Author Topic: The Mystery of the Missing Message  (Read 1397 times)

Offline Vice Admiral

This is is very odd.

I've been on Adult Work for over ten years, and this has never happened before.

On Thursday I sent a message to a girl I know fairly well.  Over the next few hours I checked several times to see if it had been read, and each time it was sitting safely in my list of sent e-mails.  I even clicked on it a couple of times to check what I had written.

And then suddenly it had disappeared from my sent box.

It had, however, been safely sent, because in due course I received a reply.

Now there are only two possible reasons I can think of as to how a sent e-mail could disappear in this way:

1.  I accidentally ticked the small box beside the e-mail in the list of sent e-mails, moved the cursor down, and clicked on "Delete selected", without knowing I had done so.  This is as close to a total impossibility as can be conceived, not least because I never delete e-mails.

2.  A hacker got into my computer – there was no-one else in the house during the period in question, so a "real person" can't have done it – and decided to delete the Adult Work e-mail I had most recently sent.  Stranger things have happened, but it seems inherently somewhat improbable.

If anyone else has ever experienced a phantom deletion of this kind on Adult Work – or has a credible alternative theory – I would be pleased to know.

If not, this case is likely to remain for ever in the realms of "close to a total impossibility" and "inherently somewhat improbable".

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I'll say option 1

Would agree with this.

I still have sent/received items from 2009, from those WGs whose profiles are still active.

Once a profile is deleted or the girl has moved on, I tend to delete their messages.

Offline Vice Admiral

Thank you, Lone Wolf and Cool Tiger, for your comments.

My own reaction would probably be the same as yours, and that was why I offered that option.  It's the obvious first conclusion an objective observer would draw. 

However I wrote that that was how it "could" happen simply because that is the only feasible technical route to deletion of an e-mail. 

I perhaps didn't express my point as clearly as I might have.  Because I can categorically state that it didn't happen!

I did not tick the box, nor did I then move to and click the delete option.

One accidental, unnoticed, inadvertent click falling by an unlucky chance in that particular place would be, I suppose, just possible – though highly unlikely.  Two in sequence, pretty well inconceivable.

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Thank you, Lone Wolf and Cool Tiger, for your comments.

My own reaction would probably be the same as yours, and that was why I offered that option.  It's the obvious first conclusion an objective observer would draw. 

However I wrote that that was how it "could" happen simply because that is the only feasible technical route to deletion of an e-mail. 

I perhaps didn't express my point as clearly as I might have.  Because I can categorically state that it didn't happen!

I did not tick the box, nor did I then move to and click the delete option.

One accidental, unnoticed, inadvertent click falling by an unlucky chance in that particular place would be, I suppose, just possible – though highly unlikely.  Two in sequence, pretty well inconceivable.

The oldest email I have on AW is from 2011, the sent one still has the text but the received hasn't, it just says 'no longer active' so mine haven't  disappeared . The only way you'll get an answer is to ask AW.

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The AW computer is (like all computers and systems) far from infallible.  A few years ago I tried to make a booking with a wg, hey presto the booking showed up as having been made with someone completely different and unknown to me.   I noticed pretty well immediately and was able to warn her and cancel it.   But how and why it happened i have no idea. 

Given the complexity of the AW system and the load on it, it does actually do very well IMO.  Just not when it screws up on me.   :unknown:

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This has happened to me twice before, I’ve posted about it.

I theorised it was a compatibility issue between the main and mobile site. As in some (very low amount) messages sent on a mobile device may not show up when accessing the main site, and maybe vice versa.

Offline ZeroCount

How about option 3, a simple glitch on the AW servers? Admittedly it seems unlikely, when the service is normally rock solid. But on the other hand, it seems a lot more feasible than options 1 and 2, and I can't think of any other possibilities.

In the spirit of your post title: "Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth."

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Thanks to all of you for your helpful comments.

As with you, Daviemac, I have never had a message disappear in this way – although from my experience of what might be described as Adult Work customer services, I regard the chances of getting a useful (or any) answer from them if I contact them, as you suggest, as pretty slim!

s0whatsnew? and Billy no mates have provided the information I was hoping for – namely, that my experience of the other day is not unique, Billy’s experience having been identical. (However I use AW only on my computer so in my case it cannot have been “a compatibility issue between the main and mobile site”.)

Finally, ZeroCount’s channelling of Sherlock Holmes – "Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth" – is valuable philosophy.  In this and other contexts…


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"Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth" – is valuable philosophy.  In this and other contexts…

By not contacting AW on the off chance they may help, that is a thing you have chosen not to do.   :unknown:

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What I primarily hoped for in opening this conversation was to learn that my experience was not unique.

This having been achieved, I am content.

Thanks again to everyone for their helpful comments.

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This has happened to me twice before, I’ve posted about it.

I theorised it was a compatibility issue between the main and mobile site. As in some (very low amount) messages sent on a mobile device may not show up when accessing the main site, and maybe vice versa.

I think you could have hit the nail on the head. A lady tried to say I was a time waster earlier this year, claiming I wasn’t replying to her mails. It wasn’t until I sent her a screen shot of it on my phone she backed down. I was using my phone.

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I think you could have hit the nail on the head. A lady tried to say I was a time waster earlier this year, claiming I wasn’t replying to her mails. It wasn’t until I sent her a screen shot of it on my phone she backed down. I was using my phone.

Always use the desktop site on your mobile. It's just so much better.

Offline MilleMiglia

The AW computer is (like all computers and systems) far from infallible.  A few years ago I tried to make a booking with a wg, hey presto the booking showed up as having been made with someone completely different and unknown to me.   I noticed pretty well immediately and was able to warn her and cancel it.   But how and why it happened i have no idea. 

Given the complexity of the AW system and the load on it, it does actually do very well IMO.  Just not when it screws up on me.   :unknown:

Pretty well this - you get glitches.

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Always use the desktop site on your mobile. It's just so much better.
On my mobile it's almost impossibly small to read.

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On my mobile it's almost impossibly small to read.
Then you zoom in.