Do you check services at start of the punt?

[distancetravel20]

I’ve never done this as it feels like it might kill the mood, but with the distinct lack of DFK around I’m considering checking & walking if not.

I think it was Mr Tarzan who made a comment that punters need to man up in regards to how they deal with SPs.  Definetly think I’m going to take that on board as many girls are taking the piss considering how much they are being paid.

[Colston36]

I always make it very clear in advance by email, what I want. Even then because of language barriers I don't always get it. Recently I got half my money back form one girl who didn't give me everything I had requested.

[RedKettle]

It is the advantage of having a few regulars, you know what they deliver and if they are good they remember what you like.

[poundstock]

It is the advantage of having a few regulars, you know what they deliver and if they are good they remember what you like.

Agreed.

[Home Alone]

It is the advantage of having a few regulars, you know what they deliver and if they are good they remember what you like.

Also agree with that; but with the proviso that it can be good to initiate something a bit new - that you're fairly confident you'll both enjoy, obvs - into a session with a Regular.

[Nemesis18750]

I always check service before booking and sometimes that’s not even a guarantee it’s on the menu. As It can be a maid that answers the txt or call.

I like DFK, and sometimes I’ve asked for this and they’ve said it’s ok. Turn up and then they say I don’t offer it.   I show them the correspondence, and if it’s still not on offer I’ll walk.  I think they do it just to get you in the door and then hope you’ll stay. I learnt this the hard way and will happily walk these days if it’s bait and switch or not offering what has been agreed.

As once you’ve handed over your money and then find out, your either going to walk out disappointed or end up trying to get your money back or a discount.

[davey.edwards1969]

it is always wise to check beforehand - if you can - particularly if there is something special you are after
having said that both websites and parlour receptionists cannot be relied on

but just go for it - girls are used to being asked and it is like water off a ducks back to them
the only thing that pisses them off is with guys asking for services on the phone or internet who have no intention of making a booking or turning up

[Malvolio]

Yes - if it's a WG I've not seen before I state what I want when I make the booking, and then state what I want once again when I'm in the room before I hand over the cash.

[TailSeeker]

Ask when emailing/texting/phone/whatever the first contact is. Then confirm in person. Most really shouldn't mind. The odd detail can always slip the mind.

The only reason a WG should be annoyed is if you're asking for a service that was previously refused in prior talks. Or something that requires prep (like anal) that you haven't brought up before. But if it's considered normal service for the WG, she shouldn't complain at confirming.

Just ensures both of you leave happy.

[wristjob]

Ask when emailing/texting/phone/whatever the first contact is. Then confirm in person. Most really shouldn't mind. The odd detail can always slip the mind.

This. I've walked a few times in the past when I got to the room and services changed, now I tend to be more emphatic earlier on in the process and my spider sense is a bit more honed to BS. I figure if she's about to suck your cock etc she probably isn't going to be too embarrassed talking about it.

DFK is a tough one cos everyone does it differently and it can be hard to call BS on.

[ImDaveMate]

Proper kissing is a turn on for me not the  closed mouth pecks I read some give out.

I dont get that they kiss your cock but not your mouth 

I ask about proper kissing

[RedKettle]

I dont get that they kiss your cock but not your mouth 

Yes it is strange as is the reason some give that kissing is reserved for the boyfriend.  So he is fine with you being shagged silly several times a day, taking it up the ass and sucking cocks so long as you do not kiss!

[MrMatrix]

After agreeing time etc, I then tell them what I'm after providing its on their likes list. I always confirm when I'm face to face as well. I walk if I'm not getting the service agreed previously.
Having said that I've agreed services face to face and then they refuse to deliver on what we have agreed. So you can never be a 100% sure whats going to happen.  whist the action is taking place. That tart the Sausage Inspector comes to mind, having paid extra for FK and OWO, didnt get either really. Her comment "we all have different ideas of what FK is"' no we fucking don't.

[Currywurst]

Once had an incall. Agreement was "blowjob and fuck". When I arrived, no red flags, everything was as agreed. She started out with a nice bj, and then start hard jerking me. I'm wondering what's going on, but I'm like, ok, part of the process.
So after that, I tell her to turn around so we can get to business, and she looks me square in the eye and says "no fuck", WHAT?!
Then in her south-east-asian escapist accent, says, what was agreed was "blowjob hand-fuck". WHAT?! yeah right. It sounded like the standard terminology of "blowjob and fuck"! The only thing fucked that day was me!
Anyway, I wasn't up to arguing, so cut it short and left!!!
Beware of strange accents, and no hard doubly clarifying!

[ImDaveMate]

Anyway, I wasn't up to arguing, so cut it short and left!!!

Stay. Take forever putting your clothes on chat nice be sweet take the time you paid for.
Why leave and let con merchants get another sap in to take his money

[ImDaveMate]

That tart the Sausage Inspector comes to mind, having paid extra for FK and OWO, didnt get either really. Her comment "we all have different ideas of what FK is"' no we fucking don't.

What about paying the basic leaving the extra on the table she does not get to hide it and take it with you if you do not get owo FK

What did you pay for the two things

[MrMatrix]

What about paying the basic leaving the extra on the table she does not get to hide it and take it with you if you do not get owo FK

What did you pay for the two things

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=113132.msg1312323#msg1312323
This will take you to my review. All is explained.
Mind you shes not the only one to agree services and then renage on the deal. Just this one always comes to mind first..

[MrMatrix]

Stay. Take forever putting your clothes on chat nice be sweet take the time you paid for.
Why leave and let con merchants get another sap in to take his money

I once loitered till the next customer turned up (not long to wait) and told him to save his money. We walked away together and then our separate ways.

[wristjob]

After agreeing time etc, I then tell them what I'm after providing its on their likes list. I always confirm when I'm face to face as well. I walk if I'm not getting the service agreed previously.
Having said that I've agreed services face to face and then they refuse to deliver on what we have agreed. So you can never be a 100% sure whats going to happen.  whist the action is taking place. That tart the Sausage Inspector comes to mind, having paid extra for FK and OWO, didnt get either really. Her comment "we all have different ideas of what FK is"' no we fucking don't.

I had this punt where that happened and I decided to ask for a refund mid punt. Ended up with the girl being replaced for one who did OWO. One of my mot bizarre ones.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=234032.0

[TailSeeker]

This. I've walked a few times in the past when I got to the room and services changed, now I tend to be more emphatic earlier on in the process and my spider sense is a bit more honed to BS. I figure if she's about to suck your cock etc she probably isn't going to be too embarrassed talking about it.

DFK is a tough one cos everyone does it differently and it can be hard to call BS on.

Yeah, no WG should be concerned about confirming services on entry to the premises. This isn't a job for shrinking violets.

Especially key if anything is discretionary. Pin down exactly what the requirements are in advance. Hell pin down details as much as possible in advance.

And like you say DFK is a hard one. I'm really not sure how you'd differentiate from FK to DFK. Both involve tongues. How deep is deep will differ between people.

Discretionary or extra charges is where things can get difficult. If there's a potential for refusal, I'd say punters should keep the cash in sight for if the service doesn't happen. Then it's easy to reclaim than if it's hidden.

[davidgood]

For my 1 to 1s a few things are essential like stockings and anal.

Even with what could be termed regulars I check the services which are going to be available before I make the booking.

With new SPs then I will probably remind them of what I want by text when I am on my way.

Regards,

davidgood

[mikexxlong]

always worth a check before cash is exchanged

making it easier to walk if need be
and wont cause any awkward action stopping moments during the punt which could ruin the experience etc

[davidgood]

Although I always check that the SP will provide what I want, this week things went wrong with a young Hungarian who did not seem to understand what stockings are.

Regards,

davidgood

[Jas1975]

I haven't ever done this.  I just work on the basis that the agreed services will be provided... I always put them in the AW messages...

[Ali Katt]

Yeah, no WG should be concerned about confirming services on entry to the premises. This isn't a job for shrinking violets.

Especially key if anything is discretionary. Pin down exactly what the requirements are in advance. Hell pin down details as much as possible in advance.

And like you say DFK is a hard one. I'm really not sure how you'd differentiate from FK to DFK. Both involve tongues. How deep is deep will differ between people.

Discretionary or extra charges is where things can get difficult. If there's a potential for refusal, I'd say punters should keep the cash in sight for if the service doesn't happen. Then it's easy to reclaim than if it's hidden.

As I've said before if I get a vague reply it won't go ahead. Weirdest replies are "err... I can do" which isn't inspiring.

I class DFK as my tongue being in the middle of their mouth. I get a bit full on.

As said I discuss services by email and to get a feel for the person. If I get a flirty and honest reply back I will generally see that person if it's viable. In person discussing hard limits are important or if it's roleplay to figure out where it's going, but I generally don't want to feel like I'm reading a shopping list when I enter the door.

[Cupid Stuntz]

Yep, before the folding is handed over. Not that it's any real g'tee as once the dosh is stashed they can (and do) rescind anything that was said or agreed before.

[mrfishyfoo]

This whole thread just affirms why I NEVER hand over the cash for extras till I've had them.

[dboy74]

I never used to, but got burned a couple of times because of it.

I now always check the services I want at the start with someone I have not seen before even though I would have checked in original comms.

[YorkshireLad]

I need to start doing this as the last few punts, I've handed over the cash then services advertised have not been offered 

[TailSeeker]

As I've said before if I get a vague reply it won't go ahead. Weirdest replies are "err... I can do" which isn't inspiring.

I class DFK as my tongue being in the middle of their mouth. I get a bit full on.

As said I discuss services by email and to get a feel for the person. If I get a flirty and honest reply back I will generally see that person if it's viable. In person discussing hard limits are important or if it's roleplay to figure out where it's going, but I generally don't want to feel like I'm reading a shopping list when I enter the door.

Sounds like a fairly reasonable definition of DFK.

Hesitant responses are certainly not inspiring. I've certainly been guilty of them. And it is perfectly understandable to not want to feel like you're reading out a shopping list. Perhaps it might be better to ask what is off the table/extra on arrival? Or just ask about less common wants?

I guess it's easier if it's very vanilla pump and dump, than longer sessions that include GFE, PSE, or bdsm when it can get more complicated.

I'll admit I rarely get people ask me to confirm services on arrival. But that may be because I insist on covering the basics in email, then finer details on the phone before agreeing. If all you have is text communication it can be harder to know enthusiasm levels as text is a poor conveyer of tone.

[Ali Katt]

Sounds like a fairly reasonable definition of DFK.

Hesitant responses are certainly not inspiring. I've certainly been guilty of them. And it is perfectly understandable to not want to feel like you're reading out a shopping list. Perhaps it might be better to ask what is off the table/extra on arrival? Or just ask about less common wants?

I guess it's easier if it's very vanilla pump and dump, than longer sessions that include GFE, PSE, or bdsm when it can get more complicated.

I'll admit I rarely get people ask me to confirm services on arrival. But that may be because I insist on covering the basics in email, then finer details on the phone before agreeing. If all you have is text communication it can be harder to know enthusiasm levels as text is a poor conveyer of tone.

I've never done it since I stopped doing parlours. Only exceptions have been going through scenes or if I've needed to ask questions related to her preferences, as I've said elsewhere once I start talking on a punt I don't stop which includes feedback and encouragement.

[mrfishyfoo]

Sounds like a fairly reasonable definition of DFK.

Hesitant responses are certainly not inspiring. I've certainly been guilty of them. And it is perfectly understandable to not want to feel like you're reading out a shopping list. Perhaps it might be better to ask what is off the table/extra on arrival? Or just ask about less common wants?

I guess it's easier if it's very vanilla pump and dump, than longer sessions that include GFE, PSE, or bdsm when it can get more complicated.

I'll admit I rarely get people ask me to confirm services on arrival. But that may be because I insist on covering the basics in email, then finer details on the phone before agreeing. If all you have is text communication it can be harder to know enthusiasm levels as text is a poor conveyer of tone.

With lasses whose first language is English yes. 

With EE's (Rommies in particular) I insist on reciting the full list.