I second this. The state of seeking, and punting for that matter, is dire. 6/10 looking women quoting me 300-400ppm these days.
I have renewed my membership twice and I got lucky tbh I usually pay 200ppm for few hours with a model looking girls I recently did overnight with 19yr old for 150 and plenty more to meet couple of them from outside London and willing to stay over for 300. So it depends on how you talk to them or negotiate
Re: the above two posts, I can concur that it's a strange old world out there, and for both sexes in this exchange, it can be a feast, if we invest and allow ourselves to get lucky/reap the reward.
I just got back from a weekend away in the UK with a SB (#1), and came back to the big city to go watch a show and have supper with another, former SB (#2)
The direct cost of the first, to me: accommodation, travel, feeding & watering, plus £200 for expenses (and I'm not even sure that was necessary). The latter: cost to me isn't really germane to the following point, since #2 don't have a physical relationship, and just enjoy each others' company, but I just covered the food & drink.
Anyway what was interesting was that #2 was chatting about a guy who has clearly wanted to have some sort of arrangement with her, but has 'failed' to do so. Over the course of a year or so, they've been on a grand total two dates, both platonic, and she wasn't keen on taking it further because he's unattractive. Still, he fairly frequently sent her gifts, things like Hermes scarves, bespoke scents and all of that jazz, but, after not hearing from him for about six months, and apropos of nothing in particular, he recently deposited £6k with her - no demands, no message, no request for acknowledgement - nada. FYI, she's attractive, in the sense that she makes an effort to glam-up, but she wouldn't be considered a looker in any conventional sense.
Why post this? Well, it seems to me that both parties here have something to celebrate or moan about, according to their tastes. On the one hand, all the AW brass we're familiar with for charging £1-£2k for an overnighter, can get in the bin, when seen in the light of my £4 p/hr weekend triste with a stunner who wants my babies. On the other, chaps - we're up against some of our own number who are dropping roly-poly council estate girls 2 months tax-free wages, on a whim, and for no obviously expected return.
It's all too bizzaro.
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In the interests of managing expectations, I should point out that I have been nice to both the SBs in question above, over the course of 2 years +, in that I've invested in our respective relationships - trying to be the kind of company they both seek out, whilst also being true to myself. So, it that light, the true cost of the weekend away with #1 has doubtless been paid-for but camouflaged elsewhere before now. Still, I hope it does bear out Teejays's contention that much about our outcomes depends on how we approach these things in the round. #2 has actually net-paid me
£five figures, but that's altogether another story)