Been on SA a few times, get a few numbers and chatted but not progressed.
Looking to start and progress something longer term without getting rinsed dry.
What do you mean by 'rinsed dry', that the girls you are chatting to want too much money? London SBs' expectations are generally higher due to a lot of wealthier SDs offering 300, even if they also have to also cover hotel and refreshments.
Most of the time, these are just offers that don't lead to an arrangement because they go for someone else or decide against it but the damage is done and girls think this is the norm - and word gets round between SBs on the site.
Also, what sort of girls are you going for? If you're pursuing 9s/10s then that will be more difficult and even if you do manage to snag one, then it may not be a great experience if they're only it for money. Give me a 6/10 who is enthusiastic and good in bed over a 9/10 who just lies there like a cold fish and doesn't speak to you any day.
So, in summary, my advice is:
- Be wary of profiles that are too focused on money. Yes, we know what the site is about but if we wanted an escort experience, we'd go on AW.
- Look instead for girls who, obviously indirectly, seem up for sex and are friendly. Be prepared to lower your aesthetic standards for this.
- Widen your geographic range. If you are willing to travel 1hr from central London you will open up your possibilities and will find something more affordable. Not just because PPMs outside London are generally less but making it easy for a girl by travelling to her will also count in your favour when negotiating allowance.
- Try to pin down girls to a meet, even a M&G, within a few days. If she's being evasive, that's not a good sign. Make clear you are a serious SD who wants to arrange meets and don't want to waste time on text ping pong that doesn't lead anywhere.
And most of all, treat them like ordinary girls, not escorts. There are lots of twats on SA so coming across like a nice guy who respects her will massively boost your chances of converting those initial chats to actual meets.
Hope it works out for you.
