Seeking.com (London)

[PLeisure]

Does anyone else have a trigger that makes them instantly dismiss a profile?

If there's even a hint of The Eiffel Tower in any of the profile pictures then I'm out.

I have no idea why.

The Burj, also - but, yeah, Eiffel is like some lame visual shorthand for 'living the luxury life'.

[Heph]

Does anyone else have a trigger that makes them instantly dismiss a profile?

You may be focussing on visuals here, for which my trigger-moments are

1. fatties, obvs. Additional adverse mental-health warnings, viz: bright, unnatural hair dye; facial ironmongery; trout-pouts and overabundant tattoos
2. pictures taken in the bogs

but I'm also trigger-happy on the words they choose, so -

3. reference in their copy to any 2 or more of the following: "I'm a kind person"; "PhD"; "spoiled/spoil me"; "princess"; "handbag"; "[any star sign]" or "lifestyle"

You may well imagine that this renders >75% of all profiles utterly beyond the Pale before I even start in earnest

[bigden40]

Does anyone else have a trigger that makes them instantly dismiss a profile?

If there's even a hint of The Eiffel Tower in any of the profile pictures then I'm out.

I have no idea why.

Snapchat filters

[Punting2022]

Snapchat filters

Everyone then as all gen z use it

[PLeisure]

You may be focussing on visuals here, for which my trigger-moments are

1. fatties, obvs. Additional adverse mental-health warnings, viz: bright, unnatural hair dye; facial ironmongery; trout-pouts and overabundant tattoos
2. pictures taken in the bogs

but I'm also trigger-happy on the words they choose, so -

3. reference in their copy to any 2 or more of the following: "I'm a kind person"; "PhD"; "spoiled/spoil me"; "princess"; "handbag"; "[any star sign]" or "lifestyle"

You may well imagine that this renders >75% of all profiles utterly beyond the Pale before I even start in earnest

Oh, yeah - I go all in on toilet selfies. Thankfully, once the absurdity has been pointed out, their uber-sensitive minds manage to find my observations accurate.

"Treat me like the princess I am". Hard swerve 

[bigden40]

Everyone then as all gen z use it

False

Everyone =/= Gen Z and even most Gen Z are wise enough not to use it on their seeking profile.

[bigden40]

Oh, yeah - I go all in on toilet selfies. Thankfully, once the absurdity has been pointed out, their uber-sensitive minds manage to find my observations accurate.

"Treat me like the princess I am". Hard swerve 

“Treat me like a princess” - what, lock you in a tower?

The propensity for toilet selfies I’m told is to do with mirrors and lighting

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Build chemistry

[paul_tall_]

The propensity for toilet selfies I’m told is to do with mirrors and lighting

the gym selfie seems popular also probably for the same mirror and lightening reason

[Punting2022]

Build chemistry

Number one excuse no sex. Lets build chemistry first. I want an allowance to build that

[Iceman007]

Recently rejoined seeking still have the usual bunch you have to filter through

Esra £50 deposit
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Nini travels to London often, happy to meet but no intimacy
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Rosie content seller
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Jessie - this was an interesting one we chatted on WhatsApp for a while and also spoke to her she seemed genuine and nice. Agreed a date and location not too far from where she said she was was staying was in regular communication, an hour before I said let me know when you leave and she asked for money for a taxi return £50 and showed me the price but no location details I was like I will book it for you and then do the return after we meet but she was I always get this paid upfront…I moved on. I was a little wary as comms were slow so I hadn’t booked any hotel.
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Henna - looking for £20 here and there
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Bella - I did see her recently £400, nice and friendly but she wasnt all that kissing and oral was ok and her pussy smelled had the smell on my fingers even after washing a few times
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[PLeisure]

Recently rejoined seeking still have the usual bunch you have to filter through

Jessie - this was an interesting one we chatted on WhatsApp for a while and also spoke to her she seemed genuine and nice. Agreed a date and location not too far from where she said she was was staying was in regular communication, an hour before I said let me know when you leave and she asked for money for a taxi return £50 and showed me the price but no location details I was like I will book it for you and then do the return after we meet but she was I always get this paid upfront…I moved on. I was a little wary as comms were slow so I hadn’t booked any hotel.
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Bella - I did see her recently £400, nice and friendly but she wasnt all that kissing and oral was ok and her pussy smelled had the smell on my fingers even after washing a few times
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Thanks

Jessie looks good, too bad she pushed for upfront payment

Bella has been mentioned on here a few times. The first echoed your experience, then some others chimed in to say that she was a fun meet.
On that basis, I set up a date. She'd just had her boobs done in Turkey and had returned from holiday in Marbella. Her complexion was like mahogany. I reached in for a kiss but it wasn't happening. I had to cut short the 'date' as her chavinness was the final straw.

[londonhunter008]

Lacey 21 Not in UK right now. Expecting payed date of over 500 just to see if she like a man or not  and gives lecture about what seeking is all about 
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[paul_tall_]

Thanks

Jessie looks good, too bad she pushed for upfront payment

Bella has been mentioned on here a few times. The first echoed your experience, then some others chimed in to say that she was a fun meet.
On that basis, I set up a date. She'd just had her boobs done in Turkey and had returned from holiday in Marbella. Her complexion was like mahogany. I reached in for a kiss but it wasn't happening. I had to cut short the 'date' as her chavinness was the final straw.

How did Bella react to you cutting it short ? I’m guessing her photos are her very recent then with tan and new boobs . Did you hand over any allowance ?

[PLeisure]

How did Bella react to you cutting it short ? I’m guessing her photos are her very recent then with tan and new boobs . Did you hand over any allowance ?

She took it personally at first - then insisted on the full amount being paid. It was 25% less than indicated above.
I wasn't going to quibble; paid up and she was on her way back home

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only - Elena

500 ppm

[paul_tall_]

She took it personally at first - then insisted on the full amount being paid. It was 25% less than indicated above.
I wasn't going to quibble; paid up and she was on her way back home

do you reckon she has done this before ?

[Punting2022]

do you reckon she has done this before ?

Someone's seen bella before. He mentioned he paid her ticket to Leicester had her for 350 overnight because she couldn't get train back. Or he purposely booked a late train to keep her there.

Shes done it before. I had a convo with her, But she wanted 400. Didnt appeal to me as attractive so left it.

[Famy8989]

External Link/Members Only - Elena

500 ppm

Has anyone actually managed to meet her though? And does she look as good as the gym pics she’s got. She just stopped replying to me on telegram a few weeks ago

[Famy8989]

Hannah - External Link/Members Only
Wanted 400. Went for it because she showed me some pictures of her body.
Met for coffee. Not attractive for me so parted ways. I think she has autism too, seemed very adhd/roboty.
Anyone else meet her or did I just meet her on a bad day? She said she had work and was hungover from the day before but just seemed a bit rough, hair and even smell wise. She also met me an hour 15 late, but I don’t live too far so wasn’t fussed.

[Jardent6]

Hannah - External Link/Members Only
Wanted 400. Went for it because she showed me some pictures of her body.
Met for coffee. Not attractive for me so parted ways. I think she has autism too, seemed very adhd/roboty.
Anyone else meet her or did I just meet her on a bad day? She said she had work and was hungover from the day before but just seemed a bit rough, hair and even smell wise. She also met me an hour 15 late, but I don’t live too far so wasn’t fussed.

She looks rough in her photos wouldn’t pay 250 let alone 400.

[bash_eer]

She agreed to 200. She spoke about being on meds and off work I assume depression or anxiety related. I didnt meet her.

[BeingSilent]

Funny how so many girls suddenly start messaging, following, liking and favourting your profile the exact moment your subscription ends…

Some would think it’s done on purpose…

[Famy8989]

Funny how so many girls suddenly start messaging, following, liking and favourting your profile the exact moment your subscription ends…

Some would think it’s done on purpose…

Haha, right. I think it’s seeking staff with fake accounts.

[Famy8989]

Emmy - External Link/Members Only
I know she’s been mentioned a few times. But scammer in my experience. Avoid.

Iz - External Link/Members Only
Gen Z raver type. Will agree to intimate but you gotta be firm. Might want to meet for dinner and expect £. Wants 600ppm, got her to 500 but she’s still a bit needy.

Jo - External Link/Members Only
Wants to meet first then decide if intimate. Wants ppm for a casual dinner date but again, set out your expectations and she’ll agree to ppm only for intimacy. £500. She needs to humble herself a little I think, I’ve fucked models for cheaper, she initially asked for £1000 haha.

[Jumping Jack Flash]

Haha, right. I think it’s seeking staff with fake accounts.

That’s an awful lot of staff needed to do that, it’s more likely to be AI bots.

[Jardent6]

I don’t think it’s bots but I think what happens is they boost your account towards the end of membership.

[Punting2022]

the site has a new design. Click on pics and they show smaller. Before used to be big so you can see properly

[Jardent6]

External Link/Members Only - Ilham, 28

External Link/Members Only - Clara, 25

Has anyone seen or got any intel on either of these 2? Both peaked my interest and hopefully will set up a meet with either of them next week

[bash_eer]

External Link/Members Only Sophie 31

Anyone spoke to or met her?
I been have talking to her and seems up for almost anything very friendly not a hint of attitude. While she isn't model looks and more girl next door type something in my head is saying to good to be true.

[bigden40]

External Link/Members Only Sophie 31

Anyone spoke to or met her?
I been have talking to her and seems up for almost anything very friendly not a hint of attitude. While she isn't model looks and more girl next door type something in my head is saying to good to be true.

TGTBT?  Not really.  She looks a decade or two older than her stated age, either that or she’s had a tough paper round!

[notamagnumguy]

I think I'm gonna get banned for making a post/rant while having no reviews which is fair enough, but WTF is going on with Seeking.  Only 5 years ago you could quite easily find a stunner in or just out of Uni who was normal, friendly, just maybe a bit bored with life.  Kind, aspirational, well spoken.  Blah.

Now holy fuck... I often find myself thinking, damn she's not in my league (as in below it, which is remarkable) and/or immediate signs of being not entirely together.

The previous sector of being not a Dubai influencer type prostitute but also way above average looks type seems to have disappeared entirely.  Now it's largely one or the other.  Someone as rough as me or £2,000 for someone off Instagram for cold barren intercourse.

Anyway, all the best as I'm sure I will now be banned.   

[notamagnumguy]

Ellie - External Link/Members Only
Similar to above. Experienced in kink. 400 ppm

I met Ellie once but afterwards she was talking about her lifestyle and it turns out she has literally shagged half of London so went off future meets. Luckily it was all protected but that's a bit too much of an onward chain for me... ordered an STD kit in the cab home!

[Punting2022]

I think I'm gonna get banned for making a post/rant while having no reviews which is fair enough, but WTF is going on with Seeking.  Only 5 years ago you could quite easily find a stunner in or just out of Uni who was normal, friendly, just maybe a bit bored with life.  Kind, aspirational, well spoken.  Blah.

Now holy fuck... I often find myself thinking, damn she's not in my league (as in below it, which is remarkable) and/or immediate signs of being not entirely together.

The previous sector of being not a Dubai influencer type prostitute but also way above average looks type seems to have disappeared entirely.  Now it's largely one or the other.  Someone as rough as me or £2,000 for someone off Instagram for cold barren intercourse.

Anyway, all the best as I'm sure I will now be banned.   

Girls no longer need the cash at uni etc possibly. Have other methods of finding now.
These IG stunners get attention from anywhere on night outs etc. Why have the hassle of a website when you can just go out minimal effort and pick a man to pay for drinks and go further from there. I think a lot is now offline to the site. The site was good 5 years ago. But girls may have other methods.

Uni has started and i cant find any decent new talent. Going abroad there's lots of ladies in spain france etc.

[notamagnumguy]

Girls no longer need the cash at uni etc possibly. Have other methods of finding now.
These IG stunners get attention from anywhere on night outs etc. Why have the hassle of a website when you can just go out minimal effort and pick a man to pay for drinks and go further from there. I think a lot is now offline to the site. The site was good 5 years ago. But girls may have other methods.

Uni has started and i cant find any decent new talent. Going abroad there's lots of ladies in spain france etc.

I think there's a morality shift as well for the good looking intelligent ones.  They see social media as poison more and more and Seeking is getting lumped in with that.  But yeah... fuck it's depressing I didn't realise what a gold mine it used to be in that regard.

[notamagnumguy]

Absolutely 👍a typical meet = very beautiful Malaysian student nurse. Great legs. Went to lots of trouble to dress to impress. £300 per meet. Excellent attitude = nowadays (since about 2 years ago for me)  it’s all a bit lacklustre. Back then I was juggling multi Asian ladies £300 max each even for overnights.
Rivalled the Asian escorts I was seeing. Just something about spending an evening with a dolled up Asian chick dinner drinks theatre knowing in a few hours she’ll be in stockings blowing you and your tongue up her arse and fanny.

£700 is about as low as they go now.

None Asian ladies uk/usa around £400 still but I clearly don’t fancy them 🥢

Not active much at all these days and I’m thoroughly miserable 😞  it’s not just the money as I’d pay a bit for the right girl but so many want several fully paid up platonic dates initially before any sex. I’m skeptical after 3/4 platonic meets they’ll just move on to the next sucker and I won’t even get a sniff.
In fact this happened to someone I message regularly.  A girl I suspected of doing this, did him the dirty.

It’s a different game now hence why I’m starting to look at escorts again.

Did you meet this girl in the end - (External Link/Members Only

I love Asians as you do, but the average Seeking Asian girl is waaaay below the average you'd meet in the bar it's so depressing!

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Just after some information.

Are we able to post about the other seeking sites? Links etc?

Have had tremendous success chasing Asians on seeking benefits. Have 4/5 ladies lined up from £200 to £400 depending on how much I fancy them.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Did you meet this girl in the end - (External Link/Members Only

I love Asians as you do, but the average Seeking Asian girl is waaaay below the average you'd meet in the bar it's so depressing!

No I left the site in a fit of rage 😤(deactivated mid sub)  being thoroughly pissed about by the Asian fraternity on there. Ruined my stay in London, ended up seeing a hippo escort for a rub ‘ n tug to salvage something.

Agree.  I see hot Asians all day walking around, even chatted to a pretty lady in the queue at the Natural History Museum (hi if she’s reading this) those on seeking less so. Less appealing.  More appalling.

I stumbled upon seeking benefits and have had success immediately.

[Mr Garmin]

I think I'm gonna get banned for making a post/rant while having no reviews which is fair enough, but WTF is going on with Seeking.  Only 5 years ago you could quite easily find a stunner in or just out of Uni who was normal, friendly, just maybe a bit bored with life.  Kind, aspirational, well spoken.  Blah.

The world has changed massively in the last 5 years or so.  Everything is the same but completely different.  Everybody I know feels it and I suspect that it's never going back to how it used to be.

It's difficult to describe why without breeching the no politics rule but I bet many on her know even if they won't openly admit it.

Meet the new normal.

[notamagnumguy]

I stumbled upon seeking benefits and have had success immediately.

Interesting I always thought it was basically a scam but will check it out, thank you.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Interesting I always thought it was basically a scam but will check it out, thank you.

I’m sure there are scams there too.
I only message girls I like who have a verification video. You can talk freely on there. Had a long conversation this morning with an Asian chick about anal. Seeking would’ve lost their collective shit !!!! 

Could’ve met between 3/4 pretty Asians tonight if I was in London. Only one asked the money question. Might be TGTBT though. Take it easy.

[Punting2022]

Just after some information.

Are we able to post about the other seeking sites? Links etc?

Have had tremendous success chasing Asians on seeking benefits. Have 4/5 ladies lined up from £200 to £400 depending on how much I fancy them.

People have posted other sites. Its still an arrangement.
What is the subscription for seeking benefits

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Different method. You buy upfront credits which are used to unlock individual ladies messages. Certainly open to scamming as they could be bots.

It’s 10 credits per message but once you unlock this all other messages to that chick are then free. I’m on WhatsApp by then though. You will need to pay the same for each of their private videos and a set of private photos. From what I’ve seen these photos are much more revealing. Plus no limits on discussion topics.
Verification video is free however not every girl has them, most tend to do.
About £40 / £50 for 100 credits.

Seems the girls are there to fuck for money so maybe less BS than seeking? The ones I’ve chatted too are 100% ppm. No let’s just connect first BS. Pretty Asian ladies too. No munters.

I’ve learnt to meet for dinner / drinks first then go from there, don’t mention money until you’re leaving … it’s cheaper and more likely she will end up in your bedroom for a decent price. 

[Punting2022]

Different method. You buy upfront credits which are used to unlock individual ladies messages. Certainly open to scamming as they could be bots.

It’s 10 credits per message but once you unlock this all other messages to that chick are then free. I’m on WhatsApp by then though. You will need to pay the same for each of their private videos and a set of private photos. From what I’ve seen these photos are much more revealing. Plus no limits on discussion topics.
Verification video is free however not every girl has them, most tend to do.
About £40 / £50 for 100 credits.

Seems the girls are there to fuck for money so maybe less BS than seeking? The ones I’ve chatted too are 100% ppm. No let’s just connect first BS. Pretty Asian ladies too. No munters.

I’ve learnt to meet for dinner / drinks first then go from there, don’t mention money until you’re leaving … it’s cheaper and more likely she will end up in your bedroom for a decent price.

Sounds good, 50 pounds for 100 credits is ok tbh. Still cheaper then seeking. May try it.

[southcoastpunter]

The last few posts - do we mean “secret benefits” rather than “seeking benefits “ or is this two different and separate sites??

[BeingSilent]

Different method. You buy upfront credits which are used to unlock individual ladies messages. Certainly open to scamming as they could be bots.

It’s 10 credits per message but once you unlock this all other messages to that chick are then free. I’m on WhatsApp by then though. You will need to pay the same for each of their private videos and a set of private photos. From what I’ve seen these photos are much more revealing. Plus no limits on discussion topics.
Verification video is free however not every girl has them, most tend to do.
About £40 / £50 for 100 credits.

Seems the girls are there to fuck for money so maybe less BS than seeking? The ones I’ve chatted too are 100% ppm. No let’s just connect first BS. Pretty Asian ladies too. No munters.

I’ve learnt to meet for dinner / drinks first then go from there, don’t mention money until you’re leaving … it’s cheaper and more likely she will end up in your bedroom for a decent price.

Recently joined SB and the number of messages is mad.  WAY more than Seeking.  Need to find someone who I am going to enjoy meeting tho.  Thats the hard part.  Whats the PPM range on SB?

[BeingSilent]

The last few posts - do we mean “secret benefits” rather than “seeking benefits “ or is this two different and separate sites??

I am referring to Secret Benefits in my reply above

[koshkaj]

Seems the girls are there to fuck for money so maybe less BS than seeking? The ones I’ve chatted too are 100% ppm. No let’s just connect first BS.

i have mentioned this before in this thread, but reading this, again makes me think it's pretty much the same as booking an escort, but requires more work at higher cost 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Recently joined SB and the number of messages is mad.  WAY more than Seeking.  Need to find someone who I am going to enjoy meeting tho.  Thats the hard part.  Whats the PPM range on SB?

Only one lady has asked for a price up front Brazilian chick asked if £400 would be possible to help her out?

One casual lady was ok with £300.


My go to rate is £400. For the night not an hour or two though.

[paul_tall_]

I am referring to Secret Benefits in my reply above

Whilst there might be some genuine girls on there , the site is also linked to sugar daddy something or other or was last time I chatted to someone . IMO there are bots / fake profiles sending out messages to get you to spend a credit to read. Having logged on again yesterday and looking now I have a dozen messages from mainly London located profiles already