer hairy balls and crack??

Or choose a ho you like, get £60 out the stash and go do her.  Half that if you punt quick and dirty :)

Online finn5555

Well it's easier than pulling  :yahoo:

In the last 24 hours I have had two meetings  :thumbsup: well the last 22 hours to be precise ...

Meet 1. BDSM 2 hour booking where she submitted to me and we had a lot of fun  :D
Meet 2. Vanilla 1 hour punt as I fancied a long luxurious blow job and a lazy shag with her on top  :D

Total expenditure £350 .......... Cheaper than pulling as well  :sarcastic:

Offline sparrow



  I'm a fat, ugly twat, and couldn't pull to save my life.

  Ergo, I punt.

Offline smiths

Pulling is a pointless numbers game, IMO.

Right then, so whats the chances blonde Leah or Chelsey or whoever you just met in that bar is:

a) 21
b) pretty
c) into older guys
d) into you, with yer hairy balls and crack??

Or choose a ho you like, get £60 out the stash and go do her.  Half that if you punt quick and dirty :)

IF a guy wants more than just sex with a WG then pulling isnt pointless in my view, the woman for him could be round the next corner. Not likely to find that just punting.

616

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  I'm a fat, ugly twat, and couldn't pull to save my life.

  Ergo, I punt.

Kind of what I meant to say in my post, tbh!

Offline Madone1


  I'm a fat, ugly twat, and couldn't pull to save my life.

  Ergo, I punt.

Join the club.  :yahoo:

GeeWiz

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Because I can't be doing with nights in town, listening to gash music, while the girls 15 years my junior have their pick of the Roidy Magoos.  Life's too short.

Plus I have no interest in women my own age - other than as friends - as if they haven't already got kids and exes, their biological clocks are ticking.  Or they're cat women.  No offence ladies, this is just my personal experience.

Incidentally, average £45 a pop this year, so it's better for the budget too.

Ben4454

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I currently work a lot. I only get one day off  and would rather spend that day with a WG of my choosing than wasting my entire night off 'getting hammered and pulling which i would rather be relaxing.

I get out calls so it means i do not need to leave the comfort of my own hotel.

Plus civvies are just full of games and ego in this day and age. Can't be bothered with all that '
« Last Edit: March 25, 2014, 07:44:48 pm by Ben4454 »

Offline Anadin


  I'm a fat, ugly twat, and couldn't pull to save my life.

  Ergo, I punt.

I don't think I'm a twat but yeah the same.

mack10

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Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.

For myself im early 30s, still dont do too bad. Punted while had girlfriends for variety and a bit of excitement. My girlfriends have been normally better looking than the average 80 quid punt, and decent in the sack, buy i just get bored.

Snap my friend. Been pulling girls all over London for the past 13 years. Many of which I had relationships with, one nighters or just meeting them up for sex "links".

But im addicted to BJ's and alot of girls are fussy about it. I hate when I meet a girl, knowing im going to fuck her, then find out she dont give head. So a part of punting was to get my fucking BJ lol!

Also - Ive always been attracted to milfs - especially big busty tits. You dont exactly find them in all the clubs and bars all over London. So a part of punting was to fuck the milfs!

Also - once you've pulled so many girls - it gets boring. Phonce calls, texting, taking them out - all that bullshit to keep them sweet just to get a shag. Also its a small world for my age group - so when the girls find out your fucking someone they know...well they tell you to fuck off. So most of my punting was for the no aggro - just pay get your service and go home. No bullshit  :cool:

Offline Benboybristol

Ok, I'm very new to paying for it but I know I'm not alone in this regard - paying for it is a huge turn on !!!

There's something quite sordid about it. To be blunt (and it might sound like I'm blowing my own trumpet) I'm quite good at pulling and have slept with a lot of women. I've enjoyed a lot of it but sometimes I've fucked a woman because I 'could', not necessarily because I really wanted to.

...But paying for it has it's own thrill. As I said, I'm new to it and maybe time will blunt this pleasure and it becomes jaded but general pulling now seems a little tame to me.

Cunnivorous Vagitarian

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Several reasons for me....

a) same as above.... in my years, i'm fatter, uglier and twattier! LoL
b) STILL can't pull a real woman!
c) Since i had an accident, it's left me slightly handicapped which REALLY puts some people off.
d) On the odd occassion i HAVE managed to pull (without the use/abuse of Rohypnol, roofies, or chloroform!!! LOL)..... even though they've been lookers, they were SHIT in the sack and didn't know what they were doing..... AND it cost me about 90 quid in booze etc.... For an extra few quid, i get a GREAT looker, a GREAT time by someone who knows what they are doing AND what i want!
e) i get a choice of hundreds of amazing women who have actually become friends after the awkwardness has warn off!

:)

Cornish sub

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  I'm a fat, ugly twat, and couldn't pull to save my life.

  Ergo, I punt.
Apart from the fat bit, everything you said. But even if I wasn't ugly and could pull, I'd be hard pressed to pull a woman who just happens to be a dominatrix and happy to do to me the things I'm into without wanting something in return. With escorts, that 'something in return' is money, pure and simple. No complications, no fuss. Happy escort/dominatrix, happy sub.

Salt

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I think its a much more honest transaction; lets face it sex costs something one way or another. If in a 'relationship' then it costs you time, emotion and money. At least when you punt its win, win for both parties and there is no hassle.......

I've been punting for 20 years on and off (no pun intended) and the only down side i can see is that it can lead you to be socially isolated........

So don't give up on pulling totally because its nice to flirt especially if you don't give a sh!t it can actually make you more attractive.....(women are crazy; if they didn't have a box there would be a bounty on them)

dilettante

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I'm sure I'd be brilliant at pulling if I got the chance - but the trouble is that although I'm familiar enough with the concept of "single women" on paper, in practice I don't think I've ever met one, or not one that didn't really have their eye on ANOTHER bloke and thought it might help that along to get some interest out of me along the way.

But then all you guys who CAN pull, it's definitely all down to your skill isn't it, and not just because the girls positioned themselves in just the right place and allowed themselves to be led on.

There again now I'm middle-aged and single for a few years now most women of my age have let themselves go which I won't tolerate - nor with WGs either.  It's actually surprising how many decent, family-minded, hard-working blokes with kids like myself have been dumped by a partner just as a matter of lifestyle choice (you assume, being the sort of blokes they are) - then they wonder why there's a housing shortage.  Maybe I should introduce them all to the joys of punting.

Aspen

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I think its a much more honest transaction; lets face it sex costs something one way or another. If in a 'relationship' then it costs you time, emotion and money. At least when you punt its win, win for both parties and there is no hassle.......

I've been punting for 20 years on and off (no pun intended) and the only down side i can see is that it can lead you to be socially isolated........

So don't give up on pulling totally because its nice to flirt especially if you don't give a sh!t it can actually make you more attractive.....(women are crazy; if they didn't have a box there would be a bounty on them)

I wouldn't put myself into the category of 'can't pull'. but I find the kinds of women who go out on the town / indulge in one night stands (do many actually exist?) don't appeal at all. The rest are such hard going that it's not really worth the effort. You can wait weeks and even months, all the time jumping through hoops before they will trust you enough to get down to the nitty gritty. By which time you either get bored or seriously wonder what a proper relationship would be like with this person. If a girl really likes you they will proceed to the sack a bit quicker, but most are marking time waiting for their knight in shining armour.

Like you say, it's best not to give a shit and then one might happen along that is of a like mind. But they are as rare as hens teeth and you can wait years for that with no result. I have done many times and I have become very cynical about the mindsets and motives of women. They've created an industry in which a few make a handsome profit and the rest hate, and we as a gender are left to make the choice between the devil and the deep blue sea.


domino131

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Without wanting to toot my own horn or anything, I think I'm reasonably good looking, and I am good at talking to people if they're reasonably friendly.  I'm just completely clueless when it comes to flirting or chatting people up; I don't get it and it seems to involve being really fake which I just can't do.  I also hate clubbing so the idea of spending all night in a place like that on the off chance you may get to pull someone just doesn't make much sense.

In fact, punting means that the idea of pulling is not on my mind now when I am out and about.  It used to be if I was at a party or a gig or something, I'd always be thinking about the possibility of finding someone to pull.  Now that I can just pay for it when I want to, I don't really care so much about that, so I don't feel disappointed at the end of the evening when nothing happens.

cjkany2015

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I'm similar to poster above.

I have trouble pulling. I'm not sure why as I think I'm OK looking, confident and loaded but it just doesn't click for me.

That said, punting is so convenient and discreet that I would still go down that route even if I was better at pulling civies.

Because I've been punting since age 17 I've never really been bothered with pulling. Maybe that's why I'm so bad at it.
« Last Edit: March 26, 2014, 08:02:40 am by cjkany2015 »

Offline CBPaul

The concept of 'out on the pull' makes me chuckle, spend ages on it, spend money on it and still nothing is guaranteed. A few years ago when I worked through the evenings I'd see countless groups of blokes heading out 'on the pull', preened to within a mm of their life and full of confidence. Hours later the same blokes would be walking back, tanked up, moaning about 'them all being mingers or lessies' as they headed home for a semi-drunken wank.

My days of going out on the pull have long gone but I still want to shag girls like I did 20 years ago, plus on any given day I fancy something different - age, body type etc. Punting is easy, feel horny, find a prossie that appeals, make booking, do deed.

OK not always that straight forward but you get the point. 

Andre 3000

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'Pulling' is easy and fun for me, but getting caught pulling is not. I consider myself attractive and in very good shape etc. I work around the west end area in a creative role so interacting with people all day comes naturally. I do flirt with a lot of the clients and women I work with and see in the bars and clubs around there.

The only problem is Mrs 3000 also works in the west end area in a creative role. She knows I'm a massive flirt and she's even on occasion allowed me to dabble and use my 'passcard' ,but I don't want to humiliate her by potentially fucking people she knows. The term we both use is don't shit where you eat.

Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends,or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

mack10

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'Pulling' is easy and fun for me, but getting caught pulling is not. I consider myself attractive and in very good shape etc. I work around the west end area in a creative role so interacting with people all day comes naturally. I do flirt with a lot of the clients and women I work with and see in the bars and clubs around there.

The only problem is Mrs 3000 also works in the west end area in a creative role. She knows I'm a massive flirt and she's even on occasion allowed me to dabble and use my 'passcard' ,but I don't want to humiliate her by potentially fucking people she knows. The term we both use is don't shit where you eat.

Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends,or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

Very well said Andre 3000. Everything you wrote goes for me aswell - especially about the mutual friends lol. Its happened to me on a few occasions.

Offline Benboybristol

Pulling is all about confidence. Ok, if you look like Joseph Merrick (don't correct me, his name was not John Merrick !) it's not going to happen. I'm average looking (I don't think anyone other than my mother has described me as hansom!) but not wanting to sound cocky I'm good at flirting and funny/cheeky and above all I have confidence.

I'm late thirties now but in my twenties I thought I was god's gift. I was very cocky and thought I could have anyone. And you know what, usually I could because I believed I could !

Also, I'm very well endowed and I think most of my confidence began from that. It's very shallow (and a little pathetic) I know but I usually manage drop that in subtly or not so subtly and often curiosity is piqued in my 'target' and hey presto !

Gordo987

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Punting is so much easier, I pick a woman I fancy, we meet, I pay, we fuck and we both go away happily. Pulling comes with it's own pitfalls her having mutual friends, or work colleagues in common, it's bad news all round.

Absolutely! :hi:

Offline rubric

I don't do too badly - a lot more confidence than when I was younger and have aged well and much fitter now, and whilst I don't like clubbing *at all* I don't do too badly 'pulling' women I bump into casually in other places.  It's like cooking though - you either restrict yourself to the ingredients you have at home - or you head out for a meal of your choice.

Whilst I have had great sex with girl's I've picked up, I've also had mediocre sex and met girls with strange hang ups, so it's kind of nice to pay an escort and know that she's going to be naked, on her knees with your cock balls deep in her mouth 10 minutes after you come in through the door.

It's just a different experience, that's all. And pulling and paying have as much variability as either of them on their own.

domino131

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plus on any given day I fancy something different - age, body type etc. Punting is easy, feel horny, find a prossie that appeals, make booking, do deed.

The is the other major reason for me; there's many different types of girl I would like to have at least one experience of, and the idea of not only successfully pulling, but finding and pulling the particular type of girl I fancy on that particular day it is just beyond any likelihood of happening.  Of course it's not always easy to find the exact type of WG you're after if you have something specific in mind, but at least you can have a hotlist or something for future reference.

Offline saf1976

I found pulling relatively easy in my early to mid 20's. Relatively in that there would also be knock backs  :lol:

When I hit mid 20's I found the internet and obviously my attention turned to porn and chat sites. The girls in porn did a whole bunch of stuff the average girl I pulled didn't do, most notably anal. I was desperate to try it and took the plunge with Caprice of Wolves around 2003.

Although it took me a while to relax and properly enjoy punting, the internet was a much easier and exciting way to chat to girls on sites like Faceparty and ICQ. This was cheaper than going out round town and I started to enjoy it more than pulling in clubs whilst drunk as a skunk. So standard pulling in a club was loosing it's appeal.

Obviously the girls on the chat sites I mentioned, whilst nice girls, didn't come up to the standards of the girls in porn still and I slowly but surely turned to punting again ... and again ... and again ... until 1 day it seamed second nature.

My best mate is suspicious as I am single and don't have the inclination to go out like I once did but appreciates I enjoy the ladies.

The excitement is that on any given day, within 30 mins to an hour of making the decision, you can have sex with a lady you desire with minimal effort. The easy way is the best way as they say.

As a guy now in my late 30's i'd not have much chance with girls in their early to mid 20's. I'm also a different character to my early 20's in that back then i'd adapt myself to each girl I spoke to and take an interest in what they liked. Being genuine and also getting older, I have no interest in the guff that most girls follow nowadays, celebrities, chart music etc

jcdmj12

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Time, effort, and attachment.

Before I met my current partner, I put a lot of effort into the whole 'Game' thing, went through a phase of pulling a different, attractive women every week. Some were great in bed, some not so great.  It was fun, but it was SO time consuming.  To do it well, you had to spend all of your time when you were out chatting up women, and that mean I missed out on chilling out and spending time with my mates.  Plus, I tend to get emotionally attached to any attractive woman who can push my buttons in bed, so it took its toll mentally because it ends up being all you think about as well.

I'm still tempted by the idea of finding a fuck buddy, but punting is so easy and I have a high 'hit' rate of good punts right now.  The thing I like about it is that the whole thing is a pre-agreed contract, where you both set expectations and limits up front. 

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I found pulling relatively easy in my early to mid 20's. Relatively in that there would also be knock backs  :lol:

When I hit mid 20's I found the internet and obviously my attention turned to porn and chat sites. The girls in porn did a whole bunch of stuff the average girl I pulled didn't do, most notably anal. I was desperate to try it and took the plunge with Caprice of Wolves around 2003.

A lot of guys went to see Caprice for Anal. AFAIR, She hardly turned anyone down and was very popular on PNet, where she also posted on. Pity never took a fancy to Anal at the time.

Offline updownandaround

Im interested to know why everyone punts (been punting for 4 years). Do you just want variety, excitement or do you have trouble pulling? If you have a lady, is she better or worse than escort standards.

For myself im early 30s, still dont do too bad. Punted while had girlfriends for variety and a bit of excitement. My girlfriends have been normally better looking than the average 80 quid punt, and decent in the sack, buy i just get bored.

I do both.

I love going out at the weekends and finding women who will bang. The success ratios aren't that high and a lot of girls aren't up for banging that night. Often times I can't be bothered to follow up with numbers for girls who are less receptive when not pissed up. I was in Las Vegas a few weekends ago and did a hat trick, three different girls from various clubs in three nights. I don't fancy punting while in the USA, all the girls seem hugely paranoid probably due to the legal situation.

Sometimes however I want something now and if I haven't already planned an unpaid encounter then I start trawling through AW. I guess I'm all about getting what I want when I'm in the mood, sometimes you can get that for free and other times you have to pay.

Immediacy is where it's at!

Toshiba

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I get to pick a fit as fuck 19yr old and be filthy as fuck with her

Something only punting can do

Pulling is easy on the dating sites for me but it still takes a while to get them into bed, ive had 2-3 shags on the first date but they were women my age

Offline updownandaround


I get to pick a fit as fuck 19yr old and be filthy as fuck with her

Something only punting can do

Pulling is easy on the dating sites for me but it still takes a while to get them into bed, ive had 2-3 shags on the first date but they were women my age

I won't meet a gal from an online dating site unless she'll bang on the first "date" or at least a blowy in the car post drink. I ask them up front in a tongue in cheek way, if they over react then you know it's not going to happen. It's my way of "going for the no" early and not wasting time!

Offline berksboy

you fuck them then fuck off down the pub without hrs of earache i mean apart from fucking them why would what to be near one ?

as for guys who pay to chat to them WTF is that about !

Offline Matium

No possibility of a rejection in punting.

WGs are paid to be your fantasy girl.

Offline ForrestGump

My domestic arrangement is such that dating would be really hard to achieve while successfully keeping it under the radar. I never was much good at it either. I was much too shy and unsure of myself as a youngster. Wasted so much time and effort mostly ending up at dead ends. Punting, on the other hand, requires only a very small investment of time and, mostly for that reason, is much more easily achieved. The outcome is also typically either a good or a great one. No guarantee that my activities will stay unnoticed; Karma may still catch me and kick me really hard in the ar$e. So best I enjoy it while I can  :)

Offline updownandaround

No possibility of a rejection in punting.

WGs are paid to be your fantasy girl.

That's an interesting point, especially when you consider it the other way around. I've walked out of a good number of punts now on the basis that they look like drug shooting skanks or nothing like their online photos. I went to an expensive punt last year in London organised by an agency. She was gorgeous in her photos but when I arrived she was a good 15 kilos heavier and older. She was also pissed as a fart or high or both. I took one look and turned around. I got a text from her and the agency saying that I should at least pay her for 15 minutes of her time for the trouble! Yeah, right.

Offline updownandaround

My domestic arrangement is such that dating would be really hard to achieve while successfully keeping it under the radar. I never was much good at it either. I was much too shy and unsure of myself as a youngster. Wasted so much time and effort mostly ending up at dead ends. Punting, on the other hand, requires only a very small investment of time and, mostly for that reason, is much more easily achieved. The outcome is also typically either a good or a great one. No guarantee that my activities will stay unnoticed; Karma may still catch me and kick me really hard in the ar$e. So best I enjoy it while I can  :)

I find the only way of having multiple girlfriends at the same time is to do it when you're away with work. Fortunately for me I travel a lot and have accumulated a few different girls in Europe and the USA. It works quite well as they get hacked off after around 3 months which is about the time I'm bored with banging them anyway.

Offline Steely Dan

Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

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Because I want my cake and eat it too. I want the loving relationship with my other half and the secret sex with hot women.

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It costs less it's less effort the sex is usually better and it's no strings

Offline updownandaround

Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

That's easy then, just talk with 10 times the women in a night and hey presto you'll get 100%. That's some prossie logic for you!

Rochdull lad

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It costs less it's less effort the sex is usually better and it's no strings

All of the above! :D

Plus at my age, I wouldn't want any "Civvie" that I might pull!!  Why would I, when I can shag someone young enough to be my attractive daughter?!

Offline Daffodil

I dislike the uncertainty with pulling. You can put the leg work in and pay (don't forget you still pay! :scare:) and then get nowhere. Time and money wasted.

Also pulling is far riskier for those in relationships. Too many loose ends. I don't think I've ever even come close to being rumbled when punting, but I have on a number of occasions with affairs and the such. Usually because of the other girl involved, a situation much harder to control.

Sex with a civvy is invariably better, in my opinion, but the effort and risk of it just makes punting more appealing.

Offline Jimmyredcab

This is the sort of lady who I would be capable of pulling -----------

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Aspen

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Time spent planning a punt leads to sex 100%.  Time spent hanging out in bars leads to sex 10%.

I'd say you're doing well at 1 in 10. Still very hit and miss though. My experience of meeting women in bars or whatever puts it no better than 1 in 100 if that.

I'd also say that planning a punt is not 100%, I'd put it at more like 50%.

I don't feel there is any realistic alternative. If it was more socially acceptable it would be a lot easier though. There's a long way to go to improve that side of it.