Your RO technique/routine

[hungrypunt]

I just ask what she likes, one girl told me most men are afraid to do it with fingers also on the clit as hard as she likes it.
If your lucky she will tell you anyway in one way or another

Should rimming be included ?

Potentially dodgy, transferring arse germs.

[Ali Katt]

Very much so, some will like hard, some will like soft, some will like a lot of tongue, some prefer suction, some like a play around, some straight to the point, some like fingers with it, some not, even a rare few will like teeth, and more options beyond that. If OP wants the WG to enjoy oral then he should just ask them to direct him. Expecting the same technique to work for all is folly.

If he just wants to dine down town, then he should do what he enjoys within what the WG allows.

A few have mentioned attacking the clit, I did this once and the girl jumped out of her skin as she was sensitive, had another who got off having her outer labia licked, sometimes it's taken a long time, sometimes it's been almost immediate. I won't proclaim to be the best at licking (to paraphrase the eternal 14 year old) "licking juicy mangoes", but I have fun mostly teasing.

[cunningpunt]

I love pretending to be dead laying like a starfish on the bed and they sit on my face ...
Basically giving me the mango of life...
Licking it profoundly after about 30 seconds to a minute whilst they jiggle for a good few minutes at least.
Yum yum 😋😋😋😋👅👅👅👅

WTF is it with you and mangos?

[Laudanum]

I wasn't very good at it to begin with. One even said I was too rough.

Around 2008 I found a cracking girl who became a regular. The first time I was with her she suggested  RO. I had recently watched American Pie 2 and remembered an illustration from  the book they used to share. So, without much expectation of her enjoyment, tried the techniques I remembered from that book, such as the Tongue Tornado (going round and round quickly in a circular motion). Amazingly she really enjoyed it and complimented me on my technique the next time I saw her, a few days later.

I didn't have the heart to tell her I got it from something I randomly remembered from a teen comedy.

[itk]

I hardly ever do it now, non existent with the missus, and I’m not too keen doing it with WG’s. Last time was with a regular from SA. She told to me use the alphabet trick if I wanted her to squirt, so I did. And so did she.

[Ali Katt]

I lick the alphabet on the clit.
Works a treat. 

If it doesn't work can you use dyslexia as an excuse?

[winkywanky]

No, you don't have to be a cunning linguist 

[TailSeeker]

A few have mentioned attacking the clit, I did this once and the girl jumped out of her skin as she was sensitive, had another who got off having her outer labia licked, sometimes it's taken a long time, sometimes it's been almost immediate. I won't proclaim to be the best at licking (to paraphrase the eternal 14 year old) "licking juicy mangoes", but I have fun mostly teasing.

I think it's very much like a blowjob, start on the soft end and allow the other to encourage you to go further. Much the same way the whole " write the alphabet" is bollocks, can be good for finding a pattern, but if a woman grabs your head on I stick with I, don't continue don't the alphabet.

Also as you mention, teasing can be very good for a lead up, and never underestimate what a bit of suction can do.

I will admit I twitch and jump, not because it's too much, but when it's good my muscles can just involuntarily twitch. So don't always view that as a bad sign.

[Mikeyboy88]

I think it's very much like a blowjob, start on the soft end and allow the other to encourage you to go further. Much the same way the whole " write the alphabet" is bollocks, can be good for finding a pattern, but if a woman grabs your head on I stick with I, don't continue don't the alphabet.

Also as you mention, teasing can be very good for a lead up, and never underestimate what a bit of suction can do.

I will admit I twitch and jump, not because it's too much, but when it's good my muscles can just involuntarily twitch. So don't always view that as a bad sign.

Agree with a lot of that. Giving oral is one of my fave things to do and a regular girl used to take ages to cum which was good as I loved being down there but as we have got to know each other’s bodies better over the last year she can now cum quite quickly.

Everyone is different but a few things I’ve noted that I would recommend;

Instead of having the woman sat on your face, get them to lie back as it’s more comfortable for them and easier to relax

I often build up a slow rhythmic pattern of up and down the clit softly and to the point where my tongue and lips are just brushing lightly as I find lighter touches work really well.

When she’s getting into it it’s nice when she repositions herself so that the angle of mouth to her body changes - nice if you’re doing it for a long time.

When she gets a little bit too sensitive (pre orgasm) I back off and gently blow cool air all over her clit and pussy which gives a nice sensation.

Men and women that are great at oral often take their time and use a lot of varied methods which makes it more interesting and special.

[Home Alone]

Agree with a lot of that. Giving oral is one of my fave things to do and a regular girl used to take ages to cum which was good as I loved being down there but as we have got to know each other’s bodies better over the last year she can now cum quite quickly.

Everyone is different but a few things I’ve noted that I would recommend;

Instead of having the woman sat on your face, get them to lie back as it’s more comfortable for them and easier to relax

I'd agree with this; giving RO is one of my favourite parts of a service. 69 & Face-sitting are all right; but for me, it goes best of all when the girl's lying on her back with the legs spread so I can lie between them, licking away like the good 'un I always try to be!

As Mikeyboy says, they can relax, leaving me - & my little muscle, of course! - to focus on her clit.

[pingug]

You should do what gives you pleasure.

Personally, I like to stick my face in pussy and happily lick away.

For paid encounters, you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone else. Ultimately, the women are not in this to get turned on.

I remain skeptical about all the punters that are convinced they can make WGs orgasm. For the most part, I suspect the punter is just having his ego inflated (which is fine).

would agree with this, think of any relationship you have had and each girl has been different, usually takes a few months to get it worked out what they like, main thing is don't go at it like a rabid animal

[Ipman1973]

I don't try it very often tbh , always wondered (worried) that you can get a std from ro  ? But then VERY occasionally when the horn takes  control I drive( came back to correct my typo to dive...but maybe it was a Freudian slip)  right on in.

[Ali Katt]

I think it's very much like a blowjob, start on the soft end and allow the other to encourage you to go further. Much the same way the whole " write the alphabet" is bollocks, can be good for finding a pattern, but if a woman grabs your head on I stick with I, don't continue don't the alphabet.

Also as you mention, teasing can be very good for a lead up, and never underestimate what a bit of suction can do.

I will admit I twitch and jump, not because it's too much, but when it's good my muscles can just involuntarily twitch. So don't always view that as a bad sign.

Trust me this wasn't a good thing, she did say she was sensitive; I managed to work around it so to speak. I know the feeling though as I can get incredibly sensitive - the closest way I can describe it is lemon juice on a papercut.

[regalsun]

...it goes best of all when the girl's lying on her back with the legs spread so I can lie between them, licking away ...

+1. Having her relaxed and lying comfortably back on a pillow is key, in my experience, anyway. It will be hard/impossible for her to cum if she isn't.

[tynetunnel]

Some interesting advice in this thread, and the video was great. I’m meeting a new SA girl later this week, I look forward to testing out the tips I’ve picked up in here 

[theejaculator]

With my regular WG , get her to lie on her back ....pushing her legs right back,left hand on stomach with left thumb pulling back the hood. Slow circular tongue , getting faster and finally two fingers slipping in and out so I can feel when her pussy tightens

Knew I did it good last time when she climaxed and farted! No faking with a fart!

[horsa]

I think it's very much like a blowjob, start on the soft end and allow the other to encourage you to go further. Much the same way the whole " write the alphabet" is bollocks, can be good for finding a pattern, but if a woman grabs your head on I stick with I, don't continue don't the alphabet.

Also as you mention, teasing can be very good for a lead up, and never underestimate what a bit of suction can do.

I will admit I twitch and jump, not because it's too much, but when it's good my muscles can just involuntarily twitch. So don't always view that as a bad sign.

if I want to gain more experience and get better at RO do you think I should visit WG's?

[Punterperson1971]

if I want to gain more experience and get better at RO do you think I should visit WG's?

Yes pick a good one or two and give them a try.

[sparkus]

You can generally sense if she prefers eating out or more focused licks and as I do it more with regulars I sense it intuitively.  As someone said, the alphabet works OK but if that gets boring then spelling out your or her name repeatedly seems to work a treat.

[peter purves]

if I want to gain more experience and get better at RO do you think I should visit WG's?

...If I may, thanks 

This is a difficult one because in my opinion I think you probably become a better lover in the real civvy world than the pretence world of punting and the same with oral. Notwithstanding that some civvy women are not sexually pro-active. Though there are exceptions to the above

[TailSeeker]

if I want to gain more experience and get better at RO do you think I should visit WG's?

Depends on the WG, it's really the same with civvies (at least from what I gathered from other forums). A lot of people fake enjoyment. A good WG should guild you for shat should work for many. But civvie experience will really show the true test.

[workinallweek]

 next time i try it im going to take a score sheet

[Home Alone]

Depends on the WG, it's really the same with civvies (at least from what I gathered from other forums). A lot of people fake enjoyment. A good WG should guild you for shat should work for many. But civvie experience will really show the true test.

Sorry?? Can we have the sentence in bold again, please? This time in English would be helpful.

[Ali Katt]

...If I may, thanks 

This is a difficult one because in my opinion I think you probably become a better lover in the real civvy world than the pretence world of punting and the same with oral. Notwithstanding that some civvy women are not sexually pro-active. Though there are exceptions to the above

I would say this is a half truth. A man whose married his childhood sweetheart and has had sex with only that person, will know how to please just that one person. Someone who sees different women regularly civvy or escort will pickup a smorgasbord of techniques much quicker.

[Home Alone]

I would say this is a half truth. A man whose married his childhood sweetheart and has had sex with only that person, will know how to please just that one person. Someone who sees different women regularly civvy or escort will pickup a smorgasbord of techniques much quicker.

... and when that someone sees a new woman, he can have a lot of fun going through his repertoire of techniques!

[Ali Katt]

... and when that someone sees a new woman, he can have a lot of fun going through his repertoire of techniques!

Which are designed to please one woman. Everyone knows that punting opens up variety which includes sexual experiences. To put it into perspective before I started punting I was in a long term relationship having vanilla sex, I thought I was pretty good at sex, turns out I was crap and I knew literally fuck all. If someone had said I would be into what I'm into now when I was 20 I would have said they were talking bollox.

[mrfishyfoo]

Which are designed to please one woman. Everyone knows that punting opens up variety which includes sexual experiences. To put it into perspective before I started punting I was in a long term relationship having vanilla sex, I thought I was pretty good at sex, turns out I was crap and I knew literally fuck all. If someone had said I would be into what I'm into now when I was 20 I would have said they were talking bollox.

+1

I'd have laughed in their face.

[peter purves]

I would say this is a half truth. A man whose married his childhood sweetheart and has had sex with only that person, will know how to please just that one person. Someone who sees different women regularly civvy or escort will pickup a smorgasbord of techniques much quicker.

Cheers!

There is that but then there is the punter mistakingly taking the WGs reactions to oral sex as being real when in fact it is not.

This is what I was getting at when hinting that WGs may not be the best person to hone your sex skills.

In one of my punts I was more going for a BFE  the WG criticised me and asked me to fuck the living daylights out of her. As I proceeded to whip up the tempo she said, "That's good!!'....Only because she would rather that I came quickly which was not going to happen with the BFE tempo   

[Doc Holliday]

The 'alphabet' technique has always puzzled me. It seems to be one of those urban myths that gets passed on all over the internet whenever this topic arises. Love to know how it started?

Its a very ineffective technique with zero chance of producing an orgasm for the majority of women.

[peguslegus]

I tend to stroke the G spot so there's uninterrupted stimulus when either I change what I'm doing with my tongue or stop for a few seconds to re-position/rest. Also keep myself sufficiently raised up so I can stay clamped on if she starts writhing. Finally, when she starts pushing her hips into your face, simply say that you've bought her a pair of shoes - that should take her over the edge.

[OakTree]

The 'alphabet' technique has always puzzled me. It seems to be one of those urban myths that gets passed on all over the internet whenever this topic arises. Love to know how it started?

Its a very ineffective technique with zero chance of producing an orgasm for the majority of women.

Agreed! I’ve licked out god knows how many women and they’re all different. Some like it hard, some soft and gentle and some not at all. I simply ask them how they like it. That is when I can be bothered to actually go down on them. I’m inclined to not do it now unless I really fancy it.

Flicking my tongue around like alphabetty spaghetti seems futile.

[Doc Holliday]

. Finally, when she starts pushing her hips into your face, simply say that you've bought her a pair of shoes - that should take her over the edge.

  Best post in the thread!

[threechilliman]

I tend to stroke the G spot so there's uninterrupted stimulus when either I change what I'm doing with my tongue or stop for a few seconds to re-position/rest. Also keep myself sufficiently raised up so I can stay clamped on if she starts writhing. Finally, when she starts pushing her hips into your face, simply say that you've bought her a pair of shoes - that should take her over the edge.

So that's the secret. I'll test it out on th'wife.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Finally, when she starts pushing her hips into your face, simply say that you've bought her a pair of shoes - that should take her over the edge.

my mother always told me not to talk with my mouth full .....

until one day I said "it isn't full, there's room for plenty more!"

[Ali Katt]

Cheers!

There is that but then there is the punter mistakingly taking the WGs reactions to oral sex as being real when in fact it is not.

This is what I was getting at when hinting that WGs may not be the best person to hone your sex skills.

In one of my punts I was more going for a BFE  the WG criticised me and asked me to fuck the living daylights out of her. As I proceeded to whip up the tempo she said, "That's good!!'....Only because she would rather that I came quickly which was not going to happen with the BFE tempo   

Can't fake squirting son.

[Ali Katt]

The 'alphabet' technique has always puzzled me. It seems to be one of those urban myths that gets passed on all over the internet whenever this topic arises. Love to know how it started?

Its a very ineffective technique with zero chance of producing an orgasm for the majority of women.

Yes it's total bullshit. It's up there with smoking banana peel is mild hallucinogenic and jelqing makes your dick bigger.

[peter purves]

Can't fake squirting son.

Wasn't there a recent scientific study that suggested squirting is essentially composed of urine?

[knightofthegarter]

I think that effective RO technique varies a lot. Some people here are getting bogged down in WGs faking, which of course goes on but civvies also have their reasons for faking too. Some women simply take quite a long time to come, in a paid setting it can be better to just move on to something else.. A relevant question is, is she wet, is she getting wetter as you do it ? If so you are doing it right. I think it is usually easier to find a wininng formula with civvies because generally you are not against the clock and the most important thing I find is not to go for the clit too early. In a paid setting you will have to try certain tactics quicker, which may or may not work. The more you do RO the more you begin to pick up on subtle physical cues. Asking for advice beforehand is always useful if you can remember in the heat of the moment. One of the first WGs I saw gave me some very useful pointers which have stood me in good stead although no method will work on everyone but when you get it right it is such a gratifying feeling.

[sparkus]

Yes it's total bullshit. It's up there with smoking banana peel is mild hallucinogenic and jelqing makes your dick bigger.

You quickly pick up if something is working or not and I have zero qualms about being instructed either.  It's probably the only part of a punt where I enjoy being told what to do or ordered to do it.  There's nothing better than hearing "You're not leaving this flat/shop until I've had an orgasm."

[workinallweek]

 surely a girl would sooner get paid and enjoy the punt ?

[Punterperson1971]

surely a girl would sooner get paid and enjoy the punt ?

But surely some of the established girls who enjoy the job see it as a perk if the guy is really good at ro.

[hendrix]

Can't fake squirting son.

My main regs squirt easily from fingering, but I don't think that squirt=orgasm. Seems to be more of an involuntary response? Bear in mind that I don't do RO or DFK to 'warm them up' either.

[Home Alone]

But surely some of the established girls who enjoy the job see it as a perk if the guy is really good at ro.

I wouldn't claim to be the world's best at RO; but one or two of the comments I've had over the years lead me to think that, as far as the particular girls who made them were concerned, I'd got something right!

[billybobsmith]

I can’t remember where I saw it either.

The film "Cruel Intentions" with Sarah Michelle Gellar etc.

[tynetunnel]

I wouldn't claim to be the world's best at RO; but one or two of the comments I've had over the years lead me to think that, as far as the particular girls who made them were concerned, I'd got something right!

Same here HA - I get the impression I’m not too bad at it from one or two experiences, notably one WG clamping her thighs round my head to hold me in place! That’s a memory I’ll take to the grave, either I made her cum like she’d never cum before, or she’s likely to be Oscar nominated shortly! 

[TailSeeker]

Sorry?? Can we have the sentence in bold again, please? This time in English would be helpful.

It was "what" in that sentence. Easy to distinguish.

Wasn't there a recent scientific study that suggested squirting is essentially composed of urine?

The study didn't actually state that. Only two of the women showed near identical fluid to urine, the other 5 did not. Only traces. Which would be the same for any man ejaculating. It's all through the same pipes some traces will happen.

Piss is a very different taste from cum, I can say this as someone who had I guy think he was cumming, and was actually pissing in my mouth. There is no mistaking the taste of urine.

There are certainly some who fake and it is piss (lot of porn is such), but there are a good chunk for who it is real.

[Ali Katt]

My main regs squirt easily from fingering, but I don't think that squirt=orgasm. Seems to be more of an involuntary response? Bear in mind that I don't do RO or DFK to 'warm them up' either.

I've not seen the girls you've seen so I'm sure you're right. With girls I've seen the reaction and build up has been the same to a non squirting orgasm.

[Ali Katt]

It was "what" in that sentence. Easy to distinguish.

The study didn't actually state that. Only two of the women showed near identical fluid to urine, the other 5 did not. Only traces. Which would be the same for any man ejaculating. It's all through the same pipes some traces will happen.

Piss is a very different taste from cum, I can say this as someone who had I guy think he was cumming, and was actually pissing in my mouth. There is no mistaking the taste of urine.

There are certainly some who fake and it is piss (lot of porn is such), but there are a good chunk for who it is real.

Girl squirts from my experience is very sweet far so than urine.

[peter purves]

It was "what" in that sentence. Easy to distinguish.

The study didn't actually state that. Only two of the women showed near identical fluid to urine, the other 5 did not. Only traces. Which would be the same for any man ejaculating. It's all through the same pipes some traces will happen.

Piss is a very different taste from cum, I can say this as someone who had I guy think he was cumming, and was actually pissing in my mouth. There is no mistaking the taste of urine.

There are certainly some who fake and it is piss (lot of porn is such), but there are a good chunk for who it is real.

Thanks!

I think the suggestion is that in the main it is urine...

Wasn't there a recent scientific study that suggested squirting is essentially composed of urine?

Here I have tried to copy n pasted in large amounts to provide hopefully a fair representation

"Unsurprisingly, the first ultrasound showed that participants’ bladders had emptied. However, the second ultrasound, conducted when the women were close to orgasm, showed significant bladder filling. The final ultrasound once more showed that the women’s bladders were empty. This suggested that female ejaculation, at least for these women, was largely urine."

"Biochemical analysis of the fluid showed that this was definitely the case for two of the women in the study. For the other five, the analysis showed that the fluid was largely urine but it also contained prostate-specific androgen (PSA) originating from the Skene’s glands. The authors of the study concluded that these results strongly support the hypothesis that female ejaculation is an involuntary urine emission. The presence of PSA was ruled to be residue of ‘true’ female ejaculation.

So is ‘squirting’ just pee? Yes and no. It seems that larger volume fluid emissions, or squirting, are for the most part urine. However, there does appear to be evidence that a smaller volume of fluid is actually female prostate secretion due to mechanical stimulation of the G-spot. Whether this constitutes ‘true’ female ejaculation remains to be seen as most previous studies include all ranges of fluid emission. Further, it is unknown conclusively whether these two forms of excretion are mutually exclusive, or whether there is some overlap as suggested by the presence of PSA in the urine of women in this study. Likely, women who are capable of ejaculation naturally vary in the amount of fluid they excrete."

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[Ali Katt]

Talk to girls a lot will tell you a squirting orgasm feels different to a normal one.