Networth and income - There are pros and cons. If it's high and you divulge it, many women will reply but even the ones who usually ask for 300 may ask for 400 if they see higher income. If it's medium/low and you divulge it, many girls will not reply. And many women will have minimum income in their search criteria. So you won't get that many messages. I belong to medium income range and I divulge it, because it makes it easier to avoid women who I cannot afford. I message many women even if they look out of range to me. Most do not reply. Some reply with something in the lines of "you cannot afford me". I guess these women do it that if the value I mentioned was wrong and actual income is higher, I can let them know. Mentioning my income helped me focus only on the women who I can afford.
On PPM, I have always pay in cash. I think that's what most people do. The common advice is to pay after having sex. Some women ask to be paid once you are in the hotel. Use your judgement. I personally do it at the beginning because I only meet women I feel totally trustworthy after the M&G and paying upfront usually makes them more comfortable and open with you. I understand paying upfront is risky. But yet to have been cheated so far and I maybe one day.
Agreed with these points. I put my income in medium range. However, negotiating with a SB is sort of skill and developed over time (in one of my previous post...I explained how can you bring it to a reasonable level by asking monthly and slowly dividing it per meet).
Key point will be to drive the conversation so that it doesn't feel like a you cant afford.
1. Dont put a figure from your side...let SB say how much she expect. That way you know if she is around your range. Most of them will come down little bit if you give right reasons. Ex: This is first meet and you dont know her and if things go well you can increase it with time. Its all about how you communicate
2. Say that you also have high expectations from SB and allowance depends on the girl and how much effort she puts from her side. If you refuse her, it will not be because you cant afford her but because you have better options with less expectations.
3. Its not about how much is your net worth...its about how good a girl is. And its not only about looks...otherwise we all could meet high end escorts. Dont worry if any girl ask too much money. Most of the new SBs have super high expectations (because of online stories etc)...just give them some time.
4. Most importantly, we all want a non professional SB who looks amazing. But we rarely talk about ourselves. If you want a girl who has everything...looks, chemistry, and puts effort in herself to meet you...then she will expect similar attributes in you as well. Not just money. From my side, I try my best to look presentable, go to gym and be in decent shape, and host at good places and give them good time. Even though ultimate goal is hole
but its fun when girl doesnt feel like that, just the way she is there for money but we don't feel its the only reason she is meeting me. It does sound too much to expect...but I have used SA over 5 yrs now...and I have met ladies who does not expect money at all. My current SB lives alone and after 2 meetings I did not need to book hotels and meet her whenever we both are free. And I am not monogamous...I just keep 1-2 regular SBs and meet 1-2 new every month if time permits. I am very normal looking man...but a good smile, a nice suit, and bit of flirt goes long way.
