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Offline bigden40


so i have her personal social media accounts via facecheck.id it shows links for her tiktok instagram and threads

though i am unsure on the rules regarding the sharing of these when it comes to scammers.

if it was me i would privately message the account and demand my money back, but i also wouldnt of given her money in the first place.

Good luck with that, there's no way that the scammers are going to refund.

The second girl turning up was an obvious red flag and he would have been well advised to end the date immediately at that point.  As a general rule I won't do a threesome without having had a date with one of them solo first.

Parting with any money prior to getting naked is also not advised.


Offline salazar

I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?

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I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?

I've paid it once but it was a waste of money for me. Mainly due to my own personal circumstances, I didn't have enough time to dedicate to it, either in terms of messaging, or the coffee meets some girls wanted.

I am an unpaid member at present and receive lots of messages and get favoured despite having little on my profile. I am sceptical that they are real messages and just sent to tempt me to pay to read them. It's a bad system. If I was actually able to read the messages but have to pay to reply, I would be much more likely to
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I've paid it once but it was a waste of money for me. Mainly due to my own personal circumstances, I didn't have enough time to dedicate to it, either in terms of messaging, or the coffee meets some girls wanted.

I am an unpaid member at present and receive lots of messages and get favoured despite having little on my profile. I am sceptical that they are real messages and just sent to tempt me to pay to read them. It's a bad system. If I was actually able to read the messages but have to pay to reply, I would be much more likely to
their target male membership is guys of a certain financial standing - it you bulk at £100 per month (and even then its only the months you stay as a premuim member) then you are not their target male member. Seeking is not a place for cheap sex!

and undoubtly some of the messages you get as a lapsed premuim member will be designed to get you to re-subscribe!
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Offline PLeisure

I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?
It's increasing next week !

Offline finn5555

I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?

No some of us get it for free as we are millionaire sex gods 🤣🤣

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No some of us get it for free as we are millionaire sex gods 🤣🤣

Is that you Tate?!
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Offline Prifessionallondinguy

I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?

If the monthly payment is steep wait until you hear what some ladies will ask you for a ppm rate!  Sometimes this is just for dinner. No nooky. :scare:

Maybe we should join a consortium as “Mr X” and share the cost, taking turns to bang a lady?  :D
I’ll chip in £5 just no fatties.

« Last Edit: July 01, 2025, 06:05:57 pm by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline bigden40

I've been looking at joining Seeking for ever but that monthly payment, bit steep? Do you all pay it?


It may be steep but one month membership should be enough to make enough connections to keep you entertained for a while.  I’ve have long term regulars right now but before I found that one month every 9-12 months was enough.

Offline salazar

Not so much the price as is it worth it.

Offline bigden40

Not so much the price as is it worth it.

For me personally it has been.  I’ve had some of my best intimate experiences in recent years through seeking.

Offline massagepuntingfan

Not so much the price as is it worth it.

For me it can be although the general gist is you have to look harder to find what you want than a few years back. Currently seeing a lady who has an AW profile, super cute and a great fuck. What she charges for an hourly rate on AW I'm getting for 4 hours of great company in a relaxed environment and lots of hot sex. Mutual attraction is key here, if it's there then you'll have a great time!

Offline thumbspot

I recently went through the sign up process. It asked for photos ( which you can skip), but then asks for a selfie. Do you guys actually do this? Discretion is key for me (and probably you too!!).

Online Teejay

Correct me if I'm worokg but I think it's happening with only new you create but if you've got a old profile you just pay for sub and doesn't need a selfie. If I'm correct!

Offline PLeisure

For me personally it has been.  I’ve had some of my best intimate experiences in recent years through seeking.
+1
Still reeling from last year's 19yr old student who's appetite for sex was nothing less than voracious  :crazy:
She contacted me out of the blue last week suggesting a sleepover, awww  :kiss:

Offline thumbspot

Correct me if I'm worokg but I think it's happening with only new you create but if you've got a old profile you just pay for sub and doesn't need a selfie. If I'm correct!

I don’t have an old account sadly. Just seems a bit risky to connect a selfie to a seeking account.

Offline MichaelDBW

+1
Still reeling from last year's 19yr old student who's appetite for sex was nothing less than voracious  :crazy:
She contacted me out of the blue last week suggesting a sleepover, awww  :kiss:

Lucky so and so :D

Offline Spermdispenser

Estelle, 24 - External Link/Members Only

I met this one 2 years ago for I think £400, she is as good as the photos, she is from Sweden or Norway from memory. Sadly she’s clearly met some more successful men since, and is back online asking for £1k per date. Recommended if you’ve got the cash.

Offline tazz

Seems Seeking has really gone downhill, tons of women want £500 or more, many wont respond if your not a verified member.

This one Sophie a total odd ball, meant to be a teacher but off work, tells me she goes to sleep at 8 as she wakes up early.

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Offline Wowgeek

Someone tell me these aren’t the same people, some of the pics are identical and the response from both was ‘I had an arrangement, we started online’……


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Shame, she looks hot, whoever she is  :rolleyes:

Offline paul_tall_

Someone tell me these aren’t the same people, some of the pics are identical and the response from both was ‘I had an arrangement, we started online’……


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External Link/Members Only - Michelle

Shame, she looks hot, whoever she is  :rolleyes:
Same person in photos, profiles created a few months apart. Elle is short for Michelle so could be genuine though strange they are logged on at same time

Offline londonhunter008

I don’t have an old account sadly. Just seems a bit risky to connect a selfie to a seeking account.

I am verified member on that site and I did not find any risk at all and have used Seeking for many years now. Your selfie will not be stored and its only for verification. If you put your personal picture in your profile then you can hide all of them and show only to someone you feel comfortable with.

I actually prefer this verification process through selfie, id or online profiles. SA site also shows your current location(country) on your profile. Many women select London as current location and even though they are verified(so I believe real women) but wont meet in person and just want to sell online content. If you question them bluntly then they will give some excuse that there are supposed t to travel soon etc.

I do not speak with anyone who is not verified and it has saved me from many scammers. SA tries to promote itself as a dating app and verification is useful for men and women  Rest is your call.

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don't know! who is she?

She messaged me, she is just my type. Am considering renewing my membership if there is any positive feedback here.
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Online Garyhart

She messaged me, she is just my type. Am considering renewing my membership if there is any positive feedback here.

Hopefully it goes well and you don’t BB her!!

Offline wirehair

Has anybody seen this girl?

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I’d be wary as she has multiple locations and has popped up previously as being in Edinburgh and Glasgow.

Offline tazz

Anyone seen Leila, British/Iranian based in Mitcham External Link/Members Only
Accepted £300 for 2 hours.
Told her would take over 90 minutes to get to mine but shes happy to travel.

Offline thumbspot

I am verified member on that site and I did not find any risk at all and have used Seeking for many years now. Your selfie will not be stored and its only for verification. If you put your personal picture in your profile then you can hide all of them and show only to someone you feel comfortable with.

I actually prefer this verification process through selfie, id or online profiles. SA site also shows your current location(country) on your profile. Many women select London as current location and even though they are verified(so I believe real women) but wont meet in person and just want to sell online content. If you question them bluntly then they will give some excuse that there are supposed t to travel soon etc.

I do not speak with anyone who is not verified and it has saved me from many scammers. SA tries to promote itself as a dating app and verification is useful for men and women  Rest is your call.

All very helpful thank you. Would prefer to let people know I’m ‘real’ and that I’m talking to a verified person too. Might take the plunge!

Offline paul_tall_

Anyone seen Leila, British/Iranian based in Mitcham External Link/Members Only
Accepted £300 for 2 hours.
Told her would take over 90 minutes to get to mine but shes happy to travel.
Happy to travel without money upfront for travelling ?
Are you offering to host ?
Lots of red flags really esp a 3 hour round trip if its limited time and she isnt wanting to stay over

Offline thumbspot

Another noob question from me - I assume you’re not supposed to discuss services on the site ? But via text if you exchange numbers. Do most offer DFK and OWO as standard, similar to British providers on AW?

Thing I like about escorts is that the focus is on my pleasure for the most part - are seeking girls similar, or is it closer to a civvy meet?

Offline JamesScott

The last time I was on seeking about a year or so ago there were details of body type like:
slim
average
athletic
curvy
full-figure
ect...

I not seeing that now, is it something in the settings?


Offline PLeisure

The last time I was on seeking about a year or so ago there were details of body type like:
slim
average
athletic
curvy
full-figure
ect...

I not seeing that now, is it something in the settings?
Yes, they removed this - also the men's Net Worth category - a month ago.
Apparently, people were exaggerating their personal worth and had an elastic interpretation of what constitues 'slim'  :D

Offline PLeisure

Another noob question from me - I assume you’re not supposed to discuss services on the site ? But via text if you exchange numbers. Do most offer DFK and OWO as standard, similar to British providers on AW?

Thing I like about escorts is that the focus is on my pleasure for the most part - are seeking girls similar, or is it closer to a civvy meet?
If you go in with that approach, it'll be a miserable failure. The best thing you can do before committing yourself to Seeking is to speed-read through this thread. Yes, the entire behemoth
Why? Because you will firstly get a sense of how best to approach these SBs, and identify familiar patterns emerging as you work through the intel.

SBs - and the site itself - do not align themselves with the escort industry. (Although my bank believes differently)
It's an easy argument to suggest that anyone who receives money is an escort. Just don't do it whilst in the midst of a SB. Unless you want to deliberately upset them.
Like the geisha girls of an earlier period, SBs believe they are adding value to your overstressed executive life by providing scintillating company. The old school ones understand that this includes getting intimates once dinner's over. The newer ones simply think it's standard to charge you £200 just for the privilege of sharing the dinner table with them.

If you employ familiar acronyms like OwO, CiM, DFK, etc; whilst in comms with a SB, expect to get blocked pretty damn quick. And, like WGs might do, have your username distributed amongst their friendship rings.

Read through this thread !

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Read through this thread !

and in the meantime if you are chatting on the Seeking platform, do not write anything which could be taken as even a suggestion of offering money for sex - that will get you banned from Seeking! Girls seem to be able to get away with more than us guys so even if she suggests something on this lines don't respond to it on Seeking!

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the 20% one worked for me .. Seeking are upping their prices by 25% on july 8th

If you use a VPN USA , set your location to delaware - no sales tax . Use a revolut disposable card you can get it down to 87usd or 65 quid ish ... which isn't bad !

Offline metalqaz

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the 20% one worked for me .. Seeking are upping their prices by 25% on july 8th

If you use a VPN USA , set your location to delaware - no sales tax . Use a revolut disposable card you can get it down to 87usd or 65 quid ish ... which isn't bad !

are you sure using a vpn doesn't get you banned as well?

Offline thumbspot

If you go in with that approach, it'll be a miserable failure. The best thing you can do before committing yourself to Seeking is to speed-read through this thread. Yes, the entire behemoth
Why? Because you will firstly get a sense of how best to approach these SBs, and identify familiar patterns emerging as you work through the intel.

SBs - and the site itself - do not align themselves with the escort industry. (Although my bank believes differently)
It's an easy argument to suggest that anyone who receives money is an escort. Just don't do it whilst in the midst of a SB. Unless you want to deliberately upset them.
Like the geisha girls of an earlier period, SBs believe they are adding value to your overstressed executive life by providing scintillating company. The old school ones understand that this includes getting intimates once dinner's over. The newer ones simply think it's standard to charge you £200 just for the privilege of sharing the dinner table with them.

If you employ familiar acronyms like OwO, CiM, DFK, etc; whilst in comms with a SB, expect to get blocked pretty damn quick. And, like WGs might do, have your username distributed amongst their friendship rings.

Read through this thread !

Many thanks for the detailed guidance. I have been following this thread for some time and was considering signing up to access more ‘natural’ encounters than booking an escort from AW or agencies. However based on your comments I don’t think seeking is right for me.

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Lovelylace, 29 - External Link/Members Only

This one is real, but came across as very pro and de-sensitised to the whole thing in comms. She initially asked for £800 but did agree to £650. She canceled fairly last minute first time we tried to meet, I suspect due to getting a better offer, then on the second attempt, you could just tell she wasn’t excited about it, and it wasn’t going to be good value, so it didn’t happen in the end.

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External Link/Members Only  - All the Fun times 97, 29

Decent Comms, will agree to everything but is a time waster. Cancelled once then ghosted second time.
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Offline dondraper

Met this one "External Link/Members Only
Michelle, wanted 500 couple of hours but dropped down to 250 for 4/5 hours if oi met the same day."

She lives somewhere near High Wycombe and i met her in a hotel near her. She is Italian , as good looking as her photos. Divorced her husband because he cheated on her. She is slim , very sexy. Took 300 and promised to stay for 2-3 hours. She was very dominating asking me to go down on her, yeah she was lean. But she refused to give me a blowjob. She kisses very lightly. Very good sex, and this was done in 30-40 minutes. She got up dressed and left.  Very disappointing , after travelling 2 hours to reach High Wycombe , booking hotel and paying her the said amount. And i encountered her social media profile , she is always on holidays.

She was very direct with me and sent me her number. Not been able to organise a meet with her, seems fit, model type looks, but something tells me she is not there in the head. Posts a lot on social media and seems a bit unhinged

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Here are some SB’s that I have chatted to and their expectations:

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Lexxi - Seems to be quite a big girl. Willing to meet at £300 ppm. Was initially looking at £400

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Kaia - Willing to meet at £300ppm. Was initially looking at £400

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Missfifties - was looking for £250 ppm

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Mills - looking for PPM between £300 - £400. Managed to agree on lower end of the range

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Indiansenorita - says she is used to £400ppm (hard to believe)…. Managed to negotiate her down to £300

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Mandy - Expecting £200 ppm

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Zxra_03 - claims her prior arrangements gave her £600 ppm, lowest could do was £500

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Aliya - happy to do £250 ppm…. Claims she usually charges more

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Simran - wants £500ppm to start off with, managed to negotiate down to £400

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Caramela - willing to do £200 - £250 ppm

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Sim - Started off at £250 but willing to do £200

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Shay - started off with £300ppm, was willing to come down to £250

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Roxyyyy - Wants £400ppm, would not come down on the ppm

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Sweetestconnection - Wants £300ppm but was willing to come down to £200ppm

Offline Shevz100

Here are some SB’s that I have chatted to and their expectations:

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Lexxi - Seems to be quite a big girl. Willing to meet at £300 ppm. Was initially looking at £400

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Kaia - Willing to meet at £300ppm. Was initially looking at £400

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Missfifties - was looking for £250 ppm

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Mills - looking for PPM between £300 - £400. Managed to agree on lower end of the range

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Indiansenorita - says she is used to £400ppm (hard to believe)…. Managed to negotiate her down to £300

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Mandy - Expecting £200 ppm

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Zxra_03 - claims her prior arrangements gave her £600 ppm, lowest could do was £500

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Aliya - happy to do £250 ppm…. Claims she usually charges more

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Simran - wants £500ppm to start off with, managed to negotiate down to £400

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Caramela - willing to do £200 - £250 ppm

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Sim - Started off at £250 but willing to do £200

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Shay - started off with £300ppm, was willing to come down to £250

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Roxyyyy - Wants £400ppm, would not come down on the ppm

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Sweetestconnection - Wants £300ppm but was willing to come down to £200ppm


Cheers for the intel, some of them look really good. I would be wary of Shay however, her main profile picture is stolen from a popular girl on social media who doesn’t even live in the UK, so may be a fake account or catfish
« Last Edit: July 13, 2025, 09:02:20 am by Shevz100 »

Offline PLeisure


Cheers for the intel, some of them look really good. I would be wary of Shay however, her main profile picture is stolen from a popular girl on social media who doesn’t even live in the UK, so may be a fake account or catfish
Good spot  :hi:
Her profile text... "Everything’s tight in the right places... Girlfriend exp if you like?" 
Classy :sarcastic:

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Well what are the odds that it is the Scarlett Jones? Her account is selfie verified after all. Anyone want to "TOFTT"?

Offline metalqaz

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Well what are the odds that it is the Scarlett Jones? Her account is selfie verified after all. Anyone want to "TOFTT"?

goes to prove the whole selfie verified is pointless as it's never comparing the person in the pics to the selfie :lol:

Offline Consafo

How safe is all this as eeems a bit easy, just signed up and already organising a meet up

Offline sammathy

How safe is all this as eeems a bit easy, just signed up and already organising a meet up
Meet in a public place, go back to chain hotels, don’t leave drinks open and unattended, look like you’re about your business.

For deposits, ask the girl to send you her monetary request over IG video call or voicenotes from her main account. Works for me like a charm so far! But I originated on the punting side, just got into Seeking recently because of travelling and fluidity, so we’ll see if it holds. :thumbsup:

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How safe is all this as eeems a bit easy, just signed up and already organising a meet up

You need your wits about you of course- and take sensible precautions! After all you are meeting someone you don’t know! If you read the thread you will have learnt some of the scams that some of the girls try to pull! A video call before meeting is a good idea to ensure you aren’t being cat fished!
 Otherwise the risks are similar to seeing any new WG!
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