Seeking.com (London)

[theHappyLondonPigeon]

Looks like they've updated the site.

You can now only request 5 private photo views! (I assume per day but who knows.)

Not sure what other changes there are.

[Link7]

I don’t have THE answer, I have MY answer. 

You need to find what works for you. 

Too many posters seem to think there are magic solutions or a one size fits all approach, but the girls are not a homogenous group nor are we all looking for the same thing. We all have different personalities, different levels of game, some of us are connecting with the right girls for us whilst others are connecting with the wrong girls for us. The right girl for me might be the wrong girl for you. 

With all that in mind it would be incredible if what works for me worked for you.  That is my point.

That is fair enough. I don't think your point is controversial - YMMV as people often say (on the main forum). And I agree it would be incredible if everyone reported doing the same as you. After all, whatever our differences, the one thing nearly all of us have in common is paying for sex. Bearing in mind you don't actually need to do that at all anymore (as you get 20 numbers a month, 50% of which will meet for free), your answer is manifestly unique to you. Great answer.

[mrflash]

Anyone else finding many new girls joining Seeking and dormant profiles waking up in the last two days? End of lockdown might mean things actually get better.

[Rock4ages]

Just got quoted £600 for 3.5 hours by   External Link/Members Only 

Either an Unrealistic newbie or a Pro trying her luck 

[bigden40]

Just got quoted £600 for 3.5 hours by   External Link/Members Only 

Either an Unrealistic newbie or a Pro trying her luck 

She’s been on for the best part of a year, so probably not a complete noob.

Politely decline, tell her what you believe to be a more realistic sum, wish her the best and see what happens.

I've had £500+ girls come back to me weeks/months later and accept much less. 

[Rock4ages]

I politely declined , I asked why only 3.5 hours she said more time more money  . At which point I thanked her for her time. It wasn't even worth a negotiation with more reasonable better looking Talent around

[mrflash]

 

I politely declined , I asked why only 3.5 hours she said more time more money  . At which point I thanked her for her time. It wasn't even worth a negotiation with more reasonable better looking Talent around

I hate when SB's come up with hourly rate BS. If I ask why, they say that their time is valuable. It's not like our time is sold for free. If I need hourly rates, I will go for an escort.

[bigden40]

:kiss:I hate when SB's come up with hourly rate BS. If I ask why, they say that their time is valuable. It's not like our time is sold for free. If I need hourly rates, I will go for an escort.

100%. 

I usually tell them that I expect a “date” to be an evening or an afternoon with no specification on time.  If they start talking a specific number of hours then I’ll say that I don’t expect to be dating against the clock, if this doesn’t change the conversation I usually walk away.

To be fair the girl quoting for 3.5 hours, I would probably have let that go as that’s generally ample time. 

[Hantsolo]

:kiss:I hate when SB's come up with hourly rate BS. If I ask why, they say that their time is valuable. It's not like our time is sold for free. If I need hourly rates, I will go for an escort.

Ahhh but remember, she'll tell you she "isn't and escort" while she quotes you that hourly rate!

[JAYZ]

It is fair to say to the lady as the SD I am looking for a date and not an escort, so hourly rates are not appropriate.

[Lone-punter]

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Met her, didn't fancy. Happy to share contact.

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I've been in contact with her for quite some time on WA after initially meeting on SA where her username is Mockingbird. But couldn't meet due to lockdowns. She's Swidish and perhaps lives in Surrey area. She's asking for a £300 ppm but first wants to meet over dinner to see if there's a chemistry.

Did you meet her just for coffee/dinner or intimately? What about her has put you off?

[Prifessionallondinguy]

 Answer
1. Price
2. Body
3. Face
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but come on… but where did she pull £300 out from
… her arse? 

[maakriman]

I've been in contact with her for quite some time on WA after initially meeting on SA where her username is Mockingbird. But couldn't meet due to lockdowns. She's Swidish and perhaps lives in Surrey area. She's asking for a £300 ppm but first wants to meet over dinner to see if there's a chemistry.

Did you meet her just for coffee/dinner or intimately? What about her has put you off?

Intimate meet only. Pm me for details please.

[Teejay]

I got banned after 3 days of join with the whole new me again even though i didn't pay for subscription and still thinking why?

[testgenie]

Intimate meet only. Pm me for details please.

Maakriman, I'd be curious to know more as well. I'm unable to send a pm. Are you able to pm me? Apologies for the inconvenience

[HomerC]

Has anyone had any luck with her?

gabbbyyxoxo
21 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
Come and make my dreams come true?

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[HomerC]

Anyome has any intel on this one would be appreciate

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Sorry, just did a search and found this

[HomerC]

haha i did but couldn't find her. She wants 2k allowance

Did you suggest starting with PPM?

[Lone-punter]

Answer
1. Price
2. Body
3. Face
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but come on… but where did she pull £300 out from
… her arse? 

She kept me entertained with her free intimate videos throughout the lockdown(s) ... I might just want to return the favour 

[maakriman]

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Anyone met this girl please. Latina. Her English is very good. Send me a voice message. Thinking to see or not

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[maakriman]

Another

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[tantric talents]

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Anyone met this girl please. Latina. Her English is very good. Send me a voice message. Thinking to see or not

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Reminds me of a quality st wrapper 

[maakriman]

Her videos looks good, here is a screen shot.

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[DeanoDeano]

She’s been on SA for ages. Chatted a couple of times but never got very far. Her current profiles make it sound like she wants big money though.

[maakriman]

Thanks, will give her a miss. Very poor communication too.

[maakriman]

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Any info appreciated.

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[maakriman]

Another

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[DeanoDeano]

You are aware this is a SA thread and hardly anyone uses alternative sites?

[maakriman]

Yes, I know, most of these girls are in SA too, probably 99%, hence posting photos so that somebody can recognise.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Meeting this Asian milf at the weekend … just a freebie lunch “date” to test the waters.  I’ve seen many Asians in their early to late 20’s … mostly students. Thought I’d give experience a try.

Has anyone had the pleasure?    taken her to 2nd or 3rd base … is she worth the chase?
I guess she’s quite active as she approached me and was very flirty.

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AsianSky
33 • Female • Wimbledon, England, United Kingdom
Let's fly for now

I don’t usually attach photos.

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[Steve2]

I think you may need deep pockets for this one mate 

[Link7]

I don’t usually attach photos.

It is entirely up to you what you do, but just to clarify, the reason I previously advised you not to is:

if somebody reading this (let's assume hundreds of lurkers) didn't like the fact you posted her photos on a punting site (many people deny/don't believe that paying for sex through SA is punting - and those photos will now stay here permanently even if she deletes her profile), and decided (say, out of a desire to punish you, or misplaced loyalty to the girl) they were going to show her that post, she would most likely be able to figure out who you are (because the post is dated and timestamped and you have stated in it when you are meeting her). In such instance, you would then be exposed to the risk of how she may react, including risk associated with her use of any information she may hold about you, including (potentially) your own photos.

So by making that post you took a risk (even if you think it is a remote risk) for no real reason/benefit to yourself or others (given SA members can in any case follow a link to her profile). I think that's why the overwhelming majority of people do not do it. But that is only my guess.

[HomerC]

I'm talking to a girl. She wants an allowance but is open to accepting PPM to start with.
She wants £2000 allowance so I wonder what her PPM request will be 🤔

[HomerC]

You are aware this is a SA thread and hardly anyone uses alternative sites?

Yes, this.

Maakriman, you're literally the only person in the world who uses Sugar Daddy Meet.

Yes, I know, most of these girls are in SA too, probably 99%, hence posting photos so that somebody can recognise.

Do that many people read every post in this thread?

Posting SA links (here) makes them searchable (in future).

By posting their photos here, aren't you creating a permanent record (here) that will persist even if they delete their profiles (on SDM)?  This will surely deter normal girls from signing up (as opposed to career prostitutes).

I signed up for SDM to take a look. It looks shit.

[puntingpumping1920]

Meeting this Asian milf at the weekend … just a freebie lunch “date” to test the waters.  I’ve seen many Asians in their early to late 20’s … mostly students. Thought I’d give experience a try.

Has anyone had the pleasure?    taken her to 2nd or 3rd base … is she worth the chase?
I guess she’s quite active as she approached me and was very flirty.

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AsianSky
33 • Female • Wimbledon, England, United Kingdom
Let's fly for now

I don’t usually attach photos.

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Looks like 300-400 ppm girl

[maakriman]

Yes, this.

Maakriman, you're literally the only person in the world who uses Sugar Daddy Meet.


Do that many people read every post in this thread?

Posting SA links (here) makes them searchable (in future).

By posting their photos here, aren't you creating a permanent record (here) that will persist even if they delete their profiles (on SDM)?  This will surely deter normal girls from signing up (as opposed to career prostitutes).

I signed up for SDM to take a look. It looks shit.

I know SDM is shit. I am banned from SA hence using that. Normal girls definitely won't know of such a forum exists . Prossies won't care. These are public photos.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

It is entirely up to you what you do, but just to clarify, the reason I previously advised you not to is:

if somebody reading this (let's assume hundreds of lurkers) didn't like the fact you posted her photos on a punting site (many people deny/don't believe that paying for sex through SA is punting - and those photos will now stay here permanently even if she deletes her profile), and decided (say, out of a desire to punish you, or misplaced loyalty to the girl) they were going to show her that post, she would most likely be able to figure out who you are (because the post is dated and timestamped and you have stated in it when you are meeting her). In such instance, you would then be exposed to the risk of how she may react, including risk associated with her use of any information she may hold about you, including (potentially) your own photos.

So by making that post you took a risk (even if you think it is a remote risk) for no real reason/benefit to yourself or others (given SA members can in any case follow a link to her profile). I think that's why the overwhelming majority of people do not do it. But that is only my guess.

  I actually meant I was aware that people look through this thread in public areas and a huge photo of an oriental lady might not be discrete (waiting in Vision Express)
rather than just an attached link. Yes and you did tell
me this all before. Cheers anyway 

Yep £300 -£400 was my guess too as I was panning my budget…. 

[Link7]

I actually meant I was aware that people look through this thread in public areas and a huge photo of an oriental lady might not be discrete (waiting in Vision Express)
rather than just an attached link. Yes and you did tell
me this all before. Cheers anyway 

Yep £300 -£400 was my guess too as I was panning my budget…. 

You're welcome. Since you seem to accept my point and mention that you think it may even inconvenience others, but are doing it anyway (which seems kind of irrational), you can understand why I wondered if you had understood and hence explained again. Of course, if you want to behave irrationally, that's your prerogative 

[pa5151]

Meeting this Asian milf at the weekend … just a freebie lunch “date” to test the waters.  I’ve seen many Asians in their early to late 20’s … mostly students. Thought I’d give experience a try.

Has anyone had the pleasure?    taken her to 2nd or 3rd base … is she worth the chase?
I guess she’s quite active as she approached me and was very flirty.

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AsianSky
33 • Female • Wimbledon, England, United Kingdom
Let's fly for now

I don’t usually attach photos.

I think I probably met her at least I do remember her. She's 4"11.

Edit: just looked for her on my whatsapp. She did text me after but I didn't bother texting her since as I don't have time for games. Message me for more details if you wish.

[puntingpumping1920]

Yep £300 -£400 was my guess too as I was panning my budget…. 

 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I think I probably met her at least I do remember her. She's 4"11.

Edit: just looked for her on my whatsapp. She did text me after but I didn't bother texting her since as I don't have time for games. Message me for more details if you wish.

Cheers pal much appreciated 

[Spam123]

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Any info appreciated.

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Met her once, lives in Northern Ireland but travels over here and has a few guys. Was fun and would meet again for sure. No need to wine and dine, unless you want to.

[Link7]

Anyone else struck by a noticeably high standard and number of ebony/mixed girls on SA? In London at least. Incomparable to the AW options imho, which generally don't interest me much.

Ridiculous cans on these two. Any intel?

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[massagepuntingfan]

Anyone else struck by a noticeably high standard and number of ebony/mixed girls on SA? In London at least. Incomparable to the AW options imho, which generally don't interest me much.

Ridiculous cans on these two. Any intel?

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I have info on Mia. I was chatting to her last year and was given good intel on this thread when I made a similar enquiry to yours. Apparently she's a former WG/SP who offers a rather vanilla service. One or two comments sharing info weren't great so I didn't see her although I'm pretty sure she agreed to a £250 or £300 ppm.

[Link7]

I have info on Mia. I was chatting to her last year and was given good intel on this thread when I made a similar enquiry to yours. Apparently she's a former WG/SP who offers a rather vanilla service. One or two comments sharing info weren't great so I didn't see her although I'm pretty sure she agreed to a £250 or £300 ppm.

Thanks mate. I can't find the old posts but now you mention it, I remember seeing something along those lines posted about her. My current first choice in the mega chebs category is asking £1k (which won't happen) although I'm working on beating her down over WhatsApp. Mia would be eaiser on the wallet then, but I wouldn't be keen if going to be vanilla/shit - had enough of those on SA!

[Al]

Is there a direct link between girls who say they want someone 'generous' on their profile and what they expect? Maybe not PPM meets but being taken to expensive restaurants/holidays etc?

Quick read suggests most of here are aiming to go for one off meets rather than any long terms sugar daddy arrangements or even other arrangements such as going on holidays but obviously the forum is somewhat biased.

[Steve2]

I'm talking to a girl. She wants an allowance but is open to accepting PPM to start with.
She wants £2000 allowance so I wonder what her PPM request will be 🤔

WOW Homer, you are the man!!. If anyone can do the deal, it is you 

[maakriman]

Met her once, lives in Northern Ireland but travels over here and has a few guys. Was fun and would meet again for sure. No need to wine and dine, unless you want to.

Thsmkyou very much, what was the ppm pls? Bodywise, services how is she pls?

[mrflash]

Is there a direct link between girls who say they want someone 'generous' on their profile and what they expect? Maybe not PPM meets but being taken to expensive restaurants/holidays etc?

Quick read suggests most of here are aiming to go for one off meets rather than any long terms sugar daddy arrangements or even other arrangements such as going on holidays but obviously the forum is somewhat biased.

I used to stay away from profiles with the word "generous". Given the dire state on SA before freedom day, I eventually gave in and tried a couple of girls who did mention it. They were no different from others. They were fine to do 200 and 250 PPMs. In my experience, "finer things in life" had more correlation with higher demands than "generous".

Never had monthly allowance based arrangement myself. You are correct that most on here don't go that route. When I did talk about holiday with one SB on PPM arrangement, she asked for a per day charge which was a bit too much for me. So I dropped the idea. But my guess is that girls who take monthly allowance would be glad to travel for free.

Profiles of girls who are happy to do only holidays but not cash are there but very rare. I never got a reply from such girls so far.

[Spam123]

Thsmkyou very much, what was the ppm pls? Bodywise, services how is she pls?

Great body and quite open to anything and kinky… ppm was agreed at 250 and ended up being a solid 6 or so hours. Would see her again if she was back in London. DM me if you want more info?