had a long email run in with her last year, nothing abusive just hard to pin down.. wouldnt say the area of Cardiff she was in as i dont visit some i explained to her,, then agreed a day and time, that passed and got a mail saying her mum was in hospital blah blah,,, in all it seems she does this covertly for some reason wether she's married, mother. kids, whatever it all seems difficult so buyer beware