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Offline stampjones

Just resubbed. I have to say its going pretty well. Had one meet so far and am already getting into that stressy thing of trying to juggle too many good leads. Even got a cracking 21 year old who says she doesnt want paid. She’s visiting her parents now though so wont know for sure til next week. Dirty as fuck though in her text and vids. Im seeing way less picture sellers than before the last lockdown and only had a couple of scammers so far so all good it seems.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Really? Everyone I’ve met wants paying .... due to the pandemic online pictures sellers are abundant and scammers are trying every trick in the book.... plus I’ve never had a attractive 21yro drop her knickers on SA just for the fun of it... there’s always been £’s involved.
What’s your secret?
« Last Edit: May 25, 2021, 05:45:53 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Link7

Just resubbed. I have to say its going pretty well. Had one meet so far and am already getting into that stressy thing of trying to juggle too many good leads. Even got a cracking 21 year old who says she doesnt want paid. She’s visiting her parents now though so wont know for sure til next week. Dirty as fuck though in her text and vids. Im seeing way less picture sellers than before the last lockdown and only had a couple of scammers so far so all good it seems.

You've said a few times that you spend no time on your profile and it's almost bare. With no photos or anything really to distinguish you, it is curious that you get so much joy nevertheless. It would be great to see a couple of links if there are any you discard/don't mind sharing( not to "steal" them - curious to see the type of person you are messaging).

I'm subbed but not impressed atm personally. Still plenty of online only (just more of them pretending they will meet after an initial online phase/payment, rather than saying they can't meet due to Covid outright). I've put the browsing hours in but search results have been underwhelming - not seen the volume or quality of options, it is still lockdown-esque. I half expected that it might be a bit early still though.

Echo others' comments re. allowances. High for sure. A lot of women quoting 500 at the outset (with no apparent correlation to looks). Been pretty easy to walk away from negotiations because at those rates, I'd sooner go to AW and get someone twice as fit and dirty for the money.

Online Biznasty

I try not to bring ppm/allowance up unless they do, the vast majority do of course and I’m fine with that but a few don’t, had one who openly admitted that she was a “greedy brat” with some guys, and others she just got off on the whole experience, I’m not overly Dom but it was a good opportunity to take that approach and she loved being told what to do, turns out that scratched an itch for her.

My latest sub just re-ended, I did find fewer pictures sellers, but maybe just getting better at spotting them and not messaging them. Think we’ll see a lot desperate for some cash to keep going out/go on holiday now things are opening up and good opportunities for some reasonable ppm

Offline massagepuntingfan

You've said a few times that you spend no time on your profile and it's almost bare. With no photos or anything really to distinguish you, it is curious that you get so much joy nevertheless. It would be great to see a couple of links if there are any you discard/don't mind sharing( not to "steal" them - curious to see the type of person you are messaging).

I'm subbed but not impressed atm personally. Still plenty of online only (just more of them pretending they will meet after an initial online phase/payment, rather than saying they can't meet due to Covid outright). I've put the browsing hours in but search results have been underwhelming - not seen the volume or quality of options, it is still lockdown-esque. I half expected that it might be a bit early still though.

Echo others' comments re. allowances. High for sure. A lot of women quoting 500 at the outset (with no apparent correlation to looks). Been pretty easy to walk away from negotiations because at those rates, I'd sooner go to AW and get someone twice as fit and dirty for the money.

Totally agree Link7. It’s a bit of a shit show. A few years ago I’d barely have to send out any messages, I’d look after work and then go through the pile of messages for the day and choose the ones I liked the look of. The last 18 months have felt increasingly dry. I’m having to put lots of effort in for little reward. I’m always hopeful and maybe that’s the big pull of seeking that there’s an absolute cracker a click away.

Offline jamiekinkxxx

and is there a search feature where I can search by user name.

I dont think there is an option for username search, every time i try searching the username in profile text i fail.

There's  a few girls iw as talking to on my previous account which I deleted, now i cant find em even with the username

Just put their name in 'profile text' and it should bring them back in the results

Offline y101y

I would put the chances somewhere between zero and fuck all that this is a legit profile with a genuine woman behind it. Let alone the girl in the picture.

I think chances are even slimmer than that! ;)

Offline stampjones

You've said a few times that you spend no time on your profile and it's almost bare. With no photos or anything really to distinguish you, it is curious that you get so much joy nevertheless. It would be great to see a couple of links if there are any you discard/don't mind sharing( not to "steal" them - curious to see the type of person you are messaging).

I'm subbed but not impressed atm personally. Still plenty of online only (just more of them pretending they will meet after an initial online phase/payment, rather than saying they can't meet due to Covid outright). I've put the browsing hours in but search results have been underwhelming - not seen the volume or quality of options, it is still lockdown-esque. I half expected that it might be a bit early still though.

Echo others' comments re. allowances. High for sure. A lot of women quoting 500 at the outset (with no apparent correlation to looks). Been pretty easy to walk away from negotiations because at those rates, I'd sooner go to AW and get someone twice as fit and dirty for the money.
Like I said Ive only actually seen one so maybe I’ll be back here moaning in a week. I paid 200 for that. Others in progress (other than the potential freebie) are 200/250 so we’ll see

Here are a few I spoke to and discussed meets with on reasonable terms but decided against. Im not claiming any will actually meet obviously but they felt genuine to me.

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To be fair the last one was asking for 400 I think and thats beyond what I’d pay but if you want to know my type (at least for the time being), she’s it. Im not really religious about who I go for though. Whoever takes my fancy

NB the 18 year olds I never verified age on so be aware if you choose to go through with them


Offline stampjones

Really? Everyone I’ve met wants paying .... due to the pandemic online pictures sellers are abundant and scammers are trying every trick in the book.... plus I’ve never had a attractive 21yro drop her knickers on SA just for the fun of it... there’s always been £’s involved.
What’s your secret?
Ive had it once before. Its definitely not a normal thing and its not something Ive ever tried to get. The first time we did a m&g. There had been a long chat online over a couple of weeks but nothing sexual. I wasnt going to see her but decided to in the end. Anyway the m&g in a coffee shop there was immediate touching and sexual tension and we went straight to a hotel. No money was discussed. I was planning to give her something but it ended in a bit of a rush so she just left. The next time I saw her I gave her some cash but it was never discussed at any point. Just luck I guess.
This new girl I asked what allowance she wanted and she just said she just likes to fuck older guys. Happy days if it works out. I still have to keep her interested for a week before I see her though so no chickens are being counted

Offline ampithestud1

Anyone feedback on this SB would be appreciated:

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Our chat so far has gone well but I dunno why she seems to be a bit of a 'pro'

Offline ampithestud1

Anyone feedback on this SB would be appreciated:

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Our chat so far has gone well but I dunno why she seems to be a bit of a 'pro'
« Last Edit: May 25, 2021, 10:25:03 am by ampithestud1 »

Offline ampithestud1

Ive had it once before. Its definitely not a normal thing and its not something Ive ever tried to get. The first time we did a m&g. There had been a long chat online over a couple of weeks but nothing sexual. I wasnt going to see her but decided to in the end. Anyway the m&g in a coffee shop there was immediate touching and sexual tension and we went straight to a hotel. No money was discussed. I was planning to give her something but it ended in a bit of a rush so she just left. The next time I saw her I gave her some cash but it was never discussed at any point. Just luck I guess.
This new girl I asked what allowance she wanted and she just said she just likes to fuck older guys. Happy days if it works out. I still have to keep her interested for a week before I see her though so no chickens are being counted

Lucky you! Well done and good luck.

My very first SB from SA was a filthy 27 yr old who I fucked in her apartment nearby straight after the initial M&G. Couldn't believe my luck really. Saw her a few times without any cash ever being involved, before she moved away. Sadly haven't managed to find anyone like her since.

Offline stampjones

Lucky you! Well done and good luck.

My very first SB from SA was a filthy 27 yr old who I fucked in her apartment nearby straight after the initial M&G. Couldn't believe my luck really. Saw her a few times without any cash ever being involved, before she moved away. Sadly haven't managed to find anyone like her since.
Yeah its great when it happens but I wouldnt know how to go about finding it. Just luck and our animal sexuality  :yahoo: :drinks:

Offline ampithestud1

Yeah its great when it happens but I wouldnt know how to go about finding it. Just luck and our animal sexuality  :yahoo: :drinks:
The downside of this was that I naively assumed that a lot of SBs would be up a cashless arrangement. Ended up losing a lot of good leads because I didn't bring up the ££ expectation right until the end which I think put them off. In one instance the SB messaged me a couple of hours before our meet that she's not sure what's the 'benefit' to her. I offered PPM but she never got back  :dash:

Tbh I'm not quite sure at what point during the chat-up its best to bring up the money bit.

I am slightly put off by SBs who bring up PPM straight off the bat though.


Offline bigden40

Like I said Ive only actually seen one so maybe I’ll be back here moaning in a week. I paid 200 for that. Others in progress (other than the potential freebie) are 200/250 so we’ll see

Here are a few I spoke to and discussed meets with on reasonable terms but decided against. Im not claiming any will actually meet obviously but they felt genuine to me.

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To be fair the last one was asking for 400 I think and thats beyond what I’d pay but if you want to know my type (at least for the time being), she’s it. Im not really religious about who I go for though. Whoever takes my fancy

NB the 18 year olds I never verified age on so be aware if you choose to go through with them

First one is a timewaster.

Online Biznasty

Lucky you! Well done and good luck.

My very first SB from SA was a filthy 27 yr old who I fucked in her apartment nearby straight after the initial M&G. Couldn't believe my luck really. Saw her a few times without any cash ever being involved, before she moved away. Sadly haven't managed to find anyone like her since.

It does spoil you a bit when you get one like that. Still worth it for the memories 😂

Offline Teejay

I smashed 2 in two weeks first one wa 30yrs old Russian2ns was 26yrs Lithuanian. Now dew to meet with 22yr old next and another 21yrs soon. But among those i I found alot if scammers and pics sellers

Offline randompunter1234

Just resubbed. I have to say its going pretty well. Had one meet so far and am already getting into that stressy thing of trying to juggle too many good leads. Even got a cracking 21 year old who says she doesnt want paid. She’s visiting her parents now though so wont know for sure til next week. Dirty as fuck though in her text and vids. Im seeing way less picture sellers than before the last lockdown and only had a couple of scammers so far so all good it seems.

I'd be curious if this girl eventually ends up meeting. I've had a fair few like this, really interesting, keen, seemingly not too interested in just the money but for some reason the meet keeps getting delayed, either family or assignments or just something else and then they just disappear.

Of course there'd be exceptions , but its  a trend i notice.

Now I treat all possibilities at par, no matter how promising

Offline randompunter1234

I try not to bring ppm/allowance up unless they do, the vast majority do of course and I’m fine with that but a few don’t, had one who openly admitted that she was a “greedy brat” with some guys, and others she just got off on the whole experience, I’m not overly Dom but it was a good opportunity to take that approach and she loved being told what to do, turns out that scratched an itch for her.

My latest sub just re-ended, I did find fewer pictures sellers, but maybe just getting better at spotting them and not messaging them. Think we’ll see a lot desperate for some cash to keep going out/go on holiday now things are opening up and good opportunities for some reasonable ppm

Talking money ppm is always a bit tricky, I've had a lot of promising leads go cold because the  conversation was flowing so well and we never really got to the money part, but i suspect that it what ultimately matters. best is to break it politely as a general question as to what their expectations are.

I currently dont have a subscription, but when i was member, I would mix it up, very upfront sometimes/ other times more subtle

Offline stampjones

I'd be curious if this girl eventually ends up meeting. I've had a fair few like this, really interesting, keen, seemingly not too interested in just the money but for some reason the meet keeps getting delayed, either family or assignments or just something else and then they just disappear.

Of course there'd be exceptions , but its  a trend i notice.

Now I treat all possibilities at par, no matter how promising
Yeah agree. Ive definitely had a few seemingly enthusiastic ones fade away. In reality I never fully believe it until Im pumping away. Always good to have a backup plan

I’ll let you know if and when
« Last Edit: May 25, 2021, 01:11:38 pm by stampjones »

Offline stampjones

First one is a timewaster.
Really? Thats interesting. I binned her because I thought it would end up being one of those mechanical lie back and think of england experiences but I got the impression she was would definitely turn up. Guess I saved myself there  :)

Offline stampjones

The downside of this was that I naively assumed that a lot of SBs would be up a cashless arrangement. Ended up losing a lot of good leads because I didn't bring up the ££ expectation right until the end which I think put them off. In one instance the SB messaged me a couple of hours before our meet that she's not sure what's the 'benefit' to her. I offered PPM but she never got back  :dash:

Tbh I'm not quite sure at what point during the chat-up its best to bring up the money bit.

I am slightly put off by SBs who bring up PPM straight off the bat though.
Its hard to say what is best. As ever on seeking there is no one size fits all rule. I think if you dont bring it up you run the risk of being binned as a time waster but if you do it the wrong way you can get the Im not an escort line. Personally I just try and play it by ear. I never lead with ppm question though - rather I say something like how do you want an arrangement to work.

Offline ampithestud1

It does spoil you a bit when you get one like that. Still worth it for the memories 😂
Oh yeah definitely some unforgettable moments with her etched in my brain forever. Tight body, amazing bubble butt, willing to do anything and boy she could take a pounding.

I've resubbed very recently, partly hoping to find someone like her :D

Offline mrflash

Its hard to say what is best. As ever on seeking there is no one size fits all rule. I think if you dont bring it up you run the risk of being binned as a time waster but if you do it the wrong way you can get the Im not an escort line. Personally I just try and play it by ear. I never lead with ppm question though - rather I say something like how do you want an arrangement to work.
Yes. How you bring up the topic is important. A simple question like "What are you looking for in an arrangement?" and slowly leading to ppm discussions usually works. Asking ppm straight works for some women. But some will stop replying after that.

Offline kutch

Can I ask what she was offering in terms of time as she quoted me 1k for 2 hours but the deal breaker was no owo. But if she offering longer then I might be tempted to revisit. Also how did u contact via SA. Through messaging or her phone?
Cheers

I messaged her on SA then we swapped numbers. She didn’t say no owo but definitely no anal and rimming.  She said it would be a dinner date then back to hers for 3/4 hours.

Online Biznasty

Oh yeah definitely some unforgettable moments with her etched in my brain forever. Tight body, amazing bubble butt, willing to do anything and boy she could take a pounding.

I've resubbed very recently, partly hoping to find someone like her :D

Yeah the best one I ever met I still have fond memories of and it’s like 3 years on... got her on Instagram and she’s now pregnant, so there go any hopes of her coming back to this... or maybe not 😂

Met a girl last week for a M&G and it went very well, even a little bit of “test drive” as she put it for some fun at the end, now just struggling on my side to organise a follow up.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

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31 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
Petite, cute & spicy angel seeking for attention

Is this a dude?  :unknown:
« Last Edit: May 25, 2021, 09:56:24 pm by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline MrBlackDude

I was holding out for another discount, but I decided to subscribe again today.

I had 30+ unread messages waiting, and how disappointing it was that the majority of them were low-effort "hey"s. One in no uncertain terms demanded I check out their wish list.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

I’ve just come out of a long term 2 year SA relationship. It takes ages to build a decent harem once again.  Some are into meeting ppm immediately, whereas others (more desirable) are into the long game.
My preference now is a meet n’ greet with those I’d genuinely want to see often.... there’s a few however that are dropping their knickers immediately that are of interest too.  :lol:

My sub is expiring shortly ... I’m at the of the journey you’ve just begun  (harvesting numbers) sorting  the wheat from the chaff .... quick “escort”  type shags versus the drivel you often read in SB profiles. mentoring and silly stuff like that.

It’s all fun.... but I won’t miss the pointless messages you referred to.  It gets no better on WA too...  :D

 :hi:
« Last Edit: May 26, 2021, 06:01:01 am by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline mbnimo

I’ve just come out of a long term 2 year SA relationship. It takes ages to build a decent harem once again.  Some are into meeting ppm immediately, whereas others (more desirable) are into the long game.
My preference now is a meet n’ greet with those I’d genuinely want to see often.... there’s a few however that are dropping their knickers immediately that are of interest too.  :lol:

My sub is expiring shortly ... I’m at the of the journey you’ve just begun  (harvesting numbers) sorting  the wheat from the chaff .... quick “escort”  type shags versus the drivel you often read in SB profiles. mentoring and silly stuff like that.

It’s all fun.... but I won’t miss the pointless messages you referred to.  It gets no better on WA too...  :D

 :hi:
things didn’t work out with your Korean Reg?

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

 :D It was all going swimmingly her end but unfortunately not my end... plenty more fish 🐟 ... there’s potentially 3/4 really beautiful Asian students on the radar. Meeting 3 for a meet n’ greet and one wants ppm immediately.... I call that bounce back ability !!  :D

I’m seem to be mostly attracting the Asian milf contingent who wish to “manage” my cryptocurrency career ...  :sarcastic:

Offline mbnimo

That’s quite a niche. Let me give you some head also doge is a shitcoin dear you should diversify

Offline JohnGB

Have you met Crystal yet? I was put off by her deformed nose but she seems like a good find. Not met her yet.

I did! Agreed facially... muuuch left to be desired, but great attitude, willing to please and the tits are magnificent. Don’t think I’ll go back, but as a one off, I had fun.

Offline bigden40

Pet peeve at the moment ..... girls whose profile says London but you start talking and they’re in the East Midlands or Manchester, etc. 

sigh

Offline JohnGB

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Got to talking, she wants 400ppm, around 800 a month for meeting once or twice.

Did not bite, but up to you if it seems worthwhile!

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

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22 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
Heyy be nice :)

More reasonable... opens to offers... accepted £200.
Anyone seen or communicated with her.

Offline Prifessionallondinguy

Funloverxx
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Any interaction with this one? Any intel is appreciated in advance  :hi:

Sorry saw your post after.
I’ve been in contact, open to offers and gladly accepted £200 for hotel ppm. 
« Last Edit: May 26, 2021, 07:23:46 pm by Prifessionallondinguy »

Offline Greenchilli

I was holding out for another discount, but I decided to subscribe again today.

I had 30+ unread messages waiting, and how disappointing it was that the majority of them were low-effort "hey"s. One in no uncertain terms demanded I check out their wish list.

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:

Offline theHappyLondonPigeon

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:

Is it a fact? Sounds pretty doubtful to me.

Offline DeanoDeano

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:

I dont think this is true.

Offline mrflash

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:
This is true on so many scammer sites out there. I don't think that's the case with SA.

Offline ELDNG

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:
I don't think they use bots. From what I've observed they give your profile more visibility when your sub is about to expire and when it's run out to tempt you to resubscribe.

Online finn5555

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:

Yea right  :wacko:

Offline Greenchilli

This is true on so many scammer sites out there. I don't think that's the case with SA.

If even £ 20-25/month sites like Tinder or PoF are using bots what makes you think site like SA which charges £ 70-80 does not. It is either that or employees making dummy accounts to keep the guys occupied. Although to what extent only they know.

Here's how to spot one
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Offline theHappyLondonPigeon

If even £ 20-25/month sites like Tinder or PoF are using bots what makes you think site like SA which charges £ 70-80 does not. It is either that or employees making dummy accounts to keep the guys occupied. Although to what extent only they know.

Here's how to spot one
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There's nothing to say that sites like Tinder or PoF are using bots, the article seems to be about scammers using bots.

SA have protection to detect automation/bots which are quick to block or add extra verification/captchas etc.

I really wouldn't think it's worth their while to run their own.

Offline MrBlackDude

I hope you are aware of the fact that SA uses bots to lure in and keep guys occupied by sending random messages to make it look busy :hi:
There are certainly scammers, and a plethora of low-effort and entitled women, but I don't think they employ bots. If they do then they have no effect on me.

Offline harrowcd

SB Tia
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This Asian SB lives in Wood Green area, can host but has escorting rates £150/H   :thumbsdown:

FYI

Exchanged some messages, then by text msg and the number searched it and returned this:
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Offline heathen666

First one promised meets but is actually a picture seller..

Offline Lone-punter

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Exchanged some messages, then by text msg and the number searched it and returned this:
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Great research skills mate  :hi: On VS her in-call is £120/h while on SA it is £150/h  :D
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