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[daviemac]

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- Girl in pic

- Very reasonable ppm, under 300 when I saw her - probably cause she's not the fittest and potentially serves a niche but generous with her time.

- Subslut type. Has her limits obviously but quite open to some kinks and is up for trying stuff within reason, 420 friendly too if it matters.

That's all I'm saying openly after the last one blew up in my face. Happy to share more via PM if anyone's chatting with her, however I will be verifying whether you have her number first before releasing further info for discretionary reasons.

It's hardly a review mate if you aren't going into details apart from the fact she's a druggy.

[NightKid]

It's hardly a review mate if you aren't going into details apart from the fact she's a druggy.

Up to you how you wanna classify it dude, I'm just attempting to contribute within the remit of my current punting style.

[wagglemypaddle]

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- Girl in pic

- Very reasonable ppm, under 300 when I saw her - probably cause she's not the fittest and potentially serves a niche but generous with her time.

- Subslut type. Has her limits obviously but quite open to some kinks and is up for trying stuff within reason, 420 friendly too if it matters.

That's all I'm saying openly after the last one blew up in my face. Happy to share more via PM if anyone's chatting with her, however I will be verifying whether you have her number first before releasing further info for discretionary reasons.

This one has been trying to get me to meet for a while. Kind of put off as her head looks like the reflection from the back of a spoon. Good personality though and cheap ppm offered.   

[wagglemypaddle]

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Expects 200 for a platonic first meet. No thanks.


Luscious lady
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550 ppm
Was rude and blocked me when I politely said that was too much for me. Very immature for her age.

[Shindaabc1993]

Has anyone met the girl below and any thoughts?

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[bigden40]

Has anyone met the girl below and any thoughts?

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Not available for me.  Any further description?

[jofrenchy69]

I feel lucky when I'm reading a few guys here struggling to meet girls on SA. I'm seeing most of the girls I engaged conversation. I think maybe because for me SA is different from aw or viva or escort agency. You not going to have a bargain everytime, the game is clear,if you are on budget SA is clearly not for you.
Good luck to you anyway
Peace

[jofrenchy69]

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wants £300 for evening, but not shaved down there


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we are meeting next week, lets see, she is hot


Number 3 is really good and fun to spend time with

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very pro but sexy. 300 for 3h. any intel?


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hottest girl i met. sadly poor in bed


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super cute. good owo and anal


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propert filth, great sex

Number 3 is really good and fun time spend with her

[WKD123]

I feel lucky when I'm reading a few guys here struggling to meet girls on SA. I'm seeing most of the girls I engaged conversation. I think maybe because for me SA is different from aw or viva or escort agency. You not going to have a bargain everytime, the game is clear,if you are on budget SA is clearly not for you.
Good luck to you anyway
Peace

Peace to you brother.  Care to share any intel or even pointers to one of the many you've met that perhaps have fallen away?  Interested to know how many girls you can keep bubbling along at the same time. I guess it depends on your availability and relationship status?

[Graphics789]

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- Girl in pic

- Very reasonable ppm, under 300 when I saw her - probably cause she's not the fittest and potentially serves a niche but generous with her time.

- Subslut type. Has her limits obviously but quite open to some kinks and is up for trying stuff within reason, 420 friendly too if it matters.

That's all I'm saying openly after the last one blew up in my face. Happy to share more via PM if anyone's chatting with her, however I will be verifying whether you have her number first before releasing further info for discretionary reasons.

How did the last one blow up in your face?

[Graphics789]

I feel lucky when I'm reading a few guys here struggling to meet girls on SA. I'm seeing most of the girls I engaged conversation. I think maybe because for me SA is different from aw or viva or escort agency. You not going to have a bargain everytime, the game is clear,if you are on budget SA is clearly not for you.
Good luck to you anyway
Peace

I’m glad someone agrees!

Never struggled to meet anyone on SA.

On top of the money, I never simp or compromise; SA is the only dating site where men control and dictate how things go - these women need us more than we need them, especially in this current economic climate.

[jofrenchy69]

Peace to you brother.  Care to share any intel or even pointers to one of the many you've met that perhaps have fallen away?  Interested to know how many girls you can keep bubbling along at the same time. I guess it depends on your availability and relationship status?

Peace to you too.
I'm single, no kids and move around London,Birmingham and oxford due to my job.join in 2021 SA I think. and so far met with 30 ish SB...1 turn to a serious relationship...big mistakes but since then I stick to ppm and not catching feeling.
Lately a lot of them are escort but can still manage to meet with civie.
I guess been in my late 30's help, French accent too lol. I was surprised too when someone here mentioned he felt discriminated due yo his skin colour.  I'm black and never had issues on SA compare to AW lol.But yeah happy to share my experience with you my friend.  Not sure if you can send a message here I think it's not allow anymore. And apologies to the mod if it is the case

[jofrenchy69]

I’m glad someone agrees!

Never struggled to meet anyone on SA.

On top of the money, I never simp or compromise; SA is the only dating site where men control and dictate how things go - these women need us more than we need them, especially in this current economic climate.

Agreed.  I'm really specific on my profile, and I have my picture too , I think it help. The way you communicate with SB as to be clear as Graphics789 said. Again I never try to negotiate, when I met one SB she know exactly what I expect in return. Luckily too never met scammers but again I think its obvious to not feel for it

[noutathome]

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Anna who kindly invited me to meet her and buy her cocktails at her strip club...

"What do you think about nice conversation with couple of cocktails? However, to maintain our security and discretion, I would love to invite you to the After8 Club in Luton. If you feel chemiatry to me and we get conection between us, I will open to suggestions from you. I can provide you with a good time in good company🙂 Please, Let me know if you are interested. I greet you warmly. Xx"

[NightKid]

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Chavvy pro, can't find the AW link but PimEyes has it if you've got a sub.

How did the last one blow up in your face?

Some cunt blabbed to the girl on my report and I got a load of agg for it 

1 turn to a serious relationship...big mistakes but since then I stick to ppm and not catching feeling.

D'you know what I arrived at a similar conclusion recently - not a moan but as much as it's easy to find girlfriend material on SA, even the simplest girl will have some level of expectation to be provided for so it's gonna come back to money again at the end of the day and there's no point investing emotionally unless you're ready to be tied down as you would in a regular relationship.

[WKD123]

Peace to you too.
I'm single, no kids and move around London,Birmingham and oxford due to my job.join in 2021 SA I think. and so far met with 30 ish SB...1 turn to a serious relationship...big mistakes but since then I stick to ppm and not catching feeling.
Lately a lot of them are escort but can still manage to meet with civie.
I guess been in my late 30's help, French accent too lol. I was surprised too when someone here mentioned he felt discriminated due yo his skin colour.  I'm black and never had issues on SA compare to AW lol.But yeah happy to share my experience with you my friend.  Not sure if you can send a message here I think it's not allow anymore. And apologies to the mod if it is the case

Thanks jofrenchy - yes, I guess all of your current circumstances are going to help get a lot more interest (and interesting!) SBs. Good on you. My circumstances are so far removed from yours, but I have to say that in my limited experience, it has been pretty straightforward to engage, set up meetings, make a mutual decision and then move on if both agreed to more intimacy - first week felt like a kid in a candy store!

I think there is a new rule about soliciting PMs, so if a mod or admin could advise whether we could engage in a private conversation about your experiences?  As has been noted previously, unlike reviews of WGs which are actively encouraged, this SA open forum can be a minefield when dropping in any feedback/reviews...

[wagglemypaddle]

I feel lucky when I'm reading a few guys here struggling to meet girls on SA. I'm seeing most of the girls I engaged conversation. I think maybe because for me SA is different from aw or viva or escort agency. You not going to have a bargain everytime, the game is clear,if you are on budget SA is clearly not for you.
Good luck to you anyway
Peace

For all its issues and the time sink that it is, SA still delivers in spades. signed up last week and already met 2 girls within my budget. Yes, if I could stretch to higher PPMs I'd be having the absolute time of my life but even if I find one or two new semi-regulars it has been worth the subscription. I've added around 80 numbers to WhatsApp already in the space of a week. If anything this is turning out to be my most prolific month in terms of engagement and willingness to meet, just the median ppm seems to have gone up. I also recommend that if you're only interested in meeting in person you put something on your profile indicating that you aren't interested in online only arrangements, that's really cut down the timewasters for me.

[90125]

Thanks jofrenchy - yes, I guess all of your current circumstances are going to help get a lot more interest (and interesting!) SBs. Good on you. My circumstances are so far removed from yours, but I have to say that in my limited experience, it has been pretty straightforward to engage, set up meetings, make a mutual decision and then move on if both agreed to more intimacy - first week felt like a kid in a candy store!

I think there is a new rule about soliciting PMs, so if a mod or admin could advise whether we could engage in a private conversation about your experiences?  As has been noted previously, unlike reviews of WGs which are actively encouraged, this SA open forum can be a minefield when dropping in any feedback/reviews...

Nothing wrong in chatting on PM's but do not solicit for anyone to send you a PM or you will get a ban. There is limit on how many times we want to keep reminding members about the Rules.

Also remember this Forum is about Reviews so everyone is also expected to do that. If anyone is only active on Seeking and isn't posting Reviews here, then frankly, they are on the wrong Forum.

[90125]

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Anna who kindly invited me to meet her and buy her cocktails at her strip club...

"What do you think about nice conversation with couple of cocktails? However, to maintain our security and discretion, I would love to invite you to the After8 Club in Luton. If you feel chemiatry to me and we get conection between us, I will open to suggestions from you. I can provide you with a good time in good company🙂 Please, Let me know if you are interested. I greet you warmly. Xx"

Why would anyone go to Luton for cocktails 

[j4247]

You could just delete the last 2 words of that sentence!

[paul_tall_]

Agreed.  I'm really specific on my profile, and I have my picture too , I think it help. The way you communicate with SB as to be clear as Graphics789 said. Again I never try to negotiate, when I met one SB she know exactly what I expect in return. Luckily too never met scammers but again I think its obvious to not feel for it

Its a good insight into what has worked for yourself and Graphics789 but I cant help but think that you both have different approaches

On top of the money, I never simp or compromise; SA is the only dating site where men control and dictate how things go - these women need us more than we need them, especially in this current economic climate.

[noutathome]

You could just delete the last 2 words of that sentence!

Luton are now in the prem as you know but Kenilworth Road is hardly welcoming!!

[CroPunter]

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wants £300 for evening, but not shaved down there


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we are meeting next week, lets see, she is hot


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very pro but sexy. 300 for 3h. any intel?


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hottest girl i met. sadly poor in bed


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super cute. good owo and anal


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Can you please tell us how much you paid for those girls that you meet.

[Crockers]

If you meet their asking price without negotiating of course they'll fuck you.

I have set myself a budget of btw £250-£300 ppm.

Plenty of girls out there at that price, especially if there is a connection.

Slim, attractive, early 29s Black London girl last night was more than happy with £250.

Three hours of passionate sex.

Refusing to spend more isn't a sign of penury.

[Crockers]

Peace to you too.
I'm single, no kids and move around London,Birmingham and oxford due to my job.join in 2021 SA I think. and so far met with 30 ish SB...1 turn to a serious relationship...big mistakes but since then I stick to ppm and not catching feeling.
Lately a lot of them are escort but can still manage to meet with civie.
I guess been in my late 30's help, French accent too lol. I was surprised too when someone here mentioned he felt discriminated due yo his skin colour.  I'm black and never had issues on SA compare to AW lol.But yeah happy to share my experience with you my friend.  Not sure if you can send a message here I think it's not allow anymore. And apologies to the mod if it is the case

Hi, yeah, that's interesting.

I've never had a prob with British or EE girls on AW.

On SA, I've only had success with British girls. Four White, two Black, one of Indian/Aussie heritage.

Maybe the EE girls just don't like my alternative look then! 😀

Tattoos, piercings etc.

[heathen666]

Hi, yeah, that's interesting.

I've never had a prob with British or EE girls on AW.

On SA, I've only had success with British girls. Four White, two Black, one of Indian/Aussie heritage.

Maybe the EE girls just don't like my alternative look then! 😀

Tattoos, piercings etc.

I've had a couple of EE girls from Seeking take a disliking to my tattoos. They've gone through with the meet but I never heard from them again.

But saying that I had one of best meets with a Russian SB. But she was covered in tattoos as well.

[NightKid]

Maybe the EE girls just don't like my alternative look then! 😀

Tattoos, piercings etc.

I've had a couple of EE girls from Seeking take a disliking to my tattoos. They've gone through with the meet but I never heard from them again.

But saying that I had one of best meets with a Russian SB. But she was covered in tattoos as well.

That's quite funny actually cos I find alt gothy types cute but would hardly get their interest as a blank canvas, whereas I attract plenty of vanilla EEs 

[Crockers]

Interesting.

Slim White young brunette I PMed on SA a month ago has just WApped me.

Really nice message and really keen to meet. 🙂

Arranged a drinks meet for next week.

Long game does work.

[Steve2]

Interesting.

Slim White young brunette I PMed on SA a month ago has just WApped me.

Really nice message and really keen to meet. 🙂

Arranged a drinks meet for next week.

Long game does work.

Or she has run out of other options

[wdnah]

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we are meeting next week, lets see, she is hot

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[wdnah]

Anyone chatted to this one?

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She’s definitely real, sent me selfies and videos.

Very keen to meet, quick replies and friendly.

But just seems a bit too good to be true?

She's married...

[bigden40]

She's married...

Does that matter?

[southcoastpunter]

Does that matter?

maybe not so much for a one off hotel type meet, but for someone like me, it would. i only see ladies where i think they have a potential for regular and long term meets/arrangements and i avoid anyone in a relationship. maybe their other halves are ok with her activities now but that can change and personally i just don't want any hassle or potential hassle so i avoid married and "in a relationship" ladies.

[heathen666]

That's quite funny actually cos I find alt gothy types cute but would hardly get their interest as a blank canvas, whereas I attract plenty of vanilla EEs 

I'm the reverse. I get plenty of interest from the gothy look SBs but many vanilla SBs block or ignore me as soon as they see I'm heavily inked. I did change my photos so my tattoos were covered but I've had a few "I didn't know you had tattoos" moments from some SBs. My response is normally "Well you didn't ask" but by that time the chemistry built during the meet has long gone.

[Crockers]

I'm the reverse. I get plenty of interest from the gothy look SBs but many vanilla SBs block or ignore me as soon as they see I'm heavily inked. I did change my photos so my tattoos were covered but I've had a few "I didn't know you had tattoos" moments from some SBs. My response is normally "Well you didn't ask" but by that time the chemistry built during the meet has long gone.

I'm inked.

Just be honest upfront.

[Lush1pot]

If you meet their asking price without negotiating of course they'll fuck you.

I have set myself a budget of btw £250-£300 ppm.

Plenty of girls out there at that price, especially if there is a connection.

Slim, attractive, early 29s Black London girl last night was more than happy with £250.

Three hours of passionate sex.




Care to share on this one? Sounds very good and I’ve never been with a black girl..

[NightKid]

I'm the reverse. I get plenty of interest from the gothy look SBs but many vanilla SBs block or ignore me as soon as they see I'm heavily inked. I did change my photos so my tattoos were covered but I've had a few "I didn't know you had tattoos" moments from some SBs. My response is normally "Well you didn't ask" but by that time the chemistry built during the meet has long gone.

This.

I'm inked.

Just be honest upfront.

Simply cause you've got nothing to gain from keeping it hushed.

[heathen666]

This.

Simply cause you've got nothing to gain from keeping it hushed.

Totally agreed. I've included photos and mentioned in my profile for a while now. There used to be a tattooed tag in Seeking but that's long gone.

[wagglemypaddle]

I'm inked.

Just be honest upfront.

Half the women on there have tats anyway.

They're so mainstream these days surprised it's an issue for any of them.

[Magicman1122]

Hello,  originally posted this on the wrong board trying to get this onto the SA board.

Have been studying the posts on SA carefully and finally signed up for an account.   The information contained in here is invaluable.

First impressions are good and with some work and due diligence it seems you can sift out profiles on SA which seem like they could be genuinely fun to meet.

I am yet to meet anyone from SA but I seem to have lined up a few options and reasonable PPM rates (£150 - £300).  I appreciate that may not fit everyone’s budget but seems to be the going rates.

A lot of members seem to want to arrange an online session or sessions ahead of any physical meets.   Is this normal for SA hookups or am I being taken for a ride? 

I am reluctant to engage in any online sessions other than to do a quick video call to ensure they are who they say they are and match their profile. 

Was hoping more experienced SA punters could advise/comment whether online sessions (and donations) were required.

Thanks in advance for any help.

[southcoastpunter]

Magicman - there is no hard and fast rule but i would suggest that if they are trying to sell you a paid online session first, either they are hard up and want some money NOW or, more likely, online is what they are really into and you can perhaps question whether you will actually ever meet her in person.

Unless you like online stuff, personally i wouldn't go there! For me, real meet or nothing!

[wagglemypaddle]

Hello,  originally posted this on the wrong board trying to get this onto the SA board.

Have been studying the posts on SA carefully and finally signed up for an account.   The information contained in here is invaluable.

First impressions are good and with some work and due diligence it seems you can sift out profiles on SA which seem like they could be genuinely fun to meet.

I am yet to meet anyone from SA but I seem to have lined up a few options and reasonable PPM rates (£150 - £300).  I appreciate that may not fit everyone’s budget but seems to be the going rates.

A lot of members seem to want to arrange an online session or sessions ahead of any physical meets.   Is this normal for SA hookups or am I being taken for a ride? 

I am reluctant to engage in any online sessions other than to do a quick video call to ensure they are who they say they are and match their profile. 

Was hoping more experienced SA punters could advise/comment whether online sessions (and donations) were required.

Thanks in advance for any help.

Those trying to get you to buy online content before meeting  will almost certainly never meet you in person. They will just dangle that carrot in order to persuade you to buy more and more content.
Give them a wide berth and focus only on those who will meet in person from the off.

I've even had two recently who wanted me to show my appreciation with a 'goodwill gesture'  as a pre-requisite to sharing their WhatsApp number. Suffice to say they got blocked immediately.

[Magicman1122]

Magicman - there is no hard and fast rule but i would suggest that if they are trying to sell you a paid online session first, either they are hard up and want some money NOW or, more likely, online is what they are really into and you can perhaps question whether you will actually ever meet her in person.

Unless you like online stuff, personally i wouldn't go there! For me, real meet or nothing!

Those trying to get you to buy online content before meeting  will almost certainly never meet you in person. They will just dangle that carrot in order to persuade you to buy more and more content.
Give them a wide berth and focus only on those who will meet in person from the off.

I've even had two recently who wanted me to show my appreciation with a 'goodwill gesture'  as a pre-requisite to sharing their WhatsApp number. Suffice to say they got blocked immediately.

Thanks both for the advice

[Flush]

Anyone had a joy with Betterliving ?

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[whats that noise]

I've arranged to meet up with a sb and she suggested we go eat then back to the hotel.
No mention of money. With my previous meets the discussion of money has always been sorted before we met. What are your thoughts? Do I just meet and not say anything?
Has anyone had this type of meet before?

[Richjimbo]

Always agree the terms before the meet.

[whats that noise]

Always agree the terms before the meet.

I guess so. Its just that I've read some members having to just pay for taking them out. Was hoping it was the case here. 

[Richjimbo]

I wouldn’t make assumptions - it only ever leads to awkward conversations.   I’ve found that getting the money discussion it of the way sooner is the best way. It will either be an issue or it won’t.  But better to know sooner.

[stampjones]

Do I just meet and not say anything?

Thats pretty scummy tbh. You know what the deal is, you fuck them and you pay. Sure sometimes you can get it for free but you make sure both of you know that is the case rather than rely on the fact that she might find it awkward to ask about cash. Its pretty simple - ask what she wants from an arrangement or just flat out ask her if she has financial expectations. If she has none, enjoy otherwise do the right thing and dont be an arsehole

[funkygibbon]

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Chatting to her on seeking but nothing arranged yet - she plays the Ukulele 😀
Seems very intellectual and intelligent and nice to chat to so far