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Offline metalqaz

Did you happen to meet her? Feels genuine and planning to meet her.

Had planned to in December, she’s definitely genuine but she got upset with me changing the dates twice (which were for genuine reasons) after which she wasn’t interested anymore which I completely understand. Let us know how you get on :thumbsup:

Offline Brimich

I was chatting with Midwife2002 (based in Lowestoft Suffolk) and all of a sudden her profile was gone. Can anyone confirm if it is gone or did she just block me?

Offline londonhunter008

Some info for fellow gentlemen on here: -

Downright unrealistic and irrational: -

External Link/Members Only  - alysha1212,28 – Normally charges 2k per meet

External Link/Members Only - Thalia,22 - Low, mid 4-figures. Atleast she was nice about it and had a conversation and said there are a lot of multimillionaires on Seeking.

External Link/Members Only  - prettylilbub,
22 – not anything less than 500

External Link/Members Only  - Tessa,24 – Gave me TG and ratted off rates such as for only coffee – 300, dinner and drinks – 500, 1hour intimacy 600 and dinner and intimacy 1k

External Link/Members Only  - Dags,25 – min 600

External Link/Members Only  - Bella,24 - as mentioned in profile first meet is for coffee which is 350 and then on 2nd meet, she might be into intimacy which is not guaranteed and the price for 2nd will be told on 1st meet.

External Link/Members Only  - lovewolf1910,32 – First meet and greet at 250. Didn’t pursue further.

External Link/Members Only  - MissMia,23 – 2k posted on 2nd message.

External Link/Members Only  - violet,31 – Last arrangement was for 1k.

External Link/Members Only  - Isabela,27 – Previous arrangement for 1-1.5k.


External Link/Members Only -  Soulbaby XO,30 – Previous arrangement for 1k

There were few others who have blocked me and I have deleted those chats.

Context: - I am in London for few days only. So long term is out of question. The below profiles are mostly looking for long term or somewhere outside London and cant travel. 

External Link/Members Only  -  Veronica,24

External Link/Members Only - Vlady,23

External Link/Members Only  - Sugaromg,33

External Link/Members Only  - Allie,23

External Link/Members Only  - Mia,25

External Link/Members Only  - Amelia,34

External Link/Members Only  - Emilee,33

External Link/Members Only  -  Mariana,31

External Link/Members Only  - Siena,29

Thank you for sharing. Most of the profiles you mentioned are not verified and you may end up wasting time talking to such girls.  Most of the women on SA talk about long term but you dont need to worry about that even if it is mentioned. Just say that you visit London often and you can meet again if you get along well with the girl. You will anyway pay for the time you will spend with her. and second or future meets are never guaranteed no matter what anyone says. It can work again only if you both are happy with initial meets.

Offline DashSam89

Thank you for sharing. Most of the profiles you mentioned are not verified and you may end up wasting time talking to such girls.  Most of the women on SA talk about long term but you dont need to worry about that even if it is mentioned. Just say that you visit London often and you can meet again if you get along well with the girl. You will anyway pay for the time you will spend with her. and second or future meets are never guaranteed no matter what anyone says. It can work again only if you both are happy with initial meets.

Thanks for the suggestions!!

Offline Froomey

i did say UK employment law and i think Matt Gaetz might fall into the "senior" category and was not covered by UK employment law and as was pointed out, had other issues involved too.

This all started by the following comment:
no one in the UK is going to be fairly dismissed just because they are a member of seeking.com - of course they could be unfairly dismissed but that applies to anything to do with employment law. so any normal Seeking profile that mentions they work for the NHS is not at risk anymore than being on Tinder, Bumble etc and the risk (by itself) is almost zero.

You did, indeed, say UK employment law. My reference to Gaetz case was intended to be mildly humorous, though it is instructive.

The argument that 'no-one in the Uk is going to be fairly dismissed' because of Seeking membership, I think, is moot. I very much doubt that any instance of someone losing their job on this basis would ever get as far as testing the fairness of the dismissal, which would entail a vast to an employment tribunal. Having some experience of such cases, I can imagine the 'fun' a decent employment barrister would have: 'so, ms x, how many men did you meet through seeking for sex? how much did you charge them?' and on for hours potentially. So, in my view, anyone confronted with the facts would aim to leave quiet and certainly not face that kind of exposure.

I'm sure we'd al love to read the salacious details of any such case........

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External Link/Members Only  - Mia,25


she's pro, directly quote me a big ppm number when approached, i can't remember the exact number maybe 700-800

Offline WKD123

Did you happen to meet her? Feels genuine and planning to meet her.

For what it's worth, I got chatting to her and she did seem genuine, but she has been on the site for a long time and once I had shared my photos, no more convo..... quelle surprise!  :D

She was a Telegram user last time we messaged, which can for some be a red flag...

Offline WKD123

Just noticed an updated profile on someone I had a conversation with before I, fortunately, got back in with a couple of arrangements:

Polite Girl
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I think our conversation has helped her refine what she is looking for and she seems genuine, new to this and probably pissed off with time wasters.  Her English is not great so don't expect sparkling repartee but if you do hit it off, you may have a great time.

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Time waster, avoid

Arranged a meet 1 week ahead, confirmed multiple times, on the day she did not show up and radio silence on both whatsapp and SA, while she's on SA all the time

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Time waster, avoid

Arranged a meet 1 week ahead, confirmed multiple times, on the day she did not show up and radio silence on both whatsapp and SA, while she's on SA all the time

she may be a time wasters, i don't know. never seen her or chatted to her - but because the Seeking system says she is "online now" or "last online 3 hours ago" etc doesn't mean she actually was. most ladies use the Seeking app and unless you formally close it, it often activates every time you use your phone (for other apps/messages/calls etc). Ladies i trust have told me they were not online even though the system shows they were!

Offline Moutarde2

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Time waster, avoid

Arranged a meet 1 week ahead, confirmed multiple times, on the day she did not show up and radio silence on both whatsapp and SA, while she's on SA all the time

I concur.

A meal was planned and confirmed less than 24h before. I get around the place a little early, check her profile to remind myself of the info. A few minutes later I try to write a message saying I got there and I find out I am blocked.

Seriously?! Thank God I didn't book a place with a cancellation fee.
« Last Edit: January 18, 2025, 07:50:45 pm by Moutarde2 »

Offline Cunning Punt

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I note Seeking has removed the promo code dialog box when subscribing, both via PCs and app. The other alternative has been using the direct url containing the promo code eg External Link/Members Only

But the codes I have no longer work via this method either and only had one 15% offer pop up when on the site, before Christmas, in the past 3 months that I've been unsubbed. Previously there were regular offers when I wasn't subbed and also always got a discounted membership from one code or another, but it seems Seeking are clamping down on discounts. So this really is going to exacerbate Seeking's ongoing decline.




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i was unsubbed for a couple of weeks over Xmas and NY but signed in regularly to search - i got offered 15% or 20% every time plus a couple of 25%. Not a 33% anymore - i did take up one of the 25% offers.

Seeking do seem to be slowly trying to change things again - maybe one of those changes is to what was originally intended - guys of a certain financial standing and to whom £100pm is not a lot!
« Last Edit: January 19, 2025, 02:31:34 pm by southcoastpunter »

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

I’ve just disabled my account for a short while. Have one or two ladies on the go. See if this generates a welcome beck offer!  :D

Offline stampjones

I think people have to remember that the guys who run seeking probably know what they’re doing and that their interests probably dont align with a bunch of guys after cheap sex. Almost certainly they know what the impact of price rises or ending discounts is, and you have to assume they are happy with that and it fits into their overall plan for the site. Even if they got it wrong, again you can assume that they have pretty good feedback on the impact that these changes have and if they are negative (from their perspective) they would be changed. Given that they havent been, it’s a pretty good assumption that they are working as desired. At the end of the day they will always do whatever suits their business and will always be better informed about exactly how that is going than any of us. So at the end of the day we, as users of their service, can either walk away or suck it up. Have a moan if it makes you feel better but if you think it will change anything, you’re probably wrong

Offline Mr Garmin

I have taken advantage of the discount, however it wasn't a deal breaker, just a nice to have.  How much are you actually saving compared to spending many £100's on a few hours fun.  The equivalent of a round of drinks in a London club.

If that's a problem then perhaps Seeking isn't for you

Offline seed_sprayer

To share some wasted time in the last few months
Will post some ones I've met soon

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Caprichosa
Looks fit on pics
Then became apparent wanted lots of money before (?300), no thanks

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Poppy
Laughed at 300 - didn’t like pics enough to go up beyond that

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Hayley
600 I think and was firm on this
Liked her look but not that much

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Molly
Contacted me, not my thing, spammed me with messages, avoid, feels and sounds desperate

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Annie
Looked very promising, chats well on phone - but then absolute timewaster - cancellations/near ghosting

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AdorableBelle
Pics had me tempted…. Sounds genuine on phone.  But 800!?!  Had a vanilla feel.

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Alice Windsor
Endless slow chat not moving anywhere, shame, she’s hot

Offline Brightskies

To share some wasted time in the last few months
Will post some ones I've met soon

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AdorableBelle
Pics had me tempted…. Sounds genuine on phone.  But 800!?!  Had a vanilla feel.


Thanks for the intel. This one quoted me 500 which was still too much for me - all seemed a bit robotic / pro vibes. She wouldn’t move from her first offer so just moved on with life but if anyone really wants a go, you might be able to go for that instead of 800.

Offline Cunning Punt

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I think people have to remember that the guys who run seeking probably know what they’re doing and that their interests probably dont align with a bunch of guys after cheap sex. Almost certainly they know what the impact of price rises or ending discounts is, and you have to assume they are happy with that and it fits into their overall plan for the site. Even if they got it wrong, again you can assume that they have pretty good feedback on the impact that these changes have and if they are negative (from their perspective) they would be changed. Given that they havent been, it’s a pretty good assumption that they are working as desired. At the end of the day they will always do whatever suits their business and will always be better informed about exactly how that is going than any of us. So at the end of the day we, as users of their service, can either walk away or suck it up. Have a moan if it makes you feel better but if you think it will change anything, you’re probably wrong

No-one was having a moan. I was just making an observation.

As for Seeking, they may well make a reasonable profit but I really don't believe they are doing all that well or have made particularly good decisions in the past couple of years, reflected in reduction in quality and quantity of girls on there and reduction in interest from guys (from what's said here or not said, given the Seeking threads are not as vibrant/populated as they were, is indicative, I think).

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you are right in a lot of respects CP but based on their new business model, frankly they probably don't want some of the guys on here as they try to move away from an "arrangement" site to a more traditional "dating" site.

If they just wanted to maximise profit they could have stayed where they were but even then, they faced other issues - including credit card companies threatening to not provide services to them as they were too many cases (especially for the US legislation) of members selling / buying sex!

Offline paul_tall_

you are right in a lot of respects CP but based on their new business model, frankly they probably don't want some of the guys on here as they try to move away from an "arrangement" site to a more traditional "dating" site.

If they just wanted to maximise profit they could have stayed where they were but even then, they faced other issues - including credit card companies threatening to not provide services to them as they were too many cases (especially for the US legislation) of members selling / buying sex!
For a while the categorisation the payment comes under from my BarclayCard is Escort/Dating service which isnt ideal luckily i have no need for someone to check my spending history for things

Offline stampjones

Wasnt accusing you of having a moan CP and even if you were its totally fine. Im not averse to having the odd one myself. The points you make are broadly true in my experience too. My point was just that seeking dont give a shit what we think other than how it might affect their strategy. Given how they have pretty much gone against what most on here think they should do (or at least would like them to do), I think its safe to say we’re not their target demographic at this moment in time so they dont really care what we think

Offline martleto88

External Link/Members Only - Lucienne

Anyone played here ? I am chatting there but so slow communication…

Offline warmhands

To share some wasted time in the last few months
Will post some ones I've met soon

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Caprichosa
Looks fit on pics
Then became apparent wanted lots of money before (?300), no thanks

External Link/Members Only
Poppy
Laughed at 300 - didn’t like pics enough to go up beyond that

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Hayley
600 I think and was firm on this
Liked her look but not that much

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Molly
Contacted me, not my thing, spammed me with messages, avoid, feels and sounds desperate

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Annie
Looked very promising, chats well on phone - but then absolute timewaster - cancellations/near ghosting

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AdorableBelle
Pics had me tempted…. Sounds genuine on phone.  But 800!?!  Had a vanilla feel.

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Alice Windsor
Endless slow chat not moving anywhere, shame, she’s hot

Spoke to AdorableBelle a few weeks ago - she was asking for 500 for a normal date/fun arrangement with no time limits. She was indeed very vanilla and not adventurous enough for my liking.

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She's also a fairly popular onlyfans girl

Offline warmhands

She's also a fairly popular onlyfans girl

Which one? answered my own question
« Last Edit: January 22, 2025, 08:05:17 pm by warmhands »

Offline Brightskies

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Natalie

She messaged me first a couple of days ago suggesting online while she’s away and that she’s doing meets when back. Was suspicious as she messaged me first but thought I’d check my suspicions were correct. She confirmed over telegram that she’s online only so don’t waste your time (or money!) in hope of a later meet.

Offline SP79

Tried looking these up on here but couldn't find anything. Anyone got any intel?

Chloediamond
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Melody
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Kennedy0377
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Innocent
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Talking to them all currently.

Thanks folks

Offline Teejay

Tried looking these up on here but couldn't find anything. Anyone got any intel?

Chloediamond
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Melody
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Kennedy0377
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Innocent
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Talking to them all currently.

Thanks folks
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Ok let me try again.

Kennedy0377
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i have met Kennedy0377 3 times - a tall (5-10) generally slim lady. First time (just a meal) we got on well together and agreed to meet again. second time an overnight - good but not fabulous, fairly vanilla. 3rd time we just didn't click as before and we decided not to proceed any further.

Offline SP79

i have met Kennedy0377 3 times - a tall (5-10) generally slim lady. First time (just a meal) we got on well together and agreed to meet again. second time an overnight - good but not fabulous, fairly vanilla. 3rd time we just didn't click as before and we decided not to proceed any further.

Thank you good insight!

Offline martleto88



Innocent
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I haven’t met Her but chatted with Her. She seems to be a down to earth person. Constantly active on the website. I do believe She is semi-pro. We agreed about £300 for few hrs with intimacy around last year at this time.
She said she doesn’t like someone to give her head ( oral on Her) and that simply didn’t work for me. Small breasts, typical bit loose bum, I thin she is Irish. Be straightforward with Her. She will be with you. Everything protected willing to go owo.
Face my type but yeah. Sorry for not giving you a lot of info. Oh and she is slow with replies
« Last Edit: January 24, 2025, 12:05:49 am by martleto88 »

Offline SP79

Thanks for this info. She has been very nice. She's suggested a figure and I need to get back to her with dates etc now. Not gone into specifics so RO etc hasn't come up yet. Useful to know. Thank you

Offline Brightskies

i have met Kennedy0377 3 times - a tall (5-10) generally slim lady. First time (just a meal) we got on well together and agreed to meet again. second time an overnight - good but not fabulous, fairly vanilla. 3rd time we just didn't click as before and we decided not to proceed any further.
She looks a bit odd in her pictures - does she look better IRL?

Offline SP79

Ok let me try again.

Chloediamond
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Melody
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Kennedy0377
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Innocent
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As an update. I'm waiting on Chloe to get back to me and move conversation on to WA.

Spoken with Melody she wants 500 for an overnight meet but wants cash before intimacy. Is that a normal thing with this kind of arrangement or should I be blocking and moving on?

Swapped messages with Alex she wants to meet before intimacy which I get. Sent me a few voice notes and even her accent does something to me lol. Southcoastpunter don't know if you'll share but the meeting before you two got intimate did you pay for that on top of covering meal/travel costs?

Also guys thanks for all the sharing on here. Really helps a noobie like me

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She looks a bit odd in her pictures - does she look better IRL?

her pics on seeking don't do her justice.

One thing i forgot to mention and maybe one of the reasons i didn't take to her as much as i thought i would is that she has fake boobs . she hasn't gone OTT - probably a D cup but i dislike all fake boobs.

Offline Brightskies

As an update. I'm waiting on Chloe to get back to me and move conversation on to WA.

Spoken with Melody she wants 500 for an overnight meet but wants cash before intimacy. Is that a normal thing with this kind of arrangement or should I be blocking and moving on?

Swapped messages with Alex she wants to meet before intimacy which I get. Sent me a few voice notes and even her accent does something to me lol. Southcoastpunter don't know if you'll share but the meeting before you two got intimate did you pay for that on top of covering meal/travel costs?

Also guys thanks for all the sharing on here. Really helps a noobie like me

As in she wants you to pay up front? I (and many others) would probably see that as a red flag if she insists upon it. I can understand why they would prefer it but too risky especially  for a first time meet for me.

Offline Brightskies

her pics on seeking don't do her justice.

One thing i forgot to mention and maybe one of the reasons i didn't take to her as much as i thought i would is that she has fake boobs . she hasn't gone OTT - probably a D cup but i dislike all fake boobs.
Thanks, I’m similar on the silicon.

Offline SP79

As in she wants you to pay up front? I (and many others) would probably see that as a red flag if she insists upon it. I can understand why they would prefer it but too risky especially  for a first time meet for me.

Before her clothes come off was the phrase she used. So happy to go for food etc but once back in the room before any naked shenanigans she wants paying

Offline Brightskies

Before her clothes come off was the phrase she used. So happy to go for food etc but once back in the room before any naked shenanigans she wants paying

That’s still suspicious to me, if you read back on this thread there’s tales of people doing this and then she does a runner  as soon as she has the money.

I’ve had one who wanted this and said it would make it feel less transactional (some mental gymnastics going on there  :lol:). When I didn’t want to she eventually caved and just dealt with it at the end like normal.

If you think she’s worth it maybe try suggesting you will be happy to do that if you see each other again but you won’t do it first time as you’ve been scammed before by others. Might not work but is a reasonable thing to say that might convince her you’re serious as talking about a future time.

Offline SP79

Good shout thanks @brightskies. I'd read about it before hence I'm questioning it I guess

Offline paul_tall_

Before her clothes come off was the phrase she used. So happy to go for food etc but once back in the room before any naked shenanigans she wants paying
The real question is can you afford to lose £500 ? If not then certainly not consider it.
It does work both ways and you can understand why a girl would be reluctant to wait until after.
It really all comes down to how much interaction you have had with her and your gut feel.
If it was an escort booking you would still be paying upfront. Obviously with seeking unless she has done a runner before with someone on this board then its a risk.
Just by looking at her profile a couple of weeks back she emailed me with a fairly generic message about enjoying my profile and did i have a good Christmas and new year and was keen to get to whatsapp. I made my excuses and didnt continue as wasnt sure about her

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It does work both ways and you can understand why a girl would be reluctant to wait until after.
It really all comes down to how much interaction you have had with her and your gut feel.


yep -we tend to forget that girls get mucked about too, they get scammed, they get guys that afterwards refuse to pay them what was agreed etc. So its about finding some middle ground that is acceptable to you both - or forgetting about her and moving on.

Offline SP79

yep -we tend to forget that girls get mucked about too, they get scammed, they get guys that afterwards refuse to pay them what was agreed etc. So its about finding some middle ground that is acceptable to you both - or forgetting about her and moving on.

Yeah it's a difficult to balance this kind of arrangement especially when you're a very risk averse person and can be pretty skittish after reading some of the horror stories on this forum. That's why this forum is helpful when those incidents have happened. Spoken with Melody and reached a compromise on this that I was happy with. She seemed very genuine in her Comms to be fair to her about it.

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Time waster, avoid

Arranged a meet 1 week ahead, confirmed multiple times, on the day she did not show up and radio silence on both whatsapp and SA, while she's on SA all the time

I agree, the worst form of time waster, been on WhatsApp & Telegram with her. Always on the app but never meets despite agreeing to and ghosts.

Offline NightKid

Ok let me try again.

Chloediamond
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Melody
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Kennedy0377
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Innocent
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I haven’t met Her but chatted with Her. She seems to be a down to earth person. Constantly active on the website. I do believe She is semi-pro.

FWIW I'm certain all women on that list, though likely genuine, are semi pros ... the first two messaged me pretty much instantly upon viewing their profiles.

Offline Spermdispenser

To share some wasted time in the last few months
Will post some ones I've met soon

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Caprichosa
Looks fit on pics
Then became apparent wanted lots of money before (?300), no thanks

External Link/Members Only
Poppy
Laughed at 300 - didn’t like pics enough to go up beyond that

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Hayley
600 I think and was firm on this
Liked her look but not that much

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Molly
Contacted me, not my thing, spammed me with messages, avoid, feels and sounds desperate

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Annie
Looked very promising, chats well on phone - but then absolute timewaster - cancellations/near ghosting

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AdorableBelle
Pics had me tempted…. Sounds genuine on phone.  But 800!?!  Had a vanilla feel.

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Alice Windsor
Endless slow chat not moving anywhere, shame, she’s hot

I was keen to meet Adorablebelle after seeing that lovely lying down bikini shot, and she agreed £500. However, she came over very pro, lots of rules, lots of questions and insisted on a hotel and money upfront. She made it clear (wihtout us even having sex conversation) that there must be protection and then asked if i'd ever had a coldsore (all pro-actively on whatsapp), which kind of put me off and made me think it was going to be a poor value/robotic experience, so I didn't meet. I then found some of her onlyfans content and actually wasn't that into her, looked like quite a cheap boob job and slightly odd pussy.

Offline DashSam89

Had planned to in December, she’s definitely genuine but she got upset with me changing the dates twice (which were for genuine reasons) after which she wasn’t interested anymore which I completely understand. Let us know how you get on :thumbsup:

Has gone radio silent with no reply to my messages on Whatsapp although messages are going through. Been 2-3 days so not sure if she is planning to meet and I am not here for long.

Offline DashSam89

External Link/Members Only - Flowerbirds, 24. Fancied her very much and she just got active again. In Bristol willing to travel to London but is min 750 for few hours.

External Link/Members Only - Scottishcutie, 26 - has anyone met her?