Close shave with blackmail - use a punting phone

[distancetravel20]

I’m quite careful to use punting phones, but I recently let my guard down and gave my number out to an agency escort in order to make a direct booking

I made the booking once and all was good.  The girl then went back home and I didn’t hear much else. 

A month or so later she whatsapps me from another phone and starts chatting.  She then drops out details about my recent travels and my personal life.  She knew she was playing with me by talking about all of this.  I was half expecting an incoming blackmail attempt.

After scratching my head for a while, I think she found me via Instagram find friends.  This is linked to my number and gives my full name and has direct links to family and work colleagues a click or two away.

I’ve now cleaned all of this up and all has been quiet for a few months, but the damage she could have done would have been massive. 

Public service announcement - use a punting phone and be triple careful with online privacy!

[Sureshot]

Dont leave home without it!

All the links are there between whatsapp, facebook, instagram, snap chat etc.  Not worth the hassle for the sake of a emptying your balls in a 2 bit whore

[distancetravel20]

WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram are all owned by Facebook
So WhatsApp a hooker and your family and work colleagues on Facebook are linked by a single database and Facebook probably start to prompt them to connect
Really doesn’t bare thinking about

[Happyjose]

You should name her and the agency to prevent this happening again

[winkywanky]

The Facebook thing occurred to me recently, you can go into your FB settings now and 'unlink' your phone number to stop prying eyes joining the dots.

[Strawberry]

You should name her and the agency to prevent this happening again

It's very unprofessional and completely out of order, punting phone or private phone.

[Avg_Joe]

Public service announcement - use a punting phone and be triple careful with online privacy!

and stop linking twatter, arsebook, instafool and all the other fucking spyware dressed up as social media, to your name, job, home address and anything else.

before using any of those things, ask yourself one question.... does this need to be posted online, the answer 99.9% of the time is fucking NO, however, people will never learn

[Hobbit]

Don’t use social media at all.  I don’t use it at all, not only is it a waste of time but a complete minefield and a risk to your personal life.  These girls are dangerous, never trust them. Many years ago, I was also blackmailed and it was the worst three months of my life. Never again! .

[distancetravel20]

Don’t use social media at all.  I don’t use it at all, not only is it a waste of time but a complete minefield and a risk to your personal life.  These girls are dangerous, never trust them. Many years ago, I was also blackmailed and it was the worst three months of my life. Never again! .

Care to share the story, for no other reason than me being nosey?

[Hobbit]

Care to share the story, for no other reason than me being nosey?

Not really.  Let’s just put it this way, she had personal information which she tried to use to get money out of me.  That’s why I say, you should never trust them.

[distancetravel20]

You should name her and the agency to prevent this happening again

I would rather not stir it up again if that’s OK
Plus she didn’t actually blackmail me but I left myself exposed
Plus she has gone home never to return
Plus I can’t remember her punting name

Hopefully others can learn from my stupidity though!

[bigmc]

Simple solution, don't have fb / instagram ect accounts. I`m not on any of them and I manage fine.
Forgive my ignorance, but could this not work the other way too ?. If she started on you, whats to stop you doing the same thing back to her  ? I would have thought wg`s would have more to lose if families ect found out about them.

[Dipper]

and stop linking twatter, arsebook, instafool and all the other fucking spyware dressed up as social media, to your name, job, home address and anything else.

before using any of those things, ask yourself one question.... does this need to be posted online, the answer 99.9% of the time is fucking NO, however, people will never learn

Precisely this. 

[Strawberry]

Simple solution, don't have fb / instagram ect accounts. I`m not on any of them and I manage fine.
Forgive my ignorance, but could this not work the other way too ?. If she started on you, whats to stop you doing the same thing back to her  ? I would have thought wg`s would have more to lose if families ect found out about them.

It does work the other way, sometimes the SP uses a personal number, and or punters put other clues together. Not unheard of to be approached in other life guises, including social media even without providing personal contact details or have punters pop up elsewhere wondering if it's appropriate.

Sometimes they are married, have families and so I think they just don't think perhaps?

But it could be said to be an occupational hazard/risk to be managed, however a customer shouldn't have to because he pays to walk away, he pays for no strings and discretion is expected.

[Strawberry]

It does work the other way, sometimes the SP uses a personal number, and or punters put other clues together. Not unheard of to be approached in other life guises, including social media even without providing personal contact details or have punters pop up elsewhere wondering if it's appropriate. I've also had a couple of punters/former clients approach me in public.

Sometimes they are married, have families and so I think they just don't think perhaps?

But it could be said to be an occupational hazard/risk to be managed, however a customer shouldn't have to because he pays to walk away, he pays for no strings and discretion is expected.

Sorry quoted myself instead of editing.

Occasionally I've been contacted by people claiming to know me in real life, sometimes if I can't see them they'll keep mentioning it.........other times it's just random emails, text messages asking, or telling me where they've seen me or know me from.

As above a mixture of not thinking, and of course those who might try a bit of leverage.

[Jaytor]

I had a fucking whore try and add me to her linkedin profile, she was one of these hippy birds who does Tantra and thinks it’s a normal job (Don’t think my Mrs would agree) she has a professional profile on there and tries to add her punters. She found me by name. Since then it’s all false names and emails only from a fake email account. I don’t want these slags knowing anything about me, all they need to know is that I’m there to unload my nuts on they’re face and that’s it.

[A Decent Fist]

I don’t want these slags knowing anything about me, all they need to know is that I’m there to unload my nuts on they’re [SIC] face and that’s it.

Been a good while since I've noticed one of this forum's vicious misogynists unloading his bile in public but this post shows that they haven't gone away.

[winkywanky]

...yes, and I wasn't aware unloading jizz on a provider's face was part of the Tantric ritual?   

[Jaytor]

Been a good while since I've noticed one of this forum's vicious misogynists unloading his bile in public but this post shows that they haven't gone away.

😂 I don’t hate women at all, but I do pay them to do what I want, if that includes spunking on they’re face then so be it.
I don’t know what forum your looking at but the one I’m looking at is for guys who pay to fuck women! If you think your any better than me then you should take a good look in the mirror.

[Jaytor]

...yes, and I wasn't aware unloading jizz on a provider's face was part of the Tantric ritual?   

They may claim it’s Tantra but at the end of the day they are just another WG and they will do anything for money.

[Jonestown]

They may claim it’s Tantra but at the end of the day they are just another WG and they will do anything for money.

Well, no a lot of them wont.

[Happyjose]

😂 I don’t hate women at all

The problem is, we don't believe you

fucking whore 

these slags

I think my cock would shrivel up inside me if it was faced with that fucking mousse

Would that be you giving her her just desserts (sic)?

 

[Brumish]

I’m quite careful to use punting phones, but I recently let my guard down and gave my number out to an agency escort in order to make a direct booking

I made the booking once and all was good.  The girl then went back home and I didn’t hear much else. 

A month or so later she whatsapps me from another phone and starts chatting.  She then drops out details about my recent travels and my personal life.  She knew she was playing with me by talking about all of this.  I was half expecting an incoming blackmail attempt.

After scratching my head for a while, I think she found me via Instagram find friends.  This is linked to my number and gives my full name and has direct links to family and work colleagues a click or two away.

I’ve now cleaned all of this up and all has been quiet for a few months, but the damage she could have done would have been massive. 

Public service announcement - use a punting phone and be triple careful with online privacy!

Name the girl or at least provide the vital details. If you feel she potentially violated your ‘space’ then, irrespective of whether it was your personal or punting phone, she could pose a danger to others.

[A Decent Fist]

I don’t know what forum your looking at but the one I’m looking at is for guys who pay to fuck women! If you think your any better than me then you should take a good look in the mirror.

Thanks for the advice. I just looked and I saw a tall grey-haired guy who pays to fuck women and sometimes trannies, too. But I'd never call any of them "these slags". Or "a fucking whore". Because I'm not a misogynist.

[Jaytor]

I’m leaving this thread before I get in trouble, it’s full of fucking lesbians!

[wylie anchor]

I’m leaving this thread before I get in trouble, it’s full of fucking lesbians!

If I googled misogynist images, would I find a picture of Jaytor? 

[Jaytor]

Thanks for the advice. I just looked and I saw a tall grey-haired guy who pays to fuck women and sometimes trannies, too. But I'd never call any of them "these slags". Or "a fucking whore". Because I'm not a misogynist.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=184136.0
This review suggests otherwise, I quote

“I also decided I was in the mood for a cheap EE skank”

“an evil, ugly died-blonde short-arsed troll wrapped in a towel came out of the shower”

I can’t be assed to go through them all but this suggests your not you have misogynistic views yourself.

The review about you fucking a trannie while you were wearing a dress made me laugh, it’s nice that people like you have such high regard for the workers 😂 I’m sure his mum would have been very proud to see that

[coolkid05]

I've probably been naive to use the same phone for everything. However, I have all my social media accounts set to private. I guess it's still not wise though.

It does indeed work the other way too. Not that I ever would share her information, but a year or two ago, a SP that I used to see regularly in London popped up on my 'friends you may know' on Facebook. She has lots of pics of herself, her husband and her young son on there. None of her setting are set to private. She's also putting her friend at risk, because she's an escort too - and she's on her friends list. However, her friend does have all her settings set to private.

It's all rather scary stuff. Big Brother is indeed watching us. 

[getsbettereverytime]

if you use your own phone you open yourself up to being ID'd through even just google, get a throw away sim/phone or invest in one of those double sim card phones and use that extra sim only when you need it.

[hawkzville]

I’m quite careful to use punting phones, but I recently let my guard down and gave my number out to an agency escort in order to make a direct booking

I made the booking once and all was good.  The girl then went back home and I didn’t hear much else. 

A month or so later she whatsapps me from another phone and starts chatting.  She then drops out details about my recent travels and my personal life.  She knew she was playing with me by talking about all of this.  I was half expecting an incoming blackmail attempt.

After scratching my head for a while, I think she found me via Instagram find friends.  This is linked to my number and gives my full name and has direct links to family and work colleagues a click or two away.

I’ve now cleaned all of this up and all has been quiet for a few months, but the damage she could have done would have been massive. 





Well done you on managing to avoid a catastrophe; indeed we all need to take care as it's so easy to let the dick-rule-the-brain.

I am not big on social media, never have been but then it may be because I'm just an old git - however, I was caught out by being a pilchard and not having a punting phone.

Long story short; I made a booking with an agency girl using my *real* mobile, only to have to cancel it at short notice - the agency were pissed off, saying I'd wasted their time, wasted a booking opportunity for the girl etc, naturally I apologised profusely then promptly forgot about it. Anyhow, next morning, go into work, the main office answerphone is blinking away (this was about 15-years ago now) and lo and behold it was a message from the agency addressed to my boss saying (1) did they know I was a whore fucker and (2) did they know I was unreliable and cancelled meetings at short notice?

Luckily for me, I was first in the office, so deleted the message then sent a shitty message to the agency as to how they'd got me in a pile of trouble by leaving the message, that I'd never use them again etc - I then spent the rest of the week panicing everytime the phone went in case it was them trying to get hold of my boss again - but i never heard from them again, so thankfully i got away with it - but it could so easily have been a different outcome had someone else got to the answerphone first.

I can only assume that they picked up my office number by googling my mobile number as the firm that i worked for at the time had profiles of us all on their website, with mobile number etc.

Hence GET-A-PUNTING-PHONE and keep it clear of everything non-punt related!

[A Decent Fist]

The review about you fucking a trannie while you were wearing a dress made me laugh, it’s nice that people like you have such high regard for the workers

I’m sure his mum would have been very proud to see that

Whose mum — the tranny's or mine? You switched in mid-flow from the second person (you) to third (he), which is terribly confusing. If English is your second language, then you're doing brilliantly. Much better than my intermediate French. If it's your first, then your old school should be put in special measures.

Oh and by the way, you may have missed the review where I was fucked up the arse by a guy while I was wearing a dress and a wig and stockings and licking a girl's pussy. Sex is truly a many-splendoured thing.

As it happens, my own dear mum is still going strong in her mid-80s and would no more enjoy knowing the details of my adventurous sex life than your mum would of yours.

Finally, my own derogatory comments about SPs were a specific reaction to appalling behaviour, not a generalised "these slags". I've met a few grasping rip-off merchants over the years, but I've met many more admirable and thoughtful escorts who go beyond the professional necessities to give their clients a good time. They deserve some respect.

[dron16]

Go onto Facebook/Snapchat/WhatsApp etc settings and make sure people can’t search your profile through your phone number. Job done.

[Jaytor]

Whose mum — the tranny's or mine? You switched in mid-flow from the second person (you) to third (he), which is terribly confusing. If English is your second language, then you're doing brilliantly. Much better than my intermediate French. If it's your first, then your old school should be put in special measures.

Oh and by the way, you may have missed the review where I was fucked up the arse by a guy while I was wearing a dress and a wig and stockings and licking a girl's pussy. Sex is truly a many-splendoured thing.

As it happens, my own dear mum is still going strong in her mid-80s and would no more enjoy knowing the details of my adventurous sex life than your mum would of yours.

Finally, my own derogatory comments about SPs were a specific reaction to appalling behaviour, not a generalised "these slags". I've met a few grasping rip-off merchants over the years, but I've met many more admirable and thoughtful escorts who go beyond the professional necessities to give their clients a good time. They deserve some respect.

I’m afraid I have to admit that English is my first language, and I’m sad to say that my old school has long since been demolished, probably for the reasons you suggest 😂

However having read my line back it seems fairly clear that I’m talking about the Trannies mum, you know the guy you so respectfully paid £100 to, so that you could spend an hour lovingly hanging out the back of him.
Don’t try and fluff this up to be something it isn’t. Your not some wonderful guy making love to other wonderful appreciative people! Your an old dude with sexual fantasies out of the ordinary, ones that normal women and men would look at in shock, therefore you prey on less fortunate people in our society, people who probably aren’t able to earn the kind of money we earn unless they take this line of work. I’m sure they don’t wake up beaming with delight at the prospect of spending an hour or 2 with you, or me for that matter, although my very vanilla requests are probably a lot more palatable than your depraved ideas. Its just a job to them. Regardless of what you say, I don’t believe you have anymore respect for these people than me.

[winkywanky]

I’m leaving this thread before I get in trouble, it’s full of fucking lesbians!

No, this thread is full of blokes who like paying women for sex, apart from one who apparently likes paying them to exhibit his hate and loathing of them (ie you) 

[Happyjose]

therefore you prey on less fortunate people in our society,

Interesting opinion of fellow punters

[Jaytor]

No, this thread is full of blokes who like paying women for sex, apart from one who apparently likes paying them to exhibit his hate and loathing of them (ie you) 

No it’s not, there’s at least one on here who likes paying blokes for sex, I’m not against it but clearly your statement is wrong.

[Jaytor]

Interesting opinion of fellow punters
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[Jaytor]

Interesting opinion of fellow punters

And I suppose you believe most of these girls given the option of being a lawyer, pilot or WG would choose to get fucked by sweaty, fat old guys over a decent career? I hate to break this to you, but those girls you fuck and let yourself believe they really like you actually probably can’t stand you and can’t wait to scrub after fucking you, that’s life and that’s the reality.
This game is also full of trafficked girls and unwilling partners so don’t try and make it something it’s not. It’s the sex trade and it’s full of less fortunate people.
If you read my reviews you will see I’m very nice when talking about the girls and I treat them well during the meet.
The post o mine that refers to a pic someone put up of a complete munter was just idle chat, i said she was a moose and she truly is, I stand by that.

[tesla]

I’m afraid I have to admit that English is my first language, and I’m sad to say that my old school has long since been demolished, probably for the reasons you suggest 😂

However having read my line back it seems fairly clear that I’m talking about the Trannies mum, you know the guy you so respectfully paid £100 to, so that you could spend an hour lovingly hanging out the back of him.
Don’t try and fluff this up to be something it isn’t. Your not some wonderful guy making love to other wonderful appreciative people! Your an old dude with sexual fantasies out of the ordinary, ones that normal women and men would look at in shock, therefore you prey on less fortunate people in our society, people who probably aren’t able to earn the kind of money we earn unless they take this line of work. I’m sure they don’t wake up beaming with delight at the prospect of spending an hour or 2 with you, or me for that matter, although my very vanilla requests are probably a lot more palatable than your depraved ideas. Its just a job to them. Regardless of what you say, I don’t believe you have anymore respect for these people than me.

why don't you stop shaming other people kink, what ever floats your boat, don't judge! its not depraved it's just different to what you like.
 Oh and by the way slag and whores are people too who most of get on with and respect their life choices

[Gordon Bennett]

It cuts both ways..... I have all the main social media apps on my punting phone. Phone bought for cash and topped up with cash using fake name/address. All the social media stuff is in same fake name. Anyway, what surprises me is now many escorts pop up in these apps once I shove their phone number in my contacts. I'd assumed they all use an Escorting Phone but about 3 out of 10 seem to use their main phone and hence I get to see their social media, real name, family etc. It's very lax of them but I have no interest in playing silly buggers or outing them but I can't pretend it's not useful to see some pics or info that reveals their true figure or age.

[A Decent Fist]

Gosh. He’s been banned as a troll. I thought we were just having a lively and passionately argued debate. But so be it.

[niftyfiftydave]

Gosh. He’s been banned as a troll. I thought we were just having a lively and passionately argued debate. But so be it.

Lol, the new admin and moderators really do have itchy trigger fingers, saw one who logged another account and asked about  not being able to log in to his first as well as a few other posts. Banned for multiple accounts, he was not hiding the fact lol, i think his first got mopped up in the not used for a while and deleted category.

Locking horns is going to happen on a forum filled with red bloodied horny males and this fella said he was leaving the thread before he got in trouble, then banned lol. the itchy trigger finger again?

Should there not be guidelines and a list of reasons for getting banned, not just upsetting or disagreeing with the wrong person?

[LoneWolf2020]

Whose mum — the tranny's or mine? You switched in mid-flow from the second person (you) to third (he), which is terribly confusing. If English is your second language, then you're doing brilliantly. Much better than my intermediate French. If it's your first, then your old school should be put in special measures.

Oh and by the way, you may have missed the review where I was fucked up the arse by a guy while I was wearing a dress and a wig and stockings and licking a girl's pussy. Sex is truly a many-splendoured thing.

As it happens, my own dear mum is still going strong in her mid-80s and would no more enjoy knowing the details of my adventurous sex life than your mum would of yours.

Finally, my own derogatory comments about SPs were a specific reaction to appalling behaviour, not a generalised "these slags". I've met a few grasping rip-off merchants over the years, but I've met many more admirable and thoughtful escorts who go beyond the professional necessities to give their clients a good time. They deserve some respect.

The last bit, not too hot at highlighting quotes but just to say you're quite right sir. Met many women over the years in this game, sure there are skanks that we must beware of but not to forget there is more good than bad and most work their butts off to give you value for money and that is when escorting, in my opinion becomes an honest living.

[Happyjose]

Lol, the new admin and moderators really do have itchy trigger fingers, saw one who logged another account and asked about  not being able to log in to his first as well as a few other posts. Banned for multiple accounts, he was not hiding the fact lol, i think his first got mopped up in the not used for a while and deleted category.

Locking horns is going to happen on a forum filled with red bloodied horny males and this fella said he was leaving the thread before he got in trouble, then banned lol. the itchy trigger finger again?

Should there not be guidelines and a list of reasons for getting banned, not just upsetting or disagreeing with the wrong person?

The action of our mod here was entirely consistent with the ethos of the forum. The posts of the banned member clearly were not. Simple really

As for your criticism of the new owners and mods in general, we should all remember that the forum would have closed if they had not stepped in. They are currently struggling with aspects of the changeover and we should all cut them some slack while they get a grip on things.

Well done on getting the most ‘lol’s’ in a post today. How old are you?

[daviemac]

Lol, the new admin and moderators really do have itchy trigger fingers, saw one who logged another account and asked about  not being able to log in to his first as well as a few other posts. Banned for multiple accounts, he was not hiding the fact lol, i think his first got mopped up in the not used for a while and deleted category.

Locking horns is going to happen on a forum filled with red bloodied horny males and this fella said he was leaving the thread before he got in trouble, then banned lol. the itchy trigger finger again?

Should there not be guidelines and a list of reasons for getting banned, not just upsetting or disagreeing with the wrong person?

Head1 doesn't have to explain his actions to you, suffice to say you have no idea what you're talking about. Best not to pass comment without having all the facts.

[Beamer]

Lol, the new admin and moderators really do have itchy trigger fingers, saw one who logged another account and asked about  not being able to log in to his first as well as a few other posts. Banned for multiple accounts, he was not hiding the fact lol, i think his first got mopped up in the not used for a while and deleted category.

Locking horns is going to happen on a forum filled with red bloodied horny males and this fella said he was leaving the thread before he got in trouble, then banned lol. the itchy trigger finger again?

Should there not be guidelines and a list of reasons for getting banned, not just upsetting or disagreeing with the wrong person?

This is BLX

[Avg_Joe]

the only thing i would have done different with regards to admin actions here would have been to lock the thread, the OP has had pretty much all variations of the advice he's likely to get, and the thread has deviated so far from the original topic it's now just annoying to see it pop up in my "new replies" list whenever someone has a pop at someone else !

[Prof O lactic]

At the risk of daring to refer to the Original Post ( I do only have 1 phone myself though)
 VERY recently during a fbsm , the wgs phone kept buzzing so I told her to answer it as I needed a slash anyway. A loud screeching noise eminated from her phone and she asked me " what say ?" And proferred the mobile towards me.
A very angry lady was demanding if Ally was there at massage ? I said wrong number an hung up.
So I guess someone didnt use a punting phone and partner had seen messages ?   
I think probably likey an Ali rather than Ally actually as lady didnt sound local. 

[Happyhappy1]

Hiding a phone could get a bit messy for those who are in a relationship so I bought a punting sim instead.
The worry I have is if my phone links my 2 sims together and I can be traced that way?

[myothernameis]

Public service announcement - use a punting phone and be triple careful with online privacy!

Probably been brought up before, smart phones that end up tracking where you have been, but has anyone checked Google maps

Top left hand of google, select the menu, and look under your time line, now if your phone is tied to your google account, all your tracking details will appear here, and will show you where you have been

Now it might not mention the escorts address, and it not looking for it, but the shop next to the escort, tesco's will show up