seeking.com - Open Topic

[Mr Garmin]

In my area (Anglia) the vast majority of girls, young and old, have children which limits their availability considerably.  If I exclude these women it reduces an already small pool to nothing once I have applied my other filters.

Reading on here, it seems that a lot of women, particularly in the capital, do not have children.  Is this something that guys on here are not finding, or is it the same everywhere, and it's not really a problem for you?

[NightKid]

Reading on here, it seems that a lot of women, particularly in the capital, do not have children.

Isn't that obvious, given the differences in costs of living here vs everywhere else?

[Mr Garmin]

Isn't that obvious, given the differences in costs of living here vs everywhere else?

I don't think it's a cost of living issue per se, who would want to bring up a child in London?  The capital is a place where the young go to seek fun and fortune and once they have done that, settle down in the suburbs.

I suppose my question was directed to the likes of SCP who's been quite prolific on Seeking and must have bumped up against this limiting factor.

[shagmore]

I don't think it's a cost of living issue per se, who would want to bring up a child in London?  The capital is a place where the young go to seek fun and fortune and once they have done that, settle down in the suburbs.

I suppose my question was directed to the likes of SCP who's been quite prolific on Seeking and must have bumped up against this limiting factor.

You say who want to bring a child up in London, you could quite easily say who would want to bring up a child in the world as it currently stands

[Mr Garmin]

You say who want to bring a child up in London, you could quite easily say who would want to bring up a child in the world as it currently stands

Of course, intelligent people can see that and make the calculation not to procreate.  However, there's no shortage of low IQ individuals who see it as a lifestyle choice.

I met a married Polish girl on Seeking who had 3 children, it worked because she made herself available for the £.

With some, it feels like you're intruding on their real life and they're doing you a favour just talking to them.

[londonroad]

This is the first year in a decade I haven't used SA. Been thinking about it lately so thought to check on here how others may be getting on. Seems I may not be the only person no longer using it from how few posts have been made on here this year and no reports of encounters with any users on there! I wonder if the site is seeing a downturn in users? Is anyone here still using it successfully just not posting about it this year?

I rejoined in May and have enjoyed great success. I got to the stage of having to restrict the number of meets due to pressure on my bank balance. Seeking remains time consuming but I have found two new gems who have become regulars. I’m retired so can offer flexibility when we meet up. Yes, you still have the time wasters and some (most?) of the girls have normal day jobs. I live near a couple of universities and sadly no longer have many students on the site. It is pot luck and with one girl who had great body - tall slim former junior tennis player - she was very disappointing in the sack. In contrast, one of current regulars from South America is fabulous in the bedroom.

[NightKid]

I don't think it's a cost of living issue per se, who would want to bring up a child in London?  The capital is a place where the young go to seek fun and fortune and once they have done that, settle down in the suburbs.

Loool yes reason most top ranked private/grammer/state schools exists in the capital is for funsies & no one in their right mind wants to send their child to those obviously.

Fun fact, London has about 6% of its population aged under 5, which is the highest regional proportion of young children in England, so whaddya' think that says about where people are raising their children in the UK? 

[paul_tall_]

I don't think it's a cost of living issue per se, who would want to bring up a child in London?  The capital is a place where the young go to seek fun and fortune and once they have done that, settle down in the suburbs.

What are you defining as capital and suburbs?