Observations between seeking.com (or seeking cim as I call it) and seeking Benefits
I haven’t bought any credits yet for Seeking Benefits but as I understand it 10 are needed to read / begin messaging each individual ….. then all subsequent message between you are free (I’m usually on WhatsApp by then though)
They just sent me an advertisement blurb / spam
It’s got a different vibe

made me less anxious about banging my own 20 year old Chinese maths student who invited me to her university digs to do the deed / fucking a pretty 21 years old Malaysian student nurse

Hello xxxxxxxxxxxx
Have you ever seen a hot girl and wondered, "Wow, what it would take to date her?" Some girls are so stunning to behold, I speculate to myself that a guy would have to be a rich CEO, a movie star, or some kind of heir to a throne, in order to have a woman like that on his arm.
But what if you weren't any of those things? What if you were just a hard-working, average-looking guy... like me? What would it take for a woman like that to be with a guy like me?
I couldn't help but wonder these things. Every day I would feel the pull of attraction from gorgeous women whose paths cross with mine... on the train, at the grocery store, or the mall - good lord, I thought... they're everywhere.
Not only are they everywhere, thanks to Secret Benefits, they're actually easier to get a date with than you'd imagine. Don't believe me? Follow me for a moment into a glorious place commonly referred to as "the sugar bowl," and I'll make you a believer.
My first arrangement was with Cathy, a 21-year-old college girl. Then, a month or two later, I met a 24-year old nurse named Elise, and we hit it off spectacularly. Recently, I've been spending time with a 19-year old Asian minx named Miko - And I still occasionally browse the site to see who my next adventure will be with! When you're having as much fun as I am, can you blame me for wanting to push this thing just as far as I can?
About 6 months after I became a member, I decided to see how quickly I could meet a new girl. Could I make an arrangement on the same day, for example? I was certainly up for the challenge, and I probably felt extra confident because I knew that if I failed... Cathy the college girl was ready and willing to blow my mind again, and she was just a phone call away.
Variety is the spice of life - I’m sure you know this all too well. Don't get me wrong, it's always fun to revisit favorite experiences with familiar girls, but on this particular day the urge for something new was too strong to ignore.
I had a couple of existing conversations happening that I tried to speed up, but I knew my best chance was going to be contacting 10-20 new women, and starting completely fresh. Surely a few would be online and have free time today, I thought.
I messaged 17 women in one furious bout of searching, and within an hour I had 4 responses! By lunch, there were 11! I feel a little bad for the girls who took too long, because by the end of my day I was already in deep conversation with Emily, a 26-year old single mom. Needless to say, we both ended the evening extremely satisfied.
It can happen that quickly on Secret Benefits. Not only is this scenario common for men like me, but I can repeat it, again and again, for as long as I want, with as many women as I want! The site is user-friendly, the women are motivated to make something work, and all it takes to be a success in the sugar bowl is to be... a success in life: The kind of guy who always picks up the tab and spoils his women rotten. Think you can handle that?
That's what I thought.
Cheers