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Honestly, you have no idea how much I love and enjoy your answers gents :) Hope in humanity restored

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I am way above 30.

I have never had the intention not to pay anyone. Was just curious on your opinion and experience. This is a forum, its designed so people can raise questions, give answers and share opinions and feedbacks.

well that then raises questions about your intelligence and logical reasonsing! do you think we are going to go out of our way to help you with info in the future or take any of your future posts or reviews seriously?

Offline Punter910

Has anyone of you ever done a ppm but never paid or paid partially the arranged amount after sex? Can a chick sue you or come after you if you just decide not to pay?

Yes she can report you to police as selling sex is legal and if you agreed on ppm and later if you do not pay , she can report you for fraud or more. I have heard couple of stories which went real bad.
I would suggest you to avoid that and check AW as its much cheaper than SA
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Yes she can report you to police as selling sex is legal and if you agreed on ppm and later if you do not pay , she can report you for fraud or more. I have heard couple of stories which went real bad.
I would suggest you to avoid that and check AW as its much cheaper than SA

And they can at least report on clienteye when he does a runner without paying.  :thumbsup:

Offline sugardaddy0511

Chillax gents, I never said that I have the intention to NOT pay the girls. I was just curious on your opinion and experience. In fact, I have been doing bank transfers to 2 ladies already even before we start the fun part
that’s a mistake

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Has anyone of you ever done a ppm but never paid or paid partially the arranged amount after sex? Can a chick sue you or come after you if you just decide not to pay?
Chillax gents, I never said that I have the intention to NOT pay the girls. I was just curious on your opinion and experience. In fact, I have been doing bank transfers to 2 ladies already even before we start the fun part
By the fact you asked the question in the first place casts doubt on your second post. It comes across as it's something you would do but are looking for others to condone it. If it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck . . . . . . . .

I think you are yet another new member who has the totally wrong idea about this site.

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Honestly, you have no idea how much I love and enjoy your answers gents :) Hope in humanity restored

Re: my age
I am way above 30.

I have never had the intention not to pay anyone. Was just curious on your opinion and experience. This is a forum, its designed so people can raise questions, give answers and share opinions and feedbacks.

I am also curious to see your honest reviews and how much you paid to girls on  sa with profile names..hahaha

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I am also curious to see your honest reviews and how much you paid to girls on  sa with profile names..hahaha
Have you just chosen to ignore the post above your's.   :unknown:

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Looks good, asking £500 but that’s too much

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Looks good, asking £500 but that’s too much
it would help us help you if you gave a profile name. (for example, i have deactivated my account and even before that, i did not leave my self logged-in (as i think most guys don't do) so to help you we have to log in or - just ignore your request!! Make it simple for us!!)

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it would help us help you if you gave a profile name. (for example, i have deactivated my account and even before that, i did not leave my self logged-in (as i think most guys don't do) so to help you we have to log in or - just ignore your request!! Make it simple for us!!)

Got it. Not sure who remembers names from that website, and sometimes these girls create new profiles as well. In this case she’s been around for a while. Her name is Skye_xxx

Offline wagglemypaddle

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Looks good, asking £500 but that’s too much

Did you try and negotiate her down ? She quoted me 500 but when i suggested 300 she came back with 350. Pretty girl tbf but 300 is my max so I politely declined.

Offline CroPunter

Did you try and negotiate her down ? She quoted me 500 but when i suggested 300 she came back with 350. Pretty girl tbf but 300 is my max so I politely declined.

Mate, you don't know to bargain :), if you said 250, she would go 300 or 350 if she went for 350 then you down it to 300 and she would accept :D

Offline youngwolf994

Mate, you don't know to bargain :), if you said 250, she would go 300 or 350 if she went for 350 then you down it to 300 and she would accept :D

You say that, but a lot of them will straight up block you when you try to negotiate. So I rarely do negotiate tbh.

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You say that, but a lot of them will straight up block you when you try to negotiate. So I rarely do negotiate tbh.

You need to be prepared to walk away then

Offline PLeisure

Got it. Not sure who remembers names from that website, and sometimes these girls create new profiles as well. In this case she’s been around for a while. Her name is Skye_xxx
We do - esp if there has been some interaction.
She's one of the first girls I migrated over to WA to discuss further. This was a couple years ago and I lowballed her; she wouldn't give me any indication of her expected PPM so didn't pursue further.
She's also with an agency; or at least still was about a year back.

Offline CroPunter

You say that, but a lot of them will straight up block you when you try to negotiate. So I rarely do negotiate tbh.

It depends a lot how you approach them. If you have a good banter and you actually lead them to mention first PPM them you can catch a good ones. If you are going straight and ask for PPM you will get the higher number. For me in the pastI had a convo that I'm looking for something long term, more like a relationship with financial help from my side. And since I was polite all the time girls tried to "win me over" and I had overnight for £250 in April 2022. I know it is crazy you have to pay them for PPM and they also are expecting that you seduce them :D

Offline youngwolf994

Is this EnglishSlutMillie? External Link/Members Only (Georgia25). She wants 500ppm, but looks a lot like the AW profile below, so it makes no sense to pay that

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Offline Hobbit

Has anyone seen this girl? Been chatting with her and seems fun. Tempted to try out.

Smiles and fun
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Junior doc and wants £3K a month for just 3 meets!!  My arse!!

Offline Hobbit

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Junior doc and wants £3K a month for just 3 meets!!  My arse!!

She can always go on strike and ask for a pay rise. To be honest, my prostate needs looking at, so please ask her to give me a call.  :D :lol:

Offline MLawro93

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Junior doc and wants £3K a month for just 3 meets!!  My arse!!

Given her stated age, she is either a FY1 or FY2. I'm surprised she has the time to even contemplate using SA.

Definitely not a doctor, you actually face the risk of being struck off the register, and she provides a face photo!  :dash:

Offline Hobbit

Given her stated age, she is either a FY1 or FY2. I'm surprised she has the time to even contemplate using SA.

Definitely not a doctor, you actually face the risk of being struck off the register, and she provides a face photo!  :dash:

They pretend to be all sorts on there. I'm still waiting to shag an astronaut.  :D

Offline MLawro93

They pretend to be all sorts on there. I'm still waiting to shag an astronaut.  :D

I did genuinely meet a Clinical psychologist from SA ages ago, so they do exist, but the smart ones don't really advertise what they do right from the get go. To me it screams a fake profile  :D

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it would help us help you if you gave a profile name. (for example, i have deactivated my account and even before that, i did not leave my self logged-in (as i think most guys don't do) so to help you we have to log in or - just ignore your request!! Make it simple for us!!)

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Got it. Not sure who remembers names from that website, and sometimes these girls create new profiles as well. In this case she’s been around for a while. Her name is Skye_xxx

Me. And if I see I name I know, I will try and chip-in and help
« Last Edit: September 13, 2023, 06:53:46 pm by Heph »

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Junior doc and wants £3K a month for just 3 meets!!  My arse!!

A quick pimeyes search shows she's a instagram personality from the US with over 600k followers

Offline Yung

Probably the most blatant gold digger ever.

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£2k per night

Offline wagglemypaddle

Probably the most blatant gold digger ever.

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£2k per night

Lithuanian I assume judging from her recent location and terrible English. Can't imagine anyone would pay anything close to that, obviously a chancer who will leave the site disappointed.

Offline loki33

Has anyone seen this girl? Been chatting with her and seems fun. Tempted to try out.

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Not been in contact but aw profile:  External Link/Members Only

Offline Hobbit

Not been in contact but aw profile:  External Link/Members Only

Great another hooker on Seeking  :dash:
Strange how her AW profile has never been logged into since it was created. She must have one hell of a dusty phone.
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Offline martini2429

Great another hooker on Seeking  :dash:
Strange how her AW profile has never been logged into since it was created. She must have one hell of a dusty phone.

It always amazes me when they use the same pics on AW as well as Seeking, just crying to be found out

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Great another hooker on Seeking  :dash:
Strange how her AW profile has never been logged into since it was created. She must have one hell of a dusty phone.

or she decided not to go ahead with being a "traditional Escort" and went the Seeking route or just concentrate on Seeking instead??

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or she decided not to go ahead with being a "traditional Escort" and went the Seeking route or just concentrate on Seeking instead??

I doubt it. Her seeking profile was created first.

Offline martini2429

or she decided not to go ahead with being a "traditional Escort" and went the Seeking route or just concentrate on Seeking instead??

possibly doesn't Escort, just does Cam work  :unknown: :unknown:

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Offline Hobbit

possibly doesn't Escort, just does Cam work  :unknown: :unknown:

 :drinks:

Who knows? A hooker's mind is a minefield!

Offline wagglemypaddle

My current SB mentioned the other day about the possibility of transitioning to a more traditional non-transactional relationship. Would I be making a mistake in going this route, do you think SBs get too used to the easy money and I'd be foolish to trust her ? We get on great but she's nearly half my age, i'm in my early fifties she's mid twenties. Call me cynical but I'm not really seeing what's in it for her to do this.
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My current SB mentioned the other day about the possibility of transitioning to a more traditional non-transactional relationship. Would I be making a mistake in going this route, do you think SBs get too used to the easy money and I'd be foolish to trust her ? We get on great but she's nearly half my age, i'm in my early fifties she's mid twenties. Call me cynical but I'm not really seeing what's in it for her to do this.

Sorry for being thick but do you mean that she is suggesting that you enter into a "normal" relationship, girlfriend-boyfriend with no PPM or allowance, just enjoying being together?

If that's the case, I can't see any downside to moving to this, who knows, maybe she's fallen in love  :D

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Sorry for being thick but do you mean that she is suggesting that you enter into a "normal" relationship, girlfriend-boyfriend with no PPM or allowance, just enjoying being together?

If that's the case, I can't see any downside to moving to this, who knows, maybe she's fallen in love  :D

Yh pretty much that. I'm London based she is in Midlands so I still pay for her to come down, or I travel up. She reaps the benefit of me paying for food and drink, activities etc.i suppose but that's about all. Guess there's no harm in going with the flow and seeing where it takes us.

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Sorry for being thick but do you mean that she is suggesting that you enter into a "normal" relationship, girlfriend-boyfriend with no PPM or allowance, just enjoying being together?

If that's the case, I can't see any downside to moving to this, who knows, maybe she's fallen in love  :D

There are many downsides to it.

She could want kids which will cost him around £250,000 per kid until they grow up to be 19 and leave home.
She could want marriage, which if ends up in divorce, he would lose half of his assets let alone the mental and economic stress of lawyers.
She could be using him for other financial gains.
She could be mentally unstable and combined with the over-emotional aspect of women, he could be heading for trouble.

Overall, the OP needs to think about it logically and rationally before making any decision. If I was the OP I'd go casino and put £1000 on roulette as he would have more chance of winning.

Offline toddroman456

My current SB mentioned the other day about the possibility of transitioning to a more traditional non-transactional relationship. Would I be making a mistake in going this route, do you think SBs get too used to the easy money and I'd be foolish to trust her ? We get on great but she's nearly half my age, i'm in my early fifties she's mid twenties. Call me cynical but I'm not really seeing what's in it for her to do this.



If you like her then why not give it a go.

Keep your guard up and don't get her pregnant for a good year and I mean at keast a year.  Keep your guard up until next Christmas.

It's good you live far apart but she might ask to move in with you, make sure she gets a job for both your sakes if she does.

She might just be looking for love and kids but why not with you. All the bad sides of a relationship can happen with anyone from traditional meets and dating and social life.

So give it a good year inside your own mind and heart Keep one eye open and treat it as if you have just met her and sussing her out.

Clearly you are interested in her and being alone is horrible. So be careful not to loose  her.

You have to drop your guard and take chances in life
How long have you been seeing her for ?
« Last Edit: September 14, 2023, 05:03:54 pm by toddroman456 »

Offline Reallytired86

My current SB mentioned the other day about the possibility of transitioning to a more traditional non-transactional relationship. Would I be making a mistake in going this route, do you think SBs get too used to the easy money and I'd be foolish to trust her ? We get on great but she's nearly half my age, i'm in my early fifties she's mid twenties. Call me cynical but I'm not really seeing what's in it for her to do this.

I’ve done that and tbh the only negative is that we have to work around my wife 😂.

Offline MLawro93

My current SB mentioned the other day about the possibility of transitioning to a more traditional non-transactional relationship. Would I be making a mistake in going this route, do you think SBs get too used to the easy money and I'd be foolish to trust her ? We get on great but she's nearly half my age, i'm in my early fifties she's mid twenties. Call me cynical but I'm not really seeing what's in it for her to do this.

How about the issue of how you both met? Would you be exclusive? Would you punt or still use Seeking? Would she?

Establish and clarify the answers from the beginning, set expectations from the get go. Otherwise you might go with the flow, fall in love, and then realise you can't give each other the things you need, i.e., kids, etc.

I only say this due to the age gap. You'll be at very different stages of your life.

Offline wagglemypaddle

There are many downsides to it.

She could want kids which will cost him around £250,000 per kid until they grow up to be 19 and leave home.
She could want marriage, which if ends up in divorce, he would lose half of his assets let alone the mental and economic stress of lawyers.
She could be using him for other financial gains.
She could be mentally unstable and combined with the over-emotional aspect of women, he could be heading for trouble.

Overall, the OP needs to think about it logically and rationally before making any decision. If I was the OP I'd go casino and put £1000 on roulette as he would have more chance of winning.

I've made it clear to her that marriage will never be an option, one failed union was enough. I'm open to having more kids though regardless of the financial implications, and she's made it clear that's important, the maternal instinct is strong in her. Not going to rush into things though, any relationship would need to be on very solid ground before i'd contemplate this. Every woman i've ever met has a bit of crazy in her and she's no exception.


If you like her then why not give it a go.

Keep your guard up and don't get her pregnant for a good year and I mean at keast a year.  Keep your guard up until next Christmas.

It's good you live far apart but she might ask to move in with you, make sure she gets a job for both your sakes if she does.

She might just be looking for love and kids but why not with you. All the bad sides of a relationship can happen with anyone from traditional meets and dating and social life.

So give it a good year inside your own mind and heart Keep one eye open and treat it as if you have just met her and sussing her out.

Clearly you are interested in her and being alone is horrible. So be careful not to loose  her.

You have to drop your guard and take chances in life
How long have you been seeing her for ?

Only 3 months. But as you say sometimes you have to take (measured) risks, or you'll just end up spending life rueing missed opportunities, thinking about what might have been.

 
How about the issue of how you both met? Would you be exclusive? Would you punt or still use Seeking? Would she?

Establish and clarify the answers from the beginning, set expectations from the get go. Otherwise you might go with the flow, fall in love, and then realise you can't give each other the things you need, i.e., kids, etc.

I only say this due to the age gap. You'll be at very different stages of your life.
I have deleted my Seeking account, and I haven't punted for years. Guess that also means my usefulness to this site is gone as I won't be able to contribute anything of value going further. You're right we are at different stages in life but she's an old soul, has a reasonable career. I've looked after myself physically and have a pretty positive outlook on life...the age gap hasn't been an issue up to now.

Thank you for your responses, it's always good to get different perspectives especially from outsiders looking at it with a degree of emotional detachment, much appreciated.

I've met a fair few women from Seeking over the past 18 months and felt nothing emotionally, other than a feeling of guilt that i was using it like an extension of Adultwork, meeting women only once or at most a few times before moving onto the next. I felt emotionally flat-lined and wondered if i'd ever feel anything for anyone ever again...but when you meet one who has the personality to match the looks, it's like bang you're hit between the eyes and suddenly rationality goes out the window. It's a nice feeling to have though, got to admit.
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when age gap relationships work, they work really really well, its a statistical fact. 

president macron of France is a good example

Offline Bikerboy

Well done! It’s great when you really get on and as you say not easy to find.
I would expect not too many of us find ourselves with the choice you have - my sb and I have  thought about it but we feel it probs work best for us as a trad dd:sb situationship.
Yeah there are tales of forum members where it didn’t work, but it’s worth a go. And not without its advantages! As others have said and you know, hope for the best plan for the worst.

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How about the issue of how you both met? Would you be exclusive? Would you punt or still use Seeking? Would she?

Establish and clarify the answers from the beginning, set expectations from the get go. Otherwise you might go with the flow, fall in love, and then realise you can't give each other the things you need, i.e., kids, etc.

I only say this due to the age gap. You'll be at very different stages of your life.

Be careful, Dont get hurt too.
Mine was on this track, Once had a conversation. She was also like we can discount meets. Give less etc.
She even started discussing marriage plans, where she like a proposal etc. She started all this discussion before people start saying it was me

Also keep an open mind, a girl will tell you they are exclusive on seeking, when they are not. Profiles may appear to be deleted. But girls can pay, hide from search results and just contact other daddies. They will also keep in contact with old daddies via text message etc.

Good if it works, but spot the signs of not being exclusive or something more.

Will be plans cancelled last min,
Limits on time,
Lack of services/passion

Back on topic of seeking, lots of students joined up. Meeting one tomorrow. Blonde, attractive.
200 per meet. She can accommodate. Meeting for drinks first then desert after.
i know the sex will be good, so she will fulfil my needs every other week and wont cost me much.


 


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Back on topic of seeking, lots of students joined up. Meeting one tomorrow. Blonde, attractive.
200 per meet. She can accommodate. Meeting for drinks first then desert after.
i know the sex will be good, so she will fulfil my needs every other week and wont cost me much.

Sorry, but no you don't, not unless you have already met, and it sounds like this is a first time meet, but I hope it will be

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Sorry, but no you don't, not unless you have already met, and it sounds like this is a first time meet, but I hope it will be

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to me good sex is one that doesn't feel transactional and no time limits. You get this with a sugar baby. Plus they let you just slip it in, Rub the cock against their pussy etc. 

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Alicia, student in London - £400, plus gifts
She's been previously reviewed.  Very intelligent and savvy.  Paid for dinner and drinks and got her some gifts.  Her body is banging!  You can do what you like which I like.  She talks about being autistic which may explain her wit so if you like a woman who'll keep you on your toes she's a good one.

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Alicia, student in London - £400, plus gifts
She's been previously reviewed.  Very intelligent and savvy.  Paid for dinner and drinks and got her some gifts.  Her body is banging!  You can do what you like which I like.  She talks about being autistic which may explain her wit so if you like a woman who'll keep you on your toes she's a good one.
Cheers, have been curious about her.
Can you give us some idea of the type of gifts she expects/ likes? Don't need to be specific, more interested in general ballpark

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Anyone had any luck?

Has a Turkish number she said that she hasn’t changed it since she is back. Wants a small payment before she meets. Avoid