I have a couple of regulars who message me pretty frequently and out of the blue to arrange meets.
I don't mind this at all as I have my phone locked down and do not have a girlfriend/wife.
I'm also not that attractive, hung like a donkey, or rich (unfortunately).
I think they just prefer to see people who they know will turn up on time, pay the money, and not make them do things that they don't want to. Also helps if they actually enjoy your company a bit...
+1
i did eas a sp years ago she gave up work and we were together for 5 years
i'm starting to thing 1 of my regs has got it now
as she asked me what i was doing one saturday evening
i said nothing as i'm skint
so came round to mine and spent the night foc
only thing was it was very hard to get rid of her in the morning
eas does happen both ways