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[stampjones]

This is the scam message "she" sent me.

Cheers
Its pretty common to be fair. I think we’ve all had a few versions of that. Live and learn. And NEVER send money first!

[MLawro93]

I had similar experience 2 years ago. She claimed that and she was super inexperienced. I manage to make her cum and she completely blushed and she admitted that she never had an orgasm before in her life. 

I had a similar experience, she claimed that no one had made her cum before. I was like what were they doing? I mean, young lads aren't the best at sex  but then who is at that age?

[DiamondDogs]

which one is she, just had a look, there are 3 "mysteriousLovers" in London

External Link/Members Only - 20 Yea old - Black/African - looking for some fun? Text me

External Link/Members Only - 20 year old - White - The perfect man has to be out there somewhere!

External Link/Members Only - 29 year old - White - an eye for an eye (this one has had a previous profile as I recognise the pictures)

And as you say you fell for the scam - oldest one going - no money until paid next week

 

The last one, eye for an eye.
It was possibly the best I've experienced - got to know each other all night over whatsapp, she didn't ask for anything, arranged dinner on Friday night, again all fine - then muggings here sends a voucher for an outfit. Next thing was requests for more

[MrBlackDude]

Not currently subscribed, but any info on this person? They've sent messages out of the blue and requested my private photos.

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[southcoastpunter]

Not currently subscribed, but any info on this person? They've sent messages out of the blue and requested my private photos.

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no info to offer - but did you notice that on her profile she is seeking an "trans-friendly" man?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Don’t bother… selling vids and pictures only.

[Link7]

Be careful of the 18-23 age group, they talk a big game, but I found many aren't that sexually experienced or confident  Sometimes I just want to have fun with someone who also knows what they are doing and enjoy

Yeah, I for one am legit surprised people meet 18/19 yr olds off SA, not sure I have ever seen one who seemed serious. All just seem way too young, inconsistent, don't know what they want. Over 25s are far more likely to agree terms, discuss what they're up for and turn up and actually do it, without years of text tennis beforehand.

Both SA and AW have upside /downside. If there was no AW and only SA, there'd be a lot of frustrated men in the world. Preference probably depends why you punt (and your means - in this cost of living crisis, must be guys with families etc who can't justify SA (£100 membership; generally outcalls only; few hundred quid every time you shag). 

But skills and filth wise nothing beats prostitutes. They do things other women simply don't. It's why even Hugh Grant, Cristiano Ronaldo, celebs who have women falling at their feet etc, use them.

[stampjones]

Yeah, I for one am legit surprised people meet 18/19 yr olds off SA, not sure I have ever seen one who seemed serious. All just seem way too young, inconsistent, don't know what they want. Over 25s are far more likely to agree terms, discuss what they're up for and turn up and actually do it, without years of text tennis beforehand.

Both SA and AW have upside /downside. If there was no AW and only SA, there'd be a lot of frustrated men in the world. Preference probably depends why you punt (and your means - in this cost of living crisis, must be guys with families etc who can't justify SA (£100 membership; generally outcalls only; few hundred quid every time you shag). 

But skills and filth wise nothing beats prostitutes. They do things other women simply don't. It's why even Hugh Grant, Cristiano Ronaldo, celebs who have women falling at their feet etc, use them.

Like you say its horses for courses.

Ive met 18/19 girls though not for a few years. My current reg is 20 so not far off. I think it depends what you like in girls. I think the uninterested or inexperienced ones can generally be filtered out on WA. Whatever, Ive had many pleasurable experiences with girls at that age range. Of the insatiable girls Ive met that want to keep going all afternoon, most have been younger rather than older. Having said alk that my average age range seems to be drifting upwards as I get older

[Jardent6]

How do you navigate when an sb hasn’t mentioned an amount?

She’s agreed to sex/hotel but there’s been no mention of specific amounts

Do you just not mention it at all and assume it’s a freebie or do get it out the way to ensure no unpleasant surprises

[Cunning Punt]

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Naughty, 25.

Not that naughty. No intimacy on the 1st date and expects getting paid for it. 

[Odin669]

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Naughty, 25.

Not that naughty. No intimacy on the 1st date and expects getting paid for it. 

   I was told this once: If they close the legs you'll close the wallet, if they open the legs you'll open the wallet.

[CroPunter]

Guys, I managed to pull it on  . I went on the second date with mrs pricey wine , this time I choose cheaper restaurant where the most expensive wine was £85. And she did not even go for it. And the end of the evening she came to mine place spend the whole night and stayed until we had lunch. And I did not transfer her even a single penny.

[andrew.michael]

Guys, I managed to pull it on  . I went on the second date with mrs pricey wine , this time I choose cheaper restaurant where the most expensive wine was £85. And she did not even go for it. And the end of the evening she came to mine place spend the whole night and stayed until we had lunch. And I did not transfer her even a single penny.

Good job mate!

I just signed up after a year and a bit of not being on it and I forgot just how much of your time it takes out weeding profiles. I’m honestly not sure if it’s worth my time doing this lol, just hoping to find a girl for a long term arrangement asap.

[anotherwoody69]

I have my search set for 27 and upwards, London based.

Has anybody else noticed this past week probably 25% of new listings that have London as their base are accessing from the USA?

[NightKid]

Has anybody else noticed this past week probably 25% of new listings that have London as their base are accessing from the USA?

Yeah, although I think it might be a bug in their godawful system nonetheless anyway ... good to hear it isn't just me though.

[Steve2]

I have my search set for 27 and upwards, London based.

Has anybody else noticed this past week probably 25% of new listings that have London as their base are accessing from the USA?

Seems to be a common problem this week . A bug almost certainly

[CroPunter]

Good job mate!

I just signed up after a year and a bit of not being on it and I forgot just how much of your time it takes out weeding profiles. I’m honestly not sure if it’s worth my time doing this lol, just hoping to find a girl for a long term arrangement asap.

This require to set up the profile in that kind that you are looking
- emotional connection
- monogamous
- long term
- romance

And search for those as well, comparing to other PPM girls those are like 10-15% of sugar babies.

But overall you should look more like tinder/badoo/ other zillion dating apps. And if you go with boring line "Hi babe, how are you?" you will not get many responses back so you need to step up with the game  , in this case it is more like very expensive version of tinder but it require some time to filter out all of those PPM girls out from the scope.

[NightKid]

Guys, I managed to pull it on  . I went on the second date with mrs pricey wine , this time I choose cheaper restaurant where the most expensive wine was £85. And she did not even go for it. And the end of the evening she came to mine place spend the whole night and stayed until we had lunch. And I did not transfer her even a single penny.

This is a good example of the amount of money/time/effort it takes to score a freebie as well I feel - people might just see this post separately and take it for that, but it should be noted that you've spent north of £700 just for one overnighter alone so I wouldn't say it's been vfm at this point in time.

[CroPunter]

I was drinking that wine and dinning too. But I do get your point. I will see how the things are going, I'm not drawing conclusions fast. However on regular dating apps, there are not many early 20 yrs old girls that are looking into 45 yrs old guy. Those on seeking are pre qualified  so far it is still a win if I compare classic overnight with a AW girl or even overnight with PPM. As I got one free lunch desert too 

[andrew.michael]

This require to set up the profile in that kind that you are looking
- emotional connection
- monogamous
- long term
- romance

And search for those as well, comparing to other PPM girls those are like 10-15% of sugar babies.

But overall you should look more like tinder/badoo/ other zillion dating apps. And if you go with boring line "Hi babe, how are you?" you will not get many responses back so you need to step up with the game  , in this case it is more like very expensive version of tinder but it require some time to filter out all of those PPM girls out from the scope.

Dating apps don’t work for me, I have more success in rl and through friends. Escorts have also ruined civvies for me, they scratch an itch that vanilla girls just don’t do. Maybe I need to see a therapist

[NightKid]

I was drinking that wine and dinning too. But I do get your point. I will see how the things are going, I'm not drawing conclusions fast. However on regular dating apps, there are not many early 20 yrs old girls that are looking into 45 yrs old guy. Those on seeking are pre qualified  so far it is still a win if I compare classic overnight with a AW girl or even overnight with PPM. As I got one free lunch desert too 

Lol no not that cos one can get overnights for half of what you've coughed up thus far or less. That said, I understand it's early days too and she could also give you more freebies in return for simply being wined & dined further after your initial investment, which I why I said 'at this point in time', so we'll see.

That brings me to a correction I wish to make regarding my wording earlier as well i.e a good example of the potential money/time/effort it could take to score freebies - you may perhaps get lucky in your pursuit of it but, as with any investment, be prepared to lose out completely in the same breath too.

[RustyRob67]

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Got a SA platonic date Tuesday in Cambridge (I know London group - but it's general advice I'm after)...

No hint of a pre-scam, money etc. We both remain anonymous, but with face sharing that doesn't strike any hits reverse image search wise.

Punting mobile, meeting at a cafe I chose. Anything to watch out for?

[Steve2]

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Got a SA platonic date Tuesday in Cambridge (I know London group - but it's general advice I'm after)...

No hint of a pre-scam, money etc. We both remain anonymous, but with face sharing that doesn't strike any hits reverse image search wise.

Punting mobile, meeting at a cafe I chose. Anything to watch out for?

Sounds good so far. Just resist paying for the "platonic" date apart from to coffees

[southcoastpunter]

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Got a SA platonic date Tuesday in Cambridge  Anything to watch out for?

depending on the lady of course and on you - but getting fixated on her boobs, legs or ass etc and getting into a (mental) position where you almost agree to anything!! lol - but it can happen!! (Or worse! I had one not too long ago where i gave her a lift home and nearly crashed looking at her fantastic legs!)

Most of us use a platonic/M&G coffee/drink meeting as the first person to person contact so most seeking ladies are used to it. Where things often differ is that some guys have a hotel booked (or identified) round the corner and some of us leave it to next time!

btw - the is a fairly active East of England "seeking" thread in the EoE regional discussion section.

[NightKid]

btw - the is a fairly active East of England "seeking" thread in the EoE regional discussion section.

Loool get out of here with that crap - it's been around for almost as long as this thread yet still ridiculously sad compared to every other South-based UK region, let alone London 

[MrBlackDude]

no info to offer - but did you notice that on her profile she is seeking an "trans-friendly" man?

I had noticed that. I wouldn't have taken the bait anyhow, I'm past the lingerie and chest ECUs.

[Link7]

Guys, I managed to pull it on  . I went on the second date with mrs pricey wine , this time I choose cheaper restaurant where the most expensive wine was £85. And she did not even go for it. And the end of the evening she came to mine place spend the whole night and stayed until we had lunch. And I did not transfer her even a single penny.

Congrats on the sex, but as noted above (and as you seem to acknowledge yourself), what you are actually doing is dating. This thread is about arrangements. So your boasting is completely out of context because you're comparing apples to oranges.

You asked a girl out, spent a fortune wooing her, had sex. That's great but it's not an arrangement or punt (and so in no way, shape or form a freebie). You asked her to date you via SA, and not Tinder, but so what?

Nothing against you sharing stories (or looking for a gf), but if you're making comparisons, there needs to be appropriate context. Otherwise, we're on a slippery slope - if I go out clubbing on a Friday night, pull a bird and shag her, is it relevant to come on here and tell everyone that I've had an overnight and she didn't ask a penny? 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

He’s hardly boasting. 
He met her on SA.
Didn’t pay but spent money wooing her in other ways.
Did you read his other connecting posts?
He was just giving further feedback on an earlier meeting he had with said lady.

Good on you 

Jeez what is it with some guys on here? Another chap was criticised for daring to spend more than others and showing evidence.

I’ve joined this thread to hear about a wide variety of experiences. Not to have individuals censored by certain individuals.

Talk about being bitten by the green eyed monster.

"The worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you."

Isn’t it easier to just not comment?

[lillythesavage]

He’s hardly boasting. 
He met her on SA.
Didn’t pay but spent money wooing her in other ways.
Did you read his other connecting posts?
He was just giving further feedback on an earlier meeting he had with said lady.

Good on you 

Jeez what is it with some guys on here? Another chap was criticised for daring to spend more than others and showing evidence.

I’ve joined this thread to hear about a wide variety of experiences. Not to have individuals censored by certain individuals.

Talk about being bitten by the green eyed monster.

"The worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you."

Isn’t it easier to just not comment?

As I am reading on a learning curve after failing miserably last time, I have to agree with you, any info is good info.

[Crockers]

So obs an escort but her boobs drew me in and we're on comms. I'm gonna move on... and right to do so!

Don't wanna an escort. (Happy to be proved wrong.)

Maybe I could meet her for an intro drink and find out...

... nah, got a few London girls in hand now. Either on positive comms or firm intimate dates following intro drinks.

Lols.

Out of interest, anyone know her?

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[JoeFiddleSticks]

Out of interest, anyone know her?

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Been mentioned a couple of times on here.  Apparently legit but kinda lukewarm reports

[Link7]

He’s hardly boasting. 
He met her on SA.
Didn’t pay but spent money wooing her in other ways.
Did you read his other connecting posts?
He was just giving further feedback on an earlier meeting he had with said lady.

Good on you 

Jeez what is it with some guys on here? Another chap was criticised for daring to spend more than others and showing evidence.

I’ve joined this thread to hear about a wide variety of experiences. Not to have individuals censored by certain individuals.

Talk about being bitten by the green eyed monster.

"The worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you."

Isn’t it easier to just not comment?

Sorry, where was the attempt to censor? I also congratulated him btw (spending £700 and eventually getting sex is better than not ever getting any). Why must we only comment if we agree? That sounds far more censorious to me. Maybe just don't take offence if you see a viewpoint different to your own (that is normal in a forum).

[JoeFiddleSticks]

Has anyone had the pleasure to meet this girl...I had her on my list for a long time and now she is coming to London...Im planning to see her next week

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Any joy?

[Link7]

Out of interest, anyone know her?

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Well known and used. From memory, I think someone paid 400, others said as little as 150. She doesn't care who she is meeting or ask any questions except about the fee.

I think there are some health issues there.

[Crockers]

Well known and used. From memory, I think someone paid 400, others said as little as 150. She doesn't care who she is meeting or ask any questions except about the fee.

I think there are some health issues there.

Thanks.

Do you know if there's a way of finding those post about her? I tried searching, but no luck...

Cheers

[JoeFiddleSticks]

Thanks.

Do you know if there's a way of finding those post about her? I tried searching, but no luck...

Cheers

Stick this 91a8d2b1-ab69-4d8c-b710-655000465b2f in the search

[Crockers]

Stick this 91a8d2b1-ab69-4d8c-b710-655000465b2f in the search

Thanks mate!

[cachalote459]

Any joy?

I couldn't meet her as I had to spent some time in Brigton for work...she understood and we will try to meet in Cheltenham...

[NightKid]

Stick this 91a8d2b1-ab69-4d8c-b710-655000465b2f in the search

Thanks mate!

I'll assume you've found the mini reviews on her so I won't bother to relink them.

And FYI you can also search with a shorter part of the alphanumeric link e.g I'd just use '655000465b2f' when I do it.

[JoeFiddleSticks]

I couldn't meet her as I had to spent some time in Brigton for work...she understood and we will try to meet in Cheltenham...

Fair enough, hope it works out and goes well

[southcoastpunter]

Don't wanna an escort.

got a few London girls in hand now. firm intimate dates following intro drinks.

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nah - you don't want an escort!!

 But hang on a minute, you are meeting a lady and (after a quick drink first to check her out) you are paying her via PPM directly for sex  - as you don't want to do any wooing or a platonic type date as you just want to go straight for (paid) sex - but yes you are probably right. You don't want an Escort!

Can't help thinking that is exactly what you do want and what you are getting!

[CroPunter]

Congrats on the sex, but as noted above (and as you seem to acknowledge yourself), what you are actually doing is dating. This thread is about arrangements. So your boasting is completely out of context because you're comparing apples to oranges.

You asked a girl out, spent a fortune wooing her, had sex. That's great but it's not an arrangement or punt (and so in no way, shape or form a freebie). You asked her to date you via SA, and not Tinder, but so what?

Nothing against you sharing stories (or looking for a gf), but if you're making comparisons, there needs to be appropriate context. Otherwise, we're on a slippery slope - if I go out clubbing on a Friday night, pull a bird and shag her, is it relevant to come on here and tell everyone that I've had an overnight and she didn't ask a penny? 

Well we made an arrangement, I'm not transferring her any money, I'm just taking her to nice restaurants like once per week and once in 1-2 months to some holiday to  Rome, Paris etc... And I saw her again yesterday too.

We also touched the subject of wine, and she told me that she was keen to see my reaction and because I played calm and did not made fuss out from it, it was the reason why she got hooked.

Overall I assume it will cost me around £1000 per month to be with her, which is ok since she is 24 years younger than me. 

[jacobs1]

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one to avoid. fully offers bareback on aw

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also is 3 years older on aw where id would of needed to be provided. makes you wonder how many girls on sa actually put their real age

but yeah bb for an extra 100 quid is not the one

[Odin669]

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one to avoid. fully offers bareback on aw

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also is 3 years older on aw where id would of needed to be provided. makes you wonder how many girls on sa actually put their real age

but yeah bb for an extra 100 quid is not the one

  how did you spot her on AW ? She doesn't reveal her face

[lillythesavage]

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one to avoid. fully offers bareback on aw

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also is 3 years older on aw where id would of needed to be provided. makes you wonder how many girls on sa actually put their real age

but yeah bb for an extra 100 quid is not the one

The age on AW can be set to what ever they like on AW, once verified which she is, it can only be taken as true on a veri pending profile, 

[jacobs1]

The age on AW can be set to what ever they like on AW, once verified which she is, it can only be taken as true on a veri pending profile, 

fairs, though i will believe the older age to be the real one out of the two

[jacobs1]

  how did you spot her on AW ? She doesn't reveal her face

same phone number

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profile says "If you can’t afford to get me a Cartier watch then don’t message me"

yet she quotes 300 per meet and talks like a pro "available today in canary wharf" etc

[lillythesavage]

fairs, though i will believe the older age to be the real one out of the two

Probably not realized it can be changed 

[Jardent6]

Anyone seen?


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