A Post of mine copied and pasted from a previous thread.......Up until she retired I used to see a WG (reviewed)that lived not 2mins walk from where I live...the chances of someone knowing me are fairly high...the chances that the same person/people knowing she was on the game and knowing me as well are fairly low and to be honest if a Wg moved into my street and I fancied seeing her I would....to me it's the same as going into any WG's place of work...if you look furtive and conspicuous then you'll be spotted. But as the lads have already said it's about having,not an excuse,but a reason..E.G "going to look at 'X' you'd seen on ebay...found a purse or credit card...just look the person in the eye and tell them the truth,your truth. There's also a WG (again reviewed),that used to use the same pub on a Friday as my wife and I used..her and my wife became,not good friends, but someone she used to enjoy a chat with...simply because I introduced her to my wife as someone I used to work with..and we made sure that there were no 'knowing looks' at each other,no 'footsee' under the table,just straight forward banter...and when I used to punt with her nothing was mentioned about the pub meetings,it was just business...to me punting isn't just about the 'shag',the HJob.the BJ...it's the experience and to do it,I feel that you need a lot of 'front' and no sense of guilt or shame..if you feel that,you'll show it..and sooner rather than later you'll get caught.