Can you ever trust prossies?

[billfoster]

Does anyone think you can really trust any prossies to either tell the truth or keep to deals?

I have had prossies tell me allsorts, and then just break all the promises.

[Dani]

No you cant.  half the time we just say what you want to hear within reason as our job involves a lot of acting
As for trusting us, would you trust someone who served you food in a fast food place or who you just met in a pub?

You should only trust people you know very well and who have earned your trust. Regardless of what job they do you cannot trust anyone you don't know very well.

[smiths]

Does anyone think you can really trust any prossies to either tell the truth or keep to deals?

I have had prossies tell me allsorts, and then just break all the promises.

My trust has to be earned with WGs just as with others i do business with outside punting.

[KentAde]

No you cant.  half the time we just say what you want to hear within reason as our job involves a lot of acting
As for trusting us, would you trust someone who served you food in a fast food place or who you just met in a pub?

You should only trust people you know very well and who have earned your trust. Regardless of what job they do you cannot trust anyone you don't know very well.

Dani, I commend you on being so honest........and 100% agree. Luckily, with the girls I see on a regular basis we have a trust now...

[billfoster]

All the prossies I have ever trusted have broken their promises. 
Don't think I can ever trust a prossie again

[vorian]

All the prossies I have ever trusted have broken their promises. 
Don't think I can ever trust a prossie again

Well don't then, as Dani and Smiths posted, don't trust people you do business with until you know them, very, very well and that can take an extremely long time. If I don't trust people I do business with in general, that doesn't stop me, just makes me more wary, which imho is a good thing.

[vorian]

All the prossies I have ever trusted have broken their promises. 
Don't think I can ever trust a prossie again

So billfoster are you the recently banned Bilbo by any chance.  You have a similar posting style and obsession. 

[Gordo987]

Seems to me that the idea is to pay them to let you fuck them - what's trust got to do with anything?

[Sienna_Bronze]

Seems to me that the idea is to pay them to let you fuck them - what's trust got to do with anything?

Quite right! I don't like to know too much about punters and when they ask me about my life I'm very vague and will probably try to divert the convo with a blow job!

Trust should not even be an issue in this game, discretion yes but not 'trust'.

[wristjob]

Does anyone think you can really trust any prossies to either tell the truth or keep to deals?

I have had prossies tell me allsorts, and then just break all the promises.

You pay them an amount of money for a bit of their time as a business transaction. Apart from trusting them not to climb down the fire escape why would you feel there is need for trust - the WG should not cross over into your real life.

When I book a girl I don't give her my real name. I use a punting phone (ie she doesn't have my real phone number). I'm pretty sure I don't even know her real name. You do understand the nature of the tranaction yes?

[Roland D Hay]

Seems to me that the idea is to pay them to let you fuck them - what's trust got to do with anything?

Very well put, however there might be a time when you're offered a shower and don't gather up all your possessions to take into the bathroom with you... Don't do it.

[Jay-Jay]

Seems to me that the idea is to pay them to let you fuck them - what's trust got to do with anything?

Actually...I thought the premise was that we didn't pay to f**k them.....we paid to walk away after we had?

Jay

[mattylondon]

Does anyone think you can really trust any prossies to either tell the truth or keep to deals?

I have had prossies tell me allsorts, and then just break all the promises.

I pay to fuck them, not to pay a great deal of attention to their life story. Only the gullible fall for it.

The only trust that is important to me, is they fulfill their part of the deal, as I fulfill mine. 

[jcdmj12]

No, because prostitutes are (mainly) women, and most women have a very different definition of integrity to men. A woman's word is usually based on her current emotional state. If that changes, her word changes.

As Dani says, this is compounded because a huge part of successful whoring is creating a believable fantasy for the punter, along with a fair amount of deceit required for maintaining one's civvy relationships. 

For trust in general - it's context-specific.  There are people I'd trust with money, but not with secrets, and vice versa.  But generally, I trust very, very few people to any great extent.  Certainly less than I could count on two hands.

[mattylondon]

No, because prostitutes are (mainly) women, and most women have a very different definition of integrity to men. A woman's word is usually based on her current emotional state. If that changes, her word changes.

As Dani says, this is compounded because a huge part of successful whoring is creating a believable fantasy for the punter, along with a fair amount of deceit required for maintaining one's civvy relationships. 

For trust in general - it's context-specific.  There are people I'd trust with money, but not with secrets, and vice versa.  But generally, I trust very, very few people to any great extent.  Certainly less than I could count on two hands.

Some very good points there. 

And very true, regarding a woman's current emotional state. We pay them to act out a fantasy. For the most part, it's all an act, on both sides. Therefore, why is anybody surprised if this 'performance' spills over into the chit chat afterwards? They'll be repeating the same lines to the next guy and the next one after that.

And an attached punter is being deceptive in a great deal of cases too, even if the volume of interactions is less.

[Sailormack]

Why would you trust any women with anything 

As previously pointed out women make decisions very much in the moment driven by emotion rather that thought out logic.

You want to put something you care about and worry about losing in those hands?

Good luck with that 

[JB1969]

Why do we need to trust them, it is a pay and demand situation.  We pay for a service that they provide whether she lies in what she tells me so fucking what, I am not about to marry her.  Why is everybody so caught up in the lives of prossies?

I have heard stories of a member of this board i.e female who has lied to a vulnerable man in the past to get money out of him.  Is her character any of my business?  No, as long as she delivers a good service and i leave satisfied who gives a fuck, I would not be back in contact with her until I needed my ballsack emptied again.

[LL]

Why do we need to trust them, it is a pay and demand situation.

I trust them not to go through my trouser pockets whilst I'm in the shower.

[ciscoxxx69]

I don't understand the post......
You cannot trust anyone you don't know.
At what point do you need trust? You are surely only looking for fun (hopefully, mutual fun)
This is a murky business....in 99.99% of cases, the whole scenario is built on lies and deceit....by both us and them.

The only trust you need is that they are not gonna deliberately give you HIV....other than that you should not put yourself in a position where they can hurt you by compromising your privacy.
IE - I don't take any ID on a punt. I only take the cash I need for the punt....and my cheap 'naughty' punting phone has a password lock on so they can't get any info from it while I am in the shower.

Mostly they are creating a sexy illusion for us, for which we pay.....that is all. For me, it is a treat...a fantasy world I can escape to every now and then. I love it, and I have had a great time with nearly all the girls I have seen.....I didn't need to trust them.
As Smiths often says...it's a risk and reward situation

It is, and should be, NSA sexy fun.......not a question of trust.

[billfoster]

I trust them not to go through my trouser pockets whilst I'm in the shower.

I have left my smart phone, driving licence, credit cards etc in my coat pocket in the bedroom when I go for a shower.  Probably not sensible, because I have wondered if the WG might've gone thru my pockets.

I suppose the answer is to bring as little as possible on a punt and always use a punting phone.
Never use your real name etc.

[Tony Montana]

Well call me a fluffy but I think you can trust them...

- You can trust them to turn up late or not at all.
- You can trust them to charge extra for basics
- You can trust them to not do everything in their likes list
- You can trust them to look 10 years older and 3 stone heavier than their profile
- You can trust them to be sullen, moody, unfriendly and a general waste of cash.

[Trenlover]

you cant trust women full stop. and definitely not prossies.

women ALWAYS lie to men, because they think men are stupid and they can get away with the lie. Doesnt matter if the woman is a prossie or your longstanding +10 yrs "faithful" gf/wife.

[wristjob]

I trust them not to bite my cock off while sucking it, and if I can do that I guess I could trust them with anything

[Sailormack]

I trust them not to bite my cock off while sucking it, and if I can do that I guess I could trust them with anything

I don't, and as such only punt pro$$ies wiv' no teef'

[vorian]

I trust them not to bite my cock off while sucking it, and if I can do that I guess I could trust them with anything

I think the biting off the cock service is normally classed as an extra.

[Gordo987]

I trust them not to bite my cock off while sucking it, and if I can do that I guess I could trust them with anything

No, it's not a matter of trust because that would really be biting off the hand that feeds them, killing to golden goose or whatever. But really, I enjoy the punter/prostitute situation. I love to fuck a good looking woman and I really don't want anything more than that from a punt.