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Offline Trenlover

few girls asking to make first contact via Telegram,

these are generally scam girls right?

In my experience anyone not wanting to exchange numbers for whatsapp was almost universally a scammer

Offline youngwolf994

few girls asking to make first contact via Telegram,

these are generally scam girls right?

In my experience anyone not wanting to exchange numbers for whatsapp was almost universally a scammer

Some can be scams, but a lot are genuine. In my experience.

Offline updownandaround

few girls asking to make first contact via Telegram,

these are generally scam girls right?

In my experience anyone not wanting to exchange numbers for whatsapp was almost universally a scammer

I don't think they are all scammers but it's an automatic red flag because it's more anonymous than having a direct contact number for example. I think opinion will be split on the merits of Whatsapp or Telegram. I had a girl demand that I download Signal one time but you can pretty much guarantee she/he will be a scammer. You can normally persuade a girl to message you on WA anyway, and if they don't then no harm, plenty more girls on there who will.

Offline stampjones

few girls asking to make first contact via Telegram,

these are generally scam girls right?

In my experience anyone not wanting to exchange numbers for whatsapp was almost universally a scammer
Not so much as snapchat or kik which were pretty universal in their scamminess. There are girls who dont want to reveal their number which is fair enough imo. You can usually work it out pretty quickly and the bonus is they dont have your number

Offline v54

I don't think they are all scammers but it's an automatic red flag because it's more anonymous than having a direct contact number for example. I think opinion will be split on the merits of Whatsapp or Telegram. I had a girl demand that I download Signal one time but you can pretty much guarantee she/he will be a scammer. You can normally persuade a girl to message you on WA anyway, and if they don't then no harm, plenty more girls on there who will.
I think it is important to have a thread of messages that can't be pulled by the other side at their whim. Whatsapp is good because messages can't be deleted after a time. This can be helpful to refer back to when needed, or if you ever get to the stage of complaining to seeking, or the girl complains to seeking about you. I briefly used telegram but it seems way too easy for you to be left with nothing to refer back to. Whatsapp does have disappearing messages which you are notified when the facility is being used: is a red flag for me, though the facility to send a one-time photo is very useful for sending something you would not like them to copy, such as a face photo, and vice versa.

Offline heathen666

few girls asking to make first contact via Telegram,

these are generally scam girls right?

In my experience anyone not wanting to exchange numbers for whatsapp was almost universally a scammer

I've met a few via Telegram. Some are too stupid to hide their phone numbers so you can check out their WhatsApp profile.

Definitely any Girls on Snap / kik / email are scammers.

Alternatively just stick to your guns and tell them you don't use Telegram

Offline peroni

one girl shared her photo with her previous SD, I am shocked. Be careful, don't take selfie with your baby

Offline updownandaround

one girl shared her photo with her previous SD, I am shocked. Be careful, don't take selfie with your baby

You can take them, as long as you take them on your own phone and don't share them with her 😀

Offline paul_tall_

I think it is important to have a thread of messages that can't be pulled by the other side at their whim. Whatsapp is good because messages can't be deleted after a time. This can be helpful to refer back to when needed, or if you ever get to the stage of complaining to seeking, or the girl complains to seeking about you. I briefly used telegram but it seems way too easy for you to be left with nothing to refer back to. Whatsapp does have disappearing messages which you are notified when the facility is being used: is a red flag for me, though the facility to send a one-time photo is very useful for sending something you would not like them to copy, such as a face photo, and vice versa.
if you use the telegram app , on your laptop it has quite a good feature to download message threads including images and view the thread etc in the browser, i quite like the app on my laptop as you don't need to carry your phone around, i know whatsapp now allow multiple devices but not used

Offline WKD123

Luscious Lady
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Significant red flags including liberal use of "babe" and "darling" - started at over £600 bartered down to £300 as long as the meeting was kept short

Pink Ribbon
External Link/Members Only. Looks very pretty but when I initiated a discussion, although £450 might not have been unreasonable I was blocked soon after

The search continues...



Offline j4247

Yeah. I fancy her. Is she tall? and looks a little flat chested?

How did you get on mate?

Offline Yung

Anyone ever meet this one she has a great pair of tits!

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Offline updownandaround

Anyone ever meet this one she has a great pair of tits!

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Yes, I've met her. She's American of Latin American origins, not new to SA as her profile would indicate. Very standoffish in person, semi pro, great body, nicely done bolt ons and a princess shag.

Offline Punter910

Suddenly majority of sb's on site are asking for 500 and not a penny less with no negotiation . Looks like its a new norm at SA , need to go back to AW for few weeks now.

Offline updownandaround

Suddenly majority of sb's on site are asking for 500 and not a penny less with no negotiation . Looks like its a new norm at SA , need to go back to AW for few weeks now.

Come up to Manchester, top end is 300!

Online bigden40

Suddenly majority of sb's on site are asking for 500 and not a penny less with no negotiation . Looks like its a new norm at SA , need to go back to AW for few weeks now.

Not my experience

Offline massagepuntingfan

Suddenly majority of sb's on site are asking for 500 and not a penny less with no negotiation . Looks like its a new norm at SA , need to go back to AW for few weeks now.

Not my experience. Still getting interest at £250/£300.

I met a lady yesterday and she said that she is on a WhatsApp group with 100's of other sugar babies, where they put the warning out for any bad/wrongun SDs. Think this has been mentioned before, but first I've heard it from an SB.
« Last Edit: July 21, 2023, 05:17:29 pm by massagepuntingfan »

Offline updownandaround

Not my experience. Still getting interest at £250/£300.

I met a lady yesterday and she said that she is on a WhatsApp group with 100's of other sugar babies, where they put the warning out for any bad/wrongun SDs. Think this has been mentioned before, but first I've heard it from an SB.

Yes, not only do they document time wasters but they also share their photos, numbers and on occasion other personal information like LinkedIn/Facebook profiles. In the category of time wasters they also include guys who low ball and also links to [Seeking] profiles of guys who pay well. They also include guys who do one offs as a warning for other girls in the group. Be careful out there guys!

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Not my experience. Still getting interest at £250/£300.

I met a lady yesterday and she said that she is on a WhatsApp group with 100's of other sugar babies, where they put the warning out for any bad/wrongun SDs. Think this has been mentioned before, but first I've heard it from an SB.

I wonder about the demographics of this group, my gut instinct tells me it’s a WhatsApp group where the majority of the participants are semi pro and pro working women.

Maybe I am naive, but I can’t imagine the average woman on SA would join these groups, but maybe I’m wrong.

If the WA group is effective, I should’ve been blacklisted a long time ago as I certainly lowballed and wasting a lot of women’s time (due to better options being presented) however (knock on wood) I still remain relatively successful on SA.
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Offline updownandaround

I wonder about the demographics of this group, my gut instinct tells me it’s a WhatsApp group where the majority of the participants are semi pro and pro working women.

Maybe I am naive, but I can’t imagine the average woman on SA would join these groups, but maybe I’m wrong.

If the WA group is effective, I should’ve been blacklisted a long time ago as I certainly lowballed and wasting a lot of women’s time (due to better options being presented) however (knock on wood) I still remain relatively successful on SA.

Yes, they are all semi pro or pros and a few other "friends" of them. Personally after some contemplation I don't think it's an issue that these groups exist as who cares if you end up being named and shamed on one of these groups? They are all proper hookers.

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That WhatsApp group has been going for years
Tbh I haven’t used my picture on SA for years and it’s never been challenged when I’ve met a girl.

You could put a picture of a pig up on your profile and you still get girls wanting to meet

Once it gets to WhatsApp nearly all the girls ask for a picture anyway and I will always send them a picture of me…


Don’t over think SA, if the moneys right they will meet you regardless of WhatsApp groups and what you look like

If you are genuine no one is reporting you

Offline toddroman456

How would that even work though.

100s of people on a chat all posting about different men
There must be at least 100s of txts a day like you gonna be reading all of them.

You need a site like this for it to work and like we say it a shame SEEKING is not set up like adult work on here.

Like we all remember every profile we clicked on over a month ago. Let alone longer.

My WhatsApp beeping every fee minutes would piss me off.

I call bollocks and she was being covertly threatening to make sure you behave.

Never met a girl on seeking who has not lied and gave me bullshit


Online bigden40

Tend to agree. WhatsApp groups undoubtedly exist, but I imagine they’re smaller than suggested.  It’s not a medium that lends itself to scale.

Offline WKD123

Suddenly majority of sb's on site are asking for 500 and not a penny less with no negotiation . Looks like its a new norm at SA , need to go back to AW for few weeks now.

Getting something similar, but then I have been chatting to some absolutely gorgeous women!   The only time I did go for something more in the £200-300 bracket it was awful.  As noted many times, you aren't in SA for cheap sex. 3 Hours with my top fave from AW would be £540. There's no connection and she frankly doesn't give a shit about me and goes on to fuck 5-10 guys a day.

Switch to someone you build a "connection" with and spend a leisurely 2-3 hours with for a similar amount all included (hotels, lunch etc). It's just chalk and cheese, as I am beginning to discover. I'm not deluded that SA women are in it for nothing more than the money, but it just feels like such a different experience. YMMV

Offline Chandler12

Warning - rant coming.

Texted this girl.

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Her first reply was 'What's your Nationality'.

'Anglo Indian, what's yours?' I replied.

Not a dicky bird since.  Bet she's Easten European. Fed up with them, but at least she hasn't wasted to much of my time.

All I can say is thank god for the English , Scottish and Welsh girls who don't mind fucking blokes like me.

Fucks sake, you'd think that in these days where we have a Prime Minister, a London Mayor and a Scottish First Minister all of Indian heritage that mindsets would've changed.

But bloody Easter Europeans, bringing their 70s thinking over here.

They boil my piss.

Actually, the Polish girls are also cool but they are very British I find. And they're not really EE.

It’s personal preference. Everyone has a type they go for. I won’t see anyone over a size 12 and anyone that has tattoos. What I do have a problem with is when they don’t respond. Takes 10 seconds to say “sorry you’re not my type” I hate it when you’re left hanging.

Offline finn5555

Yes, not only do they document time wasters but they also share their photos, numbers and on occasion other personal information like LinkedIn/Facebook profiles. In the category of time wasters they also include guys who low ball and also links to [Seeking] profiles of guys who pay well. They also include guys who do one offs as a warning for other girls in the group. Be careful out there guys!

I think you are falling for a load of bollocks here  :rolleyes:

Don’t believe everything your told, of course if you can post some conclusive evidence I will eat my words

Offline Chandler12

Contacted loads of people. Most of them considered me as scammer as i was trying to chat with them from my home country. So lot of no replies and some dismissed me after seeing my photos. I have avoided who reply with WA or TG.

Also taken Pimeyes subscription for a month to weed out pros and scammers.

External Link/Members Only - ClassyPrincess - Said previous arrangement was 1k. And if i could match that.

External Link/Members Only - Crystal. Straight to WA/TG. Pimeyes shows Onlyfans girl and has a business on Insta as well.

External Link/Members Only - Tatjana. Seems pro as well. Pimeyes shows some camgirl.

External Link/Members Only - EducatedSocialite. Wants 300. Came down to 250.

External Link/Members Only - Valentine_Anna. Declined after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - RubyB. Think she was on Aprov's list. Cant find her now.

External Link/Members Only - CapriciousOne. Looks like a model. Declined me after seeing my photos.

External Link/Members Only - HelpfulBeauty. Staright to WA.

External Link/Members Only - Olivia. Wants 600.

External Link/Members Only - Violetfoxx. Replied with WA.

External Link/Members Only - Larissa_LT. Wants 800. When i replied back with 500 then immediately agreed.

External Link/Members Only - Your new obsession. Replied with a list of domination she wants to do and I will not be allowed anything. I declined,

External Link/Members Only - LadyLady
External Link/Members Only - Madame. Both of these profiles are of the same girl. Not sure if her pics are stolen or something.

Spoke with helpful beauty. She is Lithuanian if I remember correctly. Her English didn’t seem that good. Accepted £200. Never actually met. The thing with Eastern Europeans that put me off is they’re very blunt. I think it’s a language thing. But it can come across rude. She also  seemed semi pro.
« Last Edit: July 22, 2023, 12:18:30 am by Chandler12 »

Offline heathen666

I've seen evidence of a discord server where SBs share a lot of information. Mostly about them scamming SDs. There appeared to be 100s of members but only a small number of accounts were active at the time.

Offline JoeFiddleSticks

I've seen evidence of a discord server where SBs share a lot of information. Mostly about them scamming SDs. There appeared to be 100s of members but only a small number of accounts were active at the time.
So, what's the server?

Offline finn5555

Yes, they are all semi pro or pros and a few other "friends" of them. Personally after some contemplation I don't think it's an issue that these groups exist as who cares if you end up being named and shamed on one of these groups? They are all proper hookers.

Having now seen conclusive proof apologies for doubting you.
It’s something we all need to be aware of in particular guys who are in relationships!

Offline youngwolf994

I will do some recon work and try to get in these groups and will report back
« Last Edit: July 22, 2023, 09:15:48 am by youngwolf994 »


Offline luv2kiss54

Anyone seen or spoken any of these ladies?

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Cheers

Yes No 3 -  Pretty Seductress. I think she has had a few profiles and her comms are painful and slow. Very short replies that often make no sense to the question you have asked her. Her private pics are obviously photo shopped and got a feeling she might be pro or semi pro. Wanted £300 and was available to meet in Thurrock but couldnt accommodate. I passed - just had a bad gut feeling about her.
« Last Edit: July 22, 2023, 09:53:42 am by luv2kiss54 »

Offline updownandaround

Having now seen conclusive proof apologies for doubting you.
It’s something we all need to be aware of in particular guys who are in relationships!

For anyone new or even old to Seeking, here are some safety tips that will potentially save you a lot of time and hassle later:

* ALWAYS use a burner phone and/or SIM, never be tempted to use your legit contract phone.
* ALWAYS use virgin photos on your profile or when exchanging them with the girls, don't use ones you've used elsewhere on the internet, think LinkedIn, Instagram or Facebook amongst others.
* Check your commonly used photos against PimEyes, get yourself a one month subscription if need be. PimEyes is now commonly used by some girls to track down your real identity and is so advanced that it can even identify you in a photo of a crowd of people, or with a partial face showing.
* No money up front EVER! Money after intimacy ALWAYS. (Unless you like to be rinsed of course)
* A lot of girls on Seeking are serial bare backers so always wrap up and disregard any nonsense about when they last got tested or whether they are on the pill. Dispose of any used condoms yourself.
* Always keep your texts just in case you need them as evidence at a future date. Check in on the girl afterwards to ensure she had a good time and that you have some evidence in case she changes her story.

I'm sure others will chip in with more but these are the key ones for me.

Offline MLawro93

For anyone new or even old to Seeking, here are some safety tips that will potentially save you a lot of time and hassle later:

* ALWAYS use a burner phone and/or SIM, never be tempted to use your legit contract phone.
* ALWAYS use virgin photos on your profile or when exchanging them with the girls, don't use ones you've used elsewhere on the internet, think LinkedIn, Instagram or Facebook amongst others.
* Check your commonly used photos against PimEyes, get yourself a one month subscription if need be. PimEyes is now commonly used by some girls to track down your real identity and is so advanced that it can even identify you in a photo of a crowd of people, or with a partial face showing.
* No money up front EVER! Money after intimacy ALWAYS. (Unless you like to be rinsed of course)
* A lot of girls on Seeking are serial bare backers so always wrap up and disregard any nonsense about when they last got tested or whether they are on the pill. Dispose of any used condoms yourself.
* Always keep your texts just in case you need them as evidence at a future date. Check in on the girl afterwards to ensure she had a good time and that you have some evidence in case she changes her story.

I'm sure others will chip in with more but these are the key ones for me.

I wish we could pin messages. This is solid advice for anyone thinking to use Seeking or just generally punting. We must do these things to protect ourselves from the crazies.

Offline WKD123

For anyone new or even old to Seeking, here are some safety tips that will potentially save you a lot of time and hassle later:

....
* Check your commonly used photos against PimEyes, get yourself a one month subscription if need be. PimEyes is now commonly used by some girls to track down your real identity and is so advanced that it can even identify you in a photo of a crowd of people, or with a partial face showing.


I used PimEyes on a couple of photos I was thinking of using and got a lot of hits. I filled in the form to have all my results removed and they replied and it appeared to work, but just checking again after this incredibly useful post (thanks OP!) - there are 7 images that match on a website and I don't really want to remove them from that particular site.

PimEyes removal form completed and submitted again....   Note that you will need to upload a redacted passport as part of the submission.
« Last Edit: July 22, 2023, 02:20:04 pm by WKD123 »

Offline updownandaround

I used PimEyes on a couple of photos I was thinking of using and got a lot of hits. I filled in the form to have all my results removed and they replied and it appeared to work, but just checking again after this incredibly useful post (thanks OP!) - there are 7 images that match on a website and I don't really want to remove them from that particular site.

PimEyes removal form completed and submitted again....   Note that you will need to upload a redacted passport as part of the submission.

Just another note, you should check PimEyes every week or so as they are indexing new websites everyday which will, of course, result in additional new matches. Or get one of the paid subscriptions and have PimEyes e-mail you when it finds a new match.

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I wish we could pin messages. This is solid advice for anyone thinking to use Seeking or just generally punting. We must do these things to protect ourselves from the crazies.

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External Link/Members Only would be the place to include.

Is it editable? Can I login with the same username/password as here?

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Sounds very sane and balanced!

The only notable thing she says is:
"(If you have a wife, don't message me u mental case)"

I find that quite funny. Sounds like she still has some semblance of morals at... 18. Bit young. Give it a year or two and she will want ONLY married men because of all the single thirst about.  :D
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Offline Crockers

Got quite a few numbers on WA and Telegram now. Chatting.

Probs I have now is how to keep them interested as can't meet them all.

Meeting a couple of cute Black English girls next week for platonic drinks. They're up for sex.

There's a couple of other, White, English girls, ready to meet.

Got a Scottish girl interested as well. She's lush and good to go. Been talking to her on WA quite a lot.

My sub expires next Friday so well focus on what I've got.

I've found now that £300 is the sweet spot, not £250.

I've also, sadly, tweaked my Modus Operandi.

When they ask to see my private pic, I now ask if they're British or mainland European as I'm non White. Rather passive aggresive but I don't want my time wasted.

So far, all the girls interested in meeting me are British.

Loads of scammers and timewasters there, so be careful!

Oh, also found a sub Asian bird there. Told her what I want to do to her. She asked me to block her number. I replied 'block mine if you're not interested'.  She hasn't blocked me, so will ask why. Getting a bit boring with her though.

And, no, I'm not a sex magnet. 80% of the girls knock me back. Lols.

It's just hard work.

Scottish bird sounds fun though. She's pale and blonde. Said she actually likes blokes who are the opposite looking of her!

Tying her down to a drink's date at the mo'.


Offline Crockers

Scottish girl wants to meet and fuck tmw.

And she lives near me.

Bloody hell. Ok.

I said ok.

Offline MLawro93

Scottish girl wants to meet and fuck tmw.

And she lives near me.

Bloody hell. Ok.

I said ok.

Always approach any potential meet with a tad bit of caution, especially from a random off of Seeking. If you are doing a meeting at a hotel, great, but if it is at your address just something to keep in mind  :thumbsup:

Offline Crockers

Yeah, cheers. Just drinks at mo'.

Offline Crockers

Watch out for a girl called SoyVivka1. Don't have her profile link as blocked her.

Been on the site for donkeys.

Maybe others have had luck with her but not me.

Got her on WA and she wasted my time for an hour bullshitting about a knee injury, not being able to cook etc.

Sussed her out after 30 mins then played along a bit, then told her I'd worked her out, said bye.

Another girl on Telegram today, called Rose. Don't know her SA name as couldn't make a connection and couldn't be bothered asking.

Said she needed £1000 for her student flat up North.

Said she was home for the Summer.

I asked what she was studying. And lo and behold, it was exactly the same subject I studied.

When I told her, she went silent.

Do blokes actually fall for these scams?

Black English girl I'm supposed to be meeting tmw has gone quiet. Fair enough, as long as she confirms by tmw lunch.

Still got the Black English girl on Friday.

Another one has agreed £300, but hasn't yet agreed to a platonic meet.

That pale Scottish girl confirmed she's still keen on meeting later! I'm gonna be firm about no sex on a first meet, though.

Bored with mechanical fucking.

They're all attractive slim babes in their late 20s.
« Last Edit: July 24, 2023, 01:52:11 pm by Crockers »

Offline Crockers

By the way, how do I stop the auto-renewal please?

Offline Crockers

Well, Rose has actually started talking to me about the subject in question.

Either an elaborate scam or real.

Let's see how it pans out.

Anyone who mentions they need £££s at the start always makes my eyebrows rise.

Offline stampjones

By the way, how do I stop the auto-renewal please?
Go to settings and from the drop down pick membership and billing. Then select cancel membership. It sounds scary but it is just stopping auto-renew. It confirms this later in the process. Note that on the next page the highlighted option is pause - you probably dont want that. Instead select the more subdued option to cancel