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[mrflash]

thanks Pal. Im speaking to few fit ones but they are bit pricey like 500 for meet  and are 400. Would you guys pay that much?

Of course it depends on the type of women and your own budget. I have a limit of 350. There are some girls who look very classy that I know will ask for more and they have. I just politely say no and move on to the next one. If I had that kind of money, I would surely give it for them. Just make sure that you are not spending more than what you can and the women are really worth it. Do an M&G to ensure that you have some chemistry. You do not want to spend a lot of money and end up having an awkward meet.

[mgkerx]

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She was sending me daily pics of her Pussy initially for free
I then asked to see whoe body shot including her face and she refused
Somehow getting daily updates and pics about her pussy became somewhat routine
Not sure if I should arrange to meet her so any information always useful
Cheers
All

[martini2429]

Has anyone seen or been in correspondence with this SB?
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She was sending me daily pics of her Pussy initially for free
I then asked to see whoe body shot including her face and she refused
Somehow getting daily updates and pics about her pussy became somewhat routine
Not sure if I should arrange to meet her so any information always useful
Cheers
All

My guess is that it isn't her pussy if you are getting them for free, are you saying she has now started charging you for them?

 

[mgkerx]

yep she wants to but I have Pussy Pics overload, so lost interest,  and why would I pay as the Internet is full of these Just curious if anyone has met "her'

[martini2429]

yep she wants to but I have Pussy Pics overload, so lost interest,  and why would I pay as the Internet is full of these Just curious if anyone has met "her'

My guess is she doesn't do meets instead she tries to sell pics, tempts you first with the freebies, newbies will fall for it, seasoned vets won't

 

[massagepuntingfan]

thanks Pal. Im speaking to few fit ones but they are bit pricey like 500 for meet  and are 400. Would you guys pay that much?

No never. I've been using Seeking for over 3 years. When I started the prices were lower, my general rule was around the £150-£250 mark with the hotter women around £250. Most would agree at £200 and a rarity to get £150. Since co-vid things have changed somewhat, much less quality and prices have followed inflation and increased.
That said I would never pay over £300 and if you work hard enough, are charming enough and attractive to the lady you should be able to meet a lady for a reasonable price. Its been said so many times that there is no correct way to go about seeking, its about finding out what works for you.
Many of the women are normal women looking for some help, looking to date an older/successful guy, some haven't got a clue what they are looking for. There are diamonds to be found amidst the scammers, flakes and professionals. One thing to note I have found that age is important. I rarely if ever bother going for young women(18-23) now and find the 25 year old plus bracket much more fun, reliable and sexually experienced.

[Hantsolo]

Never ever pay a lady for a meet and greet/talk. I pay for intimacy only and make that very clear early on. It makes things more transactional but I’ve never had a problem going this route. Obviously the more polite and normal you can be in your phrasing will help.

Totally agree. I point out that I'll happily buy them a coffee/drink/meal (within reason) if they want a M&G first, but thats it. No travel expenses or anything else. A few have wished me luck, many have not replied but the genuine ones understand totally and they are the ones that are happy with intimacy.

[massagepuntingfan]

I completely agree Hantsolo and I have done the same as you.

[randompunter1234]

thanks Pal. Im speaking to few fit ones but they are bit pricey like 500 for meet  and are 400. Would you guys pay that much?

If ever you decide to pay such a handsome figure, do make sure what exactly the deal is.What you are getting for your money. I would specifiy exactly what I want rather than just "blank promise of intimacy"

I recently had a meet with stunning asian student/ part time model. agreed over night for 300 as she wasn't local. but it was rubbish experience. Other than good looks it was meh.

Point is, if you spending big money - it better be worth it. other than that any serious SB would happily agree around 200. (6-8 on my scale).

The particular SB  i mention was a 9 for  me and i spend 300.

[DeanoDeano]

Anyone spoke to this lady

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She’s pretty active on other fora.

[DeanoDeano]

thanks Pal. Im speaking to few fit ones but they are bit pricey like 500 for meet  and are 400. Would you guys pay that much?

I don’t have a figure set in stone for an allowance or per meet situation. I’m sure it goes without saying that it all depends what you can afford, what you consider “value for money” and whether that’s even an issue.

Over the course of my time on seeking I’ve pretty much paid every amount between zero and 400. And every time its depended on (a) How much I fancied her (b) how well I thought we’d get on and (c) what she wanted.

[pa5151]

Word of caution sleeping with the diseased girls on SA. I've had STDs three times now in the last 4 years, I suspect at least two if not three of them were from seeking girls. I do get tested monthly with multiple accounts on SHL. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are easily transmittable via oral and many of them do bareback with many guys (sometimes even on the same day) so just be careful out there. After sleeping with one girl recently she told me after sex she had bareback sex with another guy the night before.

[Whiteknight]

Word of caution sleeping with the diseased girls on SA. I've had STDs three times now in the last 4 years, I suspect at least two if not three of them were from seeking girls. I do get tested monthly with multiple accounts on SHL. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are easily transmittable via oral and many of them do bareback with many guys (sometimes even on the same day) so just be careful out there. After sleeping with one girl recently she told me after sex she had bareback sex with another guy the night before.

Always a super high risk with SA ladies because of BB sex.

Good idea to get tested regularly.

[finn5555]

Always a super high risk with SA ladies because of BB sex.

Good idea to get tested regularly.

Good idea to get tested full stop not just because they are SA girls

[Link7]

Word of caution sleeping with the diseased girls on SA. I've had STDs three times now in the last 4 years, I suspect at least two if not three of them were from seeking girls. I do get tested monthly with multiple accounts on SHL. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are easily transmittable via oral and many of them do bareback with many guys (sometimes even on the same day) so just be careful out there. After sleeping with one girl recently she told me after sex she had bareback sex with another guy the night before.

Shhhh, you're ruining the illusion. We're all on SA because the girls aren't seeing other men, remember? 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Yeah monogamous.... 

[Teejay]

Word of caution sleeping with the diseased girls on SA. I've had STDs three times now in the last 4 years, I suspect at least two if not three of them were from seeking girls. I do get tested monthly with multiple accounts on SHL. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are easily transmittable via oral and many of them do bareback with many guys (sometimes even on the same day) so just be careful out there. After sleeping with one girl recently she told me after sex she had bareback sex with another guy the night before.

sre they all do BB ? Or some?

[mrflash]

sre they all do BB ? Or some?

The answer is you never know. Even the ones who usually avoid BB could be coaxed by some asshole to do BB after meeting repeatedly for some days.

[bigden40]

sre they all do BB ? Or some?

Some girls will, some girls won't
Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't
Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why
Some say they will and some girls lie

[martini2429]

Some girls will, some girls won't
Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't
Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why
Some say they will and some girls lie

Racey 

 

[what-a man]

Word of caution sleeping with the diseased girls on SA. I've had STDs three times now in the last 4 years, I suspect at least two if not three of them were from seeking girls. I do get tested monthly with multiple accounts on SHL. Chlamydia and Gonorrhoea are easily transmittable via oral and many of them do bareback with many guys (sometimes even on the same day) so just be careful out there. After sleeping with one girl recently she told me after sex she had bareback sex with another guy the night before.

This is quite true. I have caught Chlamydia twice from girls on SA. Good thing I am not sleeping with the missus anymore, otherwise it would have been grim

[DeanoDeano]

She’s pretty active on other fora.

Didn’t know I wasn’t supposed to mention the name, whoops.

[NightKid]

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Wants to be paid for M&G then asked for money to be transferred after I offered to just cover her travel cost to London at least

[massage-freak]

thanks Pal. Im speaking to few fit ones but they are bit pricey like 500 for meet  and are 400. Would you guys pay that much?

Too pricey. I keep it between £100-£150 for less than a couple of hours. Dont have time to spend entire night or evening. Some girls laugh at my rates while some are ok, all depends on communication and how genuinely you come across.

[ELDNG]

I'm getting way more girls starting off at £500 than ever before. Some of these girls are straight up escorts who give you a price list as well. It's a struggle to get them down to 150 to 200.

[DeanoDeano]

I'm getting way more girls starting off at £500 than ever before. Some of these girls are straight up escorts who give you a price list as well. It's a struggle to get them down to 150 to 200.

Avoid the ones that look like escorts. And definitely the ones that give you a price list. If they are brasses there’s no pint trying to negotiate with them. Unless you want an escort, in which case just go to the normal place to find one.

[mrflash]

Some proper weirdos out there on SA.

I had sent messages to a bunch of profiles a couple of weeks back. Two of them visit my profile every day(One of them visits multiple times a day). Both did not reply to my messages. All they do is to just visit my profile.

Then there is a case of a message from a random profile to whom I never messaged before. The message reads "You are an ugly cunt anyway". Nothing else. Of course I have been blocked by that profile immediately after the message was sent. I guess it is one of the girls who messaged me, did not get a response and uses a different profile to throw insults at me. Such lovely personalities 

[Link7]

Some proper weirdos out there on SA.

I would be posting too often if I shared every profile which leaves me thinking ??? but here are two of the normal ones I've seen today...

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What do you lads think, why does SA attract so many girls with MH problems? Any armchair (or real) psychologists got a theory?

Tbf, have heard quite a few girls complain about Patrick Bateman types amongst the men. So maybe it is a bit of a community of weirdos in general (apart from us, obviously... )

[Prifessionallondinguy]

As a student I worked a 75 hour shift each week plus managed to impress at a very good university ... whereas these ladies want it all after putting fuck all in... I blame society.

[mrflash]

I would be posting too often if I shared every profile which leaves me thinking ??? but here are two of the normal ones I've seen today...

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What do you lads think, why does SA attract so many girls with MH problems? Any armchair (or real) psychologists got a theory?

Tbf, have heard quite a few girls complain about Patrick Bateman types amongst the men. So maybe it is a bit of a community of weirdos in general (apart from us, obviously... )

Yeah. I guess weirdos are on SA on both sides. Have heard some crazy stories from SB's too. Theory wise, only idea I could think of is that most stable minded girls who are good looking can pull off guys and get into a relationship with someone who earns enough to look after them, even by normal means. Just like how the site pulls many males who cannot get on with women in real life(not us of course  ), it also pulls women who cannot get on with men.

[Lone-punter]

Her previous was £5K/month so she is looking for the same from her next SD
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I don’t believe 60k per year is that much, especially for gentlemen that make millions

[Lone-punter]

Catfish as they move from SA to WA. The SBs you chat on WA are different to the profile photos on SA - photo and video sellers.

SweetSugarBabyA
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[Apu]

Hi Everyone, first post here.. I wanted to thank all of you! I joined seeking a couple of weeks back and this thread has helped a lot to avoid scammers and time wasters. 

I’ve now been talking with 2 girls I’m planning to meet:

Crystal:
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And AutumnDahlia:
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Both have reasonable ppm 200-300..

Any info on them? You can always PM me if you prefer. Thanks all!

Have you met Crystal yet? I was put off by her deformed nose but she seems like a good find. Not met her yet.

[Apu]

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Received the obligatory message “hi handsome” from this lady.
Had to ask the question...”why do you have “fear God” tattooed on your thighs”.... awaiting a reply. 

This one was sending me messages nonstop. I asked for something abit more naughtier and she sent me the same video like 4 times thinking I have a goldfish memory. She also remind me of those hoodrat school girls so I avoided but..... If she's better in person, it could be worthwhile for that ass.

[Apu]

I went on a date with SB this week. Set me back £60.
She was dressed like a Kardashian.
No effort to dress for the weather, she looked amazing.
I had to leave because of a family emergency and she told me in front of many people, she wanted to suck me off and her pussy was A1. She then kissed me passionately and I was thrown because of the PDA.

Definitely seeing her again, she also said she had planned for a fuck in the disabled loos.... But my emergency ruined it all.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

I went on a date with SB this week. Set me back £60.
She was dressed like a Kardashian.
No effort to dress for the weather, she looked amazing.
I had to leave because of a family emergency and she told me in front of many people, she wanted to suck me off and her pussy was A1. She then kissed me passionately and I was thrown because of the PDA.

Definitely seeing her again, she also said she had planned for a fuck in the disabled loos.... But my emergency ruined it all.

Had you cum in your pants 

[DeanoDeano]

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Whodarestoask

Upfront payment scammer

[Link7]

Yeah. I guess weirdos are on SA on both sides. Have heard some crazy stories from SB's too. Theory wise, only idea I could think of is that most stable minded girls who are good looking can pull off guys and get into a relationship with someone who earns enough to look after them, even by normal means. Just like how the site pulls many males who cannot get on with women in real life(not us of course  ), it also pulls women who cannot get on with men.

Agree mate - I think this must be right. Especially when you see a proper stunner on there, can't help but imagine SA must be a real last resort for her.

[Link7]

If you are charismatic enough to impress a woman and get her to bed, try tinder of swingers sites like fabswingers(it does have some scammers but they can be identified easily) or killing kittens. Remember there are probably 100s of men trying to get the attention if a single woman over here.

Going back a bit here, but meant to say - I do wonder if it's not actually the same on SA. I've seen a few of the nicer looking girls mention hundreds of messages / being overwhelmed and unable to reply to everyone. Saw a 6 or 7/10 blonde say this on her profile and she'd only been a member for one day.

Dunno about others, but on reflection, I think more than half of the messages I send on SA get no reply.

[massagepuntingfan]

I resubbed after a few months break from SA. Its really hard work, very few girls biting, very little interest. I'm mid 40's, like to think I'm decent looking, in good shape. Since co-vid its been a real slog.

[poulpe76]

Going back a bit here, but meant to say - I do wonder if it's not actually the same on SA. I've seen a few of the nicer looking girls mention hundreds of messages / being overwhelmed and unable to reply to everyone. Saw a 6 or 7/10 blonde say this on her profile and she'd only been a member for one day.

Dunno about others, but on reflection, I think more than half of the messages I send on SA get no reply.

You have to wonder if at least some of them pretend to be really popular to try to extract a higher PPM/allowance.

[wilkinc]

Got talking to this girl, said she didn't want to meet because of covid concerns:

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She wanted to sell pics, I asked how much and she wanted £500 for one picture of her! 

[mrflash]

Going back a bit here, but meant to say - I do wonder if it's not actually the same on SA. I've seen a few of the nicer looking girls mention hundreds of messages / being overwhelmed and unable to reply to everyone. Saw a 6 or 7/10 blonde say this on her profile and she'd only been a member for one day.

Dunno about others, but on reflection, I think more than half of the messages I send on SA get no reply.

Women have three options:
Regular dating apps which is great for them because only guys with whom they matched will be able to message.

Sex dating and swinger apps where usually anyone can message them. But they get overwhelmed by messages. Many of my messages don't even get read.

Apps like seeking, where they do get lots of messages but nothing at the scale of free sex dating sites. I have a similar success rate as you on getting replies for messages. But on the other sites, I have received probably two replies in my entire life only for both of them to disappear after the the first reply. Success rate is obviously way higher on seeking because money is involved.

Good looking women do get lots of messages, especially when they are new to the site. But one seasoned SB mentioned to me that many of them are timewasters. Just like female scammer profiles, there are male scammers too and many weirdos. After a month or so, they start getting better at identifying timewasters. That aligns well with my observation of higher success rate with girls who are there for more than a month.

[mrflash]

Got talking to this girl, said she didn't want to meet because of covid concerns:

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She wanted to sell pics, I asked how much and she wanted £500 for one picture of her! 

Did you remind her that pictures can be taken with her mobile phone these days and we don't have to resurrect Leonardo Da Vinci to paint her?

[kutch]

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Tina Kay wants 1k for a few hours.  Just a basic service. She Can host.  If you contact her through her email she charges £800 per hour 

[Prifessionallondinguy]

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minabunny_00
22 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
here for a good time not for a long time

Surely TGTBT?
Anyone seen or communicated with her?
I’ve read that tag line “here for a good time not for a long time” on several other Asian profiles .... surely it isn’t the lady in the photo? B&S catfish !

[bigden40]

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minabunny_00
22 • Female • London, England, United Kingdom
here for a good time not for a long time

Surely TGTBT?
Anyone seen or communicated with her?
I’ve read that tag line “here for a good time not for a long time” on several other Asian profiles .... surely it isn’t the lady in the photo? B&S catfish !

I would put the chances somewhere between zero and fuck all that this is a legit profile with a genuine woman behind it. Let alone the girl in the picture.

[Sdave10000]

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Tina Kay wants 1k for a few hours.  Just a basic service. She Can host.  If you contact her through her email she charges £800 per hour 

Can I ask what she was offering in terms of time as she quoted me 1k for 2 hours but the deal breaker was no owo. But if she offering longer then I might be tempted to revisit. Also how did u contact via SA. Through messaging or her phone?
Cheers

[mrflash]

The new feature that deletes messages every 180 days is frustrating. I would like to know if I had chatted with someone before. Now I cannot.

[randompunter1234]

and is there a search feature where I can search by user name.

I dont think there is an option for username search, every time i try searching the username in profile text i fail.

There's  a few girls iw as talking to on my previous account which I deleted, now i cant find em even with the username