My seeking experiences, for the folk new to it.
As a site, its a minefield.. loads of content sellers, fakes, liars, blaggers.. there is always a fabulous sob story.
If you are new to this game, keep your guard up
Most people are out to lower your defenses with a few pictures, then hit you with the demands.
You will find many younger lasses write their profiles in a similar way.. and message in a similar way too. Be cautious!
Ive taken many lasses from Seeking to whatsapp.. you get a few days back and forth, then some vanish.. its normal.
The ones that want to go to Telegram are usually fake.
Although i have one very genuine one!
Over the last few years, i have had many cancelled meets.. ghostings.. and the such.
Loads of lets meet tomorrow, can you pay for my nails today, pay for a baby sitter, etc.. DONT!! you know the drill!!
My first meet was a lady a bit older than me in Rotherham, we met for a coffee and sounded it all out first. She was very genuine, and this is the best way to meet. She did this off her own back and required no payment. From this we arranged a meetanother time at hers. Which was well worth the leg work!! Cost at time for a lovely hour in the bedroom was 120.
I met one from Newark way... pictures were probs her at some point, but she had put weight on and had the personality of a wet rag... and a scruffy flat.
Met a lass from Melton Mowbray, fit in her pics, good chat on whatsapp, met her at hers in the week, daytime, true to life, met me wearing a very sexy little outfit.. good chat.. and great sex. We have met twice and due to meet again. I was there maybe 2 hours, chat and bedroom time... 200
Went to nottingham the other week for a coffee meet with a very genuine lady. She may be slightly out of the range i want to pay, but we are talking through Telegram at the min. She is gorgeous, and early 40s, so hoping we get something sorted. Looking at 300 but sounds like a good few hours
Went to Staffordshire the other day..lass who is 30, blonde, tanned, accomdates at hers. We had been talking for ages, and never got anything sorted. We both thought it would not happen.. then randomly we had chance to see each other, so we arranged.... i drove over... i was at hers 3 hours, we chatted, really comfortably, then she went upstairs and got changed.. 😉
Had some great sex.. laid and chatted... then had some more... she was in no rush for me to go... 200
Then there is a lovely lady, who is 40 ish. Sheffield on profile.. we got talking maybe 2 years ago. Met at hers for a drink and a chat. No charge. Then tried to arrange for ages but never did. Lost touch.. and a year later resumed.. on and off chatting.
Eventually we met, and my word, shes everything i want. Localish, gorgeous, great banter, we either are very well matched, or she is really experienced at this. We have met 3 times now and i hope to be agsin before end of month. She wanted 200 to 250 per meet.
There has been a couple.of other meetings that have beem decidedly average.. and hopefully i have a few more irons in the fire..