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[Brumish]

The message that seems to lure potential sugar babies nowadays, definitely consists of 'sad, lonely and old men who pay money just to talk to girls'
Whichever I look at it, the SA marketing team aren't doing a very good job.

[Mr_Shins]

The message that seems to lure potential sugar babies nowadays, definitely consists of 'sad, lonely and old men who pay money just to talk to girls'
Whichever I look at it, the SA marketing team aren't doing a very good job.

I see it more in the context of:

- Rich men, who may have been stung previously financially with a divorce and won't risk marrying again
- Who want to date younger women and in regular dating most younger women have no interest.

either one or both of the above.

I feel myself that having been stung heavily financially with my divorce I don't have that much spare money for a life of sugar-babes, and found my one arrangement rather costly and also frustrating, but obviously there are some who do.

[Cunning Punt]

I didn't care that much if I didn't get sex with them, I have Melysa for that. But I've had sex with 1 that I met on WYP and 1 I met on seeking.

Right, now we get to the nub of it. You've had sex with just 1 girl off WYP.

You may not care much about whether you have sex with them, but virtually all readers of this thread do, and have no wish to effectively pay a girl to watch her eat, which what most girls on there seem to want. Entirely your call, of course, but this info is necessary for context.

[gamblercan]

I noticed a price increase in the subscription, so I created a new profile and noticed the subscription with a new profile is much cheaper. So guys, if you wanna extend your membership, you can create a new profile and save £50! I know what Im saying is totally against the point of the site

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[southcoastpunter]

I noticed a price increase in the subscription, so I created a new profile and noticed the subscription with a new profile is much cheaper. So guys, if you wanna extend your membership, you can create a new profile and save £50! I know what Im saying is totally against the point of the site

did you cancel your other profile? I thought SA has software to stop you having multiply accounts?

isn't that the female rate you have given above?

[gamblercan]

I used the same laptop and IP and it hasn't given me any warning yet. My profile is registered as male looking for female and thats why its ridiculously cheaper than my other profile.

[Bobbins1973]

I noticed a price increase in the subscription, so I created a new profile and noticed the subscription with a new profile is much cheaper. So guys, if you wanna extend your membership, you can create a new profile and save £50! I know what Im saying is totally against the point of the site

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Female rate - your inbox should be interesting 🤔

[gamblercan]

No as I said, its a male profile looking for female. Thats the strange thing about their pricing.

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[Mr_Shins]

maybe you can be a male sugar-babe looking for a sugar-mummy?

[CroPunter]

Guys a quick question  Is it ok to put a review of a girl from SA, if they offer PPM? I mean they are not "pro" but still they are providing services for money.

[90125]

Guys a quick question  Is it ok to put a review of a girl from SA, if they offer PPM? I mean they are not "pro" but still they are providing services for money.

Yes but if you out yourself the post will not be deleted.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=235085.msg2399402#msg2399402

[gamblercan]

maybe you can be a male sugar-babe looking for a sugar-mummy?

Just try it yourself and see what price you see. I can search for SBs and don’t see any Sugar mummy!

[Bobbins1973]

No as I said, its a male profile looking for female. Thats the strange thing about their pricing.

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Just be careful as it messed a subscription up for me when it transpired I was searching for a Sugar Mummy - noticed it wasn’t pulling any searches in
Go for it at those rates of you think it’s correct

[hungrypunt]

did you cancel your other profile? I thought SA has software to stop you having multiply accounts?

isn't that the female rate you have given above?

Ive run 3 profiles for a loooong time, never any issues

[andrew.michael]

been reading this thread for like an hour guys.

thanks for the tips! aw isn’t doing it for me any more, SA sounds exciting but addictive. i will join around march/april when hopefully we won’t be in 2 minds about lockdowns and my membership won’t go to waste.

[extraa]

The message that seems to lure potential sugar babies nowadays, definitely consists of 'sad, lonely and old men who pay money just to talk to girls'
Whichever I look at it, the SA marketing team aren't doing a very good job.

Seems to be a lot of this on there from my 1 month experience. Whilst I've got a few who want to meet up I'm yet to meet any due to COVID restrictions which have been a bit frustrating to say the least. Lot of girls though want strictly online only and want me to pay them to chat? Are there really that many desperate lonely men who want to depart with their cash just for a chat?  I think that's been the most eye opening part of it all because they must be having some success with it.

[Atlas1957]

It is a numbers game for the scammers as much as it sometimes is for us punters.  If 1/100 guys fall for the scam and gives them money for nothing it is probably worthwhile to them.

[southcoastpunter]

Its only a scam if they don't provide something they say they will provide. The fact that you don't like the services they say they will provide or they don't provide what you think they should, does not make it a scam. You have to remember, that guys like different things and that includes liking different things to YOU.  Sites like Onlyfans and cam sites all provide sercives that may not be your cup of tea but obviously is someone else's cup of tea.

Not every guy on SA is only looking for sex. SA is not a AW replacement. I have met some lovely ladies on SA and had some pretty amazing sex with some of them. I have said it before and will say it again - if you treat the ladies like they are on AW, you will more than likely get ignored or ghosted. There is a bit of a game to play with them, a bit of wooing them and sometimes a bit of wine and dining to do but the length and quality of "fun times" is in a different league to anything you normally get on AW. Yes there are a few ladies on SA who are more or less just selling sex, but in my experiences and in my area, i would estimate its less than one in 20 ladies.

[Brumish]

It is a numbers game for the scammers as much as it sometimes is for us punters.  If 1/100 guys fall for the scam and gives them money for nothing it is probably worthwhile to them.

Definitely is a numbers game, however by the looks of previous profiles over the years, it doesn't manifest into anything meaningful. You'll see a lot of profiles that are looking for platonics and the likes, become dormant after a week or two.

[kazor13]

SA is great but I keep going back to the price. I think it's ridiculous.  Extortionate even. It should be at least 30 quid cheaper. 

[southcoastpunter]

Seeking IS great but can be expensive all the way round. Not just the subscription.  Seriously, if you are worried about £30, i would suggest SA is not the place for you!

[Sparta Prada]

Guys who are questioning Seeking’s decision to increase their price by a tenner forget that the site is not primarily targeting guys looking for an alternative to straight up ppm sex. Its intended audience are wealthy men & women who are willing to pay monthly allowances to willing partners for whatever they class as a relationship.

3 years ago I met a young girl on the site, probably the prettiest girl I met on Seeking. Back then I was seeing her for £200 for 3 hours in a Premier Inn. Looking at her social media it is clear she has bagged herself an extremely rich SD. Up until Covid-19, she seemed to be spending half of the year staying in 5 star hotels and luxury yachts in Europe, the US and Dubai. Somehow I don’t think her SD would be worried about an extra ten quid (plus VAT) should he want to go back on the site!

[RMS0123]

Hi all,

I'm looking to get started in SA but I'm stuck on step 2: Paying for premium! I tried the Google play method but am getting charged £88 but on the website, I've got the 33% off. I'm worried about using a credit card due to privacy concerns so tried looking for alternatives but I found that the Vanilla brand VISA card has been discontinued in the UK

How do you guys go about paying for premium membership (without using Google Play) and staying anonymous?

[heathen666]

Hi all,

I'm looking to get started in SA but I'm stuck on step 2: Paying for premium! I tried the Google play method but am getting charged £88 but on the website, I've got the 33% off. I'm worried about using a credit card due to privacy concerns so tried looking for alternatives but I found that the Vanilla brand VISA card has been discontinued in the UK

How do you guys go about paying for premium membership (without using Google Play) and staying anonymous?

Revolt

[GingerNuts]

Revolt

Do you mean Revolut?

[andrew.michael]

i don’t think you can use a fake address and name for these virtual cards off monzo / revolut as they have to link to your real details of the main card you use.

not sure if anyone is able to clarify this here.

for sake of some anonymity i think it’s worth taking the hit and using google play to pay

[ik8133]

So you've had your M & G with a potential SB and you are both now happy to meet for fun.  Fun meeting arranged, but before the actual meeting do you like to specify what you you like in as far as services go, for example kissing, OWO, cim, RO?  Or does it depend on the girl you meeting, do you not discuss in advance and hope she comes good?
 

[hungrypunt]

So you've had your M & G with a potential SB and you are both now happy to meet for fun.  Fun meeting arranged, but before the actual meeting do you like to specify what you you like in as far as services go, for example kissing, OWO, cim, RO?  Or does it depend on the girl you meeting, do you not discuss in advance and hope she comes good?

services 

No my M&Gs tend to turn into upstairs anyway, and Ive laready asked what she likes sexwise or wants to try well beforehand,

[kazor13]

Seeking IS great but can be expensive all the way round. Not just the subscription.  Seriously, if you are worried about £30, i would suggest SA is not the place for you!

Of course I can pay it. It's still silly pricing.

[DeanoDeano]

So you've had your M & G with a potential SB and you are both now happy to meet for fun.  Fun meeting arranged, but before the actual meeting do you like to specify what you you like in as far as services go, for example kissing, OWO, cim, RO?  Or does it depend on the girl you meeting, do you not discuss in advance and hope she comes good?

If you treat her as a service provider, you run the risk of her getting the right and proper hump. And if you use escort language and abbreviations even more so.

[billybobsmith]

Of course I can pay it. It's still silly pricing.

I personally begrudge the fact that they'll happily take the money off you, yet have very little interest in and respect for their paying customers, and will ban you at the drop of a hat whilst letting most women do and say what they want.

[ik8133]

If you treat her as a service provider, you run the risk of her getting the right and proper hump. And if you use escort language and abbreviations even more so.

Do you discuss sex before hand or just go with the flow?  I've chatted, been sent pictures and videos, with some who are very explicit in what the like, while others are a bit coy when it comes to speaking about sex, so I suppose as each SB is different, you have to treat them in an individual basis.   

[southcoastpunter]

Of course I can pay it. It's still silly pricing.

its not about whether you can pay £30 - which of us on here can't do that. Its more the aproach to money and in particualr that amount of money. Being on SA is expensive. My point was - if you are worried about saving that sort of amount of money, SA will cost you a lot more than that and soon £30 more will be neither here nor there!

[southcoastpunter]

I personally begrudge the fact that they'll happily take the money off you, yet have very little interest in and respect for their paying customers, and will ban you at the drop of a hat whilst letting most women do and say what they want.

Well billy, with respect, you know what to do then. Don't go on SA!

[hungrypunt]

Do you discuss sex before hand or just go with the flow?  I've chatted, been sent pictures and videos, with some who are very explicit in what the like, while others are a bit coy when it comes to speaking about sex, so I suppose as each SB is different, you have to treat them in an individual basis.

Get it all out the way before hand.

Talk to her, ask her what things shes into,sport, art, culture whatever just have a laugh, ploughing in with " hey love £25.00 for a shag round the back" isnt ideal.
You may actually find you get on, ask her what she is into sex wise, and if she doesnt want sex and you do then move on, or buy her that car she has always wanted 

[heathen666]

Do you mean Revolut?

Yes, sorry.. fat fingers.

[heathen666]

i don’t think you can use a fake address and name for these virtual cards off monzo / revolut as they have to link to your real details of the main card you use.

not sure if anyone is able to clarify this here.

for sake of some anonymity i think it’s worth taking the hit and using google play to pay

You can with Revolut. Just put in a fake address into Revolut after you've set up the account and use the same address on Seeking.

[DeanoDeano]

Do you discuss sex before hand or just go with the flow?  I've chatted, been sent pictures and videos, with some who are very explicit in what the like, while others are a bit coy when it comes to speaking about sex, so I suppose as each SB is different, you have to treat them in an individual basis.

Well yeah you’ve answered your own question there!

Use your judgement and decide based on that...

[extraa]

and if she doesnt want sex and you do then move on, or buy her that car she has always wanted 

Funny you say that I saw one girl on there the other night saying "strictly no meet ups - I only want a Range Rover that's what I'm here for serious men only"  I pity any old mug that's stupid enough to fall for that.

[Paris69]

Funny you say that I saw one girl on there the other night saying "strictly no meet ups - I only want a Range Rover that's what I'm here for serious men only"  I pity any old mug that's stupid enough to fall for that.

As blatant a statement as that; i'll venture that she 'never' gets that Range Rover...

[yepitsmeagain]

I spent a month on SA in July, met a couple of girls but nothing outstanding.

There were plenty on there that were available for the right "allowance"! Others would name their price, and take it or leave it. If you left it, instantly blocked!

So I do believe there are plenty on there, who will have a physical relationship with fellas, BUT, you got to have a decent budget!

The thing I really liked was, when you get them in bed, they fucking enjoy it. No lube, or clock watching.

Im seriously considering giving January a go. Im single so can accommodate. What is there to lose.

[andrew.michael]

man, so i know i said i won’t join but i just took advantage of the 33% off.

i can see this is going to take a lot out of my time and the prices these girls are quoting is ridiculous.

it really is like finding a needle in a haystack. doesn’t help i’m in london.

[datwabbit]

As blatant a statement as that; i'll venture that she 'never' gets that Range Rover...

Only Rover she'll get offered is Ben Her Rover.

[extraa]

What's really annoying is that I have 3 complete photos in private and 1 obscured one as my main for privacy reasons. I'll send them a message and I've had 4 or 5 now just ignore my message completely and request my private photos. I'm sorry but I'm not going to reveal my photos if you haven't got the decency to even respond or show that you're interested in coming to an "arrangement". Some even have the cheek to have on their profile "don't just request my private photos unless you have at least spoken to me first" 

[Brumish]

What's really annoying is that I have 3 complete photos in private and 1 obscured one as my main for privacy reasons. I'll send them a message and I've had 4 or 5 now just ignore my message completely and request my private photos. I'm sorry but I'm not going to reveal my photos if you haven't got the decency to even respond or show that you're interested in coming to an "arrangement". Some even have the cheek to have on their profile "don't just request my private photos unless you have at least spoken to me first" 

Was gonna say, you sound just like most of the SBs on there who think private pics are access levels that are predicated on a conversation. 
Whenever I see those strap lines I tend to just hit the request button just for the sake of it 
I must add, I don't have an SB profile so it isn't me requesting yours 

[stampjones]

man, so i know i said i won’t join but i just took advantage of the 33% off.

i can see this is going to take a lot out of my time and the prices these girls are quoting is ridiculous.

it really is like finding a needle in a haystack. doesn’t help i’m in london.

It really does help you’re in London. There’s always girls and always new girls unlike other areas. Just do a search and see how many have been online in the last 24 hours then compare it to somewhere like newcastle. Its also probably easier to use hotels. Travelodge dont adk questions.

Itvis definitely harder to get meets just now but its definitelybpossible if you want to. Ive a steady stream of whatsapp contacts asking if I want to meet. The secret is to message many girls and get the hopeful ones onto whatsapp and discuss details on there. Now more than ever its a numbers game. The more you message the better chance you have of a good outcome.

[andrew.michael]

It really does help you’re in London. There’s always girls and always new girls unlike other areas. Just do a search and see how many have been online in the last 24 hours then compare it to somewhere like newcastle. Its also probably easier to use hotels. Travelodge dont adk questions.

Itvis definitely harder to get meets just now but its definitelybpossible if you want to. Ive a steady stream of whatsapp contacts asking if I want to meet. The secret is to message many girls and get the hopeful ones onto whatsapp and discuss details on there. Now more than ever its a numbers game. The more you message the better chance you have of a good outcome.

yeah it was a bit overwhelming at first but i’ve managed to secure around 8 numbers so far and girls who are willing to meet after lockdown.

however saying that you start talking to a new girl and after 40 messages she’s not actually based in London but 30 miles away.

one girl wanted me to transfer her money and sent me a video of her quoting out my username to prove she’s real and i just blocked her 

[rk_1985]

yeah it was a bit overwhelming at first but i’ve managed to secure around 8 numbers so far and girls who are willing to meet after lockdown.

however saying that you start talking to a new girl and after 40 messages she’s not actually based in London but 30 miles away.

one girl wanted me to transfer her money and sent me a video of her quoting out my username to prove she’s real and i just blocked her 

I’ve been reading your posts and I am in the same boat! AW isn’t really doing it anymore and the SA seems the way to go. Set up a profile a few weeks back and getting messages but debated on subscription as in lockdown so was thinking end of Feb or Mar.

But maybe the approach you have is good, start getting the numbers and then have things ready for then.

Other than the one who wanted money transfer did you get loads of others selling pics? Or many who are just SP but on the site?

[Cunning Punt]

i can see this is going to take a lot out of my time and the prices these girls are quoting is ridiculous.

it really is like finding a needle in a haystack. doesn’t help i’m in london.

None of that should have been a surprise if you'd read the mine of information there is on the open Seeking threads.

And, as been said, it most definitely DOES help that you are in London. In fact, it's the best place atm - as it's a real struggle to get intimate meets in other parts of the country due to the pandemic. 

[southcoastpunter]

strange things happening on SA - i have had more ladies offer me PPM sex meets in the last 3 days than I have in the last 6 months. Must be "after xmas expenses" or something. (southampton/Bournemouth/portsmouth area)