Seeking.com (London)

[Gentlelovemaking]

Brethren, any intel on missjuicy_
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Had a vibrant exchange, couple of red flags, agreed a date, then she blocked me 

Profile is down

[toddroman456]

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Is this the GB news journalist

Or a fake account ?

[PLeisure]

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Thanks, Gl 

[paul_tall_]

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Is this the GB news journalist

Or a fake account ?

ex GB news journalist.
With the marketing of seeking re high quality dating its entirely possible its a real profile though you would think they would have researched the site prior to joining. The seeking text she has written implies she is just looking for platonic dates with an intelligent , elegant guy who would fund such dates.

Conversely she was/is a supporter of the Rawanda scheme and controlled immigration and often writes about such subjects in a red top newspaper so her details and pictures could easily have been picked up by scammers / fake news

[Gentlelovemaking]

In general how often does everyone speak to their SB’s. I like to just message a week or few days before a planned meet or to gauge their schedule.

The ones who message daily for me can be a bit flaky and show more of their true nature which im not keen on but would be interested in everyone’s thoughts.

Also what’s the average length of arrangements everyone is having ?

[wirehair]

In general how often does everyone speak to their SB’s. I like to just message a week or few days before a planned meet or to gauge their schedule.

The ones who message daily for me can be a bit flaky and show more of their true nature which im not keen on but would be interested in everyone’s thoughts.

Also what’s the average length of arrangements everyone is having ?

My current SB and I message a good few times a day even between meets - usually just silly stuff or common interests. I guess it depends as I’ve had some who’ve wanted that amount of contact and some who don’t and even with same one it can vary over time, like if she or me are busy or away.
 
As for length again I’ve my fair share of one-offs but I’ve had arrangements that have lasted from 3 months to 2 years. I guess my usual length is about 3 to 6 months before boredom and the quest for sexual variety kick in.

[sjlund]

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Anyone had a meet?

[Brightskies]

Sofia J - External Link/Members Only

Anyone had a meet?

Messaged for a bit previously but never arranged a meet. A bit skeptical about the pics, look a bit shopped / too good to be true but could very well be wrong.

[sjlund]

Messaged for a bit previously but never arranged a meet. A bit skeptical about the pics, look a bit shopped / too good to be true but could very well be wrong.

Manage to get a price quoted?

[Brightskies]

Manage to get a price quoted?

No, found someone else so never followed up. What’s she quoting you?

[paul_tall_]

Messaged for a bit previously but never arranged a meet. A bit skeptical about the pics, look a bit shopped / too good to be true but could very well be wrong.

Pictures match a uk based Instagram account for a girl who is a model so depends on the interaction as to whether stolen pics or real

[Gentlelovemaking]

What’s the consensus of having an SB from the continent. France, Netherlands, Belgium. I’ve spoken to a few and they want travel to and from (Eurostar) and will all do overnights for a the same fee as my other PPM’s.

It’s a bit of a gamble for me but want to know if anyone has had one of these arrangements?

[massagepuntingfan]

What’s the consensus of having an SB from the continent. France, Netherlands, Belgium. I’ve spoken to a few and they want travel to and from (Eurostar) and will all do overnights for a the same fee as my other PPM’s.

It’s a bit of a gamble for me but want to know if anyone has had one of these arrangements?

I tried once with a lady who lived in Paris. She was happy with a ppm of £300 but wanted me to cover cost of Eurostar and be wined and dined and wanted to stay in a hotel for the night with me paying. Despite the fact she was stunning, it fizzled out due to the fact that I don't wine and dine SBs(until I know them/have a rapport), I prefer hosting from home(never pay for hotel) and general inflated costs and lack of spontaneity as she lives in another country meant it was easy to walk away.

[NightKid]

What’s the consensus of having an SB from the continent. France, Netherlands, Belgium. I’ve spoken to a few and they want travel to and from (Eurostar) and will all do overnights for a the same fee as my other PPM’s.

It’s a bit of a gamble for me but want to know if anyone has had one of these arrangements?

I know a SB who's had genuine offers from abroad (as in the meet did happen) but she'll always ask for travel to be covered as they all do.

So the simple answer to your question is if you're a) happy to bear the extra cost and more importantly b) you can trust she isn't gonna bail then yes they do exist.

[paul_tall_]

What’s the consensus of having an SB from the continent. France, Netherlands, Belgium. I’ve spoken to a few and they want travel to and from (Eurostar) and will all do overnights for a the same fee as my other PPM’s.

It’s a bit of a gamble for me but want to know if anyone has had one of these arrangements?

Have you actively approached them or them approaching you ?
Aside from the usual Eastern European countries that constantly message. I have had the odd message from  girls in various Western European countries with the approach often being I will be in London on a date a few weeks ahead would you like to meet. Invariably if you say message me when you are in London you never hear again or the conversation quickly moves to selling content. Unless you have actively approached them and made an effort for a first meeting to have a weekend away in their city accepting that they may ghost when you get there and if all goes well invite them over for the second meeting , the risk is too high as they will want the money to book the transport themselves that you send the money and they block you

[Gentlelovemaking]

Have you actively approached them or them approaching you ?
Aside from the usual Eastern European countries that constantly message. I have had the odd message from  girls in various Western European countries with the approach often being I will be in London on a date a few weeks ahead would you like to meet. Invariably if you say message me when you are in London you never hear again or the conversation quickly moves to selling content. Unless you have actively approached them and made an effort for a first meeting to have a weekend away in their city accepting that they may ghost when you get there and if all goes well invite them over for the second meeting , the risk is too high as they will want the money to book the transport themselves that you send the money and they block you

I set my search to 1km from London. They all contact and message me first. My current situation since coming back on seeking is….

Met 2 girls both has action With. One for £300 (very happy with her offering and well worth the fee) the other £400 didn’t look as good in person, left make up and lipstick stains all over my sheets and sheds loads of hair. Way too money grabbing for anything to progress further.

I have another M&G on Saturday with a SB based on the Midlands.

Overseas SB’s

Inundated with messages from them, spoken at lenthe with one from Belgium and have said I will pay £300 plus travel and she will stay overnight. Still feels risky although I’m happy with the numbers. Speaking to a model looking Dutch girl who wants a similar arrangement but at a higher ppm so mulling over it. Started early comms with a SB from Barcelona which looks promising as I’ll be in Barcelona later this year.

With the one from Belgium I was quite Frank and said there are so many SB’s in London I just don’t need to have an OS one. She tried to rationalise it but I said take it or leave it and she was being way too coy. As soon as I told her that she sent loads of pics and vids to me on Watsapp so I assume London is probably a very attractive location for SB’s to find SD’s

[massagepuntingfan]

Overseas SB’s

Inundated with messages from them,

With the one from Belgium I was quite Frank and said there are so many SB’s in London I just don’t need to have an OS one.

This is the key fact. For me it's mostly about getting the best girl for the money I am prepared to spend.

[paul_tall_]

I set my search to 1km from London. They all contact and message me first. My current situation since coming back on seeking is….

Met 2 girls both has action With. One for £300 (very happy with her offering and well worth the fee) the other £400 didn’t look as good in person, left make up and lipstick stains all over my sheets and sheds loads of hair. Way too money grabbing for anything to progress further.

I have another M&G on Saturday with a SB based on the Midlands.

Overseas SB’s

Inundated with messages from them, spoken at lenthe with one from Belgium and have said I will pay £300 plus travel and she will stay overnight. Still feels risky although I’m happy with the numbers. Speaking to a model looking Dutch girl who wants a similar arrangement but at a higher ppm so mulling over it. Started early comms with a SB from Barcelona which looks promising as I’ll be in Barcelona later this year.

With the one from Belgium I was quite Frank and said there are so many SB’s in London I just don’t need to have an OS one. She tried to rationalise it but I said take it or leave it and she was being way too coy. As soon as I told her that she sent loads of pics and vids to me on Watsapp so I assume London is probably a very attractive location for SB’s to find SD’s

Sounds like you are having the success you are looking for with girls from the UK.
£300ppm for the Belgium girl feels way too low even with you funding travel and overnight accommodation. Be wary of girls that send pictures , videos just like that.

[Gentlelovemaking]

Sounds like you are having the success you are looking for with girls from the UK.
£300ppm for the Belgium girl feels way too low even with you funding travel and overnight accommodation. Be wary of girls that send pictures , videos just like that.

I’m more cautious of SB’s who restrict pics of themselves as the SB I saw for £400 over the weekend was nothing like her pics. The Begian girl seems legit to me but it just feels like a lot of work and if we don’t click I can’t rush her out of the door.

As for success I’d say I’m content with what I’ve found however I have a months membership to run so I’ll continue prospecting girls as the more options you have the stronger you are at negotiating on SA. Much easier to walk away when you have more propspects.

There is one SB who was flaky last time I was on SA and never ended up meeting as she cancelled twice and acted odd. I blocked her this time so she didn’t try to reapproach but would be interested to know if anyone has any luck and can meet her.

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[southcoastpunter]

If you blocked her, she can’t see your profile or message you  and you can’t see or message her nor reverse the block - so why does it matter what anyone else might do with her? So you can’t set anything up with her- unless you have her on WA or similar?

[Gentlelovemaking]

If you blocked her, she can’t see your profile or message you  and you can’t see or message her nor reverse the block - so why does it matter what anyone else might do with her? So you can’t set anything up with her- unless you have her on WA or similar?

I have her on Watsapp. Was intrigued to know if she did meets or was a time waster by default

[Brightskies]

Any intel on this one? Been messaging a few days and might meet (250 agreed) but have a few other irons in the fire, and only planning one meet over next month.

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[jacobs1]

WARNING: SCAMMER IS BACK AGAIN. SA ID - Lonely Girl External Link/Members Only .This one has scammed me earlier. I posted about her before as above. She is back with a new profile. Wonder if anyone has had a good experience with her?
She's looking to book with me again (not knowing its me again). Would like some feedback on how to deal with her in case i arrange to meet her.

she is not the girl in the pictures. added me on telegram and she didnt realise she has some proper fake looking escort "who wants to meet today" videos of a naked girl shes pretending is her (no face shown) on her like archive section of her telegram profile. was something she had posted months before. i showed her screenshot of it and she blocked me.

she is 100% fake. just delete and move on everyone

hope she didnt scam you for much.

telegram seems like the weapon of choice for scammers atm. i do enjoy fucking with them though, wasting their time

[Tailgate]

What’s the consensus of having an SB from the continent. France, Netherlands, Belgium. I’ve spoken to a few and they want travel to and from (Eurostar) and will all do overnights for a the same fee as my other PPM’s.

It’s a bit of a gamble for me but want to know if anyone has had one of these arrangements?

I'm chatting to a Ukrainian girl on Telegram who initially contacted me on Seeking.
At first I thought 'just a scam' but she's actually genuine and has not asked for a penny (or the Ukrainian equivalent)

Studying for her Masters Degree and sometimes just wants a bit of support, guidance and advice.

She's keen to visit London under her own steam and if she's does on a Tourist Visa, I would be more than happy to get her hotel for a few nights.

[Tailgate]

What's the general consensus of visiting a SB at her place.

My subscription ran out but before it did I was chatting to a very attractive Milf who was keen to entertain at her place.

She went quite for a few month's so my interest waned but out of the blue she messaged me on WhatsApp and asked if I would still be interested.

I am, it's the going to a house to meet someone you've never met before gets the self preservation senses fired up.

Definitely doesn't come across as the 'rob you/blackmail' type, but never sure this day and age.

[Punting2022]

What's the general consensus of visiting a SB at her place.

My subscription ran out but before it did I was chatting to a very attractive Milf who was keen to entertain at her place.

She went quite for a few month's so my interest waned but out of the blue she messaged me on WhatsApp and asked if I would still be interested.

I am, it's the going to a house to meet someone you've never met before gets the self preservation senses fired up.

Definitely doesn't come across as the 'rob you/blackmail' type, but never sure this day and age.

Meet for drinks first in a public place. Chat to her then use your insticts weather to go back to hers. Or book a cheaper hotel first meet. Get trust then go to hers.

[Tailgate]

That's my instincts to be honest, not sure going straight to hers would be the best option.

If she declines the meet in public then I'll look elsewhere.

[Gentlelovemaking]

I’d suggest a meet and greet it public, video calling prior to meeting and trusting your instincts.

For what it’s worth punting for me is where you’re more likely to encounter problems. I’ve been in a couple of sticky situations as a punter but on SA apart from the transfer of cash I genuinely forget I’m with an SB and it feels like a cubby situation.

[stampjones]

What's the general consensus of visiting a SB at her place.

My subscription ran out but before it did I was chatting to a very attractive Milf who was keen to entertain at her place.

She went quite for a few month's so my interest waned but out of the blue she messaged me on WhatsApp and asked if I would still be interested.

I am, it's the going to a house to meet someone you've never met before gets the self preservation senses fired up.

Definitely doesn't come across as the 'rob you/blackmail' type, but never sure this day and age.

Ive met at her place for a few first meets. Been robbed/threatened once, every other time was fine. Once was in a really dodgy estate which every instinct screamed to get out but lil stamp kept me going. Should have listened to instinct but only cos it was a crap shag. The time I was robbed was a very upmarket house in suburbia. Make of all that what you will.

[Gentlelovemaking]

Ive met at her place for a few first meets. Been robbed/threatened once, every other time was fine. Once was in a really dodgy estate which every instinct screamed to get out but lil stamp kept me going. Should have listened to instinct but only cos it was a crap shag. The time I was robbed was a very upmarket house in suburbia. Make of all that what you will.

Can I ask what was robbed and was it direct or more of a pick pocket style of robbery ?

[stampjones]

Can I ask what was robbed and was it direct or more of a pick pocket style of robbery ?

Went to a house. Think it was actually craigslist rather than SA but cant remember too well. The girl was immediately flirty, touching me up etc. she said could she have the money so I gave it to her. She disappeared saying she was going to put it somewhere safe. A few minutes later a bloke came in and said I think you better leave now. He wasnt very big and I could probably have taken him but who wants that kind of hassle for a hundred quid or whatever it was so I left.

[jacobs1]

WARNING: SCAMMER IS BACK AGAIN. SA ID - Lonely Girl External Link/Members Only .This one has scammed me earlier. I posted about her before as above. She is back with a new profile. Wonder if anyone has had a good experience with her?
She's looking to book with me again (not knowing its me again). Would like some feedback on how to deal with her in case i arrange to meet her.

surely this is her on secretbenefits too External Link/Members Only

the verification video makes me think the pics could even be a different girl to who se actually is. have a look at the video would be intrigued to hear your thoughts

[metalqaz]

External Link/Members Only Harriet,26, Belfast, NIR

Told me she is in Peckham Rye agreed to meet for 250 ppm and sent gorgeous pics as well one hour before the meet... hey I don't have balance to travel to you can you book me an Uber. No thanks!

[Gentlelovemaking]

External Link/Members Only Harriet,26, Belfast, NIR

Told me she is in Peckham Rye agreed to meet for 250 ppm and sent gorgeous pics as well one hour before the meet... hey I don't have balance to travel to you can you book me an Uber. No thanks!

I usually cover taxis, but if she didn’t state that prior to the arrangement I understand.

[Punting2022]

External Link/Members Only Harriet,26, Belfast, NIR

Told me she is in Peckham Rye agreed to meet for 250 ppm and sent gorgeous pics as well one hour before the meet... hey I don't have balance to travel to you can you book me an Uber. No thanks!

If you book of your app then i suppose it isnt as bad. The oldest trick in the book to get cash though is when they ask for uber money/train Money.
It seems a small amount but do it to lots and your talking 100 maybe

[sugardaddy0511]

External Link/Members Only Harriet,26, Belfast, NIR

Told me she is in Peckham Rye agreed to meet for 250 ppm and sent gorgeous pics as well one hour before the meet... hey I don't have balance to travel to you can you book me an Uber. No thanks!

I book them through my app for short distances

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I book them through my app for short distances

I Always book my SB’s a return Uber through my phone app. It’s part of the fun/process. It’s quite nice seeing them on the way, sometimes get a cheeky photo. Then seeing the car pulling up, then seeing them getting out the car, checking their phone looking for you.  You get a pre check of what’s to come later. I met a gorgeous Vietnamese (Arriana Grande lookalike) in Soho for dinner / hotel meet.  Looked gorgeous extracting herself from the car.  To say she was wonderful company/ grateful for the transport would be an understatement paid back 10 fold later that night. Glorious tits / nipples.

Are people still seriously sending money in advance?  It’s the number “1” rule not to break under any circumstances.

[roohi]

surely this is her on secretbenefits too External Link/Members Only

the verification video makes me think the pics could even be a different girl to who se actually is. have a look at the video would be intrigued to hear your thoughts

On the contrary. The pics are hers while the video seems to be of someone else.

[Punting2022]

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Wants 1000 per meet, was in London before
Has Duck Lips

[Punting2022]

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Ignores all messages

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Wants 800 per meet. Added on WHatsapp is attractive tbh

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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Wants 1000 per meet, was in London before
Has Duck Lips

She’s paying you? Don’t accept anything below £800 you’re worth it!

Jeez talk about deluded!

[Punting2022]

She’s paying you? Don’t accept anything below £800 you’re worth it!

Jeez talk about deluded!

I no longer meet for over 500 now.
350 max for gnd and pretty girls. 500 only if a stunner.
Im sorted with arrangements now. Have a gem who sees us for free now. Developed a connection. I still gift her sexy dresses etc and do help. But as not ppm it still works out better

[metalqaz]

Query from a newbie. I’ve managed to get a few numbers and chatting to them on WhatsApp to arrange a m&g but I’ve noticed a pattern, everyone who gives me their number ends up blocking me on the site but continue to chat on WhatsApp

My only assumption is they don’t want me to see them online again. Have I got that right?

[updownandaround]

Query from a newbie. I’ve managed to get a few numbers and chatting to them on WhatsApp to arrange a m&g but I’ve noticed a pattern, everyone who gives me their number ends up blocking me on the site but continue to chat on WhatsApp

My only assumption is they don’t want me to see them online again. Have I got that right?

That is perhaps the biggest reason. It happens on Tinder and similar platforms too.

[massagepuntingfan]

That is perhaps the biggest reason. It happens on Tinder and similar platforms too.

Agreed, I wouldn't read into it. Happens to everyone, my understanding is she's prob talking to a fair few people and doesn't want you/I/us continually looking at her profile.

[updownandaround]

Agreed, I wouldn't read into it. Happens to everyone, my understanding is she's prob talking to a fair few people and doesn't want you/I/us continually looking at her profile.

I imagine they do it to give the illusion that they are only talking to you which maintains the "I only want one guy" line you see in so many profiles. By blocking you, you can't see they are online 24/7 farming for more punters 😂

[Mr Garmin]

That is perhaps the biggest reason. It happens on Tinder and similar platforms too.

I'd read that it was so you could no longer report the profile when you discover that they're a scammer

[Gentlelovemaking]

Query from a newbie. I’ve managed to get a few numbers and chatting to them on WhatsApp to arrange a m&g but I’ve noticed a pattern, everyone who gives me their number ends up blocking me on the site but continue to chat on WhatsApp

My only assumption is they don’t want me to see them online again. Have I got that right?

This is a lesson in female nature for you. Women will conceal the fact that they will be open to monkey branching and getting a “better” option. If they block you, you can’t see their activity on the platform and they can say they are no longer active on seeking to maintain appearances.

As said before this is done commonly on online dating. If they didn’t block or get rid of you you’d be able to see them update pictures etc on their profile which shows they are actively seeking alternative options.

Don’t read into it but be aware of the above.

[Punting2022]

Best thing to do in tgis situation is have a burner account. New account to different email. Use tgat to search and report if they scam you.

[metalqaz]

Gentlelovemaking & Punting2022 - excellent advice as always. I’ll progress and see what comes out of it but damn it’s a lot of hard work!