This was the first time I have come away from a session and been unclear about whether it was a good or indifferent experience. I think it was probably a neutral but you might disagree on hearing the facts. It certainly wasn't bad and if anyone deserves a negative then it was me.
Communications from Barbara aren't great, she doesn't respond to email and it takes her a while to answer text messages, when she does they don't make a lot of sense and I had to clarify what she was saying.
On arrival I was offered a shower but I had literally just showered at my hotel and told her this, she still insisted that I wash my hands due to 'germs on door handles.' I certainly wasn't disappointed with Barbara, on arrival she was wearing a cute short gold coloured dress and she definitely has an unconventional kind of beauty that really works for me. She was slightly bigger than I expected both in height and dress size, I'd say she was a 10/12 but she's got a great figure and an easy relaxed confidence that makes you realise why she is so good in front of the camera when making porn movies. Her hair was dyed another shade of red which to my mind was a shame. I would have liked to have seen her natural hair colour. She knows that she has two USP's, she is a redhead and she is a porn star. She appears to do very well for customers due to both counts so why dye the hair? It all started off very well, she cosy'd up to me whilst stood up and started to kiss me and undress me before getting down on her knees in front of me and giving me fantastic owl. She is very skilled at this. What I was immediately conscious of was that there was another girl in the flat, she made no attempt to disguise this fact and at one point I even heard the other girl talking to a guy outside the bedroom door. This kind of fucked everything up for me, I wasn't comfortable and I struggled to stay hard at times. The other thing that factored into this, or at least I think it did, was the fact that I'd just gotten over a 3 week illness, I thought I was back on form but on starting to exert myself I realised I wasn't quite right and was sweating profusely. It was just one of those days when it wasn't gonna work for me despite Barbara's best efforts.
There were a few reasons why I think she only deserves a neutral despite my own failings.
1. She refused to do cowgirl as she said she didn't like it. A bit odd I thought.
2. She did anal once but then refused a second entry later in the session.
3. With 25 minutes still left she indicated that we should stop because I wasn't going to come today. I responded that we still had plenty of time left yet and she then suggested I wank myself off whilst watching her masturbate. This is what I did before eventually coming over her tits.
The sex was all over in 45 minutes and we then chatted for 15 minutes where she was very open about sharing details about herself. She is a really sweet girl and there is no doubt that she has skills but despite her two USP's it just never quite worked for me. That being said I quite enjoyed meeting Barbara but it was definitely a one time deal.
Also another mental note to self to not punt immediately after an illness and to not punt out of habit. It was definitely one of those occasions where I booked despite not feeling particularly up for it. A lot of this was due to the fact that I wanted to catch Barbara before she left Birmingham in a couple of days but I should have waited and I'm sure I would have enjoyed it a lot more.