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[NightKid]

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Wants £200 for a meet and greet 
"I would agree with first meeting of £200 to get to know each other and to discuss all the details."

Tbh at this point I think it's just part of their ploy to land a whale ... good luck to them if they wanna try playing the odds, I say.

[JustaPunter]

It’s pretty simple to set a search up for black / African ethnicity and your desired age range 

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

[quickben]

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

These aren't strictly escorts, there's a personal relationship here. Any gems found tend to be closely guarded until they are found to be cracked. This thread is mostly about technique and showing everyone the bad apples.

[stampjones]

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

Read your reply again and maybe that will tell you why you’re not having much luck. Its certainly not rocket science - just dont be a dick 🤷‍♂️

[DeanoDeano]

Are there some absolute idiots somewhere who are actually paying those prices for M&G's to make these girls suspect others are willing to also?

Yes there absolutely are.

A friend of mine went on a date with a guy last week - they had drinks in a pub for a few hours, a brief snog at the end, and he gave her £300.

 

[DeanoDeano]

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

Maybe you need to read the thread more closely then. You don’t seem to have grasped some of the basic principles of using seeking, and I can’t say I’m inclined to help now.

[PLeisure]

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

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[LB-liberatedbro]

Hello all

Been reading up on here for so long. Lockdown has been a nightmare with no action. Finally took the plunge a few weeks ago and can't thank you all enough for the intel.

Step 1 - profile. Kept it simple. Showed a pic with most of the face hidden but body shown (i am in pretty good shape so it helps :-) ). Made it clear that i want a combination of fun outdoors and closeness indoors. And i did not want to become someone's only source of income.

Step 2 - polite bespoke messages sent to a long list. I only targeted 6-9 rated girls in my view. Ignored any reply that remotely started talking about money.

Step 3 - went to whatsapp asap. Got about 40 numbers. It is definitely a numbers game like you all said. It is a nightmare  trying to juggle them all. Talking to my top 5 and slowed down discussion with the rest.

In general, supply in London is fantastic. I am super concerned about scams so this thread is a life saver. Perhaps im more cautious than normal which means i walk away from a 50-50 situation that doesnt sound right.

All girls i am / have spoken with know the score. But treating them as non - escorts is definitely the right way round.

Will shortly send profile links. Thank you all and sorry its been a long time since i shared.

[massagepuntingfan]

Clearly I have done that already.

Surely as this is a punting forum the reason for my post was to find girls that actually want to meet and aren’t scammers?

Or is that too complicated a concept?

Funnily enough I read it like Deano replied.

Like you I've been trying to make an arrangement with a young black woman these last few weeks. What I've noticed is there isn't a huge pool of choice, many live outside of London(even though London is listed) and they aren't nearly as open to NSA as many others are. The common thread on the WhatsApp chats I've had is how rude male members are to them.

Reading between the lines I get the sense that SDs see many of the black women I've messaged recently as disposable fucks rather than women to be invested in and cared for. Quite whether this is a universal issue on seeking or one related to skin colour is beyond me, but it's raised some questions in my mind and my approach to seeking.

[JustaPunter]

Maybe you need to read the thread more closely then. You don’t seem to have grasped some of the basic principles of using seeking, and I can’t say I’m inclined to help now.

I am sure I will survive without your help.

[JustaPunter]

Funnily enough I read it like Deano replied.

Like you I've been trying to make an arrangement with a young black woman these last few weeks. What I've noticed is there isn't a huge pool of choice, many live outside of London(even though London is listed) and they aren't nearly as open to NSA as many others are. The common thread on the WhatsApp chats I've had is how rude male members are to them.

Reading between the lines I get the sense that SDs see many of the black women I've messaged recently as disposable fucks rather than women to be invested in and cared for. Quite whether this is a universal issue on seeking or one related to skin colour is beyond me, but it's raised some questions in my mind and my approach to seeking.

I can see your point.

I will continue with messaging on Seeking and see what develops, P&D have never been my thing.

[JustaPunter]

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Thanks for your input.

I shall try to learn from your advice……

[DeanoDeano]

Funnily enough I read it like Deano replied.

Like you I've been trying to make an arrangement with a young black woman these last few weeks. What I've noticed is there isn't a huge pool of choice, many live outside of London(even though London is listed) and they aren't nearly as open to NSA as many others are. The common thread on the WhatsApp chats I've had is how rude male members are to them.

Reading between the lines I get the sense that SDs see many of the black women I've messaged recently as disposable fucks rather than women to be invested in and cared for. Quite whether this is a universal issue on seeking or one related to skin colour is beyond me, but it's raised some questions in my mind and my approach to seeking.

That’s interesting. I’ve always thought that there was a disproportionately high number of girls on there that fit this criteria, but maybe that is some sort of unconscious bias on my part. Same with Latino girls, whether that’s because culturally they are perhaps more used to this dynamic, or otherwise.

[bigden40]

Funnily enough I read it like Deano replied.

Like you I've been trying to make an arrangement with a young black woman these last few weeks. What I've noticed is there isn't a huge pool of choice, many live outside of London(even though London is listed) and they aren't nearly as open to NSA as many others are. The common thread on the WhatsApp chats I've had is how rude male members are to them.

Reading between the lines I get the sense that SDs see many of the black women I've messaged recently as disposable fucks rather than women to be invested in and cared for. Quite whether this is a universal issue on seeking or one related to skin colour is beyond me, but it's raised some questions in my mind and my approach to seeking.

I’ve had the opposite experience.  Over the last two years I’d say 80% of the girls I’ve seen have been black or mixed race. I’ve seen no issues with the talent pool at all, and no change to that recently.

[massagepuntingfan]

That’s interesting. I’ve always thought that there was a disproportionately high number of girls on there that fit this criteria, but maybe that is some sort of unconscious bias on my part. Same with Latino girls, whether that’s because culturally they are perhaps more used to this dynamic, or otherwise.

Bear in mind I've only been looking within that criteria these past two weeks, and its outside my usual preference - glad to be told otherwise.

[samsmith_1231]

Hello all

Been reading up on here for so long. Lockdown has been a nightmare with no action. Finally took the plunge a few weeks ago and can't thank you all enough for the intel.

Step 1 - profile. Kept it simple. Showed a pic with most of the face hidden but body shown (i am in pretty good shape so it helps :-) ). Made it clear that i want a combination of fun outdoors and closeness indoors. And i did not want to become someone's only source of income.

Step 2 - polite bespoke messages sent to a long list. I only targeted 6-9 rated girls in my view. Ignored any reply that remotely started talking about money.

Step 3 - went to whatsapp asap. Got about 40 numbers. It is definitely a numbers game like you all said. It is a nightmare  trying to juggle them all. Talking to my top 5 and slowed down discussion with the rest.

In general, supply in London is fantastic. I am super concerned about scams so this thread is a life saver. Perhaps im more cautious than normal which means i walk away from a 50-50 situation that doesnt sound right.

All girls i am / have spoken with know the score. But treating them as non - escorts is definitely the right way round.

Will shortly send profile links. Thank you all and sorry its been a long time since i shared.

Nice!

[LB-liberatedbro]

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Brazilian. Looks super young but over 25. Will come to room after first M&G. No boobs though. Hence, i didnt pursue.

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Wants money for M&G. But dont worry as she'll give a discount for this. Ummm...no thanks.

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Super Pro SB - money talk straight away. Didnt pursue.


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Wants money for M&G but could go to hotel straight away. Pro SB

[LB-liberatedbro]

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Time waster

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Got a TV vibe so didnt pursue. I could be totally wrong.

[Teejay]

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Brazilian. Looks super young but over 25. Will come to room after first M&G. No boobs though. Hence, i didnt pursue.

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Wants money for M&G. But dont worry as she'll give a discount for this. Ummm...no thanks.

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Super Pro SB - money talk straight away. Didnt pursue.


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Wants money for M&G but could go to hotel straight away. Pro SB

i have seen the 3rd profile very pretty but smell fishy down there realg puts me off  wouldn't see her again

[PLeisure]

@LB-liberatedbro - useful intel, thank you 

[jakkee]

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She's very keen to meet. Wants to meet at her hotel for £300. Pro vibes but very attractive. Any intel?

These are non-genuine photos of her, so this would suggest to me that this is a fake profile. I've actually impressed myself that I recognise the photo from somewhere:
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[kutch]

Anyone came across this one?

Lily, 24, Female, London

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She quoted me £350.  Cannot host and wants a 5 star hotel and dinner before anything happens

[samsmith_1231]

She quoted me £350.  Cannot host and wants a 5 star hotel and dinner before anything happens

What a chancer. Did you go through with it?

[kutch]

What a chancer. Did you go through with it?

Definitely not.  She’s a timewaster maybe

[massagepuntingfan]

These are non-genuine photos of her, so this would suggest to me that this is a fake profile. I've actually impressed myself that I recognise the photo from somewhere:
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Thanks mate. I've just run a Yandex search of all her photos, 3 of them are copied. She sent me a face photo which was fit, due to do a video call, interested to see how she looks before I block/report her.

[martini2429]

If anyone is interested:

"I guess what i'm looking for is intimacy without drama, good fun, great sex"

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[anotherwoody69]

If anyone is interested:

"I guess what i'm looking for is intimacy without drama, good fun, great sex"

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[quickben]

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Another confused woman from onlyfans.

[LB-liberatedbro]

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More than a pro-SB. Wouldnt be surprised if she's been at an agency. £500 min.

[NightKid]

A friend of mine went on a date with a guy last week - they had drinks in a pub for a few hours, a brief snog at the end, and he gave her £300.

Is she particularly good looking?

Tbf it happens outside the paid game too. I'm working in hospitality atm and there was a fit 19 yr old girl at work but personality like sandpaper who was telling all the customers about it being her last day before she headed back to uni - some guy gave her a card and included a £100 tip along with it as well.

Fucking simps be everywhere these days 

[ampithestud1]

Has anyone recently re-subbed using a discount code that worked and wouldn't mind sharing?

[bash_eer]

So I had a meet arranged and we had come to an agreement with the PPM. I booked the hotel and sometime later she asks for extra £50 the money is not a problem I would be happy to give her an extra 100. It just the She told me what her usual PPM is which I countered with my offer and she agreed.

I told her its better we don't meet if we can't stick to what we agreed so she said its fine I don't have to give her the £50. I am in two minds as to see her not now as it kind of soured things and takes some of the fun out of it plus she is likely to resent me during the meet.

She said she wont feel that way towards me and it will be enjoyable but I am not sure if should go through with the meet on principle.

[samsmith_1231]

So I had a meet arranged and we had come to an agreement with the PPM. I booked the hotel and sometime later she asks for extra £50 the money is not a problem I would be happy to give her an extra 100. It just the She told me what her usual PPM is which I countered with my offer and she agreed.

I told her its better we don't meet if we can't stick to what we agreed so she said its fine I don't have to give her the £50. I am in two minds as to see her not now as it kind of soured things and takes some of the fun out of it plus she is likely to resent me during the meet.

She said she wont feel that way towards me and it will be enjoyable but I am not sure if should go through with the meet on principle.

She’ll ask for more later. Avoid I’d say.

[samsmith_1231]

Is she particularly good looking?

Tbf it happens outside the paid game too. I'm working in hospitality atm and there was a fit 19 yr old girl at work but personality like sandpaper who was telling all the customers about it being her last day before she headed back to uni - some guy gave her a card and included a £100 tip along with it as well.

Fucking simps be everywhere these days 

What’s the point giving free money unless he expects  a BJ some way down the line

[bash_eer]

She’ll ask for more later. Avoid I’d say.

I dont think she will as she settled with what we agreed and even though i turned her down for the extra 50 she still wants to meet.

[Gunnarman]

Here is one to avoid.  Anyone in her league?

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[delta69]

Here is one to avoid.  Anyone in her league?

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She probably used to having dudes flying her out, abroad and shitting on her

[martini2429]

Here is one to avoid.  Anyone in her league?

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I am guessing that this is her?

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[DeanoDeano]

That girl, if it is one, has a new profile every couple of days. Same photos, same bollocks about loving champagne. Absolute oxygen thief and window licker.

[Snax]

So I had a meet arranged and we had come to an agreement with the PPM. I booked the hotel and sometime later she asks for extra £50 the money is not a problem I would be happy to give her an extra 100. It just the She told me what her usual PPM is which I countered with my offer and she agreed.

I told her its better we don't meet if we can't stick to what we agreed so she said its fine I don't have to give her the £50. I am in two minds as to see her not now as it kind of soured things and takes some of the fun out of it plus she is likely to resent me during the meet.

She said she wont feel that way towards me and it will be enjoyable but I am not sure if should go through with the meet on principle.

Go see her. She has backtracked her cheeky offer now. Adds to the banter I'd say. Plus she'll probably suck the soul out of your cock now that she knows you stood up for yourself and didn't entertain her BS. They secretly like men who don't take shit. Don't miss out on the opportunity I'd say.

[massagepuntingfan]

So I had a meet arranged and we had come to an agreement with the PPM. I booked the hotel and sometime later she asks for extra £50 the money is not a problem I would be happy to give her an extra 100. It just the She told me what her usual PPM is which I countered with my offer and she agreed.

I told her its better we don't meet if we can't stick to what we agreed so she said its fine I don't have to give her the £50. I am in two minds as to see her not now as it kind of soured things and takes some of the fun out of it plus she is likely to resent me during the meet.

She said she wont feel that way towards me and it will be enjoyable but I am not sure if should go through with the meet on principle.

Don't go through with it. It happens here and there and totally kills the mood for me. Its pre agreed for a reason, play hard ball or cancel and move on.

[massagepuntingfan]

I am guessing that this is her?

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This one is hands down the most annoying SB, a new profile every day or two, always favourites me, scammer asking for champagne, I routinely block her.

[Bikerboy]

So I had a meet arranged and we had come to an agreement with the PPM. I booked the hotel and sometime later she asks for extra £50 the money is not a problem I would be happy to give her an extra 100. It just the She told me what her usual PPM is which I countered with my offer and she agreed.

I told her its better we don't meet if we can't stick to what we agreed so she said its fine I don't have to give her the £50. I am in two minds as to see her not now as it kind of soured things and takes some of the fun out of it plus she is likely to resent me during the meet.

She said she wont feel that way towards me and it will be enjoyable but I am not sure if should go through with the meet on principle.

May work out may not but it’s a red flag for me if they squeeze extra cash after agreement on amount and especially after you’ve booked hotel. 

[Snax]

Don't go through with it. It happens here and there and totally kills the mood for me. Its pre agreed for a reason, play hard ball or cancel and move on.

play hard ball for what? He's already said she backtracked

[ampithestud1]

I dont think she will as she settled with what we agreed and even though i turned her down for the extra 50 she still wants to meet.

I personally wouldn't as most of these SBs have a magical number that they are 'worth' and it appears she thinks its 50 quid more than what you offered, even though she's backtracked. For me that's a red or at least an amber flag.

If your gut feel is she will keep her end of the bargain and you REALLY do fancy her, go ahead but only pay her after the deed is done and have a plan B (shortlist of WGs nearby?) in case she leaves you horny and pissed off!

[quickben]

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More confused onlyfans performers.

[southcoastpunter]

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More confused onlyfans performers.

can i ask please - what do you mean by this? do you mean that they have confirmed to you that they only do online stuff? that they direct you to their OF profile? That they will not meet in person?

[quickben]

can i ask please - what do you mean by this? do you mean that they have confirmed to you that they only do online stuff? that they direct you to their OF profile? That they will not meet in person?

Online only, one of the two said that "maybe" they'd meet in future if...

[PLeisure]

Online only, one of the two said that "maybe" they'd meet in future if...

These one-line profile descriptions are a red flag. Unless they genuinely lack a personality 

[wilkinc]

If anyone is interested in TS, I met this girl and she was really nice. A bit vague on the specifics of what she was looking for from an arrangement, but happy to do free meet and greet, at least for me:

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She was super pretty and quite flirty, very passable and open about her past