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[paul_tall_]

Yes that's the one. Calls herself Tillie in the the WhatsApp chat. Full of compliments, danced the merry dance to try and tempt free cash out of me.

If I recall the need for money and reasons became more weird when I kept saying no and she went from something like £100 for online first to £10 and kept saying you don’t have to if you are not interested and still continued a who evening a messaged at some bizzare time in the early hours saying she was scared of her mates bf and needed money for a taxi to get home

[kutch]

What was the unbeliever low allowance ? Has she indicated happy to meet without deposit , photos before hand etc ?

Has not asked for a deposit.  I suggested meeting for a drink only, but she wanted me to book a room as well.  Too keen?

[seraph20]

I have communicated with this one in the past.

Got nowhere. Conversation fine. She was keen. Just never committed to anything when I said let’s actually meet and fix a date and time etc.

She has favourited me again on the site but not sure if I will respond given the monumental time wasting that went on for a few weeks on and off last time.

[punter10]

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Ruby
Asks for money within a couple of messages
Very pushy
Wouldn’t advise going anywhere near

I've also had this one harrassing me goes by Ruby/Tillie, she was on me as soon as i signed up so i fell for it initially like a muppet.
Had to block in the end as she was waaay too unhinged, tells every story under the sun to get money out of you as others have said and was not even fit really, live and learn I guess. Stay well away.

[jacobs1]

I've also had this one harrassing me goes by Ruby/Tillie, she was on me as soon as i signed up so i fell for it initially like a muppet.
Had to block in the end as she was waaay too unhinged, tells every story under the sun to get money out of you as others have said and was not even fit really, live and learn I guess. Stay well away.

i dont even have photos on my account atm and shes still messaged me

[kutch]

What was the unbeliever low allowance ? Has she indicated happy to meet without deposit , photos before hand etc ?

It was too good to be true.  After a lot of chat and making plans to meet for Friday, she asked if I could send her some pocket money in advance haha.  Blocked!   

[paul_tall_]

It was too good to be true.  After a lot of chat and making plans to meet for Friday, she asked if I could send her some pocket money in advance haha.  Blocked!

guess was always going to be that way , we search again

[Hobbit]

I'm beginning to realise that Seeking reflects the current state of the world. Having recently subscribed to it, I can see that it has changed so much over the years. Most of the girls on the site now want to spend platonic time with you on dates, wanting £250 - £300 for a couple of hours. At this rate, I don't think I will be continuing with that site for much longer. It's extremely disappointing, to say the least.

[MichaelDBW]

I'm beginning to realise that Seeking reflects the current state of the world. Having recently subscribed to it, I can see that it has changed so much over the years. Most of the girls on the site now want to spend platonic time with you on dates, wanting £250 - £300 for a couple of hours. At this rate, I don't think I will be continuing with that site for much longer. It's extremely disappointing, to say the least.

I had someone earlier this week quote me £1000 just to go for lunch ..

[Hobbit]

I had someone earlier this week quote me £1000 just to go for lunch ..

I'll take you out for lunch for £400 if you want.

[PLeisure]

I had someone earlier this week quote me £1000 just to go for lunch ..

Seriously, there is crazy money out there

Did a meet n' greet recently - one of the (now) rare ones in which she didn't expect a donation. At some point, we had the inevitable exchange of anecdotes... She tells me there was one guy offering her £7.5K to go on holiday with him for a week; they hadn't even met. He'd decided this purely from her profile. Pretty girl, yes - more GND than super model slim.
The other one she'd been offered was some guy who was offering to pay £1.5K for a girl to come round and trash his apartment. He even put her in contact with his previous SB, who confirmed this is what he gets off on. ex-SB advised, "just smash the flatscreen and throw some vases around, he loves it."

It's guys like this who inflate the SBs' expectations

[PLeisure]

I'll take you out for lunch for £400 if you want.

Dessert back at yours ? 

[Hobbit]

Seriously, there is crazy money out there

Did a meet n' greet recently - one of the (now) rare ones in which she didn't expect a donation. At some point, we had the inevitable exchange of anecdotes... She tells me there was one guy offering her £7.5K to go on holiday with him for a week; they hadn't even met. He'd decided this purely from her profile. Pretty girl, yes - more GND than super model slim.
The other one she'd been offered was some guy who was offering to pay £1.5K for a girl to come round and trash his apartment. He even put her in contact with his previous SB, who confirmed this is what he gets off on. ex-SB advised, "just smash the flatscreen and throw some vases around, he loves it."

It's guys like this who inflate the SBs' expectations

I have heard worse. Apparently there is one guy offering ridiculous amounts of money for a girl to shit on him. What is this world coming to???

[Hobbit]

Dessert back at yours ? 

No, at a Travelodge. 

[user400_]

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[Hobbit]

It's guys like this who inflate the SBs' expectations

But surely, this must be a minority? Or is that not the case?

If girls are expecting £300 plus for non sexual activities, then they will price themselves out of the market.

[Garyhart]

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Best get those pics deleted buddy. Unfair on girls who aren’t SPs to have their pics posted on this forum

[PLeisure]

But surely, this must be a minority? Or is that not the case?

If girls are expecting £300 plus for non sexual activities, then they will price themselves out of the market.

I don't know if they're a minority. The problem here, is that such examples create a reputation that attracts more SBs with inflated expectations.
Put it another way... you're walking around Knightsbridge... a BMW or Mercedes isn't going to draw your attention. A Lamborghini might

[Hobbit]

I don't know if they're a minority. The problem here, is that such examples create a reputation that attracts more SBs with inflated expectations.
Put it another way... you're walking around Knightsbridge... a BMW or Mercedes isn't going to draw your attention. A Lamborghini might

Okay, but if they spend several days waiting for a Lamborghini and not seeing one, surely the logical thing would be to lower their expectations rather than waiting for the Lamborghini, which may or may not come?

[londonhunter008]

Seriously, there is crazy money out there

Did a meet n' greet recently - one of the (now) rare ones in which she didn't expect a donation. At some point, we had the inevitable exchange of anecdotes... She tells me there was one guy offering her £7.5K to go on holiday with him for a week; they hadn't even met. He'd decided this purely from her profile. Pretty girl, yes - more GND than super model slim.
The other one she'd been offered was some guy who was offering to pay £1.5K for a girl to come round and trash his apartment. He even put her in contact with his previous SB, who confirmed this is what he gets off on. ex-SB advised, "just smash the flatscreen and throw some vases around, he loves it."

It's guys like this who inflate the SBs' expectations

I heard many such stories about "offering" very high allowance. Most of such men do it only to have some online fun and they never have intention to meet. If a girl tell me that then I just say that if she already has such a good offer  then she can go ahead with that man. and I also emphasise that it is easy to offer anything and most of such men will never meet.

[Garyhart]

I heard many such stories about "offering" very high allowance. Most of such men do it only to have some online fun and they never have intention to meet. If a girl tell me that then I just say that if she already has such a good offer  then she can go ahead with that man. and I also emphasise that it is easy to offer anything and most of such men will never meet.

Very good tactic in calling their bluff. Often after a few days or weeks those same girls will run back to your offer once they realise those audacious offers are just guys seeking quick validation / ego boost

[bash_eer]

Okay, but if they spend several days waiting for a Lamborghini and not seeing one, surely the logical thing would be to lower their expectations rather than waiting for the Lamborghini, which may or may not come?

Since when do women have any logic.

[Garyhart]

Okay, but if they spend several days waiting for a Lamborghini and not seeing one, surely the logical thing would be to lower their expectations rather than waiting for the Lamborghini, which may or may not come?

Women on seeking will not be that logical though 

[daviemac]

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Please read the rules on what can and can't be posted, there's a link at the bottom of every page.

Reminder to others please do not repost picture that shouldn't be here, edit them out of the quote before posting.

[PLeisure]

I heard many such stories about "offering" very high allowance. Most of such men do it only to have some online fun and they never have intention to meet. If a girl tell me that then I just say that if she already has such a good offer  then she can go ahead with that man. and I also emphasise that it is easy to offer anything and most of such men will never meet.

I do this, too - can't be arsed to indulge their exaggerated expectations 

All I can say about the two examples I provided above is that they seemed genuine. The ex-SB offering advice added credence, imo
The girl who told me about them wasn't trying to impress me, rather, we were both laughing at the absurdity of some members' approaches

[paul_tall_]

We just have to remember the site was originally aimed at girls seeking gifts allowances from guys in exchange for some form of company. Even back pre Covid there were guys treating girls without expectation . I recall one of the first girls I met off of the site back then who had a guy who would see her once a month when he was visiting London take her out for dinner , buy gifts , help with her rent and didn’t expect anything in return. Another girl who had a guy that would just buy her lingerie every few weeks and in return she wore it for him on a video call never meeting him and he would gift her money after they chatted . Both were very genuine girls .
Unfortunately Covid happened , publicity happened ,’other options happened and less genuine girls and guys started appearing on the site and genuine ones departed . If a girl wants what we perceive to be a very high rate to meet for just dinner or more then so be it . There probably are guys happy with that figure but harder for them to find . Equally girls are just as wary of guys quoting outrageous sums or asking for extreme services . If you are prepared to talk to many people and quickly see the common scam type messages then you are half way there . You can’t today expect to re subscribe and find a girl in your ball park very quickly these days

[PLeisure]

We just have to remember the site was originally aimed at girls seeking gifts allowances from guys in exchange for some form of company. Even back pre Covid there were guys treating girls without expectation . I recall one of the first girls I met off of the site back then who had a guy who would see her once a month when he was visiting London take her out for dinner , buy gifts , help with her rent and didn’t expect anything in return. Another girl who had a guy that would just buy her lingerie every few weeks and in return she wore it for him on a video call never meeting him and he would gift her money after they chatted . Both were very genuine girls .
Unfortunately Covid happened , publicity happened ,’other options happened and less genuine girls and guys started appearing on the site and genuine ones departed . If a girl wants what we perceive to be a very high rate to meet for just dinner or more then so be it . There probably are guys happy with that figure but harder for them to find . Equally girls are just as wary of guys quoting outrageous sums or asking for extreme services . If you are prepared to talk to many people and quickly see the common scam type messages then you are half way there . You can’t today expect to re subscribe and find a girl in your ball park very quickly these days

A very considered perspective, p_t_ 

[PLeisure]

I viewed this new profile earlier.
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Within minutes, she'd sent this cut n' paste message - without viewing my profile:
Hi honey, I am looking to find an emotional/physical and financial support. I ask for payment of 50 pounds before the first meet. Following that, I do regular dinners and monthly weekends with an allowance of 300 pounds a month. If you are open to that please paypal me at External Link/Members Only and then I will send you my phone number for further communication

[bigden40]

I'm beginning to realise that Seeking reflects the current state of the world. Having recently subscribed to it, I can see that it has changed so much over the years. Most of the girls on the site now want to spend platonic time with you on dates, wanting £250 - £300 for a couple of hours. At this rate, I don't think I will be continuing with that site for much longer. It's extremely disappointing, to say the least.

That’s not been my experience at all.  I can’t recall the last time I met a woman who expected allowances for platonic meets. 

[Hobbit]

That’s not been my experience at all.  I can’t recall the last time I met a woman who expected allowances for platonic meets.

I am not talking about meet and greets. I'm talking about a platonic arrangement which is the only thing they're looking for and are charging large sums of money for.

[southcoastpunter]

That’s not been my experience at all.  I can’t recall the last time I met a woman who expected allowances for platonic meets.

I don’t come into London so much these days and mainly use Seeking more on the south coast - but there are seeking ladies there who want / expect payment for M@G meetings and some who also expect platonic meets thereafter again for financial gain!

I would say that the biggest single reason why my planned M&G meetings don’t happen is that they spring wanting money before a meet or at the meet on me - often the day before or on the morning of the meet!

[massagepuntingfan]

Next they'll be trying to charge for an introductory Video Call!

[Ron89]

Not having much success at all in the couple weeks I've been back on this. 2 shags with 7/10 early 20s girls at 200. It's concerning how £300 now seems to be the default requirements for even the average looking girls. In most cases would rather smash an escort and bank the change.

[kutch]

Not having much success at all in the couple weeks I've been back on this. 2 shags with 7/10 early 20s girls at 200. It's concerning how £300 now seems to be the default requirements for even the average looking girls. In most cases would rather smash an escort and bank the change.

I hear you….I’m being met with ladies asking for 350/400. 

[massagepuntingfan]

I hear you….I’m being met with ladies asking for 350/400.

Yes Agreed. I find £300 there are still some that are keen but as many have said previously SBs have become more wise to our low ball offers. Hotties now want the full SB experience, not guys who want to fuck for a couple of hours for below equivalent escort prices.

[Ron89]

Yeah they're definitely schooling each other and I've also noticed that they now mostly have a 'pro' vibe to them in terms of questioning and the transactional element. The innocent and perhaps naive ones are very rare. It's not an enticing proposition anymore and I probably won't renew.

The thing that appealed in the past was the value and legitimate enjoyment from both parties. I feel like a lot of these girls are basically escort equivalents at rates which just don't represent value when I can fuck a hot Brazilian down the road for £60. I've lost count how many are asking me 'how long for?' like they're taking a booking.

Rant over. Just awful nowadays. 

[bigden40]

I am not talking about meet and greets. I'm talking about a platonic arrangement which is the only thing they're looking for and are charging large sums of money for.

I understood your post.  Again, it’s not been my experience. 

[southcoastpunter]

shags with 7/10 early 20s girls at 200.

7/10 girls in their early 20's in the London area doesn't sound too bad to me. (7/10 to me is perfectly ok girl, maybe not the prettiest or the best body but still very acceptable. )

In most cases would rather smash an escort and bank the change.

 i think there aren't too many 7/10 Escorts and very very few 8/10 escorts - and well, you have come up with an answer for you!

[bigden40]

I don’t come into London so much these days and mainly use Seeking more on the south coast - but there are seeking ladies there who want / expect payment for M@G meetings and some who also expect platonic meets thereafter again for financial gain!

I would say that the biggest single reason why my planned M&G meetings don’t happen is that they spring wanting money before a meet or at the meet on me - often the day before or on the morning of the meet!

I am aware these women exist.  Where encountered I’ve found it very easy to weed them out early in the process, but tbh the vast majority of women I’ve spoken to understand that intimacy is a key part of most arrangements. 

I’ve never paid for a M&G or a subsequent platonic meet. 

[bigden40]

I hear you….I’m being met with ladies asking for 350/400.

The key isn’t what they ask for but what they accept.  Treat as an opening bid for negotiation. 

I’ve had girls ask for £500 and settle for £200

[DeanoDeano]

Apologies if the last page of posts is mostly from guys who are new to seeking but most of the points raised are not new news.

Seeking is not, and never has been aimed at guys looking for cheap sex.

It’s no longer even called an “arrangement” enabling website - their marketing, and by arrangement I mean what guys on here will interpret as sex for money, P2P, whatever.

There are and always have been extremely wealthy guys in the world, the gap between rich and not rich is perhaps wider than it ever has been, given UK politics, tax rules, etc, and the HNW will do what they always have and just pay for what they want. Debating this is a little pointless.

Not been on the website for ages, but the last time I was, it was very much the same as it always has been, the genuine unicorns are hard to find, if you’ve got the time, energy and ability to find and charm them great, if you don’t, it’s a struggle.

#tedtalkoverandout

[ceo247]

Says no black in her text message. Asked why and said due to bad experience

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[bigden40]

Says no black in her text message. Asked why and said due to bad experience

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Wrong thread?

[Spermdispenser]

A couple of recent time wasters:

Mia, 25, claims to have had £700 per date before. Have moved to WhatsApp as she is hot, however all attempts to meet have ended with comms going dead. External Link/Members Only

Maria, 27, also hot, got to WhatsApp but impossible to meet, External Link/Members Only

Natalya, 25, again got to WhatsApp and disappeared when trying to suggest an actual time to meet External Link/Members Only

[user400_]

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[Spermdispenser]

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One of the most seasoned pros on the site, she hangs around with two other ladies whose profiles you’ll probably also come across. I suspect she’ll ask for the best part of £1k.

[DeanoDeano]

Please please please put profile names or some identifying info that doesn’t breach site rules up for the rest of us to help you better 👍

I don’t have an account currently but have been on and off the site for years so if this profile has been too, chances are I could offer some feedback…

Edit to add I would hazard a guess based on the post above mine that this is either Miss Charlie or martina the eastern bloc brunette…

[user400_]

One of the most seasoned pros on the site, she hangs around with two other ladies whose profiles you’ll probably also come across. I suspect she’ll ask for the best part of £1k.

Who are the other two are they fitter ?

[delta69]

One of the most seasoned pros on the site, she hangs around with two other ladies whose profiles you’ll probably also come across. I suspect she’ll ask for the best part of £1k.

She’s on uk glamour rota ( I believe it’s for members only)

[DeanoDeano]

Who are the other two are they fitter ?

I don’t think you’ve quite got the hang of things on here yet