Author Topic: Contacting WGs for initial meet: How often?  (Read 2104 times)

Offline Beerswillin99

Hey guys,

I did do a thread search for this, I found one thread but it didn't really answer my question.

My question is: When trying to set up an initial meet with a WG, if she ignores your first text or doesn't respond to your call/voice mail, how often should you attempt to then contact her afterwards without her blocking your number because she thinks you're a creepy wanker?

I send a text (stating date, time, and duration of booking that I want - concise and to-the-point), wait a couple of days and hear nothing, then just give up. Obviously that's a bad idea as I understand these girls are getting hundreds, if not thousands, of texts and calls per DAY.

But at the same time I don't want to piss her off by constantly bombarding her with the same text/trying to call her loads.

What would you guys say is the soft spot when it comes to trying to make that first booking with a WG on how many texts/calls you should send/make in a certain period of time?

Thanks  :thumbsup:

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Why not message five providers at the same time? Then the ones that reply quickly get your money.

You can manage the later replies as you want. Then you are in the driving seat not some bird spreading her legs for money :crazy:
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Hey guys,

I did do a thread search for this, I found one thread but it didn't really answer my question.

My question is: When trying to set up an initial meet with a WG, if she ignores your first text or doesn't respond to your call/voice mail, how often should you attempt to then contact her afterwards without her blocking your number because she thinks you're a creepy wanker?

I send a text (stating date, time, and duration of booking that I want - concise and to-the-point), wait a couple of days and hear nothing, then just give up. Obviously that's a bad idea as I understand these girls are getting hundreds, if not thousands, of texts and calls per DAY.

But at the same time I don't want to piss her off by constantly bombarding her with the same text/trying to call her loads.

What would you guys say is the soft spot when it comes to trying to make that first booking with a WG on how many texts/calls you should send/make in a certain period of time?

Thanks  :thumbsup:

I get this as there hasnt been that many providers that have ticked my fancy, budget, or services and I end up with one or two choices if I do same day booking. I find more often than not that WGs want to avoid text ping pong so asking questions such as extras etc might end up in receiving no text back. I would say send text, if no reply then call, if still nothing another text but realistically just move on by then. Hopefully the wg will get back to you after call as at least that shows you have the intention to book.

I wouldnt leave a voicemail though. So for me, its 3 attempts.

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Hey guys,

I did do a thread search for this, I found one thread but it didn't really answer my question.

My question is: When trying to set up an initial meet with a WG, if she ignores your first text or doesn't respond to your call/voice mail, how often should you attempt to then contact her afterwards without her blocking your number because she thinks you're a creepy wanker?

I send a text (stating date, time, and duration of booking that I want - concise and to-the-point), wait a couple of days and hear nothing, then just give up. Obviously that's a bad idea as I understand these girls are getting hundreds, if not thousands, of texts and calls per DAY.

But at the same time I don't want to piss her off by constantly bombarding her with the same text/trying to call her loads.

What would you guys say is the soft spot when it comes to trying to make that first booking with a WG on how many texts/calls you should send/make in a certain period of time?

Thanks  :thumbsup:
A text stating date, time, and duration, is exactly what any girl should want to see. It's to the point. If they ignore a text like that then they're just being rude and lazy.

Offline nigel4498

I generally call, rarely text.
I'll leave a voice message if asked and If I don't receive a reply I just move on.

Offline OakTree

Wait a couple of days???

I send a text basically like Rochelle describes and if I don’t get a reply in a few minutes I move on to the next choice. I keep doing that till I get a reply. It’s quite simple really.


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I kick off (some days in advance) with one email, main content of which is.. "I'm coming your way on such and such a date, and would love to see you.  Are you free?  If so can I have your postcode to plan, and phone number so we can make detailed arrangements."

Same email to a handful of girls in the area.

Responses are then evaluated by TALKING to the girl in question (never text), to ask anything not covered in profile, eg extras, where to park, etc.  This eliminates Romanians, those being pimped, and those who couldn't be bothered to answer after a few attempts.

Needless to say lack of response, or generic off hand messages like "txt me" will be permanently ignored.

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I’m not saying I haven’t done it.  But I dislike turning up to see someone of I have only interacted with them by text.
Much prefer a brief chat beforehand.

But of course these are the punts that may be perhaps off the cuff kind of thing. Out for a drive and just feel like it. Pop into the AW shop and check the goods in that area.

Which brings me to something that gets up my nose.
I call, let’s say for instance, five WG’s.
No answer from any of them even though the green is showing.

So I’m driving again, see a nice country pub and stop for a shandy.
NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE.

You spill most of it.

Anyways............ about 30 minutes later my phone vibrates and I’ve got three texts from different numbers I called earlier.

I text back the first one,
“Hi Tania, if your available can I call you”

She texts back,
“I am not Tania”


Bollocks. I’ve forgotten already who I’ve called  :D


Offline Beerswillin99

Wait a couple of days???

I send a text basically like Rochelle describes and if I don’t get a reply in a few minutes I move on to the next choice. I keep doing that till I get a reply. It’s quite simple really.

I suppose that kind of approach works if you're in London or somewhere where there's a lot of SPs (or you're able to travel far and wide), but tbh around West Midlands there really isn't that many that take my interest  :unknown: I'll try calling them instead, that might work better.

Offline sunnyj

I do same day booking and usually max 3 attempts.
I prefer text, send one and wait for an hour and then call. If call is not answered, send another text and I wait for an hour.

Offline Beerswillin99

I do same day booking and usually max 3 attempts.
I prefer text, send one and wait for an hour and then call. If call is not answered, send another text and I wait for an hour.

Do you tend to risk it with same day bookings a lot and it pays off? I can only punt a couple of days during the week so I prefer to book a few days in advance, but seems like some girls do actually prefer same-day or day-before bookings.

Offline sunnyj

Do you tend to risk it with same day bookings a lot and it pays off? I can only punt a couple of days during the week so I prefer to book a few days in advance, but seems like some girls do actually prefer same-day or day-before bookings.
In London, it works fine for me. When I go out for Punt, I do also have Plan B & C from the same location as Plan A. Only once all three got bust and ended up unloading in Soho.  ;)

Offline Hed Master

I can't imagine planning or waiting 3 days for a booking.  I'm very much on the day when the horn is rising and must be appeased, usually around 5:30 after work, on a Friday... Happy days.. :D

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I usually do same day bookings.

If one I have marked to see doesn't reply within a hour, then I start texting Plan Bs and Cs etc.

If my Plan A then does eventually reply, then I just cancel the Plan B.

Simple as that, no need to overthink things.

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Beerswillin, you have my sympathies.  Organising a punt is hard enough right in the heart of the city; what it must be like if you not in punt central I hate to imagine.  I have read your post a couple of times and suggest the following.

1 If there is a WG you are keen to visit it is worth saving her to your hot list and then keeping an eye on her profile for a while in order to gauge when she is actually active and working.  Green light is generally less reliable.  Monitoring if an SP is logging in and her profile is active will often show up if she only works late at night or office hours.  SP me if you don't know how to check the time of an SP's last login.

2 Keep in mind that SP's who are in demand can often trade merely by showing their phone number and accepting repeat bookings by text.  They don't necessarily need to take the increased risk (of a no show) from a first time booking and will trade off regulars until they run out of business. 

3 A phone call is generally the best means for first contact.   You can always ring back if you do not get a reply.  The WG gets an idea you are not a schoolboy or idiot and you get a sense of her attitude.

4 I generally would not try to call a WG more than two or three times in a day.  It is worth spreading these out so that if you don't catch her at 11.30 you try her at 4.00pm and then 7.30pm.  If she is unresponsive after my third I might try a text like "Tried calling a couple of times.. are you accepting bookings and when please?"  At the obvious extreme avoid calling every two minutes - I have seen this on a punt and the caller was instantaneously blocked.

5 Keep in mind the SP may have just had a block booking for an entire weekend or just entertained King Dong for a couple of hours. I have a booking tomorrow with a WG who inexplicably became completely unresponsive to calls for the last four weeks.  There is obviously a story but who knows what it is?  Play it cool, keep your options open, don't take it personally, check out your other options, circle round and come back when the time feels right and keep in mind, the profile might be a scam so manage your time accordingly.
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Anyways............ about 30 minutes later my phone vibrates and I’ve got three texts from different numbers I called earlier.

I text back the first one,
“Hi Tania, if your available can I call you”

She texts back,
“I am not Tania”


Bollocks. I’ve forgotten already who I’ve called  :D

Ha Ha.   Like it!

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From what I have read elsewhere an issue seems to be punters not reading profiles and sending texts to wg's who want a phone chat and vice versa.
As for an hour and moving on, I had to put something really obvious on my profile that I might not be able to reply within an hour. Considering most wg's offer hour bookings seemed silly that I had to put anything about my reply time frame. Not like I or other wg's would be with a punter for exactly 1 hour.

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FlConsidering most wg's offer hour bookings seemed silly that I had to put anything about my reply time frame. Not like I or other wg's would be with a punter for exactly 1 hour.

 Quite right.   In my experience a one hour appointment takes a good few minutes less than one hour.  Very honest of you to point that out.

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Quite right.   In my experience a one hour appointment takes a good few minutes less than one hour.  Very honest of you to point that out.

I must be doing something wrong. Never seem to leave earlier unless the punter has said I am free to go. Often we get chatting afterwards and there longer than the hour, 30 minutes or whatever

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I must be doing something wrong. Never seem to leave earlier unless the punter has said I am free to go. Often we get chatting afterwards and there longer than the hour, 30 minutes or whatever
Not wrong in my book. Something very right... good customer service and client relationship management. Much more likely to ensure a repeat booking.

Offline NigelF

A text stating date, time, and duration, is exactly what any girl should want to see. It's to the point. If they ignore a text like that then they're just being rude and lazy.

I agree although sometimes the girl will be legitimately busy and can't reply very soon, say within an hour (as spiceforlife has said). Unless the punter has said you can reply whenever, some WGs will be reluctant to send texts too late because if the punter is using their personal phone it could get them into trouble (although I find it very odd when punters complain about that, I mean what do they expect). Also, you'll know better than me, but I don't imagine sending a reply say beyond an hour gets a high response rate (as the punter might well have moved on to someone else or just had a wank etc) but I'm sure many still will, just not near the levels of those who you texted quickly.

Nonetheless, in many cases, as you say, a lack of a reply is simply down to the WG being lazy and/or dumb.

From what I have read elsewhere an issue seems to be punters not reading profiles and sending texts to wg's who want a phone chat and vice versa.

That's definitely true but I doubt the OP falls into that category, it's probably worth pointing out just in case though. Most girls who have a number accept calls but those who only want calls and not texts are somewhat rare. I'd say it's a bit more common for girls to want texts and not calls or at least it's about 50/50.

As for an hour and moving on, I had to put something really obvious on my profile that I might not be able to reply within an hour. Considering most wg's offer hour bookings seemed silly that I had to put anything about my reply time frame. Not like I or other wg's would be with a punter for exactly 1 hour.

That is obvious/silly, although again, perhaps worth pointing out just in case. I presume it had a noticeable positive effect for you?

Quite right.   In my experience a one hour appointment takes a good few minutes less than one hour.  Very honest of you to point that out.

As she's already pointed out, you've misunderstood what she was trying to say. She does seem to be only/mostly outcalls though which does tend to lean towards them staying longer anyway. Nonetheless, even for incalls, if it takes a "good few minutes less than a hour" and you're not totally fine with that, then you're being ripped off.

The vast majority of good WGs will let you run over by a few minutes without issue (especially if you seem close to "finishing"). In some cases it can be much longer but of course one should never expect that.

Not wrong in my book. Something very right... good customer service and client relationship management. Much more likely to ensure a repeat booking.

+1

Especially on outcalls, the vast majority of girls (with the exception of a bad agencies) will stay at least a little longer than the booked time (even some average/poor ones). To not do so doesn't send a great message (even though you're entitled to leave if you wish). Of course it's fine to leave early if the punter says you can leave/wants you to etc.

Hey guys,

I did do a thread search for this, I found one thread but it didn't really answer my question.

My question is: When trying to set up an initial meet with a WG, if she ignores your first text or doesn't respond to your call/voice mail, how often should you attempt to then contact her afterwards without her blocking your number because she thinks you're a creepy wanker?

I send a text (stating date, time, and duration of booking that I want - concise and to-the-point), wait a couple of days and hear nothing, then just give up. Obviously that's a bad idea as I understand these girls are getting hundreds, if not thousands, of texts and calls per DAY.

But at the same time I don't want to piss her off by constantly bombarding her with the same text/trying to call her loads.

What would you guys say is the soft spot when it comes to trying to make that first booking with a WG on how many texts/calls you should send/make in a certain period of time?

Thanks  :thumbsup:

As others have suggested (and as you've now said you'll try) try calling. This is my number one tip as it's quick, easy and often effective. It also allows you to get a feel for what they might be like during (based on how they talk, what they say etc) and sometimes you get a "bad feeling" which is usually worth heeding, likewise with "good feelings".

If they don't pick up first time then you could send a text (also make it clear that you're happy for them to respond even if it's much later). As for how often you should call, unless the line was engaged (in which case you should call back very soon), I'd say do it in over 30 mins. I'd say total number of calls in a day shouldn't exceed 4. Total number of texts in a day shouldn't need to exceed 2.

Those numbers/time frames are just my very rough guide though. Also, I tend not to get close to them. In my experience a girl will usually respond fairly quickly if she is actually available. Generally, the longer it's been the less likely they are to ever reply (within the period of a day).

You definitely don't need to be waiting days for a reply (even if you asked for a date many days later than when you texted). If you like to book in advance then messaging on AW could be a good option because you can see if the girl has read your message (or if she's blocked you). Once she's read it and not replied (within an hour of reading it), at that point you can either decide to try once more or just move on.

Bear in mind that the best girls tend to be quite easy to book even though they also tend to be rather busy. If you're finding comms to be a real hassle then it's not a good sign. It's not a definitive sign though, some girls are just disorganised, lazy and/or dumb but do actually provide a good service once you meet them.
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