Author Topic: Seeking.com (London)  (Read 1997141 times)

Offline Wtt2014

Why do you go to such length to remain anonymous?

I’m not trying to be facetious here but just interested in understanding your reasons? I have my own

As with many things in life, the risks are low but the stakes are high.

There's very little up-side to anyone knowing precisely who you are, and so the potential downsides don't need to be all that substantial to justify a bit of evasive manoeuvring. As it happens, the downsides can range from 'slightly embarrassing' all the way up to 'legally problematic', depending on the scruples of the people in question, not all of whom you're going to know well enough to have a decent handle on if you can trust or not. (Pretty much anyone could make your life a misery, but it's especially the case if they know something about you that you'd prefer to keep quiet.)

HOWEVER I'd say that the main impetus behind the burner phone/account stuff isn't actually about being anonymous and is, rather, about being able to simply toss the phone into a skip and walk away without any danger of it bleeding over into the rest of your life. The 'unique photos' and 'check in first' suggestions are of trivial inconvenience.

Offline Mr Garmin

All sensible advice and 20 years ago I'd have done all of the above, however now:

I have no one to answer to
I have no one to be embarrassed
I have no employer to get upset
I'm doing nothing illegal (and if I was and the authorities needed to make something of it they'd still be able to find me)
I can't get anybody pregnant
I'm not famous or in a position that makes me blackmailable
I have nothing to lose
In short I DGAF anymore

Offline bash_eer

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.


External Link/Members Only Jade 19
Wants Monthly Allowance says she don't entertain PPM and shouldn’t expect  sex as it something that needs to be earned

External Link/Members Only Oxi 21
Asks for 500 will take a lot less and she says she wont have sex or kiss happy suck dick and go out on dates..

External Link/Members Only Miya 29
Ask for 500 will go down to 450. Will meet for about 4 hours can only meet daytime


External Link/Members Only Rae 21
Asks for 500 I counter with 250 didn't except possible she will come down from 500

External Link/Members Only Tina 25
Will not budge from 400,, she already been discussed here Didnt like her Attitude over WhatApp.

External Link/Members Only Becca 24
This one is a fruit loop, talks alot of shit strings you along for a meet but is just a content seller in big denial.

External Link/Members Only  Emily 28
This one is a time waster acts like she wants to meet but  just wants to sell content.

External Link/Members Only Lay 19
Just wants to sell content

External Link/Members Only Kay 20
Wanted 500 went  down to 400 and wants taxi covered to.

External Link/Members Only Jasmine 31
Wants 350 will come down 250 can host

External Link/Members Only Angel 22
Escort

External Link/Members Only Alyssa 19
Shared her number but no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Ria 28
Asked for 300 for a couple of hours, likes to factor in Travel time then asked for 400 for a longer meet.

External Link/Members Only Laurie 27
Asks for 400 and didnt really entertain counter offer

External Link/Members Only Kateryana 31
Wants to meet for a coffee first to see if there is vibe will not discuss ppm until a vibe is established.

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host
External Link/Members Only Elle 41
Wants 350 when counter with a lower offer comes back with 400

External Link/Members Only Yasmine 29
Without make up a very different looking person. Will take 200 for a whole night and host as well.


External Link/Members Only Masise 22
Provided number and then no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Giana 18
Wants to spoiled no intimacy only hugs and pecks on the cheek.

External Link/Members Only Niko 39
Offered her 250 she took real offence to it saying she is not an easy person.

External Link/Members Only Nae 19
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Madison 19
Scammer

External Link/Members Only Nicolle 26
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only  Rose 26
SB Pro Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Lara 23

External Link/Members Only Layla 25
Wants 400 wont go lower than 300 not timed. Wants travel cost covered will not use Public transport.

External Link/Members Only ellie 21
Says she is travelling in Spain so will only meet when back. Wants Online fun

External Link/Members Only Ana 20
Asks for 300 will take 200 but wants cab paid for.

External Link/Members Only Joshna 34
Will not chat on Telegram but you need to pay to send her message on  Telegram

External Link/Members Only Elle 36
Asks for 450 will take 350 Pro SB

External Link/Members Only Rosie 22
Wants 350, accepted 200 if ubers are covered

External Link/Members Only Beatriz 25
Wants 500 and wants dates.

External Link/Members Only May 20
Wants 350 but would 200 if regular not on a first meet

External Link/Members Only  Popai 19
Misinterpreted what I said suspect English isn’t her first language and literarily said “ I do this for money” I did not want to engage on talking further  on the site.

External Link/Members Only Nicol 37
Asks for 250 accepted 200 but will only meet at a hotel in Dartford.

External Link/Members Only Milena 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Maya 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Brooke 18
Scammer Content seller

External Link/Members Only Nini 20
Not even in London only wants to be spoilt doubt she will even meet even  for a platonic.

External Link/Members Only Faye 19
Says she is a virgin and wants to wait for the right person. Wants dates, Money and Gifts. No intimacy 
« Last Edit: September 02, 2026, 02:58:44 pm by bash_eer »

Offline Robinator

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.


External Link/Members Only Jade 19
Wants Monthly Allowance says she don't entertain PPM and shouldn’t expect  sex as it something that needs to be earned

External Link/Members Only Oxi 21
Asks for 500 will take a lot less and she says she wont have sex or kiss happy suck dick and go out on dates..

External Link/Members Only Miya 29
Ask for 500 will go down to 450. Will meet for about 4 hours can only meet daytime


External Link/Members Only Rae 21
Asks for 500 I counter with 250 didn't except possible she will come down from 500

External Link/Members Only Tina 25
Will not budge from 400,, she already been discussed here Didnt like her Attitude over WhatApp.

External Link/Members Only Becca 24
This one is a fruit loop, talks alot of shit strings you along for a meet but is just a content seller in big denial.

External Link/Members Only  Emily 28
This one is a time waster acts like she wants to meet but  just wants to sell content.

External Link/Members Only Lay 19
Just wants to sell content

External Link/Members Only Kay 20
Wanted 500 went  down to 400 and wants taxi covered to.

External Link/Members Only Jasmine 31
Wants 350 will come down 250 can host

External Link/Members Only Angel 22
Escort

External Link/Members Only Alyssa 19
Shared her number but no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Ria 28
Asked for 300 for a couple of hours, likes to factor in Travel time then asked for 400 for a longer meet.

External Link/Members Only Laurie 27
Asks for 400 and didnt really entertain counter offer

External Link/Members Only Kateryana 31
Wants to meet for a coffee first to see if there is vibe will not discuss ppm until a vibe is established.

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host
External Link/Members Only Elle 41
Wants 350 when counter with a lower offer comes back with 400

External Link/Members Only Yasmine 29
Without make up a very different looking person. Will take 200 for a whole night and host as well.


External Link/Members Only Masise 22
Provided number and then no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Giana 18
Wants to spoiled no intimacy only hugs and pecks on the cheek.

External Link/Members Only Niko 39
Offered her 250 she took real offence to it saying she is not an easy person.

External Link/Members Only Nae 19
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Madison 19
Scammer

External Link/Members Only Nicolle 26
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only  Rose 26
SB Pro Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Lara 23

External Link/Members Only Layla 25
Wants 400 wont go lower than 300 not timed. Wants travel cost covered will not use Public transport.

External Link/Members Only ellie 21
Says she is travelling in Spain so will only meet when back. Wants Online fun

External Link/Members Only Ana 20
Asks for 300 will take 200 but wants cab paid for.

External Link/Members Only Joshna 34
Will not chat on Telegram but you need to pay to send her message on  Telegram

External Link/Members Only Elle 36
Asks for 450 will take 350 Pro SB

External Link/Members Only Rosie 22
Wants 350, accepted 200 if ubers are covered

External Link/Members Only Beatriz 25
Wants 500 and wants dates.

External Link/Members Only May 20
Wants 350 but would 200 if regular not on a first meet

External Link/Members Only  Popai 19
Misinterpreted what I said suspect English isn’t her first language and literarily said “ I do this for money” I did not want to engage on talking further  on the site.

External Link/Members Only Nicol 37
Asks for 250 accepted 200 but will only meet at a hotel in Dartford.

External Link/Members Only Milena 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Maya 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Brooke 18
Scammer Content seller

External Link/Members Only Nini 20
Not even in London only wants to be spoilt doubt she will even meet even  for a platonic.

External Link/Members Only Faye 19
Says she is a virgin and wants to wait for the right person. Wants dates, Money and Gifts. No intimacy


Thanks, you have any experience with this one? She is an escort but wondering if anyone knows what her ppm and expectations is as cheaper probably.

External Link/Members Only Stella 27 Latina

Offline bash_eer


Thanks, you have any experience with this one? She is an escort but wondering if anyone knows what her ppm and expectations is as cheaper probably.

External Link/Members Only Stella 27 Latina

I can't access the profile.


Offline Famy8989

Rachy - External Link/Members Only
Looks pretty accurate on pictures but she’s a lot bigger and about 5’7/8 in person. I would say she’s chubby to some peoples taste but a good size for me, nice big ass and tits. Good fun, she tries to keep conversation flowing well. Wanted to meet before going to hotel, she prefers calls over texts. I was going to last minute cancel but decided to go ahead and she was quite understanding. Met outside the hotel and walked in together. Talked for a good hour, she brought a buzz ball with her, she’s very Gen Z raver type, grew up in America/China but very American accent. Bad texter but will pick up calls. She left for a good 10 minutes with my hotel key card saying she’d be calling her cousin. I now know not to do that next time. After coming up, she went to the toilet, used my mouth wash I think😂, and snuggled up in bed with me watching a movie. Hands led to my cock and eventually clothes off and began. Pretty good bj, quite submissive and loud. Tight, smells fresh although I didn’t go down. She’s a close lip kisser with slight bit of tongue, she told me beforehand she’s not a big kisser. Apparently she’s 21. Went 2 rounds and she showered and eventually left with SOME of the gifts I bought her (She’s allergic to nuts… peanuts that is)

Officially my second meet. I prefer seeking to escorts 100%. Much nicer to talk to someone than just pound a girl while she fake moans. I have about 5 more girls potentially lined up, will give more info once I meet. One girl, very very kinky and I’m curious to meet her. Another, the same but kinky-submissive. Final few are uni students who want to have formal dinners but I’m not into that sort of thing, I’d much rather an arcade or escape room that waste time at a formal dinner

Offline PLeisure

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.

External Link/Members Only Lara 23

Thank you for such an exhaustive list, bash  :hi:

Can you remember if there were any details for Lara (23y), please

Offline 90125

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These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.
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Excellent listing post. A good example for all members posting in this Topic.

Offline Irish801

I’m still yet to organise my first Seeking meet, sharing info below to help anyone. Will return to seeking after I’ve seen ticked a few WGs off my hot list.

External Link/Members Only Alessia 25
Wants 800, didn’t negotiate

External Link/Members Only Nikki 24
Wants 500, asked for 250 and said she’s too sexy for those prices. Eventually got her down to 400

External Link/Members Only Dianne 30
Weird vibe from this one. Took very long to reply on site, she agreed to speak on WA but then said if she can message me whenever she wanted. Replied once on WA then radio silence.

External Link/Members Only martyna 21
Conversation was going well, moved to WA, again going really well then radio silence when I mentioned a meet. No PPM discussed.

External Link/Members Only Ayla 25
Wants 600, got her down to 450 if regular. Was really wanting to meet her as she’s exactly my type but couldn’t align with dates.

External Link/Members Only Tasha 28
Wants 400, will go down to 300 if regular. Really nice girl but dates don’t align

External Link/Members Only Klaudia 24
Moroccan. 400 and wouldn’t go lower

External Link/Members Only Rose 25
Wants 400. She sent some additional pictures on WA, she has a cracking body.

External Link/Members Only Grace (Avalon) 25
Pretty sure she’s changed her name on the site recently as she went into my phone as Avalon. Wants 500. 750 for overnight.

External Link/Members Only Alexandra 25
Wants 1000. Got her down to 600.

External Link/Members Only Bambi 25
Wants 400. Organised a day to meet, said we can have a call a few days before. Asked her to let me know when she’s available on the day and never heard from her. Didn’t follow up. Now says her number isn’t available on WA anymore.

External Link/Members Only Rhi 27
Wants 400, got her down to 300. I initially asked her for a day to meet when I was in London, said she wasn’t available so I changed plans to arrive the day before. Couple of days before she said she can’t do the date and wanted to do the day after which she initially said no to. Didn’t follow up.
« Last Edit: September 02, 2026, 09:24:09 pm by Irish801 »

Offline john122350

I’m still yet to organise my first Seeking meet, sharing info below to help anyone. Will return to seeking after I’ve seen ticked a few WGs off my hot list.

External Link/Members Only Alessia 25
Wants 800, didn’t negotiate

External Link/Members Only Nikki 24
Wants 500, asked for 250 and said she’s too sexy for those prices. Eventually got her down to 400

External Link/Members Only Dianne 30
Weird vibe from this one. Took very long to reply on site, she agreed to speak on WA but then said if she can message me whenever she wanted. Replied once on WA then radio silence.

External Link/Members Only martyna 21
Conversation was going well, moved to WA, again going really well then radio silence when I mentioned a meet. No PPM discussed.

External Link/Members Only Ayla 25
Wants 600, got her down to 450 if regular. Was really wanting to meet her as she’s exactly my type but couldn’t align with dates.

External Link/Members Only Tasha 28
Wants 400, will go down to 300 if regular. Really nice girl but dates don’t align

External Link/Members Only Klaudia 24
Moroccan. 400 and wouldn’t go lower

External Link/Members Only Rose 25
Wants 400. She sent some additional pictures on WA, she has a cracking body.

External Link/Members Only Grace (Avalon) 25
Pretty sure she’s changed her name on the site recently as she went into my phone as Avalon. Wants 500. 750 for overnight.

External Link/Members Only Alexandra 25
Wants 1000. Got her down to 600.

External Link/Members Only Bambi 25
Wants 400. Organised a day to meet, said we can have a call a few days before. Asked her to let me know when she’s available on the day and never heard from her. Didn’t follow up. Now says her number isn’t available on WA anymore.

External Link/Members Only Rhi 27
Wants 400, got her down to 300. I initially asked her for a day to meet when I was in London, said she wasn’t available so I changed plans to arrive the day before. Couple of days before she said she can’t do the date and wanted to do the day after which she initially said no to. Didn’t follow up.
Alessia 25 quotes higher but she was willing to do 300 when I spoke with her.

Offline Jardent6

I’m still yet to organise my first Seeking meet, sharing info below to help anyone. Will return to seeking after I’ve seen ticked a few WGs off my hot list.

External Link/Members Only Alessia 25
Wants 800, didn’t negotiate

External Link/Members Only Nikki 24
Wants 500, asked for 250 and said she’s too sexy for those prices. Eventually got her down to 400

External Link/Members Only Dianne 30
Weird vibe from this one. Took very long to reply on site, she agreed to speak on WA but then said if she can message me whenever she wanted. Replied once on WA then radio silence.

External Link/Members Only martyna 21
Conversation was going well, moved to WA, again going really well then radio silence when I mentioned a meet. No PPM discussed.

External Link/Members Only Ayla 25
Wants 600, got her down to 450 if regular. Was really wanting to meet her as she’s exactly my type but couldn’t align with dates.

External Link/Members Only Tasha 28
Wants 400, will go down to 300 if regular. Really nice girl but dates don’t align

External Link/Members Only Klaudia 24
Moroccan. 400 and wouldn’t go lower

External Link/Members Only Rose 25
Wants 400. She sent some additional pictures on WA, she has a cracking body.

External Link/Members Only Grace (Avalon) 25
Pretty sure she’s changed her name on the site recently as she went into my phone as Avalon. Wants 500. 750 for overnight.

External Link/Members Only Alexandra 25
Wants 1000. Got her down to 600.

External Link/Members Only Bambi 25
Wants 400. Organised a day to meet, said we can have a call a few days before. Asked her to let me know when she’s available on the day and never heard from her. Didn’t follow up. Now says her number isn’t available on WA anymore.

External Link/Members Only Rhi 27
Wants 400, got her down to 300. I initially asked her for a day to meet when I was in London, said she wasn’t available so I changed plans to arrive the day before. Couple of days before she said she can’t do the date and wanted to do the day after which she initially said no to. Didn’t follow up.

Thanks for the info , I have my doubts whether Nikki is real , were you able to verify? Perhaps by video call or any other method


Offline bash_eer

Thank you for such an exhaustive list, bash  :hi:

Can you remember if there were any details for Lara (23y), please

She wants 500 i countered with 300 she said no. Didn't pursue any further.
« Last Edit: September 03, 2026, 12:13:51 am by bash_eer »

Offline bash_eer

Excellent listing post. A good example for all members posting in this Topic.

Thanks you kind sir.

Offline Irish801

Thanks for the info , I have my doubts whether Nikki is real , were you able to verify? Perhaps by video call or any other method

Got a voice note from her which seemed legit and that’s about it. Reverse image searches bring up her ig and x profiles. Didn’t pursue as I’m not sure she’s what I’m looking for from my first meet.

Offline paul_tall_

Having looked at the profiles on the two lists above a few of the descriptions on the girls profiles pretty much state they are looking for online , princess treatment with a couple of known previous girls that appear to have new profiles there are also a couple that appear to have a location overseas .
Mention of online , ppm etc or implication of paid for meets is supposedly banned by seeking the moderation process for profiles isn’t very good . I noticed a couple of profiles the other day where the location is London and in the text the person says they are based in Kenya

Offline PLeisure

She wants 500 i countered with 300 she said no. Didn't pursue any further.
Appreciated, Mr b - thank you

Offline crobe824

External Link/Members Only Paris, 30

Anyone met her before?

Did go on to meet her. £200. Do not recommend as she has some crazy vibe. The way she texts and speaks is really odd.

Offline Punting2022

Having looked at the profiles on the two lists above a few of the descriptions on the girls profiles pretty much state they are looking for online , princess treatment with a couple of known previous girls that appear to have new profiles there are also a couple that appear to have a location overseas .
Mention of online , ppm etc or implication of paid for meets is supposedly banned by seeking the moderation process for profiles isn’t very good . I noticed a couple of profiles the other day where the location is London and in the text the person says they are based in Kenya

Thats seeking nowadays in uk. Average girls also wanting 500 plus

Offline Wtt2014

Thats seeking nowadays in uk. Average girls also wanting 500 plus

I suspect they're picking up that you're a miserable prick and taxing you accordingly.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

 :D
I suspect they're picking up that you're a miserable prick and taxing you accordingly.

Offline Punting2022

I suspect they're picking up that you're a miserable prick and taxing you accordingly.

No Worries, Plenty more whores in the see of seeking and escorting.

Offline Equilibrium

Did go on to meet her. £200. Do not recommend as she has some crazy vibe. The way she texts and speaks is really odd.

Can second to that too ^^

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Slightly off topic … had a quick look at secret benefits … videos do help as I was tempted (on seeking) to bring an Asian MILF over from Oxford and put up overnight £400. Only gripe was she wanted money paid before sex.

Yep 100% MILF but her figure looked good enough that I could enjoy a night with her.

Just saw the SB video and I’m glad I bailed. Face like a dried prune.

« Last Edit: September 06, 2026, 03:04:44 pm by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Punting2022

Slightly off topic … had a quick look at secret benefits … videos do help as I was tempted (on seeking) to bring an Asian MILF over from Oxford and put up overnight £400. Only gripe was she wanted money paid before sex.

Yep 100% MILF but her figure looked good enough that I could enjoy a night with her.

Just saw the SB video and I’m glad I bailed. Face like a dried prune.

As long as you give in room, less chance of them running. I always say ill show you I have cash, but payment after meet. This seems to work as they know i have to pay. Or say here it is.Put it in a safe in the room.

Offline naz

At the risk of sounding like your mum giving you advice before your first date, my genuine suggestion is 'be honest'. I'm sure it's possible (and I suspect many on here do this) to war-game out each interaction, attempting to tell each person exactly what you think they want to hear in order to get whatever it is you want from them. My experience is that the mental aspect of it is way, way more important than the physical one; if you 'click' it's almost always very good and if you don't then it's very hit-and-miss.

Personally, because I'm really not after the cocktails-in-Ibiza, Instagrammable-bathroom-selfie-with-neon-sign-in-the-background, glass-of-wine-in-front-of-the-Burj-Khalifa type girls, my profile is basically pretty silly. It has a dumb joke that makes it clear that I don't take myself or the site very seriously, my 'looking for' tags are an accurate reflection of what I'm looking for and my first messages to most girls double down on the whole 'stupid joke' aspect (whilst also giving some indication that I've actually read their profile). I know that this means there are plenty of (very beautiful!) girls that do not reply, and this is exactly what I want! I want to filter out the people with whom I'm not going to click. It's not a value judgement (good luck to them!), but it does mean that pretty much anyone from whom I get a reply is someone with whom I have a decent stab of clicking with. 

The goal, then, is to cast your net far and wide enough that you find someone with whom you click and that you find very attractive. But if you have to choose between the two, I choose click every day of the week.


Like the way you think and your outlook. Not used SB might just try it.

Offline Flush

Fiona - External Link/Members Only

Wanting 350 for a meet. I’m not convinced she’s worth that but I may go for her after some negotiating as she looks a bit like a porn star I used to watch back in the day! :D Will update

That's quite steep. I used to see her a few years ago; the sex was average at best, and she gets temperamental at times. This was pre-pandemic, and as I remember, she had a good personality, but the sex wasn't great. Also, she is much older than the age on her profile. The key thing that stood out for me was that the BJ was very bad. If you are into a good personality but a shit fuck, then she will do.

Offline massagepuntingfan

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.


Great list, thanks for sharing. Been off SA for a year or so and this confirms how the new going rate is closer to £500 these days. Not saying that its possible to go lower but pretty clear that price is trending upwards.

Offline Kixonthemix

That's quite steep. I used to see her a few years ago; the sex was average at best, and she gets temperamental at times. This was pre-pandemic, and as I remember, she had a good personality, but the sex wasn't great. Also, she is much older than the age on her profile. The key thing that stood out for me was that the BJ was very bad. If you are into a good personality but a shit fuck, then she will do.

Ouch

Funny she told me she loved giving BJs. I never met her in the end.

Offline Kixonthemix

Can second to that too ^^

Crazy bad it seems but could you both please provide some detail?

Offline tazz

Fewer millionaires and billionaires in london, higher unemployment rates for young people so how come rates are so high

Offline Punting2022

Fewer millionaires and billionaires in london, higher unemployment rates for young people so how come rates are so high

Opportunity.

Offline Mr Garmin

Fewer millionaires and billionaires in london, higher unemployment rates for young people so how come rates are so high

I should think that by far the largest majority of girls income doesn't come from billionaires of which there are only 97 in London. Google tells me that there are 215,700 liquid asset rich millionaires in capital with another 875,000 if you include property.

Offline Famy8989

That's quite steep. I used to see her a few years ago; the sex was average at best, and she gets temperamental at times. This was pre-pandemic, and as I remember, she had a good personality, but the sex wasn't great. Also, she is much older than the age on her profile. The key thing that stood out for me was that the BJ was very bad. If you are into a good personality but a shit fuck, then she will do.
Yeah I didn’t end up going with her I found a 20 year old uni student who I paid 200 for our meet a few days ago. She’s since deactivated her account as she just wants one regular arrangement but I’ll link it when she’s back because she’s starting to ask for more and more. She said her rents due soon so would I be able to meet her for 450 (open to negotiation) but I don’t know if I want to bother. She’s a cute Megan Fox type, amazing tanned body, petite at 5’2 or 3 with a 0 teeth BJ and tightest pussy I’ve ever tried. Though paying £85 for her train ticket on top of the ppm isn’t something I want to be paying regularly although I probably spend more punting anyway, I prefer variation.

Offline Famy8989

Lucy - External Link/Members Only
Said she’s had only 1 previous arrangement that lasted a year. £700 ppm and led to an allowance  :wacko:
I didn’t even bother negotiating but I reckon you’ll be able to get down to 400-600

Rhi - External Link/Members Only
 400. I think she’s been mentioned before.

Ruby - External Link/Members Only
Can find her on pimeyes. She’s a sex therapist in training. Very very kinky, up for kink stuff. Bit alt but I’m sure she’s fun. Wants to meet for drinks then lead to hotel, bit of a night girl likes meeting late.

Ellie - External Link/Members Only
Similar to above. Experienced in kink. 400 ppm

Natalia - External Link/Members Only
400 ppm think she’s up for negotiating. But not worth imo.

Hollie - External Link/Members Only
Seems real sweet, asking for 400 with dinner. I told her I don’t like dinners and she said pay for something to eat and travel on top, doesn’t even want to do something casual or a coffee shop…



Offline Famy8989

Zoe - External Link/Members Only
Seen her on IG before, if not fake, surprised she has a seeking account

Offline Irish801

Zoe - External Link/Members Only
Seen her on IG before, if not fake, surprised she has a seeking account

That’s Zoe Rhode, she has an OF. Did you speak to her?

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Observations between seeking.com (or seeking cim as I call it)  and seeking Benefits

I haven’t bought any credits yet for Seeking Benefits but as I understand it 10 are needed to read / begin messaging each individual ….. then all subsequent message between you are free (I’m usually on WhatsApp by then though)

They just sent me an advertisement blurb / spam

It’s got a different vibe  :D  :D made me less anxious about banging my own 20 year old Chinese maths student who invited me to her university digs to do the deed / fucking a pretty 21 years old Malaysian student nurse  :D


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Have you ever seen a hot girl and wondered, "Wow, what it would take to date her?"  Some girls are so stunning to behold, I speculate to myself that a guy would have to be a rich CEO, a movie star, or some kind of heir to a throne, in order to have a woman like that on his arm. 

But what if you weren't any of those things? What if you were just a hard-working, average-looking guy... like me?  What would it take for a woman like that to be with a guy like me?

I couldn't help but wonder these things.  Every day I would feel the pull of attraction from gorgeous women whose paths cross with mine... on the train, at the grocery store, or the mall - good lord, I thought... they're everywhere.

Not only are they everywhere, thanks to Secret Benefits, they're actually easier to get a date with than you'd imagine.  Don't believe me? Follow me for a moment into a glorious place commonly referred to as "the sugar bowl," and I'll make you a believer.

My first arrangement was with Cathy, a 21-year-old college girl. Then, a month or two later, I met a 24-year old nurse named Elise, and we hit it off spectacularly. Recently, I've been spending time with a 19-year old Asian minx named Miko - And I still occasionally browse the site to see who my next adventure will be with!  When you're having as much fun as I am, can you blame me for wanting to push this thing just as far as I can?

About 6 months after I became a member, I decided to see how quickly I could meet a new girl. Could I make an arrangement on the same day, for example? I was certainly up for the challenge, and I probably felt extra confident because I knew that if I failed... Cathy the college girl was ready and willing to blow my mind again, and she was just a phone call away.

Variety is the spice of life - I’m sure you know this all too well. Don't get me wrong, it's always fun to revisit favorite experiences with familiar girls, but on this particular day the urge for something new was too strong to ignore.

I had a couple of existing conversations happening that I tried to speed up, but I knew my best chance was going to be contacting 10-20 new women, and starting completely fresh. Surely a few would be online and have free time today, I thought.

I messaged 17 women in one furious bout of searching, and within an hour I had 4 responses!  By lunch, there were 11! I feel a little bad for the girls who took too long, because by the end of my day I was already in deep conversation with Emily, a 26-year old single mom. Needless to say, we both ended the evening extremely satisfied.

It can happen that quickly on Secret Benefits.  Not only is this scenario common for men like me, but I can repeat it, again and again, for as long as I want, with as many women as I want! The site is user-friendly, the women are motivated to make something work, and all it takes to be a success in the sugar bowl is to be... a success in life: The kind of guy who always picks up the tab and spoils his women rotten. Think you can handle that? 

That's what I thought.

Cheers

Offline Zanderpanda

ive tried secret benefits again. it has changed a bit because i get no messages now. before i received lots of messages but when i replied nothing ever happened. i think it was a scam but then why change the model? if it is a scam then loads of fake messages would be sent to make you spend money to read them.

Offline billy groat

I’ve been dabbling on SDM - or had been until a few months ago. I figured it was time to pull the trigger on premium membership. $300 per month?! No thanks. That’s mental.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Cheers all.  I think I won’t bother going any further.
I smell too much  BS 💩 on those sites.
Put it towards a decent escort instead.
« Last Edit: September 10, 2026, 03:42:38 pm by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Famy8989

That’s Zoe Rhode, she has an OF. Did you speak to her?
She didn’t reply haha

Offline Punting2022

I’ve been dabbling on SDM - or had been until a few months ago. I figured it was time to pull the trigger on premium membership. $300 per month?! No thanks. That’s mental.

The 50 per month is good enough on SDM. Same girls on seeking and there tbh

Offline johnny56

These are some of the girls I have spoken to recently. I have NOT met any of them, there are many others I spoke to but can't link the WhatsApp contact to a Seeking Profile.


External Link/Members Only Jade 19
Wants Monthly Allowance says she don't entertain PPM and shouldn’t expect  sex as it something that needs to be earned

External Link/Members Only Oxi 21
Asks for 500 will take a lot less and she says she wont have sex or kiss happy suck dick and go out on dates..

External Link/Members Only Miya 29
Ask for 500 will go down to 450. Will meet for about 4 hours can only meet daytime


External Link/Members Only Rae 21
Asks for 500 I counter with 250 didn't except possible she will come down from 500

External Link/Members Only Tina 25
Will not budge from 400,, she already been discussed here Didnt like her Attitude over WhatApp.

External Link/Members Only Becca 24
This one is a fruit loop, talks alot of shit strings you along for a meet but is just a content seller in big denial.

External Link/Members Only  Emily 28
This one is a time waster acts like she wants to meet but  just wants to sell content.

External Link/Members Only Lay 19
Just wants to sell content

External Link/Members Only Kay 20
Wanted 500 went  down to 400 and wants taxi covered to.

External Link/Members Only Jasmine 31
Wants 350 will come down 250 can host

External Link/Members Only Angel 22
Escort

External Link/Members Only Alyssa 19
Shared her number but no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Ria 28
Asked for 300 for a couple of hours, likes to factor in Travel time then asked for 400 for a longer meet.

External Link/Members Only Laurie 27
Asks for 400 and didnt really entertain counter offer

External Link/Members Only Kateryana 31
Wants to meet for a coffee first to see if there is vibe will not discuss ppm until a vibe is established.

 External Link/Members Only Christina 25
Seems friendly Asked for 300 went  down 250 and can  host
External Link/Members Only Elle 41
Wants 350 when counter with a lower offer comes back with 400

External Link/Members Only Yasmine 29
Without make up a very different looking person. Will take 200 for a whole night and host as well.


External Link/Members Only Masise 22
Provided number and then no response on Whatsapp

External Link/Members Only Giana 18
Wants to spoiled no intimacy only hugs and pecks on the cheek.

External Link/Members Only Niko 39
Offered her 250 she took real offence to it saying she is not an easy person.

External Link/Members Only Nae 19
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Madison 19
Scammer

External Link/Members Only Nicolle 26
Wants 500

External Link/Members Only  Rose 26
SB Pro Wants 500

External Link/Members Only Lara 23

External Link/Members Only Layla 25
Wants 400 wont go lower than 300 not timed. Wants travel cost covered will not use Public transport.

External Link/Members Only ellie 21
Says she is travelling in Spain so will only meet when back. Wants Online fun

External Link/Members Only Ana 20
Asks for 300 will take 200 but wants cab paid for.

External Link/Members Only Joshna 34
Will not chat on Telegram but you need to pay to send her message on  Telegram

External Link/Members Only Elle 36
Asks for 450 will take 350 Pro SB

External Link/Members Only Rosie 22
Wants 350, accepted 200 if ubers are covered

External Link/Members Only Beatriz 25
Wants 500 and wants dates.

External Link/Members Only May 20
Wants 350 but would 200 if regular not on a first meet

External Link/Members Only  Popai 19
Misinterpreted what I said suspect English isn’t her first language and literarily said “ I do this for money” I did not want to engage on talking further  on the site.

External Link/Members Only Nicol 37
Asks for 250 accepted 200 but will only meet at a hotel in Dartford.

External Link/Members Only Milena 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Maya 28
Escort

External Link/Members Only Brooke 18
Scammer Content seller

External Link/Members Only Nini 20
Not even in London only wants to be spoilt doubt she will even meet even  for a platonic.

External Link/Members Only Faye 19
Says she is a virgin and wants to wait for the right person. Wants dates, Money and Gifts. No intimacy

Spoke to jasmin a while ago. She seems genuine and easy going. Will have to plan and travel down when time allows.

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Offline billy groat

The 50 per month is good enough on SDM. Same girls on seeking and there tbh

How do you find the 50 per month option please? Genuinely flummoxed that it currently
Shows so expensive.

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Jonny56 - for info, did you know when you quote someone , you can exit the quote to show just the one ( out of 30 in your quote) that you actually are talking about!
Just edit the quote (ie delete what’s not required)  before you post it.

Offline johnny56

I didn't know that, I'll bear it mind for next time :).


Offline Heph

Jonny56 - for info, did you know when you quote someone , you can exit the quote to show just the one ( out of 30 in your quote) that you actually are talking about!
Just edit the quote (ie delete what’s not required)  before you post it.

An often overlooked function, and very beneficial to all readers
« Last Edit: September 11, 2026, 12:32:15 pm by Heph »

Offline Punting2022

How do you find the 50 per month option please? Genuinely flummoxed that it currently
Shows so expensive.

Well last time i was on SDM for the Month and 50 USD. I got responses. Half the girls on seeking were on there. So i would be joining that tbh again when needed. Also got a Alicante girl on there

Offline vm2025

I tried to open the links but none of the links are openinh. Not sure why