Party Girl Elise - cancelled because something better came up

[Bushmills]

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Time: start of November.

Comms: I booked a couple  of days before for a lunchtime meeting, 2.30pm, as she was close to a hotel where I was attending some meetings. Comms were very good by email and text. Postcode supplied without problem.

On the day of the meeting, I turned on my punting phone at about 0930 to find messages from her...
0730 - Can you come later. I am just back in from an overnight party booking and need to sleep
0815 - I need to cancel as I might not wake up in time. Sorry but the overnight came up at the last minute and I am very tired.

On the one hand, good comms. At least she let me know.
But on the other, to take a last minute overnight and ignore someone else who booked days in advance...poor behaviour.
At the rates she charges (£200/h) I expect better.

[Fuzzyduck]

Sorry to hear about your shit experience. It's hard to begrudge someone who accepts a lucrative offer but unprofessional in the way she handled it. She could have cancelled the night before with an apology and an offer of a generous discount if you rebook in the future. Better luck next time.

[Jerk Chicken]

I am finding this one a bit tricky.

OP was given plenty of notice and and then give her a negative rating for being honest. I mean she could have spun some BS but convincing story and I wonder then if a negative would have been posted.

Worse she could grab 2-3 hours kip wake honour the 2:30 booking deliver a shit punt because  she was starved of sleep and semi drugged up but now 200 queens heads better off.

How would OP feel then?

No pleasing you guys  sometimes.

Sorry but I think she did the right thing and if I was in OP's position I would be grateful she cancelled.

[Fuzzyduck]

Sorry but I think she did the right thing and if I was in OP's position I would be grateful she cancelled.

I agree with you 100%. It still doesn't mean it wasn't a negative experience for OP and doesn't mean she couldn't have done things differently. Personally I probably would have executed on a plan B, posted a neutral for Elise and, if i still had the hots for her, asked if she'd offer a discount on a future meet.

[Jerk Chicken]

I agree with you 100%. It still doesn't mean it wasn't a negative experience for OP and doesn't mean she couldn't have done things differently. Personally I probably would have executed on a plan B, posted a neutral for Elise and, if i still had the hots for her, asked if she'd offer a discount on a future meet.

+1 ... but with the caveat just wondering if she had made up some cock of s story, no pun intended, and OP "believe it" would he have posted a negative?

Negative experience  defo but we should also give weight to honesty. Further I am a punter who in the world of dick n pussy I would not expect a pro to turn down a last min party overnight for my 200 queens the next day when I might even cancel or the OH insist I take her to Bluewyer  . But that's just me!

[Fuzzyduck]

+1 ... but with the caveat just wondering if she had made up some cock of s story, no pun intended, and OP "believe it" would he have posted a negative?

Negative experience  defo but we should also give weight to honesty. Further I am a punter who in the world of dick n pussy I would not expect a pro to turn down a last min party overnight for my 200 queens the next day when I might even cancel or the OH insist I take her to Bluewyer  . But that's just me!

I generally don't believe anything a SP says. At best I take it with a pinch of salt. It doesn't matter what the reason is, the outcome is the same - a cancelled punt. Truth or not, the important thing here for me her lack of customer focus. The way she delivered the message was all around her and not the client. She could have said she'd done an overnighter, wasn't feeling 100% and unable to deliver her usual service and attention to the client with a promise to make it up next time. The little twist makes a difference and perhaps OP isn't left totally pissed off with his day.

I don't begrudge her decision either. Who wouldn't take the lucrative offer? However, @ £200/hr you'd think she knows how to treat clients. That said, I can imagine it's hard to have your smiley face on at 8am in the morning with a "party" hangover and a sore pussy.

[Bushmills]

However, @ £200/hr you'd think she knows how to treat clients.

That's exactly my point.

I should have added that she said she would call / text when she woke up so we could rearrange for later in the day, but did not respond to any further attempts at communication. Radio silence.

Nor did she make any offer of reduced rate for a second booking.

I agree that is is hard to turn an overnight booking down but she could have handled it a lot better. The fact that I am still annoyed at the offhand manner in which it was handled two weeks after the event warrants a negative in my book.

[Jerk Chicken]

That's exactly my point.

I should have added that she said she would call / text when she woke up so we could rearrange for later in the day, but did not respond to any further attempts at communication. Radio silence.

Nor did she make any offer of reduced rate for a second booking.

I agree that is is hard to turn an overnight booking down but she could have handled it a lot better. The fact that I am still annoyed at the offhand manner in which it was handled two weeks after the event warrants a negative in my book.

Bro I totally get your point but to me it does not matter if she is £80/ph or 200/ph the facts point you was almost certainly destined for a shit punt due to sleep deprivation. I am scratching my head why two weeks on you can't see that?

It is your experience  and your review so it is a negative however on reflection in the same position I would have given her a nuetral on the basis she gave me ample notice and time to find substitute pussy.