Should I Negative review this one?

[Blackpool Rock]

OK guys i've had a failed punt today with radio silence (well a feint signal) outside her hotel, Negative all day long right however i'm putting it out there to gauge opinion 1st.

So it's a bucket list thing that I want to punt a fairly heavily pregnant girl however I have to fancy her and want to punt her even if she wasn't pregnant.
Had my eye on Charlotte for a few months now and notably she has 2 reviews on here one of which is already a Negative for radio silence.
Tried to book her a few weeks back, she had never answered the phone but does seem to periodically answer AW e-mails.
On one occasion after she didn't answer my call she text asking if I wanted a booking so I asked when she was working and stated that I wanted a 30 minute incall followed by are you available at XYZ time. She never replied back at all so while she may not have been available at that specific time i'm lost as to why she wouldn't say no but I can see you an hour later etc 

Anyway that was a few weeks ago and this weekend she was showing as working in Ashton with the green light on and number showing.
The early bird gets the worm so I e-mail her nice and early asking when she is working and she replies with her start time, great stuff I reply asking for a specific time and she replied with a postcode to which I replied saying see you at XYZ time.
So booking confirmed I pack my gym shit in a bag and head off for a workout plus some cash for the punt, however my spider senses are saying something is wrong and the no show radio silence review is still at the back of my head so I search for a plan B before heading out and also stick the laptop in the boot of the car.

I arrive at the hotel 20 - 25 minutes early, not punted there before so I get out and have a walk past reception entrance taking a quick look in to try and see the layout plus if the lifts are obvious.
Back to the car and call her but it rings out however if she is with another punter then she can't pick up so I bang her a text saying i'm here and let me know when she was ready.
As I sent the text I thought i'll give her until 15 minutes after the start time then i'm off, the truth is it was almost as if I knew she wouldn't answer.
So the start time arrives and still no reply so I call again but again it rings out, perhaps running a few minutes late and i'll get a text any minute now?
10 minutes after the start time and I fire up the laptop to take a look at who else may be working on my HL, not much on offer and the problem I have is i'm busting for a piss now so no time to mess around and I decide to drop by 50 shades on the way home.
Anyway clearly this is a negative especially given her previous form for radio silence but then I look at my AW e-mails and see she has sent me another message about 30 minutes before the start time.
Basically she says she is still at the hospital so is cancelling all her appointments for the day so in fairness she has contacted me prior to the start time and didn't know how far I was travelling or that I wouldn't see the message until 15 minutes after the start time.
So I punt in a parlour on the way home meaning it's not a totally wasted trip but 1000's of things are running through my head about whether to review this -
While she did e-mail me why hasn't she called me or replied to a text saying sorry she couldn't make it as she was in hospital.
I also note that she logged on to her AW profile 2 minutes after our scheduled start time so she could have replied to a text.
Her green light and number are still showing and she still periodically logs on
She was working in Ashton yesterday and again today, why the fuck did she have a hospital appointment in the middle of a 2 day stint, do they even do anti natal on a Sunday, was it an emergency visit etc     

So the only thing holding me back from doing a negative is that she did e-mail albeit half an hour before kick off and that she is heavily pregnant and may have had an issue with the baby in which case i'd look and feel like a cunt giving her a red top.
On the other hand all the signs are there that this girl is a time waster and punters need to be aware of it, her profile also says she will be doing breast feeding services in another few weeks so she will still be working.
What's the consensus on this one guys, should I cut and paste into a review although the info would still be available on here by searching her AW number and reading this thread 
One last point is that I sent her another text from a different phone asking if she was working today to try and draw her out however she hasn't replied so perhaps genuine?

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[EnglishRebecca121]

she has prevoius aw feedbk no showing with the same excuse......

[Blackpool Rock]

she has prevoius aw feedbk no showing with the same excuse......

Very good point, i'd missed that 

[NigelF]

Given what you've said and the point Rebecca has raised, I think there's a clear case for a justified negative so that's what I'd personally recommend.

However, I'd also point out how relatively unimportant the rating really is. It's the context and explanation that really matters and the rating is totally up to you. I can see justification for both a negative or a neutral and it's up to individual punters to read the review and come to their own conclusion.

[Blackpool Rock]

Given what you've said and the point Rebecca has raised, I think there's a clear case for a justified negative so that's what I'd personally recommend.

However, I'd also point out how relatively unimportant the rating really is. It's the context and explanation that really matters and the rating is totally up to you. I can see justification for both a negative or a neutral and it's up to individual punters to read the review and come to their own conclusion.

Yes it's either a Negative or no review (just the thread) as I see it, thing is if she had replied to my call or text with a text explaining then i'd have accepted it.
Rebecca's point that she has already used this excuse makes me think it's an easy cop out for her 

[NigelF]

Yes it's either a Negative or no review (just the thread) as I see it, thing is if she had replied to my call or text with a text explaining then i'd have accepted it.
Rebecca's point that she has already used this excuse makes me think it's an easy cop out for her

Yeah, sounds like she uses that excuse regularly.

To be honest I think just this thread is probably fine, all the relevant detail is here and it can be found quite easily by searching for her AW link.

Recently, it's become increasingly important for people to not just look at a WG's reviews but also do a thorough search/look at posts in the discussion section, due to all banned members' reviews having been automatically moved to the discussion section and due to some 2nd positive reviews of a WG (posted within 12 months) being moved to the discussion section as well. Of course, it was always important to do a thorough search anyway because sometimes key things would be brought up only in the discussion section.

[Avg_Joe]

as your prior contact, and booking was via email, she notified by this method, for this reason alone i would not give negative, bare in mind she may not have taken her punting phone to the hospital.

30 minutes before is not great though, prior warning of earlier in the day commitments might have alerted you to a possible cancellation, for this reason i'd give a neutral, although the "same reason last time" does make me see the negative argument too


no review is not an option, she's failed to deliver and as such people should be made aware, although this thread does that, a less than glowing review will carry more weight

[Blackpool Rock]

as your prior contact, and booking was via email, she notified by this method, for this reason alone i would not give negative, bare in mind she may not have taken her punting phone to the hospital.

30 minutes before is not great though, prior warning of earlier in the day commitments might have alerted you to a possible cancellation, for this reason i'd give a neutral, although the "same reason last time" does make me see the negative argument too


no review is not an option, she's failed to deliver and as such people should be made aware, although this thread does that, a less than glowing review will carry more weight

The thing is how long does a scheduled appointment over run or how long do you plan for it to over run 
My booking was for a couple of hours after she said she was starting work so it must have over run by at least 2 hours.
As she logged on to AW 2 minutes after the start time it looks likely that she did this after my 2nd call to her and after reading my text, would she really access AW using a non punting phone and she could still have replied to my text later on when she got home pointing out she had sent me an AW message

[xxlmuscles]

Think it should be a negative. If not just for the poor comms throughout.

[Romeo Sensini]

Is this the same girl who was saying she was due on the 28th?

Not trying to justify but she could well have been at the hospital if contractions came early.

Seems short sighted of her at least to take bookings right up to the end.

[cueball]

I'd post a red review blacky.... You've danced enough with this one pal.

Thread is all well and good but a properly indexed review shows on the database for searches etc.

[hungrypunt]

You've said it all really, and if you post as a review we can all pick up on it in future. Sure the baby thing would cross my mind too but the info you have included lets other punters make up their minds. A few weeks time she wont be able to use that excuse anyway, so will turn to something else.

[Blackpool Rock]

Is this the same girl who was saying she was due on the 28th?

Not trying to justify but she could well have been at the hospital if contractions came early.

Seems short sighted of her at least to take bookings right up to the end.

No she said she was working until the 28th not due on the 28th.
Anyway i've now got another AW e-mail saying someone has shown her this thread, deep joy 
I won't go into detail but basically she says her appointment over ran, she didn't take her punting phone to the hospital and messaged me as soon as she could.
No way of knowing if this is true or just using the info already posted on this thread as an explanation however as in my original post i did say that she had messaged me on AW about half an hour before to say she couldn't make it (this was the only reason I didn't instantly review but put it out there).
There's already a negative on here about a no show along with this thread plus negatives / feedback only on AW saying the same so enough info for punters to be aware when booking her.
If her reasons in the AW e-mail to me are right and she is telling the truth then I wish her all the best however if she is using the baby as an excuse to lie then she should take a good look at herself.
From my point of view this matter is closed so i'll move on

[Gordon Bennett]

This is the sort of incident that convinces me of the value of a smart punting phone, ie a phone that can receive emails...... You get an email alert from AW saying "you've got a message" and jump on AW to read the bad news.
Funnily enough, I think AW message alerts now contain the body of their text so you don't actually have to log into AW to read their message.
Generally, I think any punt with a pregnant lady will be subject to health scares, blood pressure being up or funny twinges........ Whether they are genuine or not, how would you ever  know?

[titton]

Her profile has disappeared now anyway but I think if a girl is just generally poor at Comms from the off and trying to book her is a nightmare then it's one for a mention here on "discussion" as you have done.
If however she accepts a booking and stands you up with radio silence then that becomes a review because the punt time, date and location has been agreed and you've pitched up and this IS your experience of what she delivers or not.

If she opens the door to let us in and she's drunk or if she looks mucky or unkept or the smell of shitty nappies or puke hits us before we've stepped foot inside with her then it's a review.
It would be reasonable I think to create a negative review if, say when we arrive at her In-call property and there are a dozen scag head mates of hers sat in her garden all gathered around her front door who know why we are there and all have something smart arse to say to us before we've even clapped eyes on the wench.

It is all part of the experience that we encountered in the process of the punt and what she has brought to the party or at least allowed to be the case.

Equally a complete no show on a booking from the pro at the agreed time and/or radio silence is what she has elected to provide us with and is reviewable as her dismissive and indifferent "attitude" to what she feels is all that is necessary regarding what her side of the bargain.

I suppose the mitigation here is that she did send you a message 30 mins before via AW to cancel which perhaps she thought would get the message through to you, not realising that you would have preferred the note by text. If she is in the later stages of pregnancy and as Gordon Bennett pointed out, she may be experiencing contractions or feeling faint or many other things which can be dealt with 24/7 by attending A&E where there will always be at least a junior doctor on call from Obs and Gynae. I don't know of course but there is always the chance that a girl in this stage of pregnancy who is offering sex may well have dependancy issues of some type which never help in the smooth flow of child birth.....

I understand your bucket list for a heavily pregnant shag, Blackpool and it's one that I have already ticked off some years ago but I suppose this type of punt brings it's own inherent risks.

So she did message on AW 30 mins before the punt start time even though you didn't get it and had travelled some distance.

The fact that she has done this before, though could just mean that she is the type to let the punter down last minute (or last 30 minutes) which doesn't always give us chance for a plan B.

I think perhaps it warrants a Red Review as Cueball has said but I suspect most of us will have seen this post now and be up to speed.
Plus, she has taken her profile down now as I said.

Think yourself lucky BlackpoolRock, you could have been balls deep and had her waters break on you and have to take her to hospital in a hurry 10cm dilated. That would take some explaining to the triage nurse! lol

[Sonny Crockett]

Yes, definitely.

[Wooderz]

Im on my horse for this one.. Poor lass.. have some sympathy for mother to be..




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[Blackpool Rock]

Im on my horse for this one.. Poor lass.. have some sympathy for mother to be..




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Trying to work out if this is a joke or serious 

[Wooderz]

Trying to work out if this is a joke or serious 

I'm a joker, a smoker, a poker stroker.. Just having a grin here and I noticed no white knights have appeared yet so thought I would make a token effort.. Seriously though, your experience, your choice.. You have already warned us effectively and I guess she wont be working again soon so good on yer mate. I can think of many reasons why pregnant women should think carefully before working in this trade but I'm sure she has made her own mind up.. Free cuntry and all that eh?

[chrishornx]

I'd post a red review blacky.... You've danced enough with this one pal.

Thread is all well and good but a properly indexed review shows on the database for searches etc.

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[Sonny Crockett]

Im on my horse for this one.. Poor lass.. have some sympathy for mother to be..




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Never.

[opal]

Anyway i've now got another AW e-mail saying someone has shown her this thread, deep joy 
I won't go into detail but basically she says her appointment over ran, she didn't take her punting phone to the hospital and messaged me as soon as she could.

From my point of view this matter is closed so i'll move on

There was already negative feedback and you had your doubts so you knew you were taking a chance, I wouldn't have posted a negative therefore.

I think this thread is enough and seeing that WGs read reviews, if you thought there was a chance she could have been genuine in her excuses you could have scuppered your chances of a future punt if you had left a negative.