Just can’t bring myself to do that big purge though!
Like you I cant bring myself to do the purge.
Burgeoning HLs here too. Not a problem but could do a;
'Search, Members, That are in my Hotlist, then choose the 'Last Modified Date' radio button
then go the end of the list and nuke one or two that haven't logged in for months on end.
Trouble is, if their really horny, you think 'what if they come back' ?? I'll just leave em a little longer cos you never know..