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Offline Gentlelovemaking

So a great way to meet a future wife? :sarcastic:

Some ladies on there are genuinely looking for a relationship with someone who is of a provider nature and or fits the stated lifestyle needs of the lady. Given all relationships are transactional seeking is just a platform which is more direct about things.

Offline sapunter

Sapphire, 24

Sounds interesting and on there for almost 5 years. Any experience to share lads? Thank you

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Offline biggKahuna

I'm London based but keep getting pinged by others from the north (don't start - north of London! :dash:) so intel on a few...

Jade 23, Chesterfield - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 online for travel to London, then £200 ppm

Maddie 26, Birmingham - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 for fuel and then £500 ppm - no time limits

Second one sound a bit more legit than the first, but I haven't taken the plunge on either. Has anyone else had success with something like this?

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AVOID Mils 20, London - External Link/Members Only
Asks for money for meet and greet, agreed but only if I liked her.
Didn't like her, but arrived with rat-faced boyfriend / pimp in tow and got the money anyways.

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Also PSA (Punter Service Announcement)
AVOID Mils 20, London - External Link/Members Only
Asks for money for meet and greet, agreed but only if I liked her.
Didn't like her, but arrived with rat-faced boyfriend / pimp in tow and got the money anyways.

So you got robbed basically  :thumbsdown:

Offline PLeisure


AVOID Mils 20, London - External Link/Members Only
Asks for money for meet and greet, agreed but only if I liked her.
Didn't like her, but arrived with rat-faced boyfriend / pimp in tow and got the money anyways.
Why ??!!  :unknown:
 - didn't want to cause a scene ?

Offline MichaelDBW

I'm London based but keep getting pinged by others from the north (don't start - north of London! :dash:) so intel on a few...

Jade 23, Chesterfield - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 online for travel to London, then £200 ppm

Maddie 26, Birmingham - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 for fuel and then £500 ppm - no time limits

Second one sound a bit more legit than the first, but I haven't taken the plunge on either. Has anyone else had success with something like this?


I'd give both a wide berth mate, may be me being cynical but I think if you send them the £70 up-front you'd never see or hear from them again .. There are lots of safer options in London for you to try.

Offline bigden40

I'm London based but keep getting pinged by others from the north (don't start - north of London! :dash:) so intel on a few...

Jade 23, Chesterfield - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 online for travel to London, then £200 ppm

Maddie 26, Birmingham - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 for fuel and then £500 ppm - no time limits

Second one sound a bit more legit than the first, but I haven't taken the plunge on either. Has anyone else had success with something like this?

No, no and once again no.

Obvious scam is obvious.

Offline Spermdispenser

A couple of bits of feedback on recent experiences and ladies I've seen online recently:

Megan, 24, External Link/Members Only is one to avoid sadly. Nice enough at drinks, not as good looking in person though, pro vibes in private. Rushed to start penetration, then had no interest in staying a minute more than needed after one round. Very dissapointing for £500.

Ella 30, External Link/Members Only - new profile for this one, saw her a year or so ago, and she was fantastic for £500.

Grace, 25 External Link/Members Only - really nice girl, would see again, £500.

Anastasia 22, External Link/Members Only unrealistc expecatations in my opinion, wanted £800, didn't meet.

Victoria, 26 - External Link/Members Only was here with her friend, looked good initially, then a little bit of Googling revealed post op trans, and minor italian celebrity. Now moved onto Dubai, didn't meet.

Danielle, 39 - External Link/Members Only - I met this one a couple of years ago, but have seen her online lots recently. She is real, and pleasant, the photos are a fair representation of her body type, but she looked way older in person (and this was 2 years ago), I would say she's in her 40s now. Wouldn't repeat based on this.

Aces13, 34, External Link/Members Only recently back online, again I met her before I discovered this forum, her photos are accurate and she's nice.


Offline biggKahuna

Why ??!!  :unknown:
 - didn't want to cause a scene ?

Yes - exactly that unfortunately.

Offline updownandaround

A couple of bits of feedback on recent experiences and ladies I've seen online recently:

Megan, 24, External Link/Members Only is one to avoid sadly. Nice enough at drinks, not as good looking in person though, pro vibes in private. Rushed to start penetration, then had no interest in staying a minute more than needed after one round. Very dissapointing for £500.

Ella 30, External Link/Members Only - new profile for this one, saw her a year or so ago, and she was fantastic for £500.

Grace, 25 External Link/Members Only - really nice girl, would see again, £500.

Anastasia 22, External Link/Members Only unrealistc expecatations in my opinion, wanted £800, didn't meet.

Victoria, 26 - External Link/Members Only was here with her friend, looked good initially, then a little bit of Googling revealed post op trans, and minor italian celebrity. Now moved onto Dubai, didn't meet.

Danielle, 39 - External Link/Members Only - I met this one a couple of years ago, but have seen her online lots recently. She is real, and pleasant, the photos are a fair representation of her body type, but she looked way older in person (and this was 2 years ago), I would say she's in her 40s now. Wouldn't repeat based on this.

Aces13, 34, External Link/Members Only recently back online, again I met her before I discovered this forum, her photos are accurate and she's nice.

I've also met Aces13 and second what you say, great experience with a very tall girl. She seems to be back in London again.

Offline Rock4ages

With the new seeking guidlines does anyone use their real profile photo as their display picture :scare:. Any tips please :timeout:. If you can't keep your anonimity on the site its somewhat becoming pointless . Thanks

Offline Rock4ages

I would like a photo there but not mine hehe not sure if anyone knows a clever workaround

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With the new seeking guidlines does anyone use their real profile photo as their display picture :scare:. Any tips please :timeout:. If you can't keep your anonimity on the site its somewhat becoming pointless . Thanks

the "new" Seeking don't want people like us any more - so its not pointless from their perspective! Not aware if there is a way to get around it - probbaly is but i don't know how to as never bothered to try.

Offline paul_tall_

I would like a photo there but not mine hehe not sure if anyone knows a clever workaround
Are they mandating you to have a profile photo ? If you have had to selfie identify then it would stand to reason that they would compare face pictures, not sure how the identity service (non selfie) thing works now ie do they share the pic with seeking or like other sites they trust the identity company to identify you.
I only have a photo that is private and haven't required to verify as yet

On that note Im not sure seeking are forcing verification for girls profiles, for example i had his profile favourite me yesterday External Link/Members Only (locations Serbia and Austria) and this has no verifications but profiles shows created as this month.
« Last Edit: October 17, 2025, 09:25:32 am by paul_tall_ »

Offline Mstar86

With the new seeking guidlines does anyone use their real profile photo as their display picture :scare:. Any tips please :timeout:. If you can't keep your anonimity on the site its somewhat becoming pointless . Thanks

Do you have to have a profile picture now?

Offline Rock4ages

No i don't, i was going to go down the AI route  :D but haven't bothered. I have now set up my profile to seem mysterious haha I have had a few SB message saying am i famous or something with the level of being discrete :yahoo:. I would rather still have my headless picture as my main on profile as i went diamond for a month, i will not be renewing once it expires though :dash: needless to say :D 

Offline Gentlelovemaking

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Irina 29. Gives me somewhat Pro vibes. Any intel ?

Offline northsideguy

External Link/Members Only a very cute girl very submissive and open minded £350 ppm

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Offline Prifessionallondinguy

I did meet my wife on there :D

So did I … you lucky guy is all I’m saying  :D

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Offline seed_sprayer

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Annabelle
Was going to see this one next week

Someone asked about this one last year - has anyone seen? 
Looks good on pics and chats well - but always wary of too good to be true...

Thanks in advance

Offline Boystud23

Was in touch with Jade few months ago, says a student based in Sheffield , shares accomodation with friends and hence happy to travel to you. Don't recollect exact PPM agreed, but should be in this £200 range. We had a video call later, she is genuine pics are accurate then, but the recent profile pic that I see in this profile is a lot more slimmer, she was bit chubby when we had a call. .since she was chubbier,I dint proceed to meet.


quote author=biggKahuna link=topic=259378.msg4353257#msg4353257 date=1760547357]
I'm London based but keep getting pinged by others from the north (don't start - north of London! :dash:) so intel on a few...

Jade 23, Chesterfield - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 online for travel to London, then £200 ppm

Maddie 26, Birmingham - External Link/Members Only
Wants £70 for fuel and then £500 ppm - no time limits

Second one sound a bit more legit than the first, but I haven't taken the plunge on either. Has anyone else had success with something like this?

Also PSA (Punter Service Announcement)
AVOID Mils 20, London - External Link/Members Only
Asks for money for meet and greet, agreed but only if I liked her.
Didn't like her, but arrived with rat-faced boyfriend / pimp in tow and got the money anyways.
[/quote]

Online northlondonluke

Warning

Profile name is Max1ne,  claims to be based in London but actually lives towards Oxford... Constantly messaging begging to meet, all got a bit too much really and ended up blocking her, she's not rude or abusive but just relentless in messaging.

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Offline JAM2121

morning all, dived back in Seeking so sharing some intel and would love to hear any feedback

PetiteBellucci - External Link/Members Only. Really hot and met for dinner + 1hr at my hotel for £500. She was good company and great in bed, but clearly extremely expsensive. I found out after she has high-end dom & escort profile Victoria Bacall & Goddess Kallen. Not sure I’ll repeat as will be clearly very expensive, but lovely girl, really hot, great attitude

Princess, 28: External Link/Members Only. Not met but close to arranging. Half-Japanese/British, looks hot and very keen. Seems very sub and up for it at £500ppm to stay with you overnight. Seems a lot of fun and probably will meet unless I hear anything I should avoid here

Anastasia, 31: External Link/Members Only. As above, half Japanese/Kiwi. Seems instagram levels of hot, wants £200 for dinner then £400 for intimacy after. Not sure I’ll go for it as that type of arrangement doesn’t do it for me
« Last Edit: October 27, 2025, 10:12:24 am by JAM2121 »

Offline Illya Kurakin

The middle one is a link to your inbox.


Offline RegalLondonM

External Link/Members Only

Really like the look of this one - any info would be appreciated before I try to enter into negotiations

Offline Spermdispenser

I'm looking to meet Clara, 26 External Link/Members Only - Has anyone got any experience with her? Thanks

Offline updownandaround

External Link/Members Only

Really like the look of this one - any info would be appreciated before I try to enter into negotiations

I did a video call with her about 3 months ago and didn't follow up because she's a lot bigger than her pictures. Other than that, she seemed fairly normal so if you like larger ladies..

Online massagepuntingfan

Random Seeking update. I've been using Tinder since taking a break from Seeking. Tinder seems to be awash with SBs and hookers. Talking to 3 women in their 20's who are looking for something mutually beneficial and not asking ridiculous sums of money. No idea what will happen but thought it might be of interest as the fees are much less to be on Tinder.

Offline updownandaround

Random Seeking update. I've been using Tinder since taking a break from Seeking. Tinder seems to be awash with SBs and hookers. Talking to 3 women in their 20's who are looking for something mutually beneficial and not asking ridiculous sums of money. No idea what will happen but thought it might be of interest as the fees are much less to be on Tinder.

I've seen so many of the same girls that use Seeking on Tinder and Bumble. I'm not sure if they are all touting for business, some seem to genuinely be looking for a relationship. I suppose it's the duality of dating these days.

Offline RegalLondonM

I did a video call with her about 3 months ago and didn't follow up because she's a lot bigger than her pictures. Other than that, she seemed fairly normal so if you like larger ladies..

Thanks mate. Just a quick one, what did she seem up for, any negotiations?

Offline updownandaround

Thanks mate. Just a quick one, what did she seem up for, any negotiations?

We didn't get to that part so no money was discussed, sorry!

Offline john122350

Thanks mate. Just a quick one, what did she seem up for, any negotiations?
I spoke with her a few weeks ago. She quoted me 500, and I tried to negotiate, but she wouldn’t budge.

Offline RegalLondonM

I spoke with her a few weeks ago. She quoted me 500, and I tried to negotiate, but she wouldn’t budge.

That's useful , thanks dude. Was this On a PPM basis, any discussions about what she was up for/not up for?

Offline RegalLondonM

I did a video call with her about 3 months ago and didn't follow up because she's a lot bigger than her pictures. Other than that, she seemed fairly normal so if you like larger ladies..

This is interesting. Did a reverse image search using her seeking photos and it directed me to her instagram profile - where she looks anything but on the large side....reminder of how easy it is to have expectations via misleading photos

Offline john122350

That's useful , thanks dude. Was this On a PPM basis, any discussions about what she was up for/not up for?
Yes, she was open to PPM, but she quoted me 500, so I didn’t pursue it or discuss it further.

Offline Rory B Bellows

Has anyone had any interaction with this pair? Usually seeking duos seem a bit sus by they have a whiff of legitimacy: External Link/Members Only

Offline JAM2121

I spoke to them and they want £1200ppm, which sounds like it could be overnight if you wanted it to

I have no reason to believe they’re not legit, but also no slam dunk reason to believe they are. I haven’t tried negotiating the £1200, might be worth a try if you’re keen

Hope that helps

Offline Rory B Bellows

I spoke to them and they want £1200ppm, which sounds like it could be overnight if you wanted it to

I have no reason to believe they’re not legit, but also no slam dunk reason to believe they are. I haven’t tried negotiating the £1200, might be worth a try if you’re keen

Hope that helps

Cheers for the info, tbf £1200 for dual overnight don’t seem so bad especially if they are legitimately into each other too, my concern is that they will just be pure lesbians and I’d feel like a fifth penis so to speak. They sent me a message but haven’t read it yet as I’m not subscribed and will be out of action until the end of the year anyway. Once I do make contact and if anything goes ahead will report back  :thumbsup:

Offline Spermdispenser

Can you let us know the profile name? I blocked them, but name might jog the memory.

Offline Mr Garmin

Can you let us know the profile name? I blocked them, but name might jog the memory.

Jen N Allie, 26

Online massagepuntingfan

Has anyone had any interaction with this pair? Usually seeking duos seem a bit sus by they have a whiff of legitimacy: External Link/Members Only

A good piece of info that has been recounted numerous times on multiple seeking threads - don't book a duo unless you've previously met and trust one of the duo. The prices mentioned are steep and a lot can go wrong, the most obvious being that you could be scammed in some way.

Offline gurds

do you guys fuck these seeking girls raw straight away? Or start with condom first time.

Online finn5555

do you guys fuck these seeking girls raw straight away? Or start with condom first time.

Why are you so weird mate  :thumbsdown:

Offline gurds

Lol you guys don't specify anything after fucking these girls.

Offline Reallytired86

do you guys fuck these seeking girls raw straight away? Or start with condom first time.

Yes straight away generally - even some who want condom sex before meet seem to not want it during meet - guess it’s a if they like you they won’t care. Others might be more strict, perhaps they have had a bad experience be it sti/pregnancy.

Offline gurds

Yes straight away generally - even some who want condom sex before meet seem to not want it during meet - guess it’s a if they like you they won’t care. Others might be more strict, perhaps they have had a bad experience be it sti/pregnancy.

To be safe you should always check they have clean recent results though if going raw

Offline undercoverpunter

do you guys fuck these seeking girls raw straight away? Or start with condom first time.
A few of them have been raw off the bat for me mate