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Offline massagepuntingfan

You are aware this is a SA thread and hardly anyone uses alternative sites?

I was thinking the same. I appreciate your predicament maakriman, but it might be less confusing to majority who are on SA and use this thread as a resource if you set up a thread for SDM website.

Offline Man99999

Hey could you ping me the details please? Happy to swap some profiles.

Offline HomerC

I'm talking to one lady now who is coyly saying she doesn't spread her legs for money and doesn't want paying.... ?
But before wanted £350 PPM? I don't understand what's going on.
I suspect she's new, and has hangups about being paid?

[There are no clear photos of me so it's definitely not due to me being handsome..]

I could be talking to a guy or a scammer for all I know. It's all very time consuming.

Online finn5555

There are a few gems on SA, you need to avoid the scams i have three potentials I'm in discussion with

24yo single mum, curvy big tits but admits lactating as son is still on the breast, cannot host but happy with £150 for the night
27yo English girl, size 6/8 petite but not the best looking. Claims to be submissive, open minded overnight for £250
23yo Greek national but been in UK for 4 years now, average body pretty face sounds vanilla but easy going £200 for the night

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

There are a few gems on SA, you need to avoid the scams i have three potentials I'm in discussion with

24yo single mum, curvy big tits but admits lactating as son is still on the breast, cannot host but happy with £150 for the night
27yo English girl, size 6/8 petite but not the best looking. Claims to be submissive, open minded overnight for £250
23yo Greek national but been in UK for 4 years now, average body pretty face sounds vanilla but easy going £200 for the night

Curvy single mum… not the best looker… average body … you’re not selling these as gems my friend  :D
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Online finn5555

Curvy single mum… not the best looker… average body … you’re not selling these as gems my friend  :D

Fortunately we all have different tastes  :hi:

Offline massagepuntingfan

I'm talking to one lady now who is coyly saying she doesn't spread her legs for money and doesn't want paying.... ?
But before wanted £350 PPM? I don't understand what's going on.
I suspect she's new, and has hangups about being paid?

[There are no clear photos of me so it's definitely not due to me being handsome..]

I could be talking to a guy or a scammer for all I know. It's all very time consuming.

Haha you brighten up my day HomerC. I rarely analyse these things, I'll leave it to the pros like yourself to deliberate over. If a SB shows enthusiasm in her comms and is happy to move quickly to WhatsApp, then that's usually a good first step towards a possible arrangement. Most of what they write is a nonsense.

Online JohnGB

I’ve had some bad luck with the punting scene lately (two last minute cancellations on separate occasions), so I thought I’d come back to SA.

Been chatting to this girl:
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Anyone has any info? Seems to be fine for ppm to start with, although negotiating on price atm…

Appreciate the help from all of you… I was hoping to post my first punting review, but not meant to be.. fingers crossed with SA!

Offline nikmeister

Hello,

I have been out the punting scene since late 2019. Covid scared me shitless.
Have been thinking of moving into the Seeking scene but don't know how the messaging goes. AW is pretty simply and straightforward. I understand a lot more time, effort and money will go into Seeking Arrangements but I am willing to give it a go.

Could someone help me understand how the messaging scene goes there


Nik

Offline rskane

Really struggling atm and have 1 week of my subscription to go - sb after sb is quoting ridiculous numbers and I can’t seem to get a ppm under 300. So many quoting 500-700 initially and seem semi pro

Anyone else getting this or is it just down to the sbs I’m picking? Been going for 23-25 range and fairly attractive but by no means wolrdies. What’s going on?

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Really struggling atm and have 1 week of my subscription to go - sb after sb is quoting ridiculous numbers and I can’t seem to get a ppm under 300. So many quoting 500-700 initially and seem semi pro

Anyone else getting this or is it just down to the sbs I’m picking? Been going for 23-25 range and fairly attractive but by no means wolrdies. What’s going on?

Try expanding your age range and maybe the area. That will increase the number of profiles that you see

Offline HomerC

Really struggling atm and have 1 week of my subscription to go - sb after sb is quoting ridiculous numbers and I can’t seem to get a ppm under 300. So many quoting 500-700 initially and seem semi pro

Anyone else getting this or is it just down to the sbs I’m picking? Been going for 23-25 range and fairly attractive but by no means wolrdies. What’s going on?

Do the meet and greet with them (platonic).
After she’s met you she might accept a lower rate once she sees what you’re like. It’s very high risk tho.
I almost cancelled by first m&G because a mid 30s girl said she normally got 500ppm. But I wanted to have at least 1 m&G under my belt. She accepted 200 for our first intimate meeting. On the second one she wanted her Uber paid on top, and then on our 3rd meet she asked me to buy her small things on top. We had good chemistry.

Offline HomerC

Haha you brighten up my day HomerC. I rarely analyse these things, I'll leave it to the pros like yourself to deliberate over. If a SB shows enthusiasm in her comms and is happy to move quickly to WhatsApp, then that's usually a good first step towards a possible arrangement. Most of what they write is a nonsense.

That has resolved itself now. I think she maybe thought I wanted to date her? (We’ve been chatting a lot.) She admitted to me that she has a child (she’s very young, like 20).
I implored her not to feel bad about accepting money, and she admitted she’s had an arrangement before. There’s a stigma about having sex for money.

Assuming she’s a real woman (not a scammer), and did ever not want to be paid, I would feel very uneasy - because then I would owe her in other ways. We seem to have good rapport, but there’s no way I could “date” a girl who must be getting smashed by other men. And I can’t help her with her child - that’s too much responsibility. I could feed her pet one time, for example, but not her child - it would be weird. And it could get very expensive, not to mention emotionally draining.






Offline HomerC

Curvy single mum… not the best looker… average body … you’re not selling these as gems my friend  :D

I appreciate the honesty. It’s good to comprise, he’s getting a lower rate.

Offline HomerC

WOW Homer, you are the man!!. If anyone can do the deal, it is you  :thumbsup:

I feel like it’s a bad idea to mislead. I don’t have the means to pay 2000 a month. I would quite like to smash her once for ppm (if it’s reasonable). I think I’ll stay away from allowance girls.

Offline HomerC

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20 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
SUGAR xoxox

Asking £200 anyone seen?

Not wanting to be rude about her... but following a simple series of questions on WA it’s clear what she lacks in brains she makes up for  elsewhere.  Friends with B’s instantly.

This is a scamming picture seller. "She" gave the WhatsApp number 07306342808.

Offline maakriman

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Chatted with her, when I told I am not interested in buying pictures, blocked me instantly  :D

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Offline delta69

Chatted with her, when I told I am not interested in buying pictures, blocked me instantly  :D

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Tell her to make an onlyfans if she wants people to buy her pictures

Offline tantric talents

Tell her to make an onlyfans if she wants people to buy her pictures
Wonder if she noticed she dropped her earring into her espresso martini?

Offline xeron

I've been in contact with her for quite some time on WA after initially meeting on SA where her username is Mockingbird. But couldn't meet due to lockdowns. She's Swidish and perhaps lives in Surrey area. She's asking for a £300 ppm but first wants to meet over dinner to see if there's a chemistry.

Did you meet her just for coffee/dinner or intimately? What about her has put you off?

Met her years ago. Was 200pm at the time. She wasn't all that into the intimate side, seemed far more comfortable with the chatting part

We jumped immediately into the intimacy at the time. She was good looking overall back then aside from some bad scarring from breast surgery. Nice enough but tapered off after a few meets. Wouldn't repeat at 300.

Offline HomerC

Chatted with her, when I told I am not interested in buying pictures, blocked me instantly  :D

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"she" is using stolen pics, I betcha

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If you can be bothered press "report" and select "commercial activity" [those of you on Seeking]

Offline HomerC

Chatted with her, when I told I am not interested in buying pictures, blocked me instantly  :D

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Where did you get the espresso machine pic? it's not on her profile (External Link/Members Only)

Offline supastarjay

Does anyone else get a bunch of favourites from the most random fucking countries like Philippines and Venezuela?

Offline stampjones

Does anyone else get a bunch of favourites from the most random fucking countries like Philippines and Venezuela?
Yeah we all do. Picture sellers. Ignore

Offline stampjones

Hello,

I have been out the punting scene since late 2019. Covid scared me shitless.
Have been thinking of moving into the Seeking scene but don't know how the messaging goes. AW is pretty simply and straightforward. I understand a lot more time, effort and money will go into Seeking Arrangements but I am willing to give it a go.

Could someone help me understand how the messaging scene goes there


Nik
Plenty of info on this thread and other similar ones.
Its not like AW where you just say what you want and off you go. Its more involved but it depends what you want out of it. Most approaches are covered/discussed here.
The basic story is dont discuss sex or arrangements or especially ppm on seeking app/site or you’ll get banned. Get them onto whatsapp before you discuss.
Once on there it can be quick or slow. Be sensitive to what they are saying. Some will happily arrange a meet right away others will need a bit of warming up. There’s no one answer to how it goes. Depends on you, depends on the type of girl you’re looking for

Offline Reallytired86

Plenty of info on this thread and other similar ones.
Its not like AW where you just say what you want and off you go. Its more involved but it depends what you want out of it. Most approaches are covered/discussed here.
The basic story is dont discuss sex or arrangements or especially ppm on seeking app/site or you’ll get banned. Get them onto whatsapp before you discuss.
Once on there it can be quick or slow. Be sensitive to what they are saying. Some will happily arrange a meet right away others will need a bit of warming up. There’s no one answer to how it goes. Depends on you, depends on the type of girl you’re looking for

Seemed to have had no issue mentioning PPM etc on the site over a year. I think it more comes down to not getting reported by an SB and you’ll be fine. This does mean you can’t just fire Ppm messages in case you offend someone.
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Where did you get the espresso machine pic? it's not on her profile (External Link/Members Only)
IShe send me that on whatsapp.
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Offline stampjones

Seemed to have had no issue mentioning PPM etc on the site over a year. I think it more comes down to not getting reported by an SB and you’ll be fine. This does mean you can’t just fire Ppm messages in case you offend someone.
Yeah it doesnt seem to be automatic that you’re caught - I did it once recently by mistake and got away with it. But its not worth the risk. My advice is just dont do it. Getting back on after you’ve been banned seems a major pain in the arse

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Been chatting (UN negotiations standard) away with a young Asian student, meeting initially for a coffee then an evening together  the next day if all goes well. 

She’s softly, softly, gently, gently ….. creeping towards ppm and all that entails, which is her god given right to do so …. Was asking £350 but happy with £270 ….. took ages but I liked her manner and found her attractive both physically and spiritually  :D

Then after all that negotiation… will she won’t she? I’m shy I’m not shy?  Ooh intimacy is not possible then oooh money I now like it ….. she hits me with this bombshell 💣

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Oh ye just want to honest I have put on a bit of weight so might look a little bit different from photos 😅😵‍💫

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Offline y101y

Been chatting (UN negotiations standard) away with a young Asian student, meeting initially for a coffee then an evening together  the next day if all goes well. 

She’s softly, softly, gently, gently ….. creeping towards ppm and all that entails, which is her god given right to do so …. Was asking £350 but happy with £270 ….. took ages but I liked her manner and found her attractive both physically and spiritually  :D

Then after all that negotiation… will she won’t she? I’m shy I’m not shy?  Ooh intimacy is not possible then oooh money I now like it ….. she hits me with this bombshell 💣

 :dash:

Hmm. Could be just the typical woman thing of thinking they’re fat for putting on 5 pounds.

Or you could be arranging to meet a heifer.

Good luck!

Offline HomerC

A "bit of weight".
Yikes. Maybe ask her for a recent photo.

Offline massagepuntingfan

Seemed to have had no issue mentioning PPM etc on the site over a year. I think it more comes down to not getting reported by an SB and you’ll be fine. This does mean you can’t just fire Ppm messages in case you offend someone.

Yes I think this is the key. If you're reported then you're likely hit with a warning and then a ban - first warning will likely be for using escort terminology. The problem with mentioning PPM in the SA messages is there is a record for SA to use against you. Should you offer a derisory amount, all its takes is for the disgruntled SB to report you and then you're fucked. Best to discuss financials and meeting for intimacy/sex on WhatsApp. Should the SB not be interested I block and delete the SA message as soon as possible to avoid being reported.

Online londonhunter008

Has anyone met this girl?
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She exchanged number on whatsapp and making excuse that she doesn't even have travel fare etc. I usually dont go ahead with such  girls....but the kind of pics and video she shared...she has amazing curves...and I am not able to think straight ;)

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Hmm. Could be just the typical woman thing of thinking they’re fat for putting on 5 pounds.

Or you could be arranging to meet a heifer.

Good luck!
There’s something about a chubby Asian I just don’t like.

That’s what I’m hoping …. She’s being just overly honest …. she’s been very honest about everything, everything…..  :D.  The good news is that would she even bother if I wasn’t going to see her naked?

We’re having a coffee a day before … I’ll just withhold the muffin  :lol:
« Last Edit: July 28, 2021, 11:07:17 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline KorbenDallas

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She exchanged number on whatsapp and making excuse that she doesn't even have travel fare etc. I usually dont go ahead with such  girls....but the kind of pics and video she shared...she has amazing curves...and I am not able to think straight ;)

Smells like a scammer.  Just imagine that it's a sweaty bloke in a string vest sending you stolen pic's and then think again.

She's in London - what travel fare is she talking about?  How does she get around normally without using the tube system?

Offline pa5151

Smells like a scammer.  Just imagine that it's a sweaty bloke in a string vest sending you stolen pic's and then think again.

She's in London - what travel fare is she talking about?  How does she get around normally without using the tube system?

Oldest trick in the world asking for travel money before the meet.

Plus she hides her location on SA. It should be an automatic block.

Offline theHappyLondonPigeon

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She exchanged number on whatsapp and making excuse that she doesn't even have travel fare etc. I usually dont go ahead with such  girls....but the kind of pics and video she shared...she has amazing curves...and I am not able to think straight ;)

Have you tried to do a quick video call to verify if it's really her? (they could just be sending stolen pics/vids)

Online londonhunter008

Have you tried to do a quick video call to verify if it's really her? (they could just be sending stolen pics/vids)

 I did speak to her over phone. She is someone who try to get money advance. I spoke with her in past as well. Live north west London.
She is a real girl but a gold digger.
I just wanted to see if anyone else met her in person or not. Without any positive feed back...I wont meet her at all.

Offline mrflash

I did speak to her over phone. She is someone who try to get money advance. I spoke with her in past as well. Live north west London.
She is a real girl but a gold digger.
I just wanted to see if anyone else met her in person or not. Without any positive feed back...I wont meet her at all.
If it's your first meet and you are attracted towards her, can't you travel to a place closer to her for M&G?

Offline theHappyLondonPigeon

I did speak to her over phone. She is someone who try to get money advance. I spoke with her in past as well. Live north west London.
She is a real girl but a gold digger.
I just wanted to see if anyone else met her in person or not. Without any positive feed back...I wont meet her at all.

Try asking for a quick video call, if she is reluctant or makes excuses then that might be a bit of a flag.

Offline HomerC

Should the SB not be interested I block and delete the SA message as soon as possible to avoid being reported.

That probably merely deletes your copy of the message

Offline HomerC

Has anyone met this girl?
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She exchanged number on whatsapp and making excuse that she doesn't even have travel fare etc. I usually dont go ahead with such  girls....but the kind of pics and video she shared...she has amazing curves...and I am not able to think straight ;)

Can we have a closed scambaiting thread please ? We could pick these profiles apart

Smells like a scammer.  Just imagine that it's a sweaty bloke in a string vest sending you stolen pic's and then think again.

She's in London - what travel fare is she talking about?  How does she get around normally without using the tube system?

Exactly.
I wonder if “she” got a premium account by using a uni email address.. yes it’s days “college verified”.

Report these profiles to SA as “promoting commercial activity”

« Last Edit: July 28, 2021, 05:57:27 pm by HomerC »

Offline HomerC

“She” is saying “no PPM I’m not an escort”
So offer her an allowance, I wonder if she’d decline that too

Offline HomerC

I did speak to her over phone. She is someone who try to get money advance. I spoke with her in past as well. Live north west London.
She is a real girl but a gold digger.
I just wanted to see if anyone else met her in person or not. Without any positive feed back...I wont meet her at all.

You spoke to a woman on the phone. It could be some 50 year old land whale, it means nothing.

Offline martini2429

Chatted with her, when I told I am not interested in buying pictures, blocked me instantly  :D

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Spoke with this one in April on WA, she quoted £200-£300 for ppm, when I couldn't meet quickly she tried to sell me vids and pics, when I declined she called me a time waster and blocked me, my guess is she isn't real and just a vid & pic seller (probably a blocke)

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Offline Reallytired86

There’s something about a chubby Asian I just don’t like.

That’s what I’m hoping …. She’s being just overly honest …. she’s been very honest about everything, everything…..  :D.  The good news is that would she even bother if I wasn’t going to see her naked?

We’re having a coffee a day before … I’ll just withhold the muffin  :lol:

On the 1% chance it’s not a scam, do you really want to be shagging someone who can’t even afford a train or an Uber? Personally I wouldn’t.

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Met her years ago. Was 200pm at the time. She wasn't all that into the intimate side, seemed far more comfortable with the chatting part

We jumped immediately into the intimacy at the time. She was good looking overall back then aside from some bad scarring from breast surgery. Nice enough but tapered off after a few meets. Wouldn't repeat at 300.
Thanks for the information ... I will most probably pass her.
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Offline spartacusf

I've been a lurker, following this thread for a few months, and with a change in personal circumstances, joined SA yesterday.  I'm delighted, and relieved, that there are some real people out there, and the collective advice from this thread has been invaluable to filter the bots/hookers/timewasters.  One M&G in a couple of days, she seems sweet and honest and normal.

One question, can non-fee paying female members see my SA login history?

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

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22 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
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Any intel on this young lady?  Thought she was Asian but just very, very mixed ethnicity.  FWB’s is fine  … just wondering if anyone has seen or been in contact.  :hi:

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Any intel on this young lady?  Thought she was Asian but just very, very mixed ethnicity.  FWB’s is fine  … just wondering if anyone has seen or been in contact.  :hi:
Wtf! I was genuinely startled when I saw that first pic. Face looks frightening - not sure if it’s the makeup, bad surgery, photoshop effects, or if she just looks like that.