how risky is DFK? I love the idea of it, but am terrified of passing something on to the missus like Chylmydia - do you have any recommendations as to the best / discreet STD tests for when I do my first so I can relax?
Not risky at all. You certainly can’t catch Chlamydia from a snog

If you use the search box on the top right of the page you will find links to all the threads mentioning sti’s
Eg just type in - say Chlamydia- and bingo!
If you take sensible precautions re oral sex you should be fine, but remember punting is not for the faint hearted.
If you can’t stand the heat - don’t even walk into the kitchen!
