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Yeh she quoted me 350, then 300 for two hours

Was once quoting £250 no time limit

Offline Link7

Isn't that the bat shit crazy Solvak?

Glad I checked on here - I was sure she'd be a known entity.  She mustn't be busy atm, has been harrassing me for a meet (and tried initially quoting 500 for it - though soon agreed to half that). Sounds like she does anything/everything with anyone, along with probable MH issues. I'll be avoiding for sure!

Offline Link7

If you have a good and shaped physique, then I would turn it around.... Make torso pictures public, and face private.

I did post up some upper body photos as I am in very good shape with abs etc and I think that helps but of course cant be sure.

Step 1 - profile. Kept it simple. Showed a pic with most of the face hidden but body shown (i am in pretty good shape so it helps :-) ).

You guys aren't the first to say this, but just thought I'd flag it as (being a gym rat myself) it's a topic I've read about and discussed with mates (male and female) before. Supposedly, women actually tend to find this a bit cringey and guys who post topless selfies get fewer hits on average than clothed men. I think this is probably a bit counter-intuitive to many guys, because it's proven/well known that women in bikinis/skimpy clothes do get more attention from men. But apparently the reverse isn't true:

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For what it's worth, from what i've read/discussed, apparently the best received pictures of guys are: 

- smart/sharply dressed (ie. suit/tux etc)

- physical activities (ie. picture of you playing sport, mountain climbing etc)

So for example, if you've got a picture of yourself in a rugby kit or something, that's likely to do better than wearing a jacket + jeans, but even a jacket + jeans is likely to do better than you in a mirror squeezing your biceps/abs.

Just my two cents, you may disagree. This is in the context of mainstream dating apps, anyway.

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You guys aren't the first to say this, but just thought I'd flag it as (being a gym rat myself) it's a topic I've read about and discussed with mates (male and female) before. Supposedly, women actually tend to find this a bit cringey and guys who post topless selfies get fewer hits on average than clothed men. I think this is probably a bit counter-intuitive to many guys, because it's proven/well known that women in bikinis/skimpy clothes do get more attention from men. But apparently the reverse isn't true:

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For what it's worth, from what i've read/discussed, apparently the best received pictures of guys are: 

- smart/sharply dressed (ie. suit/tux etc)

- physical activities (ie. picture of you playing sport, mountain climbing etc)

So for example, if you've got a picture of yourself in a rugby kit or something, that's likely to do better than wearing a jacket + jeans, but even a jacket + jeans is likely to do better than you in a mirror squeezing your biceps/abs.

Just my two cents, you may disagree. This is in the context of mainstream dating apps, anyway.

Tbh I have no public pics and my private ones are only face pics of me in a hoodie but I’ve still met 30-40+ girls from SA over the past year (ranging from normal uni girls to insta models), so don’t think it is worth overthinking this stuff.

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Tbh I have no public pics and my private ones are only face pics of me in a hoodie but I’ve still met 30-40+ girls from SA over the past year (ranging from normal uni girls to insta models), so don’t think it is worth overthinking this stuff.

This 👆

Not just in SA but in life in general, your words are often more important with women than your looks. I have no pics on my profile but have put a lot of effort into the words. I’ve had literally hundreds of numbers without them seeing me, they get my pic when I go to WhatsApp.




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This 👆

Not just in SA but in life in general, your words are often more important with women than your looks. I have no pics on my profile but have put a lot of effort into the words. I’ve had literally hundreds of numbers without them seeing me, they get my pic when I go to WhatsApp.


Agree completely, a polite, flirty, fun email and not just asking about price, looks or services opens more doors, and legs, than any picture.
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Offline mrflash

This 👆

Not just in SA but in life in general, your words are often more important with women than your looks. I have no pics on my profile but have put a lot of effort into the words. I’ve had literally hundreds of numbers without them seeing me, they get my pic when I go to WhatsApp.
The advice you have given works only on SA. If we are talking about regular dating apps, looks come first. You probably won't even have the option to message someone before they swipe right on you.

Offline Mr_Shins

I'm a big fan of What's Your Price myself. I've met a number of women on that site. Most recently met someone who is beautiful and not only is wearing long boots in her media photos but has worn them on the 2 occasions she's met with me too.

Offline LB-liberatedbro

Tbh I have no public pics and my private ones are only face pics of me in a hoodie but I’ve still met 30-40+ girls from SA over the past year (ranging from normal uni girls to insta models), so don’t think it is worth overthinking this stuff.

Completely agree. The body pic i have is one from the beach with a tshirt and long shorts on. But key for me is the time spent explaining what i am looking for, not treating the women as escorts and using the right tone/time to ask for numbers. You do lose a few who want to see a face straight away (i won't show this) but most have agreed to move to whatsapp.

LB

Offline 50shades1

I'm a big fan of What's Your Price myself. I've met a number of women on that site. Most recently met someone who is beautiful and not only is wearing long boots in her media photos but has worn them on the 2 occasions she's met with me too.

Not heard many reports on that one, have you used both SA and WYP? Notable differences between the 2? From first glance seems like it would be flooded with girls looking for platonic M&G's like dinner dates etc. At least with SA there's the element of 'Sugar' heavily implied - however they seem to be diluting that quite a bit with making PG changes etc.

Offline martini2429

Not heard many reports on that one, have you used both SA and WYP? Notable differences between the 2? From first glance seems like it would be flooded with girls looking for platonic M&G's like dinner dates etc. At least with SA there's the element of 'Sugar' heavily implied - however they seem to be diluting that quite a bit with making PG changes etc.

A lot of women on WYP are also on Seeking, or at least they used to be

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A lot of women on WYP are also on Seeking, or at least they used to be

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Yeah I'd imagine there's crossover for sure. I always presumed SA to be the most mainstream so the one most girls have probably heard of before. Just curious though as I've only used SA

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I'm a big fan of What's Your Price myself. I've met a number of women on that site. Most recently met someone who is beautiful and not only is wearing long boots in her media photos but has worn them on the 2 occasions she's met with me too.

You keep touting WYP, are you on commission?  :unknown:  And, as I've pointed out before, you fail to mention that your encounters on WYP are virtually all platonic as you're happy to pay for platonic dates, when the overwhelming majority of UKP members are looking for sex.

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Another timewasting hypocrite who wants paying for M&Gs.  :thumbsdown:

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Headline tells guys to read her profile yet doesn't read others which clearly state no platonic, and doesn't have this detail on hers. Yet says by text she charges for M&G because of multiple timewasters despite the aforementioned. Also worth noting she is fairly friendly but semi pro in her outlook, doing a c&p text on WA similar to her profile but adding a bit more.

Claims she would be fine with sex if there was chemistry and she then got a monthly allowance. I very much doubt if this would happen. I've read 1 example on here of someone who charged for M&G and it actually progressed to a sexual arrangement.

Needless to say I offered some advice, firmly but not rudely put, and didn't need to pay to watch someone drink coffee etc. Then blocked her and moved on.

« Last Edit: October 18, 2021, 06:51:45 pm by Cunning Punt »

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Anyone want to help this poor girl?

Good morning :)
I need £100 now as my cars going into the garage at 9am and I don’t get paid until Tue!
Is there any chance you can help me out and I can either pay you back or meet up as soon as your free? xx

Can’t see anything going wrong there  :lol:

£100 to fix her car. Can I get the name of the garage. That's a bargain :lol:

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Anyone want to help this poor girl?

Good morning :)
I need £100 now as my cars going into the garage at 9am and I don’t get paid until Tue!
Is there any chance you can help me out and I can either pay you back or meet up as soon as your free? xx

Can’t see anything going wrong there  :lol:

Ah, shame she's gone, probably banned. I was just about to message her to suggest it would be easier to come to an arrangement with the mechanic so she could get her car fixed for free!   :lol:

Offline Link7

Tbh I have no public pics and my private ones are only face pics of me in a hoodie but I’ve still met 30-40+ girls from SA over the past year (ranging from normal uni girls to insta models), so don’t think it is worth overthinking this stuff.

Yeah, I agree SA is different. It's not a like for like comparison to dating apps (and what I posted is about dating apps). Still, I think it was relevant just as a counter view to some of the guys conceptions about shirtless photos.

It is obviously true guys have options on SA with or without pictures, many have testified to that. 40 girls a year is what, a new bird every 1-2 weeks? So I think that's v successful by anyone's standards (and I'm sure not cheap!).

My experience of SA has been that looks are still a factor, albeit not the most important one (cash is king). I think it's likely, for example, that you'd get still more SBs if you made your profile more noticeable with flattering photos. Just logically - because there's a proportion of girls who won't even stop to view a profile with zero public photos, for example. You may not care given your many other options. But I think there's plenty of guys looking for an "edge" - same reason people pay for boosts? And bear in mind, some of these guys may also be older / shorter / fatter / poorer than you, so they may need to work harder. My guess is you scrub up ok in a hoodie - insta models are picky.
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Yeah, I agree SA is different. It's not a like for like comparison to dating apps (and what I posted is about dating apps). Still, I think it was relevant just as a counter view to some of the guys conceptions about shirtless photos.

It is obviously true guys have options on SA with or without pictures, many have testified to that. 40 girls a year is what, a new bird every 1-2 weeks? So I think that's v successful by anyone's standards (and I'm sure not cheap!).

My experience of SA has been that looks are still a factor, albeit not the most important one (cash is king). I think it's likely, for example, that you'd get still more SBs if you made your profile more noticeable with flattering photos. Just logically - because there's a proportion of girls who won't even stop to view a profile with zero public photos, for example. You may not care given your many other options. But I think there's plenty of guys looking for an "edge" - same reason people pay for boosts? And bear in mind, some of these guys may also be older / shorter / fatter / poorer than you, so they may need to work harder. My guess is you scrub up ok in a hoodie - insta models are picky.

Yeah ok I take your point - SA is 100% a different beast to normal dating - the money helps smooth everything along for sure. I do tend to negotiate down pretty hard with girls I meet, but yeah you’re correct in that my experience has been getting the ppm lowered is directly proportional to how much the girls fancy you. And ok to be fair, I’m short, but am relatively young, decent shape, and I guess objectively I’m decently good looking - I’ve had girls meet up with me because they fancied me, or thought I looked like someone famous they fancy (legit it’s crazy how they think).

And tbh even I’m dumbfounded at how successful I’ve been. I do tend to keep my messages laid back
but also to the point, and if a girl doesn’t respond or goes silent I’ll generally leave it for a while. I’ve had it quite often that after a month or two the girl will message back, or I’ll message and get a response to meet up. I really do think approaching in a relaxed way and having low expectations for responses pays off. The insta models in particular have so many options you’re basically at the whim of how they feel on the day. One literally told me she met up with me because she fancied me a bit and I was persistent through her blanking over a period of 2 months… honestly these chicks live in a different world though, with their mortgages paid for by the footballers and rappers they party with, only when they’re not in Dubai for half the year though.
« Last Edit: October 19, 2021, 12:24:33 am by bbz123 »

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... and ok to be fair, I’m short, but am relatively young, decent shape, and I guess objectively I’m decently good looking - I’ve had girls meet up with me because... thought I looked like someone famous they fancy (legit it’s crazy how they think).


Tom Cruise?!  :P :lol: ;)



Offline Mr_Shins

Not heard many reports on that one, have you used both SA and WYP? Notable differences between the 2? From first glance seems like it would be flooded with girls looking for platonic M&G's like dinner dates etc. At least with SA there's the element of 'Sugar' heavily implied - however they seem to be diluting that quite a bit with making PG changes etc.

I tried both sites, and they are both owned by the same company. You have to be aware that they can ban you if you say the wrong things in chat, so it's advisable to take the conversation offline.

WYP has no monthly fee, but you pay to "unlock" the conversation once you have agreed the amount, which is generally a first-meet (yes meet and greet) amount, however consider this "cost" against what you have saved on the site itself - that is about £80 a month - and many of the women on that site would be happy with a continual paid "arrangement".

If the particular girl doesn't want sex with you, you have 2 choices really:
- Don't go on seeing her.
- If you really like her, see her for dating / dinner dates etc and find another woman for sex. And if the woman above can't tolerate you seeing anyone else (although she doesn't have to find out), then switch back to "don't go on seeing her".

I found it a lot more cost effective myself to possibly have a dinner-date girl for £75 and sex with my regular escort for £80 thus £155, than a typical £250 ppm.

How does it beat regular dating sites?
 - Most women on those are looking for partners. I am looking for something more casual.
 - Most women on there won't date much older men. I'm attracted to women mid to late 30s maybe early 40s. Women on regular dating sites that age are not interested in meeting men in their mid-50s.


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You keep touting WYP, are you on commission?  :unknown:  And, as I've pointed out before, you fail to mention that your encounters on WYP are virtually all platonic as you're happy to pay for platonic dates, when the overwhelming majority of UKP members are looking for sex.

Yeah bad of me to "tout" the site, it will create more competition for me on there...
 
I have encountered women on that site who want arrangements too, and presumably those women will give you sex in exchange. It's not something you normally expect on the first date, but many of them would be willing. I'm not sure if "Eretria" is still on that site, but she was definitely looking for a sugar-daddy arrangement, and she was also very pretty.

Offline 50shades1

I tried both sites, and they are both owned by the same company. You have to be aware that they can ban you if you say the wrong things in chat, so it's advisable to take the conversation offline.

WYP has no monthly fee, but you pay to "unlock" the conversation once you have agreed the amount, which is generally a first-meet (yes meet and greet) amount, however consider this "cost" against what you have saved on the site itself - that is about £80 a month - and many of the women on that site would be happy with a continual paid "arrangement".

If the particular girl doesn't want sex with you, you have 2 choices really:
- Don't go on seeing her.
- If you really like her, see her for dating / dinner dates etc and find another woman for sex. And if the woman above can't tolerate you seeing anyone else (although she doesn't have to find out), then switch back to "don't go on seeing her".

I found it a lot more cost effective myself to possibly have a dinner-date girl for £75 and sex with my regular escort for £80 thus £155, than a typical £250 ppm.

How does it beat regular dating sites?
 - Most women on those are looking for partners. I am looking for something more casual.
 - Most women on there won't date much older men. I'm attracted to women mid to late 30s maybe early 40s. Women on regular dating sites that age are not interested in meeting men in their mid-50s.

Appreciate the explanation and each to their own but paying in any way for a girl who isn't & probably never is going to fuck you is preposterous to me.

The girl you're paying for the dinner date is probably going home to get railed by someone else for free whilst you're going to see an escort after. Doesn't make sense.

Offline Mr_Shins

Appreciate the explanation and each to their own but paying in any way for a girl who isn't & probably never is going to fuck you is preposterous to me.

The girl you're paying for the dinner date is probably going home to get railed by someone else for free whilst you're going to see an escort after. Doesn't make sense.

I expect they may get railed by someone else, but I guess it probably isn't for free, more likely someone who is paying her even more than I am.
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Offline testgenie

Is looking for £300ppm but also supplements her cabin crew income with cam services:

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This one seems to be a serial SB in between her day job. Add in AW and that's almost two full time jobs. Spoken to her before but comms were poor, no spark.

Offline testgenie

Does anyone here use a virtual disposable card to make subscription payments (monzo, revolut etc.)? If so, do you use an alias name/ address and does it go through okay? Seen some comments saying it's fine but just wanted to double check

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This one seems to be a serial SB in between her day job. Add in AW and that's almost two full time jobs. Spoken to her before but comms were poor, no spark.

Does she offer full on sex without the wine and dine?

She did message previously but my subscription expired so haven't really communicated yet.
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Offline Mr_Shins

This one seems to be a serial SB in between her day job. Add in AW and that's almost two full time jobs. Spoken to her before but comms were poor, no spark.

I was seeing an air hostess (from WYP but she was also on Seeking) last year. There were far fewer flights due to COVID so she was out of work a lot. Enjoyed the life of flying all over the place, but it didn't pay that well.

If only she were a normal escort too, that kind of profile I find very attractive.

Offline testgenie

Does she offer full on sex without the wine and dine?

She did message previously but my subscription expired so haven't really communicated yet.

From conversations, she was happy with sex but arranging a meet was difficult and I moved on

Offline stampjones

Does anyone here use a virtual disposable card to make subscription payments (monzo, revolut etc.)? If so, do you use an alias name/ address and does it go through okay? Seen some comments saying it's fine but just wanted to double check
Yes thats what I do. I use revolut

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From conversations, she was happy with sex but arranging a meet was difficult and I moved on

Okay thanks
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Offline cim_lover

Does anyone here use a virtual disposable card to make subscription payments (monzo, revolut etc.)? If so, do you use an alias name/ address and does it go through okay? Seen some comments saying it's fine but just wanted to double check

Yes it works fine with random details

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Been working hard to get a replacement SB but jeez its hard work:

External Link/Members Only   a threesome - wants £800ppm or £1800 allowance for 2 meets. Too rich for me. She is fit and good looking though.

External Link/Members Only  wants £350 ppm and a whats to go to galleries and shit. Evenings only. Seems human.

External Link/Members Only weekends only £250 i think.

External Link/Members Only £350 and just too pushy. Think its a living


And plenty of others that were dead ends. Thought it might help some of you


Offline martini2429

Been working hard to get a replacement SB but jeez its hard work:

External Link/Members Only   a threesome - wants £800ppm or £1800 allowance for 2 meets. Too rich for me. She is fit and good looking though.

External Link/Members Only  wants £350 ppm and a whats to go to galleries and shit. Evenings only. Seems human.

External Link/Members Only weekends only £250 i think.

External Link/Members Only £350 and just too pushy. Think its a living


And plenty of others that were dead ends. Thought it might help some of you

Probably a mistake but you published the same profile link for the bottom 2

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Been mentioned before and I can confirm they're a legit couple. Though unfortunately semi pro like many others and very business-minded, I managed to knock their asking down by virtue of my experience with kink but that in turn also limited what they were willing to do & time spent. Current main profile photo seems misleading as well, the girl looks to be mixed or European in the pic to me but in reality she's actually East Asian - South Korean to be precise. Cute-ish, bordering on pretty.

Offline dildosaggins

What's the best way to send money anonymously to a sugar baby?

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What's the best way to send money anonymously to a sugar baby?
Not at all unless you’re planning to do it after doing the deed

Offline bigden40

What's the best way to send money anonymously to a sugar baby?

In cash, in an envelope, in your hotel room. 

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Been working hard to get a replacement SB but jeez its hard work:

External Link/Members Only   a threesome - wants £800ppm or £1800 allowance for 2 meets. Too rich for me. She is fit and good looking though. [/i]

I think you'll find that these two are here: External Link/Members Only
Rates seem lower than your PPM, unless of course you're planning on fucking for more than three hours.
Maybe an hour try before you buy?
I'd also say the SA pictures are a little older than the AW ones.
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Offline londonhunter008

Is looking for £300ppm but also supplements her cabin crew income with cam services:

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you cant rely her. She has too many things in her hand. You can search her name online CabincrewhottieHazel. I tried to meet her but she is too busy and never follow thorough her chats. Then I found her online. She is on SA, AW and many cams site. Not reliable to meet.

Offline Jeffpike

Been working hard to get a replacement SB but jeez its hard work:

External Link/Members Only   a threesome - wants £800ppm or £1800 allowance for 2 meets. Too rich for me. She is fit and good looking though. [/i]

I think you'll find that these two are here: External Link/Members Only
Rates seem lower than your PPM, unless of course you're planning on fucking for more than three hours.
Maybe an hour try before you buy?
I'd also say the SA pictures are a little older than the AW ones.

OK thanks. She did use the words booking so i should have twigged.

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What's the best way to send money anonymously to a sugar baby?

In cash, in an envelope, in your hotel room and at the end of the meet.

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Viewed me, added me to her favourites so we start chatting.....says she's looking for a monthly allowance and longterm, I tell her I'm looking for something casual and intimate... she replies shes happy with that, on to Whatsapp and she dismisses my ppm offer and replies that she's looking for "£200 an hour"


Offline tekkers1

has anyone ever paid for train tickets for a SB to come visit you? is that a likely scam? i feel like yes but well, worth asking anyway i suppose....
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really fancy this one, totally my vibe

wanted me to pay her for train tickets and i said no to sending any money up front. now wants me to get train tickets for her to come to london as she's not actually based there (despite the location being london)

i really want to give her the benefit of the doubt even though every sign is saying this is a scam isn't it so hoping posting here someone can stop me being an idiot by calling me an idiot and getting me to come to my senses...

just would fucking love to fuck her is all....
Has she actually discussed having sex with you?  :unknown:

Don't be an idiot.
(You did ask)  :sarcastic:

Offline LB-liberatedbro

has anyone ever paid for train tickets for a SB to come visit you? is that a likely scam? i feel like yes but well, worth asking anyway i suppose....

I have paid for train fare and taxi fare. But i insist on giving it in cash during the meet rather than paying in advance. Has worked out well for me but i can see how some SBs can use this as a scam. I also ask what it is in advance to ensure its reasonable.

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I have paid for train fare and taxi fare. But i insist on giving it in cash during the meet rather than paying in advance. Has worked out well for me but i can see how some SBs can use this as a scam. I also ask what it is in advance to ensure its reasonable.

i have done that too. Another option now is to buy an e-ticket for her and send it to her when she sends a pic of her at the station on the day of travel. ok she might not come and you could be out of pocket but i don't think she can gain from it (other than not coming to see you but seeing someone else or go shopping etc.