WG's with an ego ?

[Trenlover]

I think ive noticed a bit of an ego developing in my regular that I see. A few months ago when she wasn't getting alot of business and I was a high % of her income, our encounters felt alot more intimate and personal.

But now it seems because she has been getting alot of business things have "changed" between us. For example she now insists I stop using her real name and use her fake WG name when I speak to her. Also she always use to let me stay for 15-20mins extra but these days im rushed out 5-10mins early.

Basically the encounters are much more "business" now instead of something like GFE that im looking for, and I can sense a real ego developing in her. Shes also had ALOT of positive feedback on AW recently too.

"im a famous and highly demanded service provider, and YOUR just another douche" I think sums up the vibe of our meetings now.

I suppose when you have tons of guys showering you with money and compliments it goes to your head.

[GrumpyoldGit]

Maybe she is getting worried about becoming too close to you.
Find another and move on mate.

[Louise 100% British]

Maybe she is getting worried about becoming too close to you.
Find another and move on mate.

Or the other way round....
Maybe she is finding him becoming to attached so is trying to distance herself.

[James999]

She just see's you as a soft touch and is milking you, ditche her 

[finn5555]

Pro$$ies just see us as cash cows nothing more nothing less   

I suggest you move on 

[Curious6705]

Maybe she is getting worried about becoming too close to you.
Find another and move on mate.

Move on. 

[Jvosta]

I know this feeling,  It's like she's changed overnight I don't recognise her anymore. Maybe it's good that I've come to realise I mean nothing to her - im looking for a new regular now

[vorian]

I think ive noticed a bit of an ego developing in my regular that I see. A few months ago when she wasn't getting alot of business and I was a high % of her income, our encounters felt alot more intimate and personal.

But now it seems because she has been getting alot of business things have "changed" between us. For example she now insists I stop using her real name and use her fake WG name when I speak to her. Also she always use to let me stay for 15-20mins extra but these days im rushed out 5-10mins early.

Basically the encounters are much more "business" now instead of something like GFE that im looking for, and I can sense a real ego developing in her. Shes also had ALOT of positive feedback on AW recently too.

"im a famous and highly demanded service provider, and YOUR just another douche" I think sums up the vibe of our meetings now.

I suppose when you have tons of guys showering you with money and compliments it goes to your head.

You say she has had a lot of good feedback may I request you post her AW link, be interesting to see how she has developed and if she has any UKP reviews.

[sarahjayneleeds]

But now it seems because she has been getting alot of business things have "changed" between us. For example she now insists I stop using her real name and use her fake WG name when I speak to her. Also she always use to let me stay for 15-20mins extra but these days im rushed out 5-10mins early.

In the past when she was less busy maybe it was OK for you to stay longer as she had no other bookings. If she is rushing you out early now though that is unacceptable so I agree you should move on.

[SirFrank]

The dynamics have clearly changed. I don't think she wants to distance herself because she's getting too close I suspect it's the opposite - ie, she wants a more formal business like arrangement. I'd start looking elsewhere if I were you. The minute she starts thinking her shit doesn't smell it's time to get the fuck out of dodge

[Hellraiser]

Or the other way round....
Maybe she is finding him becoming to attached so is trying to distance herself.

I agree with Louise here.

OP, you must realise a prostitute is nothing more than a chunk of meat that you rent for an hour. A spunk bucket.

You got too close, now she wants you to step back. Wouldn't be surprised if she eventually she refuses to see you.

On-topic, this is another WG with a massive ego: External Link/Members Only

"The Rolls Royce of Adult Service Providers"?? More like a used car that barely runs in a fucking scrapyard. Loves her self too much. Entire profile is one self-indulgent love feast.

[smiths]

I think ive noticed a bit of an ego developing in my regular that I see. A few months ago when she wasn't getting alot of business and I was a high % of her income, our encounters felt alot more intimate and personal.

But now it seems because she has been getting alot of business things have "changed" between us. For example she now insists I stop using her real name and use her fake WG name when I speak to her. Also she always use to let me stay for 15-20mins extra but these days im rushed out 5-10mins early.

Basically the encounters are much more "business" now instead of something like GFE that im looking for, and I can sense a real ego developing in her. Shes also had ALOT of positive feedback on AW recently too.

"im a famous and highly demanded service provider, and YOUR just another douche" I think sums up the vibe of our meetings now.

I suppose when you have tons of guys showering you with money and compliments it goes to your head.

I would be going elsewhere as she would no longer have the attitude i require.

The fact is there can be a downside to WGs getting loads of great reviews and great feedback that i have experienced myself, they can become harder to book and/or put their rates up to cash in while they can, including on ocassion putting my rate up as well. I wont pay a higher rate to a WG who was a regular as i see that as pisstaking. Most have kept me on the old rate which i see as smart though.

[smiths]

Pro$$ies just see us as cash cows nothing more nothing less   

I suggest you move on 

I still dont get it when punters post this. What else would a WG see punters as. My builder wants my money as do all people i do business with, i have no illusions there are any other reasons so why would a WG be any different.

[finn5555]

I still dont get it when punters post this. What else would a WG see punters as. My builder wants my money as do all people i do business with, i have no illusions there are any other reasons so why would a WG be any different.

The point I'm making is they are in it for the money and rightly so I am not suggesting that's wrong

[Hellraiser]

I still dont get it when punters post this. What else would a WG see punters as.

It's more a reminder to punters too. Some punters feel as if they made a 'connection' with a prossie, that somehow she sees him as special and different to the hundreds of dicks that she takes in a month.

I feel it's important for the emotionally vulnerable/lonely/deluded punters out there to be reminded of this and to know their place.

[SirFrank]

On-topic, this is another WG with a massive ego: External Link/Members Only

"The Rolls Royce of Adult Service Providers"?? More like a used car that barely runs in a fucking scrapyard. Loves her self too much. Entire profile is one self-indulgent love feast.

She sounds a right cunt. I also like the I started here to pay my way through Uni. She's now realised her degree won't result in a job that pays anything like getting fucked. I always find such self indulgent shit totally off putting. She clearly loves herself. I imagine every day starts off with her looking at herself in the mirror while You're so vain blasts out of her CD player. Odious bitch can go fuck her own face

[smiths]

The point I'm making is they are in it for the money and rightly so I am not suggesting that's wrong

Yes, i suppose its worth advising punters who might think there might be more to it than just the money know there isnt likely to be. Some WGs are very good actresses and have a lot of punters to perfect the act on. Doesnt bother me if it might be genuine or an act as long as i get good service.

[Hellraiser]

She sounds a right cunt. I also like the I started here to pay my way through Uni. She's now realised her degree won't result in a job that pays anything like getting fucked. I always find such self indulgent shit totally off putting. She clearly loves herself. I imagine every day starts off with her looking at herself in the mirror while You're so vain blasts out of her CD player. Odious bitch can go fuck her own face

As we all know, whores lie about their age. She states she is 28 but I would put her down as at least 32/33. So when the fuck did she start Uni? If we presume that she finished at the age of 21/22 like most girls, then she has been whoring for at least 6 years. So much for that degree then. Probably in some bullshit like Media Studies or History of Art.

Worse then that, she charges £140 for a 40 minute covered blow job with no CIM or kissing allowed, and won't allow her fanny to be licked either. Who the fuck are these morons that actually go see her?

Then there is this bullshit:

"Q. Why are you more Expensive than others?

I am not that much more but you can hardly compare and you get what you pay for - Quality in Everything! Consider yourself getting me at discount - I have Escorted in London and was accepted in to THE Most Prestigious Agency in Knightsbridge, London where I reguarly was paid upwards of £500 per hour by Celebrities and Businessmen. Now I am outside of London, its not so convenient to keep commuting as you need to be in the capital to be available at short notice... I am the kind of girl that you would want to call your Mistress, because most men who can justify & afford to see me don't put a price on Quality & their Health. Due to the nature of this business, most successful guys have a partner & value themselves so by seeing me KNOW that I am 100% discreet, clean & will not take risks that I can pass on. Lastly, I have been a Published Model for various high end publication's and other Glossies. I am Well Spoken, Educated and Discerning and do this as a choice - and not just to pay to live and this should show during our time together. I respect men, enjoy their company and know what I need to be in the bedroom and love to please..."


She is so upmarket, high class and educated that she is prostituting herself on a website filled with skanks, drugged out junkie whores and bareback scum. Yeah, she is the creme de la creme alright.

[brummierob]

'Apparently the best movies on AW ' ...wonder when the BAFTA's will introduce a category for that ?...check out her blog , apparently its the biggest load of bollocks on AW

[vorian]

'Apparently the best movies on AW ' ...wonder when the BAFTA's will introduce a category for that ?...check out her blog , apparently its the biggest load of bollocks on AW

Maybe the most expensive movies on AW. 

[brummierob]

Ridiculous....£140 for 30 minutes !!!!....with a ' likes ' list shorter than an Ants erection !!!!...thats one Rolls Royce that needs to be left in the garage

[Rochdull lad]

On-topic, this is another WG with a massive ego: External Link/Members Only

And her final FAQ:  "Can I buy you a gift?"  A. "Of Course... I am definately a Lady who appreciates the odd gesture!"

At £140 per half hour, I know the only gesture she's likely to get from me!  And it ain't one a proper lady'd appreciate!

[lordship]

Look how many blogs she has including a full blown one xmas day

cant be that busy 

[brummierob]

Fair play to Hellraiser for bringing this WG to our attention...how this kind of pretentious , self delusional madness has gone under UKP's bullshit radar is a mystery....after wading through all the guff & flannel on her profile do you think she realises she's just a prostitute ?...nothing more nothing less

[vorian]

Look how many blogs she has including a full blown one xmas day

cant be that busy 

She has been discussed on UKP before, general consensus was looks very fucking hot but so far up her own arse which negates her looks. I don't think anyone on here has seen her and reviewed, one for the fluffiest of fluffies I think.

[vorian]

Fair play to Hellraiser for bringing this WG to our attention...how this kind of pretentious , self delusional madness has gone under UKP's bullshit radar is a mystery....after wading through all the guff & flannel on her profile do you think she realises she's just a prostitute ?...nothing more nothing less

It didn't she has been slagged off many, many times before.

[brummierob]

Hot & expensive !!!...so's a house fire & you would'nt want one of them either..

[Luke]

one of her main pics makes her look like a transgender, maybe she is a convert

[mattylondon]

I think ive noticed a bit of an ego developing in my regular that I see. A few months ago when she wasn't getting alot of business and I was a high % of her income, our encounters felt alot more intimate and personal.

It may well be a combination of things. Based on reading what you've posted, I'm inclined to agree with Louise.

I'll go further and say that I believe it's you who are the problem here. I think you've forgotten that this is a business transaction It appears you've also made the fatal mistake and developed 'feelings' for this woman? I even detect a little hint jealousy on your part, with your use of the word 'ego' and 'things have changed between us'. There is no 'us'. She is a prostitute. You are the punter. She's only interested in seeing you because you pay. I think that's the hard truth here.

So when business was quiet, she's opened up a little to you and told you her first name. Probably told you some other personal stuff too. A mistake on her part, I believe, as she may have done that to keep you coming back because it makes you feel you've got some kind of exclusive bond. Or she may have just been matter of fact and you've misinterpreted things.  Well now that things have picked up for her, the cold hard dose of realism hits you. You're just a number. Just another customer.

I could imagine that it's an ego boost for her to have the extra interest but she's deluded too. Those guys are only interested in her for a fuck. If they can squeeze out extra time, services or discounts, they'll take it but most will have no interest in her as a person. She's used for sex. Another reality, by and large.

If I was you, follow James advice. Move on. And better you don't bother her any more, communication wise and delete or block the number. Better for your head in the long term.

Hellraiser is quite right in that if you keep bothering this woman, she'll probably stop returning your comms and refuse to see you. I've seen this happen before.

[mattylondon]

In the past when she was less busy maybe it was OK for you to stay longer as she had no other bookings. If she is rushing you out early now though that is unacceptable so I agree you should move on.

It's rare that I take the side of the prossie but in this case I don't think she's rushing him out. I suspect that he's been used to receiving so much extra time, when she was quiet, that he's grown to take it as a given.

Now she's insisting he leaves on time. But who really knows. Just my hunch. 

[vorian]

OP, matty is dead right it is a transaction no more no less doesn't mean it can't be pleasant and friendly but limitations should always be in place. Even when a good regular let's slip her real name by mistake I would never use it as I'm not fucking her I'm fucking her prossie persona. By calling her by her real name, you are trying to establish some level of connection which simply is not there. Either way if you or her are no longer comfortable with the transaction them It's time to move on.

[chipsandgravy]

yes move on theres no point in getting angry with her. regarding the wg with an ego, i imagine it happens a lot i dont really blame them they are getting all this external validation to prop themselves up, just imagine tonnes of guys telling them how wonderful they are everyday, who only see beauty in someones looks and not whether they have delivered a good service or not

[bilbobaggins]

I've had something similar happen with a regular WG!  She used to give extra time etc, but that has stopped.
She has a Twitter account now and I think her ego has just got too big.

On a recent overnight I paid the agreed £700.  We had sex, went for dinner.  Got back to the hotel and she wanted another £50 for more sex.  I paid because I wanted the sex.  We got a fair amount of sleep.  Next morning she says "I didn't sleep well, I'm too tired for sex".   She let me lick her pussy and wank off over her.  I wasn't happy, I really wanted more sex, especially since I had paid an extra £50.  Taking the piss a bit I think!  We have been using real names etc for some time.  She gave me her home address and private number.
Her AW profile:
External Link/Members Only

I have to say she has been good apart from this last encounter.  I don't think I could book her again, because you do need to know the fee before the booking.  I had been planning to pay her £1500-2000 for 2 nights in Amsterdam.  I think that is off now.

[Rochdull lad]

I've had something similar happen with a regular WG!  She used to give extra time etc, but that has stopped.
She has a Twitter account now and I think her ego has just got too big.

On a recent overnight I paid the agreed £700.  We had sex, went for dinner.  Got back to the hotel and she wanted another £50 for more sex.  I paid because I wanted the sex.  We got a fair amount of sleep.  Next morning she says "I didn't sleep well, I'm too tired for sex".   She let me lick her pussy and wank off over her.  I wasn't happy, I really wanted more sex, especially since I had paid an extra £50.  Taking the piss a bit I think!  We have been using real names etc for some time.  She gave me her home address and private number.
Her AW profile:
External Link/Members Only

I have to say she has been good apart from this last encounter.  I don't think I could book her again, because you do need to know the fee before the booking.  I had been planning to pay her £1500-2000 for 2 nights in Amsterdam.  I think that is off now.

You're quite right in as far as it goes, bilbo; if I might say.  However, you need to know more than the fee; you need also to know what you're getting for that fee.

You aren't the first to find that, once a girl's given you details like her real name [are you sure? have you seen her Birth Certificate?], her home address [have you visited?] and private number [have you spoken to her on it?], she's subtly but irrevocably altered the dynamic of the business relationship you started with.

As you can probably guess: been there; allowed that to happen; ended up confused as a result!

[SirPhilipXX]

I've had something similar happen with a regular WG!  She used to give extra time etc, but that has stopped.
She has a Twitter account now and I think her ego has just got too big.

On a recent overnight I paid the agreed £700.  We had sex, went for dinner.  Got back to the hotel and she wanted another £50 for more sex.  I paid because I wanted the sex.  We got a fair amount of sleep.  Next morning she says "I didn't sleep well, I'm too tired for sex".   She let me lick her pussy and wank off over her.  I wasn't happy, I really wanted more sex, especially since I had paid an extra £50.  Taking the piss a bit I think!  We have been using real names etc for some time.  She gave me her home address and private number.
Her AW profile:
External Link/Members Only

I have to say she has been good apart from this last encounter.  I don't think I could book her again, because you do need to know the fee before the booking.  I had been planning to pay her £1500-2000 for 2 nights in Amsterdam.  I think that is off now.

Rightly so bilbo, and make sure u tell her why the Amsterdam trip is off, and why she has lost up to £2,000 as a result of her disrespectful money-grabbing attitude. Grasping little bitch!

First of all as her regular you could have expected to receive a discount on her quoted overnight charge of £700. But to charge you an extra £50 for sex after dinner is ridiculous - either she has no idea what overnight involves (normally and unless otherwise agreed, sex when YOU want it and as often as you want it over a 12 hour period, morning included) or she does know and is taking you for a mug.

I suggest you post a RB on AW for the 2 nights in Amsterdam at an offer price of say £1,200, then wait for the flood of bids. There should be a couple of top girls amongst them, every bit as good as Little Miss Upmyownarse.

[Rochdull lad]

Addendum:

Actually, bilbo, it might have been more helpful if you'd given us the same full story on here as you gave here: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=24779.msg362542#msg362542

If she "outed" you, just why do you not think she is a bad girl at heart?

[mystery7]

Who's the OPs Regular? Name and shame bro 

[Wiltsboy01]

....a prostitute is nothing more than a chunk of meat that you rent for an hour....

Off-topic but I love this.  One for SAAFE members, elite courtesans and deluded Brit WGs to read and enjoy

[jimbobwood]

Trenlover, is this the same girl you are talking about? Fuck me, you've been seeing her for a year. No wonder she is sick of you.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19724.0

Why don't you post a link and let the other lads on this forum give her a try?!

When she cuts your time short, that is game over.

[mystery7]

Oh. This is that guy from the 'In love with a WG thread. Won't try and squeeze blood out of that stone again 

[mattylondon]

Trenlover, is this the same girl you are talking about? Fuck me, you've been seeing her for a year. No wonder she is sick of you.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19724.0

Why don't you post a link and let the other lads on this forum give her a try?!

When she cuts your time short, that is game over.

Spot on. Jeez, she must be sick of the sight of him! If she's really cutting his time short after giving him plenty of extra in the past, the game's up. That's her telling him to fuck off. Of course, if she had a sudden downturn, she'd crawl back to him in no time and of course, he'd go running back. 

it is a transaction no more no less doesn't mean it can't be pleasant and friendly but limitations should always be in place. Even when a good regular let's slip her real name by mistake I would never use it as I'm not fucking her I'm fucking her prossie persona. By calling her by her real name, you are trying to establish some level of connection which simply is not there. Either way if you or her are no longer comfortable with the transaction them It's time to move on.

Good post. Yes, pleasant and friendly. Nice after punt chats, great. However, never forget this girl chose to do this job. She doesn't need saving or feeling sorry for. Her job is to provide a service and be pleasant. It doesn't mean you're special, although it can happen. I think the OP fell for this woman and wanted it to 'feel real', by using her first name in order to establish an emotional connection. The realization has now hit him and he's feeling scorned and acting a little bitter. We call out prossies for this constantly in another context. Some punters act in this way too, when they get closer than they should and push a prossie's personal boundaries. Not on either.

[Trenlover]

Trenlover, is this the same girl you are talking about? Fuck me, you've been seeing her for a year. No wonder she is sick of you.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=19724.0

Why don't you post a link and let the other lads on this forum give her a try?!

When she cuts your time short, that is game over.

yes its the same girl, believe me I want nothing more than to move on. But I get bb with her, and thats a big plus because I know shes clean. I cant stand condoms.

Although I still obviously have feelings for her, I have been looking and wanting to fuck other girls, but the thought of using a condom makes it impossible.

[vorian]

Spot on. Jeez, she must be sick of the sight of him! If she's really cutting his time short after giving him plenty of extra in the past, the game's up. That's her telling him to fuck off. Of course, if she had a sudden downturn, she'd crawl back to him in no time and of course, he'd go running back. 
Good post. Yes, pleasant and friendly. Nice after punt chats, great. However, never forget this girl chose to do this job. She doesn't need saving or feeling sorry for. Her job is to provide a service and be pleasant. It doesn't mean you're special, although it can happen. I think the OP fell for this woman and wanted it to 'feel real', by using her first name in order to establish an emotional connection. The realization has now hit him and he's feeling scorned and acting a little bitter. We call out prossies for this constantly in another context. Some punters act in this way too, when they get closer than they should and push a prossie's personal boundaries. Not on either.

Agreed, prossies do a lot of shitty things to punters and most but not all are crap at their jobs.  However punters should also know how the game works and as Matty trying to establish and force an emotional connection with a wg is bad for everyone involved.

[vorian]

yes its the same girl, believe me I want nothing more than to move on. But I get bb with her, and thats a big plus because I know shes clean. I cant stand condoms.

Although I still obviously have feelings for her, I have been looking and wanting to fuck other girls, but the thought of using a condom makes it impossible.

I have just read your other thread and to be honest can't quite believe your for real. You just about tick every box in a mixed up, eas, boundary pushing way. I really do think you need some help, imho you need a break from punting as you really seem to have no idea what it is about and how to play the game.

I'm 110% for the punter but seriously I would not want any prossy to have you as a client you sound like a complete fucking nightmare.

[jimbobwood]

yes its the same girl, believe me I want nothing more than to move on. But I get bb with her, and thats a big plus because I know shes clean. I cant stand condoms.

Although I still obviously have feelings for her, I have been looking and wanting to fuck other girls, but the thought of using a condom makes it impossible.

How do you know she is clean? She could for fucking others bb who are paying her more than you, she might have a boyfriend who might fuck other women bb.

[Trenlover]

How do you know she is clean? She could for fucking others bb who are paying her more than you, she might have a boyfriend who might fuck other women bb.

I got tested in January and am clean.

Obviously that doesnt mean she is clean, it just means I havent caught anything yet, but given how long ive been banging her, I would say the odds are she is clean.

If she told me I HAD to use condom then that would definitely end it.

[Sienna_Bronze]

I got tested in January and am clean.

Obviously that doesnt mean she is clean, it just means I havent caught anything yet, but given how long ive been banging her, I would say the odds are she is clean.

If she told me I HAD to use condom then that would definitely end it.

Are you for real?

[lordship]

Whos the girl?

[vorian]

Whos the girl?

He has probably buried her under the patio.  I  can't believe this is a real punter,  read his other thread from November which I just bumped. It is perhaps even worse.

[akauya]

Trenlover, don't get this the wrong way mate but you need help, and I really mean some therapy or something like that. Seriously! Punting is not for you, definitely not. You're confusing a prossie with a lover and now you're adding the BB factor. Stop now, get yourself checked again and find yourself some civvy girl. I know it's easier said than done but ffs you need to man up. I can see you're going on a downwards spiral and if you continue this is not going to end well. You know that don't you?

Sorry mate but this is not looking good.