Seeking.com (London)

[Trenlover]

2) First meets should be in person for a coffee before you go back to your place - if you sense something is off then be honest and avoid.

Problem is like you I was scammed by someone whom I had already fucked few times and had no off feelings about.  Just remember you cannot trust any of these girls EVER, even if youve seen them 100 times they can still switch on you and attempt to blackmail you.

The worst meets ive had have always been the ones where the girl was pushy and insistent about money first. Best to just walk away if that happens

[massagepuntingfan]

I’ve posted two profiles in the last week and received good intel which helped me decide not to see one girl who was an escort and the other who was a scammer...my thanks to those with the info.
I’m chatting to this one, seems ok but quick to move to the transactional..has anyone seen this lady?

External Link/Members Only

[massage-freak]

I've been using Seeking for years and only had 2 bad instances.....one was on a hotel and I'm quite thankful I never brought her back to my place, She took the piss and started harassing me....

The other is where I saw someone at her place 3 times, on the last time I decided to bank transfer because the ATM was out of the way, and eventually scammed me out of an extra 350 - long story but when I said I wanted the money back she said she lied to me, wasn't 18 (she was 17), suggested she'd go to the police etc and wanted another £1k+ to keep quiet.....that shook me for weeks...

Like most scams, I was told to pay straight away to hopefully let fear kick in vs rational thoughts....I'm glad I didn't have the money to hand because I probably would have, I stalled for a few days and in the meantime contacted a criminal lawyer explaining the situation I was told that I didn't break any law etc....

Instead of going to the police and reporting sextortion, I decided to write off the 350, blocked whatsapp/phone etc and moved on - even though she's free to do this to other people, sometimes it's just not worth the hassle and you count your blessings...

What I'm trying to say is, give it a few days and see how you feel but remember some of the golden rules specifically when it comes to SA...

1) Always deal in cash - avoid wire transfers that could reveal your ID
2) First meets should be in person for a coffee before you go back to your place - if you sense something is off then be honest and avoid.
3) Agree price beforehand, make it clear "friends with benefits" and save whatsapp convo's & SA chats - that way you've got something to fall back on.
4) Try and go to their place on the first meet (Not easy in London vs rest of UK I know, rents are extortionate and very few can accommodate)

Most of these girls are also not professional prostitutes, most just students wanting spare cash or girls wanting an older guy with some benefits....I tend to hand over the dosh at the end of the date rather than upfront - there have been a few exceptions to this though....

Hope you get over it soon matey - I know how shitty/dark it can be - you just got a bad apple

Good advice mate.

I always try to join the dots from the conversation. I purposely ask lot of questions in the begining on WA under the pretext that I am curious personality. If the dots dont join up or I feel the story is lacking or not genuine then I avoid seeing the girl. Have been dating on seeking for 2 yrs now. Not had a bad expeirence so far. 

[bbz123]

Anyone have info on this girl - External Link/Members Only ? She’s quoted me £300 for 7 hours daytime or overnight. I’m a bit wary as she has more than one profile floating around...

[NightKid]

Anyone have info on this girl - External Link/Members Only ? She’s quoted me £300 for 7 hours daytime or overnight. I’m a bit wary as she has more than one profile floating around...

Might be worth linking the other profile also then.

[kidpoontang]

I've been using Seeking for years and only had 2 bad instances.....one was on a hotel and I'm quite thankful I never brought her back to my place, She took the piss and started harassing me....

The other is where I saw someone at her place 3 times, on the last time I decided to bank transfer because the ATM was out of the way, and eventually scammed me out of an extra 350 - long story but when I said I wanted the money back she said she lied to me, wasn't 18 (she was 17), suggested she'd go to the police etc and wanted another £1k+ to keep quiet.....that shook me for weeks...

Like most scams, I was told to pay straight away to hopefully let fear kick in vs rational thoughts....I'm glad I didn't have the money to hand because I probably would have, I stalled for a few days and in the meantime contacted a criminal lawyer explaining the situation I was told that I didn't break any law etc....

Instead of going to the police and reporting sextortion, I decided to write off the 350, blocked whatsapp/phone etc and moved on - even though she's free to do this to other people, sometimes it's just not worth the hassle and you count your blessings...

What I'm trying to say is, give it a few days and see how you feel but remember some of the golden rules specifically when it comes to SA...

1) Always deal in cash - avoid wire transfers that could reveal your ID
2) First meets should be in person for a coffee before you go back to your place - if you sense something is off then be honest and avoid.
3) Agree price beforehand, make it clear "friends with benefits" and save whatsapp convo's & SA chats - that way you've got something to fall back on.
4) Try and go to their place on the first meet (Not easy in London vs rest of UK I know, rents are extortionate and very few can accommodate)

Most of these girls are also not professional prostitutes, most just students wanting spare cash or girls wanting an older guy with some benefits....I tend to hand over the dosh at the end of the date rather than upfront - there have been a few exceptions to this though....

Hope you get over it soon matey - I know how shitty/dark it can be - you just got a bad apple

As said, good advice.

Do you have a link to the girls in question so we can all avoid them?

[massagepuntingfan]

i got robbed by this girl and her friend. We agreed on £250 and she came with someone...stupid me. I allowed them both and got robbed.

This is the lady that robbed a punter.
External Link/Members Only

[Hantsolo]

A couple of potential meets lined up this week, anybody got any feedback on either of these two?

Eva 0318
External Link/Members Only

Sweetpie88

External Link/Members Only

[T0pgun]

This is the lady that robbed a punter.
External Link/Members Only

Maya987

External Link/Members Only

She Is another one who has been reported on her before for stealing from men on SA.

[SwenyTodd]

A couple of potential meets lined up this week, anybody got any feedback on either of these two?

Eva 0318
External Link/Members Only

This one's a professional escort in London too.
Can't remember which agencys but you'll find her.

[Hantsolo]

This one's a professional escort in London too.
Can't remember which agencys but you'll find her.

Thanks ST, I did think some of her photos looked a bit pro. Not found her yet though!

[massagepuntingfan]

Thanks ST, I did think some of her photos looked a bit pro. Not found her yet though!

I was speaking to her a few weeks ago I think - I can't view the profile as its blocked but I recognise the Username - if she's blonde and 31 showing cleavage and lives up in Queens Park then its the same lady. The Eva I spoke to on WhatsApp was very transactional and I had the feeling that I recognised her from somewhere, I asked her straight out if she had ever worked as a tantric masseuse(she said no) or as an escort (she blocked me).

[Hantsolo]

I was speaking to her a few weeks ago I think - I can't view the profile as its blocked but I recognise the Username - if she's blonde and 31 showing cleavage and lives up in Queens Park then its the same lady. The Eva I spoke to on WhatsApp was very transactional and I had the feeling that I recognised her from somewhere, I asked her straight out if she had ever worked as a tantric masseuse(she said no) or as an escort (she blocked me).

Yes, that’s her. Claims she’s a professional make up artist.

[londonhunter008]

Maya987

External Link/Members Only

She Is another one who has been reported on her before for stealing from men on SA.

Thanks for the update. Usually girls who intend to steal money (or fake) have typical profiles.
- Very good pics, usually semi nude and heavy makeup.
- Brief profile description and no personal information to avoid recognition (work, location etc)...and wont involve in much conversation.

A genuine girl will care to know bit about her work, hobbies and what she like to enjoy etc. Will put effort in profile and to know you.
Reading a profile carefully, not fall for good pictures and having a brief chat (voice or video call. I always call a girl before actual meet and sometimes video call to avoid catfish).
I learnt my lessons hard way and its better to take time than to fall in a trap.

[Mr_Shins]

I'm now actually "in a relationship" with the one I linked in my earlier post (who is definitely not TS). Not an arrangement, a relationship.

[Lone-punter]

Anyone dealing or have dealt with this SB
FxyGDss
External Link/Members Only
Started from 300, settled on 200 and fine with intimacy but I am still reluctant to meet her. Something is not looking right about her. Any intel is appreciated 

[kutch]

Anyone dealing or have dealt with this SB
FxyGDss
External Link/Members Only
Started from 300, settled on 200 and fine with intimacy but I am still reluctant to meet her. Something is not looking right about her. Any intel is appreciated 

She seems genuine.  Quoted £250 to me so You’ve done well. I didn’t meet her in the end but probably would have for 200

[NightKid]

I'm now actually "in a relationship" with the one I linked in my earlier post (who is definitely not TS). Not an arrangement, a relationship.

So she's an out-of-practice footballer then? 

[Mr_Shins]

So she's an out-of-practice footballer then? 

I broke it to her about my fetish yesterday, I'll have to see how she takes to it all. She does wear classic high heels a lot.

[NightKid]

I broke it to her about my fetish yesterday, I'll have to see how she takes to it all. She does wear classic high heels a lot.

Has she freaked out on you yet or started stomping around in stilettos instead?  Anyway, got another report to make:

External Link/Members Only ColombianaBabyXO

Timewaster, talks about having an arrangement to meet on a regular basis but "not in a hurry or rush to meet" either. 

[Jardent6]

Saw her today, cant fault the service, alows everything apart from anal and likes to be dominated. Only issue is she doesnt have much personality, seems a bit not all there, she smokes spliffs but not at mine, has 2 other friends who are SD's. Felt more like a prossie. Told me she fucked her friends dad 4 times for cash.

How much did she charge , she looks like a bit of me + im noy interested in wining and dining ..

[Jardent6]

this one wants 300 ppm and sex is included
External Link/Members Only

is a bengalli girl, last year i seen her for 150ppm in london. Does weed, so didnt continue

Are these the types of girls on seeking ? I have been missing out !! Does anyone have any intel on her ? Also what does ppm mean ?

[GMontag]

this one wants 300 ppm and sex is included
External Link/Members Only

is a bengalli girl, last year i seen her for 150ppm in london. Does weed, so didnt continue

Saw her 4 times last year.  Same at 150 per meet. She was a lot of fun. It was always wierd as she would turn up dressed like her first picture. Looked really young hot and slutty. I didnt care though I am sure she attracted stares with everyone knowing whats up. We always met at the same hotel in London. She told me she was from Nepal.  She was a student and from our chats is actually quite smart though more of a party girl. Never had weed when with me but told me how she was into everything. Still chat with her once in a while but she's been unable to meet due to staying with parents.
Performance wise she is really good. Gets into it very much. She was 19 at the time which added a big thrill to it. And she never made meets look transactional. More like a booty call with a good mate.

[Mr_Shins]

Has she freaked out on you yet or started stomping around in stilettos instead?  Anyway, got another report to make:

External Link/Members Only ColombianaBabyXO

Timewaster, talks about having an arrangement to meet on a regular basis but "not in a hurry or rush to meet" either. 

It isn't like that with the fetish.

In the meantime Elegantduchess as she is called on seeking is my lady.

[Flush]

Review on below girl:

External Link/Members Only

The lady agreed £200 on a previous profile called LaurenBooth and will not see you unless a downpayment of £60 is made for transport. I believe this profile is a scam, as the previous profile is closed and potentially was reported because of the advance payment scam.

[massagepuntingfan]

Review on below girl:

External Link/Members Only

The lady agreed £200 on a previous profile called LaurenBooth and will not see you unless a downpayment of £60 is made for transport. I believe this profile is a scam, as I believe the previous profile was reported because of the advance payment scam.

Never ever pay up front - probably best to report her as well, also she can't be bothered to put a proper photo up.

[Flush]

Another report on Lailanight:

External Link/Members Only

This lady is sporadic with responses and agreed £300 quid to meet. On whatsapp, she is non responsive and will respond out of the blue saying "How are you hun would you like some fun today?x" and once agreed she always follows up with " Yes I have a friend to bring for you also"

She is always suggesting bring a friend as well. Has anyone actually met up with her?

[Flush]

Never ever pay up front - probably best to report her as well, also she can't be bothered to put a proper photo up.

Yes agreed. There are alot of ladies proposing this before meets.

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only - Actually Brighton based but comes to London

"£200 to see you for drinks and dinner if we proceed it'll be £500" 

Hidden Image/Members Only Hidden Image/Members Only Hidden Image/Members Only

[martini2429]

External Link/Members Only - Actually Brighton based but comes to London

"£200 to see you for drinks and dinner if we proceed it'll be £500" 

Hidden Image/Members Only Hidden Image/Members Only Hidden Image/Members Only

What a miserable looking women, why don't they smile more 

 

[Gunnarman]

Another report on Lailanight:

External Link/Members Only

This lady is sporadic with responses and agreed £300 quid to meet. On whatsapp, she is non responsive and will respond out of the blue saying "How are you hun would you like some fun today?x" and once agreed she always follows up with " Yes I have a friend to bring for you also"

She is always suggesting bring a friend as well. Has anyone actually met up with her?

Had similar interactions with me.  Completely non responsive and then would just text to meet out of the blue. Haven't tried to talk to her in months.

[NightKid]

External Link/Members Only - Gorgeous Brunette (London)

Wants 400 ppm, I didn't bother negotiating.

Bit of update on this one; she can be nego-ed down a little for a couple hours meet, but at her preferred price point of 400 she's actually willing to offer quite a lot i.e. overnight, discreet public play (collared and buttplugged over drinks), anal (ease her into it, she's new), etc. so it's still the better value option overall. And she's FAF indeed as her pics suggests.

Not much FK though, just lip pecks for the most part even if she's into you. I suppose we all can't be perfect.

[Jardent6]

I want to try out seeking but I don't want to pay the astronomical membership fee . Do you reckon its essential for success on the sight or can I upload a random picture and still get some reception ?

[cunningman]

I want to try out seeking but I don't want to pay the astronomical membership fee . Do you reckon its essential for success on the sight or can I upload a random picture and still get some reception ?

How are you expecting to interact with the girls?  You can't read their messages, or send them messages.  Unless you pay.  Window shopping until then - you can tell how many locals actually log in regularly.

[Jardent6]

From my understanding it says upload a photo to start communicating or can I just pay the fee and not upload a photo .

Secondly anyone seen this girl ? Been on there for a long time and absolutely a bit of me

External Link/Members Only

[ratedj]

From my understanding it says upload a photo to start communicating or can I just pay the fee and not upload a photo .

Secondly anyone seen this girl ? Been on there for a long time and absolutely a bit of me

External Link/Members Only

As Cunningman noted you cannot read or send messages without a paid membership. With the basic membership your experience will not extend beyond browsing.

[Jardent6]

Wow fair enough .
Going to post up on this thread a lot more and see if its worthwhile

What appeals to me is prospects of girl next door notmal girls for approx 300 for a lot longer than 2 hours

[apple-paul]

External Link/Members Only

Yikes.

[NightKid]

I want to try out seeking but I don't want to pay the astronomical membership fee .

There's a discount link I posted earlier in the thread that's still active which knocks about 33% off the fee and you can try searching for it in my post history if you want. 

[Lone-punter]

Anyone dealing or have dealt with this SB
FxyGDss
External Link/Members Only
Started from 300, settled on 200 and fine with intimacy but I am still reluctant to meet her. Something is not looking right about her. Any intel is appreciated 

She seems genuine.  Quoted £250 to me so You’ve done well. I didn’t meet her in the end but probably would have for 200

Finally met her. First had a couple of drinks in a bar near my hotel where she mostly kept busy on her mobile phone, went to the room where she insisted on cash first, handed over reluctantly, she rushed the action and dressed up immediately to leave. When asked babe I was expecting us to have some more fun, she said she was a sugar baby not an escort that she had to stay for certain time in any case. When she left, I peeked from my hotel room's window and saw her leaving with someone who was waiting outside in a car. It was not an Uber or other ride-hail service. All in all a dull and unsatisfying experience with a feeling of being cheated. She has strong smoker's breath and perhaps silicone tits.

[y101y]

Finally met her. First had a couple of drinks in a bar near my hotel where she mostly kept busy on her mobile phone, went to the room where she insisted on cash first, handed over reluctantly, she rushed the action and dressed up immediately to leave. When asked babe I was expecting us to have some more fun, she said she was a sugar baby not an escort that she had to stay for certain time in any case. When she left, I peeked from my hotel room's window and saw her leaving with someone who was waiting outside in a car. It was not an Uber or other ride-hail service. All in all a dull and unsatisfying experience with a feeling of being cheated. She has strong smoker's breath and perhaps silicone tits.

Well that’s shit. Guess your suspicions were right, but sometimes you just have to experience these things to prove it one way or the other.

Strange comment from her on SB vs escort. I thought in theory a SB would provide better/longer service? Her response seems to be stating the opposite?

Still struggling to see the benefit of Seeking over traditional punting. Not having a dig at anyone for their choices, just genuinely trying to understand why you’d go down this route.

[NightKid]

All in all a dull and unsatisfying experience with a feeling of being cheated. She has strong smoker's breath and perhaps silicone tits.

Sorry to hear she turned out a bad un' fella, but thanks for sharing. 

Well that’s shit. Guess your suspicions were right, but sometimes you just have to experience these things to prove it one way or the other.

Strange comment from her on SB vs escort. I thought in theory a SB would provide better/longer service? Her response seems to be stating the opposite?

Still struggling to see the benefit of Seeking over traditional punting. Not having a dig at anyone for their choices, just genuinely trying to understand why you’d go down this route.

They do for the most part - he just got unlucky, didn't spot the red flags, or trust big head quickly enough. As you do with normal punts too.

And with regards to benefits, find me an escort who's willing to spend 12+ hours with you for 400 or less.

[dmitrybulgakov]

External Link/Members Only

Yikes.

Is she a human at all?

[y101y]

External Link/Members Only

Yikes.

Fucking hell. That’s a mess...but strangely enough I’d still fuck it just for the novelty.

[Steve2]

Fucking hell. That’s a mess...but strangely enough I’d still fuck it just for the novelty.

Seriously?   

[xyfek]

Sorry to hear she turned out a bad un' fella, but thanks for sharing. 

They do for the most part - he just got unlucky, didn't spot the red flags, or trust big head quickly enough. As you do with normal punts too.

And with regards to benefits, find me an escort who's willing to spend 12+ hours with you for 400 or less.

The cheaper cost is indeed a benefit. But wouldn't you expect an escort (a well regarded one in any case) to provide a better service? I don't have a lot of experience with overnights, would be interested to get some insights and in particular to hear of pros and cons between SBs and escorts.

[Lone-punter]

They do for the most part - he just got unlucky, didn't spot the red flags, or trust big head quickly enough. As you do with normal punts too.

And with regards to benefits, find me an escort who's willing to spend 12+ hours with you for 400 or less.

I agree. This was a random bad experience, otherwise sugaring is far better than escorting in terms of connection you built in pre-meet conversations and the romantic ambiance of the meet. Usually, there is no time pressure. I am seeing two SBs in their early to mid 20s with regular intervals while paying each of them £150/meet, minimum time we spent together on each meet is 3 hours. Since moving to sugarland, I have not knowingly seen any escort.

Disclaimer: I have nothing against escorts, rather I have met some really nice ladies there, but in terms of experience and VFM I now prefer SBs. It's just a personal choice

[AlTerminator]

I just saw that there is a back to school offer, 33% discount, I'm tempted as I haven't been on since end of last year, but reading the comments here make me think it might still be better to wait.

[Natwest]

I just saw that there is a back to school offer, 33% discount, I'm tempted as I haven't been on since end of last year, but reading the comments here make me think it might still be better to wait.

That's interesting. I got that but only 25%. I wonder how they decide what discount to offer? I had a months subscription but have been off the site for a month now.

[Jardent6]

I'm so tempted but £60 odd quid with no gaurantee . I can't bring myself to do it