I have reported the profile to seeking but not sure what police can do? I am going to shutdown my account..I think I need some time to recover. Maybe after a few days I will be okay.
I've been using Seeking for years and only had 2 bad instances.....one was on a hotel and I'm quite thankful I never brought her back to my place, She took the piss and started harassing me....
The other is where I saw someone at her place 3 times, on the last time I decided to bank transfer because the ATM was out of the way, and eventually scammed me out of an extra 350 - long story but when I said I wanted the money back she said she lied to me, wasn't 18 (she was 17), suggested she'd go to the police etc and wanted another £1k+ to keep quiet.....that shook me for weeks...
Like most scams, I was told to pay straight away to hopefully let fear kick in vs rational thoughts....I'm glad I didn't have the money to hand because I probably would have, I stalled for a few days and in the meantime contacted a criminal lawyer explaining the situation I was told that I didn't break any law etc....
Instead of going to the police and reporting sextortion, I decided to write off the 350, blocked whatsapp/phone etc and moved on - even though she's free to do this to other people, sometimes it's just not worth the hassle and you count your blessings...
What I'm trying to say is, give it a few days and see how you feel but remember some of the golden rules specifically when it comes to SA...
1) Always deal in cash - avoid wire transfers that could reveal your ID
2) First meets should be in person for a coffee before you go back to your place - if you sense something is off then be honest and avoid.
3) Agree price beforehand, make it clear "friends with benefits" and save whatsapp convo's & SA chats - that way you've got something to fall back on.
4) Try and go to their place on the first meet (Not easy in London vs rest of UK I know, rents are extortionate and very few can accommodate)
Most of these girls are also not professional prostitutes, most just students wanting spare cash or girls wanting an older guy with some benefits....I tend to hand over the dosh at the end of the date rather than upfront - there have been a few exceptions to this though....
Hope you get over it soon matey - I know how shitty/dark it can be - you just got a bad apple