Paying for unexpected extras.

[daveymagoo70]

My quandary is this. I visit a lady for a massage on a regular basis. She has always stated that nothing else is on offer. I respect this and continue my visits as it is a good massage.
On 1 particular visit she knew i had a birthday approaching and as i wasnt seeing her until after would i like a special ending. Well, who am i to refuse. She then said it would be an extra £20 and i must not talk about it as she is a legitimate business and could not afford a bad reputation. I agreed to this and i must say i had 1 of the best HE i have experienced. On the next visit it was back to normal, no HE but on my most recent visit i was given the special treatment again. I was not asked if i wanted it but also didnt stop it happening. Now my question is, is there an unwritten agreement to pay for said extra as i had paid before or could i have not given the extra £20 as it wasnt agreed beforehand.
I am not trying to be a tight wad but it just crossed my mind am i paying for something i didnt ask for but got.

[winkywanky]

Firstly, she probably was offering a HE for extra all along (and surely provided it for others) but you'd never asked. Depending on the girl and the establishment, HEs may not always be offered, the girl will wait to be asked. This way they keep their legit customers, but also keep themselves open to earning extra money should the customer ask.

She obviously saw you as a 'safe' regular and when talk of your birthday came up, she decided to raise the issue now that she had an excuse, so to speak. You took her up on it.

Your next booking wasn't a birthday so she went back to 'let the customer ask' mode. You didn't ask    .

A bit further down the line, she got fed up waiting for you to ask, so she just did it anyway. And lying there with a boner, you're not gonna say no, are you? Presumably you paid the extra on that occasion. If you hadn't, it'd be back to just doing a normal massage for you. And so it goes, round and round in circles  .

I think basically, you just need to decide what you want, and ask her for it. If you continue not asking, she'll probably wank you off every so often anyway, and should you choose not to pay her the extra £20 she'll either never offer it to you again or she'll refuse to see you.

[David1970]

My first ever punt, the SP wanted extra £5 to take her clothes off.
I paid it, these days I would have walked.

[daveymagoo70]

Wise words WW , thanks. The subject had been broached in the past, especially when lying there and the towel is not hiding whats going on underneath, but all it got was a slap on the erection and told i was naughty.

But going on that train if thought, the next time she says its getting hot in here, i will tell her to get her kit off. 

I did pay the last time when i wasnt asked, didnt want to balls up a good thing, i will definitely have to see how far this can go.
Thanks again.

[Bigwilts]

In other circumstances if someone took hold of your cock you wouldn’t be obliged to let them carry on.


Say you are in a bar, are approached by a woman, have a drink, she invites you to her place  and on closing the door she ravishes you. 
In normal life I would attribute that to having pulled, but being aware of ladies that take money for that activity, depending on circumstances I would wonder about motivation.  I would expect a ‘provider’ to give some form of indication that she intended a business relationship

In this normal massage example, I would know that the hand on my cock was under the previous implication that a price was to be paid, and I would be obliged to decline if I didn’t intend to pay

[RAJEC]

Just leave a score in plain view when you go for a massage. Guaranteed to get stroked off every time 

[winkywanky]

Just leave a score in plain view when you go for a massage. Guaranteed to get stroked off every time 

Yes, a 10/10 for both style and content should do the trick  .

[Beamer]

The first time I got to fuck one of my regular FBSM providers we had not agreed any price as she (and me) just carried on what comes (naturally) next. Price was irrelevant and sorted amicably after the event. Both were happy with experience and cost and FS became the norm on subsequent visits

[catweazle]

I have, in the past, had masseuses gradually up the services offered, as they get to know you and trust you. (HJ, tits out, titjob, covered BJ, uncovered BJ through to FS).

Each increment carried an unspoken agreement that it would cost a bit more than the previous offering.

This girl will be regularly doing HEs (maybe more) but is a bit shy of offering as such, so waits for you to ask.

[Beamer]

+1

Another FBSM provider sent me a text to ask me to make sure I went to Boots or another chemist before I  arrived. Took me 2 minutes to work it out. Glad I bought a 6 pack !!