not allowed: Suspicious wife thinks her husband wants to visit a prostitute

[storebox]

I was reading this post on not allowed:

External Link/Members Only allowed.com/Talk/relationships/2002483-Suspicious-DH-wants-to-or-has-visited-a-prostitute?pg=1

It's about a wife whose husband has told her that he now has an escort fantasy after meeting one in real life at a hotel bar (claims nothing happened) and now she is suspicious that he wants to visit one for real.

At first I thought yeah yeah he sees prostitutes but after reading it I think he honestly hasn't visited one and if they continue to have an active sex life then he probably never will.

What do you guys think? One of the few times I think the guy might actually be innocent.

[Sailormack]

I was reading this post on not allowed:

External Link/Members Only allowed.com/Talk/relationships/2002483-Suspicious-DH-wants-to-or-has-visited-a-prostitute?pg=1

It's about a wife whose husband has told her that he now has an escort fantasy after meeting one in real life at a hotel bar (claims nothing happened) and now she is suspicious that he wants to visit one for real.

At first I thought yeah yeah he sees prostitutes but after reading it I think he honestly hasn't visited one and if they continue to have an active sex life then he probably never will.

What do you guys think? One of the few times I think the guy might actually be innocent.

My opinion for what it is worth is that if a guy has a fantasy about visiting a prostitute, then he is more likely to do it. Once he has broken his duck, then he will find it quite addictive and will do it more within his budget until  he hits the "jaded" phase.

It doesn't matter how hot your chick is and how good she is in the sack, it is part of a man's makeup to seek out a bit of strange.

If she sends him out the door in the morning with an empty stomach and full balls, what else is he gonna do?

[rudolph hucker]

Clearly, she is paranoid and very insecure, but moreover, he is a clueless dick if he is leaving clues whilst actually fucking whores behind her back.
I ask you, some people have lost the sense they were born with.....

[Urfi]

Strikes me that good old DH has more than likely been punting for years. He has no doubt got his wife to the stage where she doesn't mind him having one off the wrist in front of porn, but now wants to test the ground if she minds extra marital sex.
He is probably a member of this site. 

[DaveMugabe]

Strikes me that good old DH has more than likely been punting for years. He has no doubt got his wife to the stage where she doesn't mind him having one off the wrist in front of porn, but now wants to test the ground if she minds extra marital sex.
He is probably a member of this site. 

Riiight

[NIK]

My opinion for what it is worth is that if a guy has a fantasy about visiting a prostitute, then he is more likely to do it. Once he has broken his duck, then he will find it quite addictive and will do it more within his budget until  he hits the "jaded" phase.
It doesn't matter how hot your chick is and how good she is in the sack, it is part of a man's makeup to seek out a bit of strange.

If she sends him out the door in the morning with an empty stomach and full balls, what else is he gonna do?

Now who can have possibly hit that? 
Seriously, if he has a couple of bad uns early on it may cure him.

[sarahjayneleeds]

I was reading this post on not allowed:

External Link/Members Only allowed.com/Talk/relationships/2002483-Suspicious-DH-wants-to-or-has-visited-a-prostitute?pg=1

It's about a wife whose husband has told her that he now has an escort fantasy after meeting one in real life at a hotel bar (claims nothing happened) and now she is suspicious that he wants to visit one for real.

At first I thought yeah yeah he sees prostitutes but after reading it I think he honestly hasn't visited one and if they continue to have an active sex life then he probably never will.

What do you guys think? One of the few times I think the guy might actually be innocent.

My opinion is you are the lady on not allowed and someone has directed you here. You read not allowed but decided to ask the question here to get a mans view.  So why are you reading not allowed if your a bloke? If you are the lady on not allowed  then the red bit I have highlighted is just to say what you think is an active sex life your partner may not.

[mattylondon]

I was reading this post on not allowed:
What do you guys think? One of the few times I think the guy might actually be innocent.

Tell you what I think. I also believe you're than woman too. 

And I think he actually fucked that prostitute and is sounding you out. Perhaps women who are concerned about this need to up their game and not be so complacent about their men. Men need sex and if they're not getting enough of it at home, many are likely to stray. Very few women get this and those few will give their guy sex even if they don't personally feel like it, at the time. It's a physical need for many.

[sarahjayneleeds]

Tell you what I think. I also believe you're than woman too. 

And I think he actually fucked that prostitute and is sounding you out. Perhaps women who are concerned about this need to up their game and not be so complacent about their men. Men need sex and if they're not getting enough of it at home, many are likely to stray. Very few women get this and those few will give their guy sex even if they don't personally feel like it, at the time. It's a physical need for many.

There you go the man's opinion you were looking for    just said more to the point than me 

[mattylondon]

There you go the man's opinion you were looking for    just said more to the point than me 

There was actually a post from a woman on Punternet who made that very point about some men's needs. Whilst I'm not condoning those who do cheat, it was very refreshing to read a woman who at least 'got it'. Keep your man happy and more often than not, he won't stray.

[storebox]

My opinion for what it is worth is that if a guy has a fantasy about visiting a prostitute, then he is more likely to do it. Once he has broken his duck, then he will find it quite addictive and will do it more within his budget until  he hits the "jaded" phase.

It doesn't matter how hot your chick is and how good she is in the sack, it is part of a man's makeup to seek out a bit of strange.

If she sends him out the door in the morning with an empty stomach and full balls, what else is he gonna do?

What's that old saying? A woman's job is to fill his stomach and empty his balls. Sounds ideal to me...

[JamesKW]

Tell you what I think. I also believe you're than woman too. 

Perhaps women who are concerned about this need to up their game and not be so complacent about their men. Men need sex and if they're not getting enough of it at home, many are likely to stray. Very few women get this and those few will give their guy sex even if they don't personally feel like it, at the time. It's a physical need for many.

Often its quality or services provided, you know if your partner is just going through the motions to stop you straying and its is very unsatisfactory.I think its worse feeling for women who provide it regularly and their men still go to WGs than those that rarely provide it.

[Rochdull lad]

Sorry, not allowed?  What's that?

Oh yeah; the site where Paris B spouts her stuff!

[cornbeefinspector]

keeping  a man  happy is easy

men are either horny or hungry, so if they don't have an erection..................... feed them !!!!

[Dani]

If you are that woman then stop asking on the bloody internet and talk to hubby.  The prossie fantasy is quite normal and even hubby and I play it sometimes.  It sounds as if he is wrong to tell you about a fantasy. 
I also think you are the one who allows him porn when he is away.  allows?  sorry but it is up to him if and when he watches porn.  Shit again it is normal.  However if you really are that controlling and tell him when he can or cant watch porn then it doesn't sound a very healthy relationship anyway so he probably is fucking prossies whilst away just for some light relief without being told what he can and cant do

[vorian]

Sorry, not allowed?  What's that?

Oh yeah; the site where Paris B spouts her stuff!

Don't you mean "Touts" her stuff RL after all she has to impress all the not allowedters with her knowledge as no doubt they will be paying her bills from now on.

[SirFrank]

Listen treacle any bloke who tells his wife he wants to visit a prossie is a) an idiot, b) Already has visited a prossie c) is testing the waters at home d) isn't getting pussy at home. What you need to do is start putting in some fucking effort in the bedroom department. Wake him up with a blow job tomorrow then fuck him tomorrow night and I mean fuck him - ie put some fucking minge into it instead of laying there like a sack of spuds. Oh and stop hanging around not allowed. It's full of cunts

[vorian]

Listen treacle any bloke who tells his wife he wants to visit a prossie is a) an idiot, b) Already has visited a prossie c) is testing the waters at home d) isn't getting pussy at home. What you need to do is start putting in some fucking effort in the bedroom department. Wake him up with a blow job tomorrow then fuck him tomorrow night and I mean fuck him - ie put some fucking minge into it instead of laying there like a sack of spuds. Oh and stop hanging around not allowed. It's full of cunts

Quote of the week SirFrank, Quote of the week 

[a10]

Listen treacle any bloke who tells his wife he wants to visit a prossie is a) an idiot, b) Already has visited a prossie c) is testing the waters at home d) isn't getting pussy at home. What you need to do is start putting in some fucking effort in the bedroom department. Wake him up with a blow job tomorrow then fuck him tomorrow night and I mean fuck him - ie put some fucking minge into it instead of laying there like a sack of spuds. Oh and stop hanging around not allowed. It's full of cunts

Classic 

With your avatar I can't help but read your posts in Frank's voice in my head. Which makes it even funnier. They often brighten up dull threads and keep the interest going.

Nowt wrong with liking Midsomer Murders either 

[vorian]

Classic 

With your avatar I can't help but read your posts in Frank's voice in my head. Which makes it even funnier. They often brighten up dull threads and keep the interest going.

Nowt wrong with liking Midsomer Murders either 

I do the same as well, SirFrank is one of my personal favorite members, alway look forward to his posts 

[Rochdull lad]

Don't you mean "Touts" her stuff RL after all she has to impress all the not allowedters with her knowledge as no doubt they will be paying her bills from now on.

Mea culpa, vorian.  You're SO right!

[SirFrank]

Ahhh shucks cheers lads   yeah I loved frank on eastenders. Greats sayings and shite acting. What do I look like, some kind of double yolker? Etc

[Barry Shipton]

Worst place for a paranoid wife to ask that question is not allowed - they'll just confirm every fear she has due to their own paranoia.

If some if you think she's controlling - hell you've never met a controlling woman. I think she sounds pretty laid back and liberal.

For my money he's never been near a hooker he just fancies the thrill (which is so often way better than the reality) and she should roll with it, dress up and play the part.

[whiterussian]

Classic 

With your avatar I can't help but read your posts in Frank's voice in my head. Which makes it even funnier. They often brighten up dull threads and keep the interest going.

Nowt wrong with liking Midsomer Murders either 

Definite good crack is frank, salt of the earth

[mattylondon]

Listen treacle any bloke who tells his wife he wants to visit a prossie is a) an idiot, b) Already has visited a prossie c) is testing the waters at home d) isn't getting pussy at home. What you need to do is start putting in some fucking effort in the bedroom department. Wake him up with a blow job tomorrow then fuck him tomorrow night and I mean fuck him - ie put some fucking minge into it instead of laying there like a sack of spuds. Oh and stop hanging around not allowed. It's full of cunts

I like the cut of you jib and couldn't put it better myself. Cut out all the soft soap crap and straight to cases! It's what some of these lazy women need to know. Put a quality pudding on the table and mostly, the guy won't seek or eat it elsewhere.

[mattylondon]

Definite good crack is frank, salt of the earth

I need to find another appropriate avatar, so will endeavour to seek that today! 

[Kram]

Good job there isn't a prossie out there that would use her knowledge of AW .... Oh wait

Like the others said ... Men are pretty simple creatures
Feed him , fuck him and he will mostly be happy