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Offline paul_tall_

Appreciate that and haha😂 with the putting up with you. I go to the midlands weekly and thought i would get a better rate in the midlands and escape the madness of London. The two girls i liked also both quoted me 500ppm. I agree 350 or 400 is pretty good these days, I will look to find that and escape seeking haha as all the prices go up in January  :dash: :dash:. Fast becoming another site that has its glory days behind it  :hi:
I agree £500+ does seem to be the norm even outside of London . What seems to be forgotten is the true meeting cost of hotel , couple of drinks , maybe a meal has also gone up. If you are meeting them and they want a meal first you could quite easily be getting on for 1k for an evening which I certainly don’t want to do on a regular basis if at all .

Offline massagepuntingfan

For me prices are fast getting out of control. Whoreflation across the board surely is entering unsustainable levels where the normal punter simply won't be able to afford this hobby.
As has been discussed 100's of times, escorts have flooded the sugar world and the price structures have been changed. In London Brazilians dominate what seems to be an ever decreasing market, meaning the majority of SPs are adopting the Brazilian price structure of a base line amount with extras for anything and everything.
I read a report earlier saying the punter had been told by the Brazilian escort that London is dead and she'd be lucky to see 1-2 punters a day.
We're in the worst cost of living crisis since WW2 and it can't be a surprise that men are punting less and sticking to regulars. I'm off seeking and have to say I don't miss it.
« Last Edit: December 15, 2025, 06:32:45 am by massagepuntingfan »

Offline Barneypunt

This isn’t my experience, even recently. 

I guess a lot depends on what your type is and how you’re approaching them.  There are lots of different fishies in that sea and what you catch depends on the bait you use. 

There are plenty of women who are pro escorts and also have adultwork profiles, etc; then there are pro SBs, the ones that know exactly what they’re doing and what they want, I see them as low mileage escorts. I think both these groups are quite demanding in terms of rates and set hourly rates and services. 

The other end of the spectrum are the ordinary women, students or women with day jobs that want to have fun dates and be spoiled.  These are the ones who may or may not be seeing more than one man at a time (depends on how regular you are) but will only see ones that they like and make something a connection with. These are harder work, you have to make an effort and you won’t get dates with them of you treat them like you’re booking an escort.

There also seems to be a small number on there that are looking for love and marriage, but I can’t imagine that works very often.

I'm still getting PPMs at £200-250 and the occasional freebie.

Agreed. Haven’t gone past my limit of £250 and I’ve been seeing some absolute beauties

Offline Rory B Bellows

For me prices are fast getting out of control. Whoreflation across the board surely is entering unsustainable levels where the normal punter simply won't be able to afford this hobby.
As has been discussed 100's of times, escorts have flooded the sugar world and the price structures have been changed. In London Brazilians dominate what seems to be an ever decreasing market, meaning the majority of SPs are adopting the Brazilian price structure of a base line amount with extras for anything and everything.
I read a report earlier saying the punter had been told by the Brazilian escort that London is dead and she'd be lucky to see 1-2 punters a day.
We're in the worst cost of living crisis since WW2 and it can't be a surprise that men are punting less and sticking to regulars. I'm off seeking and have to say I don't miss it.


I can believe this, but with simply all costs going up and punting/SD being a luxury anyway what to do? I hope that the economy and country can turn a corner but feels like that’s an away off. Sorry to be a pessimist and insert politics but feel like it’s part of something else. SPs and SBs are liable to get greedy but they will have seen their CoL (especially in London ) rise dramatically so can’t always blame them


Offline paul_tall_

Agreed. Haven’t gone past my limit of £250 and I’ve been seeing some absolute beauties
You both are finding girls on seeking in London that are looking for no more than £250 for a meeting ? What are the dynamics of the meetings if I might ask ? And rough characteristics of the girls ?

Offline Mr Garmin

You both are finding girls on seeking in London that are looking for no more than £250 for a meeting ? What are the dynamics of the meetings if I might ask ? And rough characteristics of the girls ?

You may be forgetting that some on here will be chiselled-jawed Adonis types and the girls will be falling over themselves to meet-up.  Perhaps even paying them :D

I'm not in London and even the very average girls start at £350.  I had one regular that was £250 but she 'retired'

Offline finn5555

You both are finding girls on seeking in London that are looking for no more than £250 for a meeting ? What are the dynamics of the meetings if I might ask ? And rough characteristics of the girls ?

I think some on here talk with forked tongue  :hi:

Offline Barneypunt

You both are finding girls on seeking in London that are looking for no more than £250 for a meeting ? What are the dynamics of the meetings if I might ask ? And rough characteristics of the girls ?

I mean every girl is always looking for more  :D
I just stand my ground and say that I’ve always done 250 for ppms and if she agrees then she agrees. It’s hotel meets lasting usually from a few hours to overnight if we really vibe.

The girls I choose range in race. But body type is slim and natural, usually 19-24, pretty face etc

Offline Mr Garmin

I mean every girl is always looking for more  :D
I just stand my ground and say that I’ve always done 250 for ppms and if she agrees then she agrees. It’s hotel meets lasting usually from a few hours to overnight if we really vibe.

The girls I choose range in race. But body type is slim and natural, usually 19-24, pretty face etc

I've said before that you London guys are spoilt beyond belief.  From the outside looking in it seems like the world is your oyster.

In my area, a 30mile radius search brings up the same profiles of mostly less attractive ladies who have been on there for years.  On the rare occasion when a young overtly attractive girl turns up she will be inundated with messages and you have to go some to stand out particularly if you're old and unattractive yourself :P.  Sometimes, unlike with punting, money is not enough.

It's a *lot* of work but there are some gems.  I'm in the process of chatting to a girl in my area who will do a £350 ppm but is happy with £1k/month for weekly meetings.  I've never done an allowance but I'm seriously thinking about it.
« Last Edit: December 15, 2025, 12:10:57 pm by Mr Garmin »

Offline paul_tall_


In my area, a 30mile radius search brings up the same profiles of mostly less attractive ladies who have been on there for years. 

I'm in the process of chatting to a girl in my area who will do a £350 ppm but is happy with £1k/month for weekly meetings.  I've never done an allowance but I'm seriously thinking about it.
Re area and search I look outside of london pretty much mainly south of M25 and its the same profiles that are logged in

For the monthly arrangement there are couple of others that post where this works and are way more experienced, but I would a) check when they want the allowance ie very risky start of the month until you know each other  and b) ensure their availability is regular for weekly.



Offline Wowgeek

I also have a hard limit of £250 to start, moving to maybe £300 over time. That may then have lunch / dinner or drinks tacked on, plus the hotel costs of course. So there is an overall cost to me of £400 - £500.

It does take some filtering of course, I’m not a few hours in an hotel guy, it’s a day room with breaks as above or an overnight. I have recently had a freebie, until she started civvy dating, and I have had several days away with various SBs with one payment and then the trip on me.

I’m nearly 70 and certainly no looker, the women are 18 - 30, with one 42 year old outlier. I weed out professional WGs trying to import their price structure and semi pro SBs.  If guys pay the inflated prices then they will continue to inflate. This world is a marathon not a sprint and it can be frustrating but ultimately worthwhile, in my humble view.

As always, each to their own, but I do get the feeling that there are people looking for SBs with an escort mindset. If you offer them time, wisdom, conversation and great sex then they are out there. There are a lot of women who just want to let their hair down and explore what you can do for them without the emotional attachment of dating. They don’t want a quickie in an hotel room any more than I do.

Offline rewq

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Robbed by this one. Chatted at hotel bar for 1 hour, then back to room. Gave her the cash (rookie error) and she stepped out to call her friend to check in, and never came back obviously.
Didn't do enough research pre-meet as can see now via some reverse image search she has previously been talked about on here as a blackmailer/timewaster. Definitely same person.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=414868.msg4160400#msg4160400

Avoid.

Offline finn5555

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Robbed by this one. Chatted at hotel bar for 1 hour, then back to room. Gave her the cash (rookie error) and she stepped out to call her friend to check in, and never came back obviously.
Didn't do enough research pre-meet as can see now via some reverse image search she has previously been talked about on here as a blackmailer/timewaster. Definitely same person.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=414868.msg4160400#msg4160400

Avoid.

Sorry you got robbed fella, always a risk with meeting sadly .....

She is on AW External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

She recently bid on my RB and i did ask if anyone on here knew her  :scare:






Offline Mstar86

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Robbed by this one. Chatted at hotel bar for 1 hour, then back to room. Gave her the cash (rookie error) and she stepped out to call her friend to check in, and never came back obviously.
Didn't do enough research pre-meet as can see now via some reverse image search she has previously been talked about on here as a blackmailer/timewaster. Definitely same person.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=414868.msg4160400#msg4160400

Avoid.

Sorry to hear this happened to you mate, out of curiosity, how much cash was it?

Offline londonhunter008

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Robbed by this one. Chatted at hotel bar for 1 hour, then back to room. Gave her the cash (rookie error) and she stepped out to call her friend to check in, and never came back obviously.
Didn't do enough research pre-meet as can see now via some reverse image search she has previously been talked about on here as a blackmailer/timewaster. Definitely same person.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=414868.msg4160400#msg4160400

Avoid.
We all had our share of learning curves. I am sorry to hear your experience.

She messaged me on Whatsapp as well. She also goes by name Miss Vali / Mistress Valentina and has social media accounts on all possible apps.
First this I do these days
1. Meet only verified profile
2. Always reverse search images (have taken payed membership of site pimeye) and it has saved me from many Pro Escorts and spammers. Definitely worth spending money.
Most of professional escorts very easily come up on image search engines because of online presence due to nature of work.
Bottom line...if I cant verify anyone online, I wont meet.

But despite years of experience in Sugar dating such things do happen to everyone and that is part of the deal.
Recently one of my SB cancelled very last minute and my hotel booking money and time got wasted.

Offline youngwolf994

The value for money in London just isn’t there anymore. Around 80% of the active women should not really be on the platform, based purely on what they offer and their looks. Finding the genuinely high-quality ones takes a lot of effort, and even then they are flooded with attention, so you are competing hard for a spot in their inbox.

Cities like Berlin, Madrid, and Barcelona are a different story. The talent is genuinely impressive, and the costs are significantly lower. I much prefer travelling to these places for a week or two and making the most of it.

That said, in London I have found that many women on Seeking can introduce you to friends who are not on the site at all. As with most things, networking makes a big difference. IMO, it's still the best way to meet new women, especially younger ones.

I'm meeting this one soon, Alice External Link/Members Only. Will report back once done. If anyone has any feedback would be much appreciated. I have a feeling she's a pro.
« Last Edit: December 16, 2025, 10:19:14 am by youngwolf994 »

Offline paul_tall_

We all had our share of learning curves. I am sorry to hear your experience.

She messaged me on Whatsapp as well. She also goes by name Miss Vali / Mistress Valentina and has social media accounts on all possible apps.
First this I do these days
1. Meet only verified profile
2. Always reverse search images (have taken payed membership of site pimeye) and it has saved me from many Pro Escorts and spammers. Definitely worth spending money.
Most of professional escorts very easily come up on image search engines because of online presence due to nature of work.
Bottom line...if I cant verify anyone online, I wont meet.

But despite years of experience in Sugar dating such things do happen to everyone and that is part of the deal.
Recently one of my SB cancelled very last minute and my hotel booking money and time got wasted.
What bit of verified do you go for ? She is selfie verified.
Personally I do also search images , and am put off by certain escort types, but other than someone on here saying they got ghosted under a previous profile, there is nothing about her account that screams scam and certainly not walk in take money and walk out after a few drinks. Admittedly I havent searched her profiles thoroughly to see if there are any negative things.
I think we should wait for the op to say how much she took and maybe for him to find out whether she wanted travel upfront as her escort profile states money for under for outcalls upfront which is a negative

Offline Mr Garmin

Sorry you got robbed fella, always a risk with meeting sadly .....

She is on AW External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

She recently bid on my RB and i did ask if anyone on here knew her  :scare:

If I was in his situation I'd be strongly tempted to book her on AW and on turning up say 'take it out of the cash I've already given you'

Over the years I've had to do a bit of debt collecting for my business and the look of shock when you're stood on their doorstep is priceless.

After all what could she say? 'oh! I just stepped outside to make a phone call and I forgot'  :lol: :lol: :lol:

Offline Barneypunt

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Robbed by this one. Chatted at hotel bar for 1 hour, then back to room. Gave her the cash (rookie error) and she stepped out to call her friend to check in, and never came back obviously.
Didn't do enough research pre-meet as can see now via some reverse image search she has previously been talked about on here as a blackmailer/timewaster. Definitely same person.
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=414868.msg4160400#msg4160400

Avoid.

Sorry mate. I’m tempted to set up a booking with her as far away from her as possible and then ghost her for you.

Offline rewq

What bit of verified do you go for ? She is selfie verified.
Personally I do also search images , and am put off by certain escort types, but other than someone on here saying they got ghosted under a previous profile, there is nothing about her account that screams scam and certainly not walk in take money and walk out after a few drinks. Admittedly I havent searched her profiles thoroughly to see if there are any negative things.
I think we should wait for the op to say how much she took and maybe for him to find out whether she wanted travel upfront as her escort profile states money for under for outcalls upfront which is a negative

It was £300 so not the end of the world.
I'd booked a hotel of her choice, local to her.
A bit much personal chat if she was intending to scam the whole time, suspect she had another offer late on and thought might as well go and get paid for that as well.

Offline PLeisure

I'm meeting this one soon, Alice External Link/Members Only. Will report back once done. If anyone has any feedback would be much appreciated. I have a feeling she's a pro.
I chatted with her a while back - good comms, good banter - insisted on giving me her real name
Then, "I had a variety of arrangements long term and short. i had people give £800, £1500, £2k. i had random sums sent for shopping. I had daily allowances and big gifts".
Quickly lost interest  :lol:

Offline NightKid

Anyone got a discount code going? Finally been messaged from a profile that doesn't wanna make weep for the world & despair at the state of humanity.
« Last Edit: December 16, 2025, 08:40:10 pm by NightKid »

Offline BeingSilent

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Preeya, 28 London

Does anyone have intel on this person?  She's asked to chat on WA (fairly quickly) - so I have a rough idea of where this is going.  But need to do some checking before meeting.

Offline Rock4ages

I got the same copy an paste with her number "sexy in all the right places". She is unverified personally i wouldn't bother as it could be a pro or catfish but there is a chance she could be genuine the dices we roll on seeking haha  :hi:

Offline BeingSilent

I got the same copy an paste with her number "sexy in all the right places". She is unverified personally i wouldn't bother as it could be a pro or catfish but there is a chance she could be genuine the dices we roll on seeking haha  :hi:

Haha!  Yeah... the whatsapp was a bit mad with the level of detail provided.  But then a few grammar issues which threw me a bit based on what she claimed she does for work.

Offline BeingSilent

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Preeya, 28 London

Does anyone have intel on this person?  She's asked to chat on WA (fairly quickly) - so I have a rough idea of where this is going.  But need to do some checking before meeting.

Well, I have my answer on price... starts at £1200 for 2 hours.

She's just priced herself out of my interest.

Offline Rock4ages

 :scare: :scare:😂🤣 My newyears resolution is to quit seeking I am done   :scare: :scare: was qouted 500 ppm for External Link/Members Only and 550 for External Link/Members Only which are both in Coventry (I thought would be a cheaper rate) haha i give up  :dash: :dash:

Offline Rock4ages

I am back to AW tomorrow which also sucks since the age verification roll out. I am taking up Knitting , Croching and maybe use seeking aborad because this is now out of control haha 🤣

Offline PLeisure

I am back to AW tomorrow which also sucks since the age verification roll out. I am taking up Knitting , Croching and maybe use seeking aborad because this is now out of control haha 🤣
Well, keep us updated on your international exploits via Seeking. I'd like to see what's happening in Portugal sometime soon.
There's a thread in the Punting Abroad | Europe section that is specifically for Seeking finds: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=419765.0

Offline paul_tall_

It was £300 so not the end of the world.
I'd booked a hotel of her choice, local to her.
A bit much personal chat if she was intending to scam the whole time, suspect she had another offer late on and thought might as well go and get paid for that as well.
She didn’t dirty and took your money so don’t feel like you need to excuse her actions based on a theory.
Unfortunately there is no way you can report her to seeking and no way you could report to adultwork.
Pretty sure you won’t be the first she has done this to and won’t be the last.

Offline PLeisure

Fellow Seekers, is this profile showing as Deactivated ?
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TIA  :hi:

Offline styussr

Fellow Seekers, is this profile showing as Deactivated ?
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TIA  :hi:

Showing as unavailable for me

Offline john122350

Does anyone happen to have an active promo code?

Offline BeingSilent

Well, I have my answer on price... starts at £1200 for 2 hours.

She's just priced herself out of my interest.

Just dropped to £500 for 1hr but has to be near her.  Still a bit rich for me.  So I am just gonna pass especially as I can get a much better punt with one of the many well reviewed ladies off AW.  But sharing with you gents in case she floats your boat.


Offline Prifessionallondinguy


Online bigden40

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Flo

Anyone seen Flo? £400 quoted, all but anal.

Not available. 

Made me think of Derek and Clive though ….

Oh, dear Little Flo
I love you so
Especially in your nightie

When the moonlight flits
Across your tits
Oh, Jesus Christ almighty

Offline OnTheSly

Anyone spoken to hereyes? External Link/Members Only

Been quite evasive over amount, says no anal... seems strange not to want to actually discuss an amount.  Seems on and off, looks like a proper SB not a pro I think.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Not available. 

Made me think of Derek and Clive though ….

Oh, dear Little Flo
I love you so
Especially in your nightie

When the moonlight flits
Across your tits
Oh, Jesus Christ almighty

Not available?

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Anyone spoken to hereyes? External Link/Members Only

Been quite evasive over amount, says no anal... seems strange not to want to actually discuss an amount.  Seems on and off, looks like a proper SB not a pro I think.

Profile not available for me.

Online bigden40


Offline highlander7777


so Francesca agreed to a drink and have cancelled 3 times! . Bored now , someone else can have a crack. Never got to money ...

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Offline Teejay

Met her  back in 2022  for £250 for couple of hours.  I personally wouldn't go for £400.

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Flo

Anyone seen Flo? £400 quoted, all but anal.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Met her  back in 2022  for £250 for couple of hours.  I personally wouldn't go for £400.

Cheers  :thumbsup: nor would I. It’s just a starting position I commonly hear “my last ppm was 400” 
Romanian she says!  Was she any good? 

Just ti be aware, language  barrier means she has no filter on SA. When asked what she’s comfortable with …. and given examples like dinner drinks etc  she blurted out anything but anal  :D

I’m already sitting on a recent strike.


« Last Edit: December 18, 2025, 05:47:02 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Teejay

Cheers  :thumbsup: nor would I. It’s just a starting position I commonly hear “my last ppm was 400” 
Romanian she says!  Was she any good? 

Just ti be aware, language  barrier means she has no filter on SA. When asked what she’s comfortable with …. and given examples like dinner drinks etc  she blurted out anything but anal  :D

I’m already sitting on a recent strike.
I would rate my meet 5 out of 10. She was okay in bed tbh but the smell of cigarettes puts me off 😒 

Offline ayay07

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This one seems to be the most eager though and is also the lowest ppm, has anyone seen her recently or before?

Hi mate, do you have her details, could you pm me please?
Banned reason: No reviews, warned last year, still asking for info yet nothing given back, now requesting pm’s
Banned by: Iloveoral

Offline PLeisure

Hi mate, do you have her details, could you pm me please?
How's that going to work... you'll WA her, "hey, an anonymous colleague on a punting forum gave me your contact after telling me your ppm is pretty low - wanna meet?"  :unknown: :scare: :timeout:

Offline Rock4ages

Haha thats funny I get a few of those messages and wonder the same, if anyone has ever been sucessful reaching to an SB and pretending she gave her number to them on seeking but she forgot 🙈🙈

Offline Rock4ages

In other news just got quoted 1500 (weekly) by External Link/Members Only Thats 6k a month 🤯🤯🤯. Form a long ordely clue gents  :hi:. I am almost certain shes 40, in good shape but 6k a month for a 40 year old is insane given all the competion on the site 🤯🤯
« Last Edit: December 18, 2025, 10:43:20 am by Rock4ages »

Offline PLeisure

Haha thats funny I get a few of those messages and wonder the same, if anyone has ever been sucessful reaching to an SB and pretending she gave her number to them on seeking but she forgot 🙈🙈
This kind of creepy approach puts the girls on caution alert, making it harder for guys to approach  :dash: