Return meetings

[ik8133]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

[HarryZZ]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

I'm not sure if "appreciates" is the right choice of word, you build a rapport, you know what to expect from each other and I'm sure she knows there's plenty of choice and a return visit means you think she's good at her job, we all like that what ever we do.

I very rarely see the same girl twice but there is one that I have visited four times, a bit pricey but excellent service, the first time I returned I didn't mention I'd seen her before and she didn't say anything, they all see a lot of blokes, they won't remember them all, my third visit she remembered me and then on the fourth she made a big 'great to see you again' thing, it's an act, if she worked in Tesco she wouldn't give me a second look.

[Happyjose]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings? I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

Sometimes they do for a short period, but often then you start to notice the routine, and eventually complacency creeps in when they consider you an easy cash cow.

[Naughtyboyuk]

It’s tricky...when I have had a really brilliant first meeting the subsequent ones have usually struggled to live upto expectations....or perhaps the expectation that things will continuously get better !! 

Where it’s been a good solid, but not brilliant, first meet then return visits have tended to be solid as well.

What I have found is that if you get good service for 2 or 3 meets then you know she will be reliable going forward and I tend to keep her on my to visit again list.

[B4bcock]

Many WG's have had bad experiences with clients developing EAS and you often find they will distance themselves from you if you turn up too frequently.   It's a good idea to make a few comments which make them know you are only there for their body and service.

[Coriniumstud]

For me I would say yes as I’ve seen one wg 3 times and each time has been better,and I will probably go back again 

[OakTree]

I rarely go back nowadays as I've found if the first time is good, the second is often better but the third is crap. They've hooked you in and the foot is taken off the gas. That's what I've found anyway.

[CBPaul]

Sometimes they do for a short period, but often then you start to notice the routine, and eventually complacency creeps in when they consider you an easy cash cow.

Totally agree with this.

I've found 2nd and perhaps 3rd time are the best as they have got to know what you want and things are more relaxed. Things go down hill after that. I have only seen one prossie more than 3 times and stick to the rule that I'll only go back for a second visit if the first is very good, not in the hope that a so-so punt will improve.

[Slowjoe]

I've seen several a few times and if I've had a superb first visit experience, the second has never been as good. Never, expectations too high. Although some steady first visits have been as good the second time, it always goes downhill after third / fourth visit. Then they are done for me.

There is a thrill about seeing a WG for the first time, but the ease of knowing what to expect counts for a lot, as opportunites to punt holds me back and I want to reduce risk of a shit time.

[Malvolio]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

The big plus point for me in making a return visit is that I'll know exactly where I'm going - takes some of the hassle out of doing the journey.  I've not noticed services improving, but if they weren't good the first time round I wouldn't be making a return visit.

[smiths]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

Yes they can in my experience with good WGs, they will learn what I like and exactly how I like it.

[Pk44]

Agree with comments above. I’ve had some cracking 1st meetings, then when I’ve  returned it’s almost exactly the same & i realised it was just a routine. I’ve also had some regulars over the years who have been able to change it up on subsequent visits by attending to and developing the sort of stuff I’m into.

[bobby1973]

i have 4 regulars that i see when thing's are a bit quite
there's one i have been seeing for over 5 years
and see her 5/6 times a year
still great service and still get a nice surprise every now and then

you just never know 
year's ago i saw one wg a couple of times and she seemed really friendly
then asked me to lend her some money 
not seen her since

[Hobbit]

I have to disagree on this one. Many years ago I used to prefer having one regular and seeing them on a consistent basis, however, as I've gotten older I have found that after 2 or 3 visits I get bored quite easily and it is never as good as the first time. I think girls generally try hard to keep you happy the first time you visit them but once they know you are hooked, their performance tends to drop. Obviously, this does not apply to every hooker and certainly, the best hookers provide a consistent service day in and day out and therefore they tend to be very popular and do deserve it.

Also, the other reason could be that as we get older we tend to have a great deal of experience behind us and have tried pretty much most things and therefore the desire to increase the excitement with new girls can also be a factor.

[Foxtail17]

When I first stated punting regularly about 3 years ago I had one reg I saw monthly for about 6 months. I noticed that the service declined slightly in enthusiasm and timekeeping from her over this time. For example I would book 2 hours, arrive to find she could only do 90 mins, or was still out shopping when I arrived.
Then I discovered AW, UKP, UKE and my approached changed, realising there were many alternatives.
I just stopped seeing her, never heard from her, and have not looked back since.
I have only seen a couple of ladies more than once since then.

[NIK]

This is a recurring but important and relevant question.
You would think improvement in service would be expected on return visits, but in my experience that is seldom the case.
See my 21 rules of punting rule 6. (It's on here just search.)
As I say there a good girl is good from the off, but conversely service can decline over time.

I have never really noticed an improvement in service over repeated visits, the good ones have been consistent, whilst the poor don't get return visits. And I have certainly experienced several whose services have declined over time.
This could be owing to becoming jaded, complacent or being rip off merchants.
I saw two different girls several times who eventually told me I would be their last appointment as they were packing it in and moving abroad. Of course they could have been lying. However both showed a notable falling off of service on those last occasions.
These were both in the early 90's in my early days of punting when I was less experienced, so maybe weren't actually as good as I thought in the first place.

[king tarzan]

Should be professional great time 1st time ups
Simpletto.

[Hobbit]

This is a recurring but important and relevant question.
You would think improvement in service would be expected on return visits, but in my experience that is seldom the case.
See my 21 rules of punting rule 6. (It's on here just search.)
As I say there a good girl is good from the off, but conversely service can decline over time.

I have never really noticed an improvement in service over repeated visits, the good ones have been consistent, whilst the poor don't get return visits. And I have certainly experienced several whose services have declined over time.
This could be owing to becoming jaded, complacent or being rip off merchants.
I saw two different girls several times who eventually told me I would be their last appointment as they were packing it in and moving abroad. Of course they could have been lying. However both showed a notable falling off of service on those last occasions.
These were both in the early 90's in my early days of punting when I was less experienced, so maybe weren't actually as good as I thought in the first place.

It also applies to SA girls. In the beginning, they are very enthusiastic, engaging and passionate. You kind of feel you found someone that you will see for a significant amount of time but after a few visits, it quickly goes downhill. Their performance degrades, they are less enthusiastic, less engaging and the passion remains a semblance of a vague memory. It kind of almost feels like being in a marriage. 

[Marmalade]

This is a recurring but important and relevant question.
You would think improvement in service would be expected on return visits, but in my experience that is seldom the case.
See my 21 rules of punting rule 6. (It's on here just search.)
As I say there a good girl is good from the off, but conversely service can decline over time.

I have never really noticed an improvement in service over repeated visits, the good ones have been consistent, whilst the poor don't get return visits. And I have certainly experienced several whose services have declined over time.
This could be owing to becoming jaded, complacent or being rip off merchants.
I saw two different girls several times who eventually told me I would be their last appointment as they were packing it in and moving abroad. Of course they could have been lying. However both showed a notable falling off of service on those last occasions.
These were both in the early 90's in my early days of punting when I was less experienced, so maybe weren't actually as good as I thought in the first place.

I think that’s indeed more commonly the case. The exceptions might be she gets to know a regular and relaxed enough for kinkier stuff with him.

To give a couple of examples that come to mind:
cute young girl shagged abroad, good enthusiastic service, mamasan calls time and prοssie ignores her, gets two more positions and screams she loves me as she (probably) has a wee orgiasmo to herself. Saw her again shortly afterwards and the service was basically crap.

2 A regular, fairly hot, gets to the point where she’s making me tapes of her favourite bands and stuff, the sort of stuff that boils the brains of newbie punters. The advantage was that arrangements could be fairly casual, ringing her up to see if she was free. But this ‘friend’ stuff is of course crap with a double fart. She mentions she’s having a (civvie) party and is on the point of inviting me then realised how out of place I’d look among 20yr old dope smokers. But we invent these fantasies, sometimes with the hooker’s participation, to make the service seem more personal and satisfying.

Of course it’s no better than it might be in our heads. In black and white terms the service often deteriorated coz she feels it’s a sure thing and doesn’t have to make an effort.

I can’t think of a single regular whose vanilla service hasn’t declined in such a manner. Plus the genuine surprise of the new, however much we might kid ourselves, is gone. The fantasy she build starts to crack very quickly. She gets bored with it.

[ShadowProclamation]

Try some other things on the SP's enjoys list, if you return. Or some different positions. Stops you both becoming predictable.

[4xvx]

Sometimes they do for a short period, but often then you start to notice the routine, and eventually complacency creeps in when they consider you an easy cash cow.

So true enjoy then move on

[MrMatrix]

I've had a couple of regulars but after 4-5 punts it seems to run out of steam a bit or they pack up. There comes a point where I feel comfortable and thats a nice feeling. However they will try and milk you as they are only interested in your money and dont kid yourself to think otherwise.

[munterhunter]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

I have 2 or 3 girls I see on a regular basis. In my case I enjoy my time with them the service hasn't declined in quality so I know what to expect. One even offers a £10 discount for return bookings. I also see the occasional new girl if one takes my fancy.

[NIK]

One of the girls I referred to in my previous post  on what was maybe our third meeting breathed sexily, 'You can have anything you want!' as she indulged in fake moaning. On the next and what would prove to be our final encounter, when I asked to give her ro, as I had done on all the other appointments, replied, 'We've been told not to do that anymore.' 
She didn't explain who had told them not to allow it or why. 
Maybe it was Harriet Harman's paid sex police?   
She then told me I would be her last client and she was going to live and work in Greece. Seems that was the reason for her sudden lack of enthusiasm rather than commands from the sex police. 

[mrbluerunner]

First meetings for me are usually the best as there is the heightened heartrate not knowing what's going to happen.  I have had a few girls where I did return visits and the benefit of knowing what you were going to get evened out the newness.  I did notice a small deterioration after the third visit - gave her up shortly afterwards (and she was bloody gorgeous).

Hands up that I just did a return visit as I wanted to avoid the drama of finding a new place and not knowing what was behind the door.

[rathbone]

Yes they can in my experience with good WGs, they will learn what I like and exactly how I like it.

+1. I think that's a big advantage with return visits, smart SP's will make an effort to remember a bit about you and what you like and more importantly don't like.  Of course you don't have the 'thrill of the new' but it depends on what you value more.

[JAYZ]

One agency told me the ladies have more respect for those punters who are regulars.

[OakTree]

One agency told me the ladies have more respect for those punters who are regulars.

Well they would say that wouldn't they. They're hardly going to tell you "Save your money mate, she thinks you're a loser with a tiny dick". Not saying your'e either of those things but you get my drift .

[Ali Katt]

I don't see the same girl twice in quick succession. I have done and boredom sets in quickly, and that works two ways.

I like a bit of breathing space, there's girls I'm planning on seeing again as we have unfinished business. I'm not the most prolific punter and can't fuck an escort every week I need to be in the right headspace.

[smiths]

+1. I think that's a big advantage with return visits, smart SP's will make an effort to remember a bit about you and what you like and more importantly don't like.  Of course you don't have the 'thrill of the new' but it depends on what you value more.

Indeed, and in my case they would have to have amnesia to forget me that quick because when I find a good regular I may punt with her 3-4 times a week initially, I fill my boots while I can and while I feel like it. And consequently may get bored with the reg quicker.

I can and sometimes do do both, see regs and also punt with newbie WGs to me, plus regs are my backup if newbies fuck me over.

[whoya.kiddin]

Indeed, and in my case they would have to have amnesia to forget me that quick because when I find a good regular I may punt with her 3-4 times a week initially, I fill my boots while I can and while I feel like it. And consequently may get bored with the reg quicker.

I can and sometimes do do both, see regs and also punt with newbie WGs to me, plus regs are my backup if newbies fuck me over.

THis is a big thing for me as a good regular increases my willingness to pass if a new prospect fucks me around at the qualifying stage.  As an example of this yesterday were the couple of SP's that I had not booked before....
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...who wanted me to book without first confirming CIM was inclusive.  Both eventually reveal it is either an expensive extra (£30 in Karina's case) or they don't do CIM (Amelia) and both missed out on my cash as I went back to a regular.

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[smiths]

THis is a big thing for me as a good regular increases my willingness to pass if a new prospect fucks me around at the qualifying stage.  As an example of this yesterday were the couple of SP's that I had not booked before....
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...who wanted me to book without first confirming CIM was inclusive.  Both eventually reveal it is either an expensive extra (£30 in Karina's case) or they don't do CIM (Amelia) and both missed out on my cash as I went back to a regular.

Also check out the advert on this one ...External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only who tells me she does not do kissing or CIM despite having both included in the sub-heading!

I see that Amelia in fact has 4 recent reviews on here, and only 1 positive, I wouldn't of even bothered considering her after reading them.

[whoya.kiddin]

Yep my head was turned by talk of a nice little arse and good OWO but reading them now the warnings are all there in her reviews.

[felixhendrix]

Yep my head was turned by talk of a nice little arse and good OWO but reading them now the warnings are all there in her reviews.

Take some of those negative reviews on this site with a grain of salt... I saw a lovely lady yesterday she was one of my best experience's only to check here. And she was written about in the most disgusting way. I couldn't believe it..the admin couldn't see it was a revenge review

[Hobbit]

Take some of those negative reviews on this site with a grain of salt... I saw a lovely lady yesterday she was one of my best experience's only to check here. And she was written about in the most disgusting way. I couldn't believe it..the admin couldn't see it was a revenge review

It can be horses for courses sometimes but usually, multiple negatives speak for themselves regardless of how "disgusting" they are written.

[daviemac]

Take some of those negative reviews on this site with a grain of salt... I saw a lovely lady yesterday she was one of my best experience's only to check here. And she was written about in the most disgusting way. I couldn't believe it..the admin couldn't see it was a revenge review

Maybe you're just very, very easily pleased.   

Amazon are doing a good deal on metal polish at the minute. 

[django0700]

Do services generally get better/feel better when visiting the same WG for a second or more meetings?  I know it'll depend on the girl, but just wondering if she appreciates you more because you've returned for anther meeting and I suppose it'll be more relaxing for the punter as he'll know what to expect.

In my experience, familiarity breeds contempt.. and they start putting on airs, don't give it a 100% and one deluded girl thought I would pay her more since she thought I was a regular.....WG logic does not cease to amaze me.... 

[Punterperson1971]

2 regulars I see are completely different in person the one offered me a 15 minute booking for £10 less with no issues but I’d never push her to do it again,and the other it’s relaxed no rush pay for 30 mins stay longer she likes to experiment and I’m willing to do it to  a certain degree to let her and I still enjoy it every time I see her and never pushes me out door quick that’s why I like to see her sometimes it’s different every visit.
But I do like to do a toftt every so often just freshen things up.

[norwichfunseeker]

I think if you see a good one, and both enjoy its good to revisit, and the experience can get better, but that's not guaranteed.

I had a great punt with one tourer, but the subsequest one was quite vanilla in comparison.

One girl ive seen 3 times has given a great service every time, but is a tourer & popular so cant always book when she is my way.

Another one Ive seen 3 times, and am booked to see again to see soon. First two were at my hotel when working away, next one was a visit to her parlour, and my upcoming one is for different session to what ive had before. But I totally trust her, and having discussed the meeting, seems a good idea to mix things up. you have to build some trust and uderstanding though.

[cueball]

I rarely go back nowadays as I've found if the first time is good, the second is often better but the third is crap. They've hooked you in and the foot is taken off the gas. That's what I've found anyway.

I know what you mean but there's a good few I've seen a good number of times over the years.

If the service declines then that's the last visit for me too.

You're quite right though oaky, the third visit is the big one that lets you know if she's a true potential reg or just a lass you've podged a few times.

I'll say this to the op though.... Return visits are certainly easier, you've met, you've spoken and you both know the score. It's usually sorted in minutes by a couple of simple texts

[Cellular40]

“Appreciates” Subjective.

Values regular income? Yes.

I have a handful of regulars and it only gets better each time we meet, so yes, with some girls return meets tend to get better.

With others they impress on the first booking, then it goes downhill from there.

[xyfek]

I agree with what others have said, 3 seems to be the magic number after which you'll either decide she's a keeper or move on to greener pastures.

Granted, I'm not the most prolific of punters, so I can count on one hand the number of SPs I've seen more than 3 times. But I'll say this, for those few that tick all your boxes, there's a good reason why you keep going back. Return visits can be so intense and feel so real

[Davey Dykes]

As with this Game it very much depends on the girl/ woman in question.

I have a regular I've seen maybe a dozen times or more over the last best part of a year. Hasn't improved any but it's always a good meet and certainly hasn't got any less enthusiastic.

Does she care about me any? I'd doubt it but I couldn't give a fuck either way, we get on well and she certainly likes my coin.

[donjay]

I've been seeing a regular lady close to where I live on and off for more than a year and it's suddenly become pretty intense. It all started about eight weeks ago when I turned on my punting phone and noticed that she had tried to call me pretty late at night a week earlier. I missed the call because the phone was off - I only use it for punting. I thought it could be a bum call and I never mentioned it when I saw her next time. That was last Saturday. Then this Monday evening she texted me out of the blue asking "how are you?". Apart from the "bum" call, she's never contacted me before. So now I realised it hadn't been a bum call after all. By the way, she doesn't drink so this call and text message weren't sent in a drunken moment.

Her text led to some banter over and back and I went to see her that evening and had the best sex I've ever had with a WG - possibly with anyone in my life. Intense, erotic and intimate with lots of full on kissing and eye contact. I stayed around three hours chit chatting and left her the amount I'd normally pay for one hour. Shortly afterwards I get a text from her asking me why I'd left so much. We'd only fucked once so I suppose she thought I should just pay for half an hour. Anyway, I wound up going back to her again - by this time it was 1.30am - and again we had mind blowing sex with lots of eye contact and (what felt like) real intimacy. I didn't leave any money this time and she made it clear she didn't want me to.

I then went to see her again yesterday evening expecting more of the same but this time, while she was just as friendly and playful as before, she seemed to want to get things back to a more professional footing and it felt more like our previous meets. Not rushed at all but she made it clear that I should be on my way after we'd had sex and shared a cup of tea and a chat. But later she sent me several text messages wishing me "sweet dreams" etc...I've spent the last few days wondering wtf is going on with me and with her.

One thing I keep going over in my mind is that around three months ago - before all of this happened - I noticed her Adultwork profile had been taken down. It's still down. Also, I know she's a lot older than she claims. She's 50 but has a fantastic body and claims to be 34.... From what I've got to know about her, it's clear she doesn't have a lot of money and when I've asked to come to see her it's clear she doesn't have any other engagements because I can pick whatever time suits me. So she doesn't seem to have a lot of other regular punters and isn't advertising for more.

Anyway, I've been reading through this and other similar threads vaguely trying to work out what I think about the whole situation. I'm not stupid so am very well aware that she is a WG and no doubt has fucked several other men since our mind blowing encounter on Monday. Just thought I'd write this down on the off chance that some of you might have had a similar experience in the past and had any advice or observations to make.

PS One option I'm currently toying with is to get out and fuck some other WG pronto to get this out of my system.

[LLPunting]

I've been seeing a regular lady close to where I live on and off for more than a year and it's suddenly become pretty intense. It all started about eight weeks ago when I turned on my punting phone and noticed that she had tried to call me pretty late at night a week earlier. I missed the call because the phone was off - I only use it for punting. I thought it could be a bum call and I never mentioned it when I saw her next time. That was last Saturday. Then this Monday evening she texted me out of the blue asking "how are you?". Apart from the "bum" call, she's never contacted me before. So now I realised it hadn't been a bum call after all. By the way, she doesn't drink so this call and text message weren't sent in a drunken moment.

Her text led to some banter over and back and I went to see her that evening and had the best sex I've ever had with a WG - possibly with anyone in my life. Intense, erotic and intimate with lots of full on kissing and eye contact. I stayed around three hours chit chatting and left her the amount I'd normally pay for one hour. Shortly afterwards I get a text from her asking me why I'd left so much. We'd only fucked once so I suppose she thought I should just pay for half an hour. Anyway, I wound up going back to her again - by this time it was 1.30am - and again we had mind blowing sex with lots of eye contact and (what felt like) real intimacy. I didn't leave any money this time and she made it clear she didn't want me to.

I then went to see her again yesterday evening expecting more of the same but this time, while she was just as friendly and playful as before, she seemed to want to get things back to a more professional footing and it felt more like our previous meets. Not rushed at all but she made it clear that I should be on my way after we'd had sex and shared a cup of tea and a chat. But later she sent me several text messages wishing me "sweet dreams" etc...I've spent the last few days wondering wtf is going on with me and with her.

One thing I keep going over in my mind is that around three months ago - before all of this happened - I noticed her Adultwork profile had been taken down. It's still down. Also, I know she's a lot older than she claims. She's 50 but has a fantastic body and claims to be 34.... From what I've got to know about her, it's clear she doesn't have a lot of money and when I've asked to come to see her it's clear she doesn't have any other engagements because I can pick whatever time suits me. So she doesn't seem to have a lot of other regular punters and isn't advertising for more.

Anyway, I've been reading through this and other similar threads vaguely trying to work out what I think about the whole situation. I'm not stupid so am very well aware that she is a WG and no doubt has fucked several other men since our mind blowing encounter on Monday. Just thought I'd write this down on the off chance that some of you might have had a similar experience in the past and had any advice or observations to make.

PS One option I'm currently toying with is to get out and fuck some other WG pronto to get this out of my system.

Telling us who the lady is would mean that you possibly get very apposite feedback from other former customers with experience of her behaviour.